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"If you fuck without intimacy, you might as well be using a dildo. IMO.
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See I dont find kissing intimate remotely for Casual meets .. oral sex / fucking / body touching is what I find is for myself ... kissing just never really does much for me .. its like one of those things thats alright I guess for passing some time to get onto the actual good stuff .
Though I am aware I am, in a minority on this view  . and I will kiss people if it is needed for them to get off
Always fun how people are different .. also I find how you meet people varies how people view kissing ... pretty much in clubs I mostly just see people getting stuck into fucking / oral ... in private meets then often people will want that faux romantic-esq build up
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See I dont find kissing intimate remotely for Casual meets .. oral sex / fucking / body touching is what I find is for myself ... kissing just never really does much for me .. its like one of those things thats alright I guess for passing some time to get onto the actual good stuff .
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I was going to say how can it not feel nice when your lips are such a sensitive and sensual part of your body....
But I'm not big into receiving oral so I guess... That's literally the same thing haha |
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"If you fuck without intimacy, you might as well be using a dildo. IMO.
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So you are saying sex is based on an emotional connection for you? That isn’t the case for everyone, it’s a purely physical act for us.
Humans are pretty much the only species to kiss during sex. |
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"Kissing is amazing, amazing element of communication. Wayyyy better than talking "
This. I actually reckon I could:
1. cum from kissing if I was horny enough. Or at least get very close.
2. Feel someone's sexual vibes from kissing them more than having a chat. Those first kisses are very telling in whether it's going to be an epic ride or not |
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Humans are pretty much the only species to kiss during sex. "
We're also one of the only species that doesn't fuck purely to pro create?
But yes of course everyone is different. That's why we're here |
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"Yes, I find their penis inside me more intimate funnily enough."
So true ! We don’t get the no kissing thing , you are sharing everything else .
I think people have watched pretty women too often xx |
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Humans are pretty much the only species to kiss during sex.
We're also one of the only species that doesn't fuck purely to pro create?
But yes of course everyone is different. That's why we're here "
That’s not true, lots of species fuck for pleasure. That not being the case is a falsehood. |
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For myself yes, but seems to be roughly 50/50 with MMF's I've had, but some who said no kissing asked me later to cum in ladies mouth. That I can't work out - but it's up to them, I just stay within the boundaries I'm set.
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See I dont find kissing intimate remotely for Casual meets .. oral sex / fucking / body touching is what I find is for myself ... kissing just never really does much for me .. its like one of those things thats alright I guess for passing some time to get onto the actual good stuff .
I was going to say how can it not feel nice when your lips are such a sensitive and sensual part of your body....
But I'm not big into receiving oral so I guess... That's literally the same thing haha "
its not about physical feel its about mental arousal/stimulation ... if we are not mentally turned on by something then whats the point ultimately right |
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That’s not true, lots of species fuck for pleasure. That not being the case is a falsehood."
Not that I'm a scientist, but I'm pretty sure that 'lots' is still a minute percentage.
Although granted, I do often think about it's natural animal instinct to fixate on the need to 'mate' is so accepted and understood and yet we are so often expected to suppress our most apparent reason for existence.  |
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Humans are pretty much the only species to kiss during sex.
We're also one of the only species that doesn't fuck purely to pro create?
But yes of course everyone is different. That's why we're here
That’s not true, lots of species fuck for pleasure. That not being the case is a falsehood."
Our dog fucks it’s bed all the time , has a right good time |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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They're not strangers by the time I'm going to have sex with them. And yes I do.
It's not because I want romance or a faux display of it. It's because I enjoy the intimacy and arousing nature of kissing someone.
I'm not a swinger though.  |
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For us it's a sex only meet, no kissing no fondling etc, just straight up ck and psy only. Unless it's a female we're playing with in which case anything goes and no kissing is only if oral hygiene looks on point |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you kiss strangers when you fuck them "
Nope. I’m one of those people that finds kissing to be more intimate than sex. So I save that for relationships. |
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By *WB85Man
over a year ago
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I find the kissing subject really funny.
People will have a dick in their mouth but kissing on the lips is too much.
Each to their own I guess, but for me....if you aren't into kissing it will always be a no. |
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"Maybe we're odd but we don't crave intimacy from casual meets.
Swinging takes all sorts doesn't it. "
It sure does. We try to accept people's way of doing things even if it's different to ours (it often is  ) |
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"Yes, I find their penis inside me more intimate funnily enough.
Exactly this for me too. Also kissing is such a turn in for me. B"
kissing gets me hard live a passionate snog when I’m hard and horny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you kiss strangers when you fuck them
I don’t fuck strangers.
I introduce myself first 
It's only polite
Does giving them a business card count?
Of course. Professional innit  "
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Humans are pretty much the only species to kiss during sex.
We're also one of the only species that doesn't fuck purely to pro create?
But yes of course everyone is different. That's why we're here "
Even tho he’s no longer on the site he obviously doesn’t know that dolphins also fuck with pro creating  |
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