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Not just you,they make me immediately suspicious.
I'm half a couple, my partner meets alone with my full knowledge, but has his own profile for this. I wouldn't dream of picking out a meet for him and messaging them from our joint profile.
They also rarely have any pics of the man either, funnily enough.
I have couples blocked now, but I used to get messaged by the supposed woman asking me to meet her hubby alone.
All old pics of her only, making me think they used to be a couple,but not now & he's still using the account.
Or she doesn't know she's got pics up on fab and it's just a man trying his luck. |
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You are only just noticing this.
It's a very common thing.
A few Red flags are
Couples with only female pictures as the fictitious female can't take pictures of her partner.
Very old pictures as he doesn't have any more pics of the Ex partner.
Over eager to meet up
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Oh your not alone!
It instantly raises our suspicions that all may not be as it seems.
Similar to those profiles with pictures of the female that are from years ago, but recent male pictures. And the last veris date matches up with the last female photo.
Those get the same suspicious treatment! |
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By *aomilatteCouple 14 weeks ago
Midlanders on Tour |
"Is it just me that’s noticed the increasing number of couples statuses and organising meets and the female is busy/sick/away and only the male half is available? "
It's always been like it in our 7+ years on Fab. Some would be shocked how many couples profiles where the Woman has little or no idea of the Fab profile. |
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By *cgmcgMan 14 weeks ago
kingston |
"The amount of messages I get from a "woman" trying to arrange play for her partner only cause she's away.
No one believes it. It is the equivalent of my mate fancies you lol"
My mate definitely fancies you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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instant red flag and 99% fake man only profile
if a guy or woman want to met that are part of a couyple they normally have single profiles explaining that they are also part of a couple |
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"Is it just me that’s noticed the increasing number of couples statuses and organising meets and the female is busy/sick/away and only the male half is available? "
Always a red flag, although it's a new one to us, them using that line when meeting a single guy   |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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This is my biggest issue with fab, there's so many trying it on as a couple just to find out it's a dude..
I've even had ones saying that a meet with the guy alone first has to happen before a full meet.. Which obviously means it's just a guy again lol |
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Had 3 this week alone, one guy we’d said no to a few weeks back. They’d not be able to message us as single guys, so they’re getting around it by pretending to be a couple
Yet to find a profile where it’s the lady only wanting to meet us, unfortunately |
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Any one new who we meet we meet together but if the situation arises I've let hubby meet on his own and he let's me meet on my own as long as we have met them together at some point. Getting childcare can be extremely difficult and having ms also sometimes means I'm unable to meet but I certainly wouldn't stop hubby from doing so as there may be a point where my condition limits who I can play with |
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By *pen2UMan 14 weeks ago
Telford |
"You are only just noticing this.
It's a very common thing.
A few Red flags are
Couples with only female pictures as the fictitious female can't take pictures of her partner.
Very old pictures as he doesn't have any more pics of the Ex partner.
Over eager to meet up
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Thanks for sharing these red flags! I now know what to look for as I've had couples message me recently now I'm more active on the forums  |
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"instant red flag and 99% fake man only profile
if a guy or woman want to met that are part of a couyple they normally have single profiles explaining that they are also part of a couple"
And sometimes both of those profiles are also just the guy |
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"Is it just me that’s noticed the increasing number of couples statuses and organising meets and the female is busy/sick/away and only the male half is available? "
It’s a massive red flag, if you ask me.
As well as people saying that the wife knows but won’t be involved  |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"I noticed it too, and I had a few messages from these profiles. They are mainly dodgy AF, and it’s a big red flag. I mostly avoid like the plague"
I had few weeks ago too
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By *pl_1979Couple 12 weeks ago
North East |
We've noticed loads of "male half only" status
We had a little chuckle at a status a few days ago, something along the lines of "I'm ill upstairs, I'd love for a lady to fuck my man downstairs while I listen" |
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By *aomilatteCouple 12 weeks ago
Midlanders on Tour |
"We've noticed loads of "male half only" status
We had a little chuckle at a status a few days ago, something along the lines of "I'm ill upstairs, I'd love for a lady to fuck my man downstairs while I listen""
Then he put the porn on, on silent  |
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By *tr8MrEMan 12 weeks ago
somewhere near Sheffield |
Nothing against the couples...but you'll be surprised how many women on here have single profiles, word them as single when in actual fact are married or with a partner!!
Just got to say...it goes both ways |
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By *eyeYCouple 12 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"The same goes the other way, the amount of single female profiles that will only meet with their fuck buddy, we feel they should have a couples profile. "
That!! Funnily enough there's never any pictures or reference of him on their bio.. 🤷😉
We have a few couple friends, that we know for a fact the Mrs is away occasionally and he (as they both do) has permission.
But generally a no go.. |
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"Yeh we simply wont meet one half of a couple unless we've already met both."
Exactly that.
We will only ever do a social with all people present initially.
Solo meets is fine once a connection is established. But then we also have the rule that we keep it equal.....so if I meet the female, I then wont meet again until Mrs has seen the other male. |
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all these forum post with couples n ladies only ? who do you think is writing them 100% fake couples/women profiles run by men.
about 12 years ago i stopped meeting couples and women on fab due to the fake couples/women/and very male led profiles i stopped via singles profile and we also stopped via couples profiles..
guys who come avross these fake profiles mut think hany on there are so few couples and ladies on this scene and then over half of them are fake run by men meaning that there are fare less couples/women for real..
even with the real couples 90% are very male run where the wife has nearly zero to do with the account so the guy pretends to be his wife most of the time
so easiest way to get around was to filter couples and women out they are easy to find the real folk in other ways |
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"The same goes the other way, the amount of single female profiles that will only meet with their fuck buddy, we feel they should have a couples profile. "
i would not meet a fb couple you can tell the moment you meet them there so not connected making it a horroble meet most of the time ... |
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