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Do meets really happen
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By *mmaleiaWoman
over a year ago
Trowbridge |
"We have looked at meets but have fallen flat no one yet nice guy a while ago he moved but very dry and summer is on the way ???
Sorry, read it 3 times, still can’t understand it  "
Imagine commas & the odd exclamation mark in there, it’s easy if you know how! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for most men = no
for women and couples who really do meet = yes 100%
but a sensible woman or couple whould never have all there eggs in one basket ...
fab works alway has alway will for those who swing the tools are here..
men know what the problems are its not the scene or fab its just the maths and how they dont add up then add in attraction/rejection well its not easy for most men |
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We've arranged several meets with guys only to be let down either the day before or on the day. Very frustrating as due to children and crazy busy lives it's very difficult to get free time for fun with others xx |
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Really do need to put your best foot forward, a decent amount of men don’t help themselves when it comes to patience, respect, boundaries etc. so i understand entirely why women and MF couples have their guard up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's honestly such a struggle trying to find someone compatible and local enough that you don't have to have a weekend away to meet them. I'm hopeful but not holding my breath. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's worse than "no meets" there are meets where the guy turns up and has obviously been lying or fantasising and is a total waste of time."
Over the years we have had a few like that..
Or they are not who they say they are..
Mrs a.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meets definitely happen but the ratio of planned to actual seems quite high. I haven’t had “dog ate my homework” as an excuse yet but I would say stay off this site if you want your car to keep working! Lol |
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By *WB85Man
over a year ago
Staffordshire |
From a couples perspective it's very difficult finding the right people.
We actually don't bother as much with the couples side of things anymore as there's just to many time wasters. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
People do meet, yes, but it can be hard just relying on fab.
For couples looking for other couples it's not easy to get the attraction between all people.
Maybe try a club together or some organised socials and get to meet others that way. |
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Some people just want validating and by getting someone to invest in them to the point of arranging to meet them they get their validation.
Happens on every single platform for dating. With experience you can kinda see it coming but they’ll still get you by surprise.
It’s cold and it does devalue people in the process but the best way to protect yourself is to do the same; stick to what you’ve agreed but always knowing it could just fall through.
Count yourself lucky you’re not being catfished  |
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Depends. We've found meets may happen, arranging them is a different question!
An awful lot of answers when people say they can't get meets is "go to clubs". Which is fine, unless your're unable to go to clubs due to work/other commitments.
Then it's narrowing down those who literally want to "meet now" - most people obviously can't - and then trying to work out a convenient meet.
Even when you put your rough availability on your profile you'll still have people messaging wanting to meet now or those times don't work for them.
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Before CoVid fab s and fab g was excellent x
It’s not so good now x easy to spot the red flags after a while x persevere and when first one happens you’ll relax more and more each time and it should work out well x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They definitely do happen  never had a problem to be honest, clubs help if you're struggling to get private meets on here "
Clubs are far too daunting for a single lady that doesn't know anyone. I struggle to walk into a pub by myself let alone a club. Just fills me with dread |
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It’s definitely getting harder to even get a response from someone when you message even if you seem like just the sort of person they are after , even with a friendly initial message or two . A lot who do seem to be quite defensive sometimes and some just don’t seem genuine. Not how it used to be , but all you can do is keep trying , and it is still fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately for couples it's very difficult now and even much more if you are a single man.
For single woman it's easy but not as easy as it was when I first joined as now most guys don't turn up. |
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"They definitely do happen never had a problem to be honest, clubs help if you're struggling to get private meets on here
Clubs are far too daunting for a single lady that doesn't know anyone. I struggle to walk into a pub by myself let alone a club. Just fills me with dread"
I strongly agree. Even worse when you’re straight and can only ever attend on couples and single ladies nights. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They definitely do happen never had a problem to be honest, clubs help if you're struggling to get private meets on here
Clubs are far too daunting for a single lady that doesn't know anyone. I struggle to walk into a pub by myself let alone a club. Just fills me with dread
I strongly agree. Even worse when you’re straight and can only ever attend on couples and single ladies nights."
I hear ya sister!! |
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"Unfortunately for couples it's very difficult now and even much more if you are a single man.
For single woman it's easy but not as easy as it was when I first joined as now most guys don't turn up. "
I’d turn up ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They definitely do happen never had a problem to be honest, clubs help if you're struggling to get private meets on here
Clubs are far too daunting for a single lady that doesn't know anyone. I struggle to walk into a pub by myself let alone a club. Just fills me with dread
I strongly agree. Even worse when you’re straight and can only ever attend on couples and single ladies nights.
I hear ya sister!!"
It also doesn't help people saying go to a club if there is not one close as until very recently the nearest club will take me at least 6/8 hours and it would mean a over night at a hotel. |
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As a single guy I find it’s all about expectations as with your vanilla life don’t expect to put no effort into a profile and hoards of playmates to bombard you with offers.
But go to socials reply to messages and show you are a person worth sparing some of your spare time with and you will be fine
I am personally after quality meets not a quantity of meets and I have been lucky all the couples that have met me have been great match’s so we have ended up playing regularly for a long time as they have faith and me and its win win.
Just my version as a member of the site for over 20 years.
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"They definitely do happen never had a problem to be honest, clubs help if you're struggling to get private meets on here
Clubs are far too daunting for a single lady that doesn't know anyone. I struggle to walk into a pub by myself let alone a club. Just fills me with dread
I strongly agree. Even worse when you’re straight and can only ever attend on couples and single ladies nights.
I hear ya sister!!
It also doesn't help people saying go to a club if there is not one close as until very recently the nearest club will take me at least 6/8 hours and it would mean a over night at a hotel. "
Cherry, Hotels aren't bad, especially when the staff are open to extras and there is a sale on chain by the foot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They definitely do happen never had a problem to be honest, clubs help if you're struggling to get private meets on here
Clubs are far too daunting for a single lady that doesn't know anyone. I struggle to walk into a pub by myself let alone a club. Just fills me with dread
I strongly agree. Even worse when you’re straight and can only ever attend on couples and single ladies nights.
I hear ya sister!!
It also doesn't help people saying go to a club if there is not one close as until very recently the nearest club will take me at least 6/8 hours and it would mean a over night at a hotel.
Cherry, Hotels aren't bad, especially when the staff are open to extras and there is a sale on chain by the foot."
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"As salacious as I try to make myself look, I’ve never met anyone from Fab. "
Its your over long rambling profile and food references. The guys read 50 profiles in 30 minutes. You simply can't compete with the, to the point women. |
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I think it’s easier for me a bi TV on here to get a meet (admittedly last night I struggled) than a straight bloke.
A couple could struggle also as both parties have to be attractive to the other couple/single person they’re trying to meet.
Clubs are another option but as others mentioned, not always easy if they’re a fair distance away.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We get all our meets sorted on X and other type of alternative sites.....FAB is a waste of time x"
Really? you arrange play dates on x formerly known as twitter?
Does Elon know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is my 3rd time on here in 5yrs and ive had 4 meets off here 3 couples and 1 woman, 3 of those were 2019(i dropped lucky) pre covid so since then 1 meet.
Yes people meet but it takes time and patience,for single guys its almost but not impossible, the majority of guys who come on here expecting meets galore are going to be very disappointed,it takes time and above all effort. |
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