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Can a cock be too big?
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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I dated a guy when I was in my 20s who had a massive one. Although a novelty, it was uncomfortable. It spent more time making me gag rather than inside me 😬 |
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Undoubtedly, yes. When I met my late wife, we had to spend quite some time getting her used to my size which she hadn't encountered before, which we did and all was fine. Then years later, after some intervals of no penetrative sex due to medical issues, she decided she preferred a dildo, as it got painful again. That was fine too as she sucked me at the same time and we imagined another guy being there. |
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"I heard its pleasurable when a man hits your cervix
How wpuld u explain the feeling so a man can fully understand "
I think it feels different for everyone, for me it is literally like having my insides punched. |
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By *eyeYCouple 13 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
Oh Christ yes, not too big to 'take' at my pace but I enjoy a good hard fucking and with some that can be an unpleasant experience.
D's is absolutely perfect for me although he's been too much for some we've played with. 😘 |
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"I heard its pleasurable when a man hits your cervix
How wpuld u explain the feeling so a man can fully understand
I think it feels different for everyone, for me it is literally like having my insides punched. "
Accurate description  |
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"I heard its pleasurable when a man hits your cervix
How wpuld u explain the feeling so a man can fully understand "
There are always women who enjoy the sensation of being stretched, there are also some who enjoy pain that comes with large cock. I'm not one of them, I don't want to have the feeling as if I'm being stabbed inside or as if the guy is trying to tear a connection between my pussy and my intestines. No, thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"I heard its pleasurable when a man hits your cervix
How wpuld u explain the feeling so a man can fully understand "
Imagine I flicked your balls repeatedly hard. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Unfortunately for every 1, "wow, I want it!!", there's 2 "not sure if i can take that"......not like the movies u watch online haha
Not so much on fab....but in 'real life' haha |
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I've taken a thick, 9" cock with no problems, but even an 8" dildo can be a bit painful for me. The fleshy nature of a real cock makes it a much more pleasant experience, and doesn't give me any trouble.
Swings and roundabouts, really. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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This is a interesting topic considering lots of fab profiles asking for vwe 8/9"+ etc. Nice to see many ladies on this thread are confirming otherwise as well.
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Average, to above average is all I need for liberated, anything goes, fun.
I love balls slapping me and that's not happening if I'm tense, fearing for my cervix.
Met someone locally who stretched my mouth to it's absolute limit. I was slightly apprehensive, yet kind of excited to experience more. Sadly, never got to find out, as he got himself a GF and left Fab  ...I'm not sure it would work long term for our dynamics anyhow.
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Simple answer. Yes.
From my experience too limiting in what you can do without it being uncomfortable. But there's enough people who feel wildly differently to make my thoughts pretty inconsequential  |
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"Simple answer. Yes.
From my experience too limiting in what you can do without it being uncomfortable. But there's enough people who feel wildly differently to make my thoughts pretty inconsequential "
Your bio is absolutely brilliant!!!! |
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By *un4everMan 13 weeks ago
Near Edinburgh |
"Every woman I've ever spoken to about this says yes.
In general, if you're hitting cervix it's bad.
This happens around 7.5"+
If you've got bigger than 7", then you need to learn to control it.
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Yeah - I'm 7" and a few girls have expressed discomfort when going deep, especially in a legs-up position. You can always tell because their hands will go up to control the depth. Most ladies have no problems tho, which I guess proves that just as cock sizes vary, so does the vulva.
Quite happy with my size as it's lovely for both parties to go fully balls deep
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"Every woman I've ever spoken to about this says yes.
In general, if you're hitting cervix it's bad.
This happens around 7.5"+
If you've got bigger than 7", then you need to learn to control it.
I'm 7 and have occasionally hit the cervix.
Forget about size and just enjoy it. My fwb goes crazy when I only use half of it and rub my tip on her g spot 🤷🏻
Yeah - I'm 7" and a few girls have expressed discomfort when going deep, especially in a legs-up position. You can always tell because their hands will go up to control the depth. Most ladies have no problems tho, which I guess proves that just as cock sizes vary, so does the vulva.
Quite happy with my size as it's lovely for both parties to go fully balls deep
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"I love them big
The one in my mouth and in my video pulling out of me is 9”+
He has said some women find him to big and struggle "
I can say he is right too we need handling with care or a disclaimer haha |
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Mines 7" and girthy. No woman has had a problem with the girth as long as she is properly prepared and lubricated. But a number had had problems with the length, it depends how deep they are, hitting the cervix is unpleasant for them and me. I let the ladies be the guide and we go slow. |
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"Do certain women find having a cock too big being unpleasant"
Definitely. Too big hurts and it's frustrating for both parties if he cannot get it in. The biggest I have seen was a guy in a PDI club. His cock (probably about 11") was lovely to look at and play with but impossible to take. He, and I, did enjoy a lovely hand job though. |
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From a guy's perspective it can be both pleasure and pain, depending how it's put in then used whilst fucking.. experience has taught me that big isn't always best ....I'll qualify that by saying it's probably not the big cocks fault ....just the cock in charge of it ! |
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"Mmmm I don’t think I have found one yet. Just saying boys…….
Have you met one of my mates.
Why are they challenged size wise ? 
Yes he often gets turned down as too big"
Nope not met anyone that qualifies for this…….. yet.
Remain open to offers though. Haha
Prefer girth over length tho.
But hey a mix of both is good. |
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"Mmmm I don’t think I have found one yet. Just saying boys…….
Have you met one of my mates.
Why are they challenged size wise ?
Yes he often gets turned down as too big
Nope not met anyone that qualifies for this…….. yet.
Remain open to offers though. Haha
Prefer girth over length tho.
But hey a mix of both is good. "
Lucky lady to have |
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Despite us men being made to believe that all women desire and want a large cock, previous partners have had prior to me relationships with men with much larger than average cocks, and it wasn't in the slightest pleasurable as it was painful and unenjoyable, which ultimately did nothing for them and my current missus also is completely turned off at the thought of playing with anyone else with a large cock, it's one of her immediate refusal to engage with them any further |
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"Despite us men being made to believe that all women desire and want a large cock, previous partners have had prior to me relationships with men with much larger than average cocks, and it wasn't in the slightest pleasurable as it was painful and unenjoyable, which ultimately did nothing for them and my current missus also is completely turned off at the thought of playing with anyone else with a large cock, it's one of her immediate refusal to engage with them any further "
Great to hear!! Utopia isn't all it's made out to be! |
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As a cuck couple we were introduced to a friend of a friend a while ago, handsome young man with a BBC about 11” he was mightily impressive, it took a little bit of foreplay but she managed to take him all, she described it as a mixture of pleasure and pain as he fucked her. |
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By *alltwoCouple 2 weeks ago
Oxford / London |
"Do certain women find having a cock too big being unpleasant"
Women vary just as much as men in my experience, no simple answer to this other than the wrong combination definitely does not work. MrTT |
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