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By *inky Perky OP   Couple 7 weeks ago

Kingston

We see that a lot from attractive women on regular dating sites. Does someone's politics have a bearing on whether or not you fuck them? We have a strong aversion to people who blather on about "woke" but maybe that's an attractive characteristic for some.

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By *luebutterfly24Couple 7 weeks ago

Sphincter on sea

We have seen this too. We tend not to get involved in politics with others. If we did we'd probably have no meets at all

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By *regS332Man 7 weeks ago

st austell

Well if someone is an extremist either way it'd probably put me off (E.g a genuine nazi or hardcore communist), but usually politics doesn't have bearing on weather I find a woman attractive/want to date her 🤔

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By *elightful 2Couple 7 weeks ago

Not living in the UK


"We have seen this too. We tend not to get involved in politics with others. If we did we'd probably have no meets at all "

Exactly the same as us.. if someone started on about politics when we was having a social that would end it pretty fast.

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By *icecouple561Couple 7 weeks ago
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East Sussex

We have had to step back from a friend who brings politics into everything. They know we don't agree with their views but they keep talking about stuff. It makes our encounters uncomfortable.

So if someone mentions politics on their profile or insults people who have different opinions to them we don't really want to meet them.

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By *issmorganWoman 7 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

For just fun it probably wouldn't. But, if my views were miles apart from someone else's & I was looking for dates leading to more then their views and outlook would need to be similar to mine.

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By *inky Perky OP   Couple 7 weeks ago

Kingston


"Well if someone is an extremist either way it'd probably put me off (E.g a genuine nazi or hardcore communist), but usually politics doesn't have bearing on weather I find a woman attractive/want to date her 🤔 "

Well Pam Bondi and Kristi Noem sail pretty close to the Genuine Nazi border but I bet you'd jump into bed with both of them

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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago

It's Tori Amos I feel sorry for

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan 7 weeks ago

belfast

I wouldn't fuck a lefty. Specially those free palestine ones.

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By *XLucy_lashezXxTV/TS 7 weeks ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Tbh i dont think ive ever seen an attractive racist for that one to be a dilema 🤷‍♀️

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By *tr8MrEMan 7 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

I think we should forget politics and just reform 🤣🤣

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By *pinningfasterWoman 7 weeks ago

Birmingham

I don't care about peoples politics but I do care about how they speak about people. That often rules out rabid tory voters, but similarly raging left wing lunatics who think that anyone who doesn't agree with them is a 'phobe of sorts.

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By *erbys_coupleCouple 7 weeks ago

Derby

Political opinions don’t necessarily bother us unless someone tries to force their opinions on us political or not. .

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By *omsubdevonCouple 7 weeks ago

Newton Abbot

The only good Tory? A lavatory.

Politics stays out of our playtime but we don't meet reform, fash, racists or any other right wing types. Not that it has been an issue probably as our bio is very clear.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 7 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Mostly I think it's just a flag to keep those kind of people away.

Mostly, I don't know or care about the person I fuck's political leaning. But if someone is behind enough of the political policies to consider themselves a Tory, we're probably not going to get along, and since I prefer to actively like the human I'm fucking rather than just their exterior, it would mean no fuck was forthcoming. So it would save time to have it on there 💜

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By *otally BenettonCouple 7 weeks ago

shropshire

This is a real bug bare of mine. I’ve known plenty of Tories or people that vote that way that have been genuinely nice people. Likewise I’ve know plenty of Lefties that have been horrible. It’s ok to have a different political opinion, in fact it’s much better than having no opinion at all but no one ever says ‘no abstainers due to apathy’. Having said all that I also have to concede that it’s each to their own.

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By *bflirtyCouple 7 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

This is one reason we really prefer club meets and no swing socialising outside of that. Would rather not know anything much about the people we play with.

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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago

I met someone who was initially a really beautiful

soul until I told them I kept bees. They turned from angelic to demonic in a matter of moments and stormed out.

I’m assuming from the barrage of language that spilled forth that she was probably a militant vegan.

I hope she finds someone who makes her smile and can help with the anger she carries with her everyday.

The world would be much nicer if we weren’t so reactionary to other opinions or life choices.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS 7 weeks ago

rochdale


"I met someone who was initially a really beautiful

soul until I told them I kept bees. They turned from angelic to demonic in a matter of moments and stormed out.

I’m assuming from the barrage of language that spilled forth that she was probably a militant vegan.

I hope she finds someone who makes her smile and can help with the anger she carries with her everyday.

The world would be much nicer if we weren’t so reactionary to other opinions or life choices. "

I'm struggling with this

Surely everyone agrees we need bees as THE vital component in the food cycle?

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By *etitesaraTV/TS 7 weeks ago

rochdale

In a club I'm hardly likely to interview people on their politics before having sex with them, but given the widespread anti-trans hysteria spouted by so many on the hard right, I feel I need to protect myself from that attitude & frankly, potential violence.

So, any profile with a hint of right wing views is one I will avoid interacting with for my own safety.

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By *tlanshiaWoman 7 weeks ago

Chatham

While I don't get involved with politics with meets mostly, if it comes up and they say something I disagree with then they aren't someone I want to be around anyway.

So I guess it makes sense

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By *lice AgainTV/TS 7 weeks ago

Bristol

Most people I've met have been fairly non-tory.

Weirdly the one's I've met who are generally like to reveal their opinions post sex.

And... that's how you get a block and a never meet again. (If you're tory...)

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple 7 weeks ago

Stoke

Well, we vote Reform so take it or leave it 😂

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By *lice AgainTV/TS 7 weeks ago

Bristol


"Well, we vote Reform so take it or leave it 😂"

It's so weird, that despite their views I've had quite a few Reform voters proclaim their leanings after cumming inside me.

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By *XLucy_lashezXxTV/TS 7 weeks ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Speaking of reform .. i was watching Farage on the telly the other day and thought to myself .. wow he looks like a spitting image puppet of himself

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple 7 weeks ago

Scarborogh


"We have seen this too. We tend not to get involved in politics with others. If we did we'd probably have no meets at all "

Seen it a couple of times, think the oddest one someone put was “I won’t fxxk a golfer”. Ok, bills too small.

We keep away from politics if people start.

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By *partharmonyCouple 7 weeks ago

Ruislip

We would find it difficult to relate with somebody who had completely opposing values to us. A thought-out, position expressed respectfully is one thing. A Trumpist likely lives in a different reality.

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By *erbys_coupleCouple 7 weeks ago

Derby

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By *arallumCouple 7 weeks ago

glasgow

Yeah, we try to avoid politics and similar topics as once someone shows they are a certain type of person any physical attraction seems to vanish very quickly.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 7 weeks ago

Chichester

I just tell people if they start going on politics. Views / gender / woke etc thst I am not interested in their views intelligence on this mommy require their bodies to have sex with in a no brains required scenario. It’s purely just physical nothing more.

This has shut some social meets down with them

Thinking i

Am rude : cold . Mechanical but I just stand by pretty much I am here to fuck if click not find a new bff

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By *idnightMischiefMan 7 weeks ago

London

It only bothers me if it forms part of their identity or they make absolutely everything into an issue.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan 7 weeks ago

Norwich


"The only good Tory? A lavatory.

Politics stays out of our playtime but we don't meet reform, fash, racists or any other right wing types. Not that it has been an issue probably as our bio is very clear."

I’ve fucked several tories. They tend to the kinky.

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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago

Wish I could say never kissed a Tory but I have but only knowingly once 🤣

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan 7 weeks ago

Norwich


"Wish I could say never kissed a Tory but I have but only knowingly once 🤣"

How was it?

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By *ickandHilaryCouple 7 weeks ago

Barnstaple


"This is a real bug bare of mine. I’ve known plenty of Tories or people that vote that way that have been genuinely nice people. Likewise I’ve know plenty of Lefties that have been horrible. It’s ok to have a different political opinion, in fact it’s much better than having no opinion at all but no one ever says ‘no abstainers due to apathy’. Having said all that I also have to concede that it’s each to their own. "

The one sensible response in a long thread x

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By *inky Perky OP   Couple 7 weeks ago

Kingston

We don't have a huge amount of experience but something that has surprised us is how important the post-fuck vibe is. We want people who we like to be around - someone we can go to the pub with. Extreme right wing views would be a massive turnoff.

Not saying every Tory has extreme right wing views.

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By *andlerMan 7 weeks ago

shipley

Vote for what policies you believe not always the colour of the bloody party! You don’t always have to vote for the party you have done previously!

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By *hiversMan 7 weeks ago

Dinas Powys


"For just fun it probably wouldn't. But, if my views were miles apart from someone else's & I was looking for dates leading to more then their views and outlook would need to be similar to mine. "

This. I've distanced myself from friends who have exhibited questionable (imo) politics, so if it was a potential regular/fwb then it would be an issue... but it wouldn't necessarily put me off a one-off meet as long as they weren't extremist views...

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By *liceDarkTV/TS 7 weeks ago

Worksop

I'd not want to be involved with a Tory.

Which is odd. They may be a good shag.

They did a good job of fucking everything else.

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By *vaRoseWoman 7 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Tory, Reform, right-wing types or anyone quoting Andrew Tate aren’t people I’d spend time with, let alone inside me.

It isn’t about party politics. It’s about core values. I need to trust, respect, and actually like the person I’m sharing my body with. If we don’t align on the basics, nothing else matters.

So no, I wouldn’t knowingly sleep with a Tory. I have standards.

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By *uck69xMan 7 weeks ago

cramlington


"Tory, Reform, right-wing types or anyone quoting Andrew Tate aren’t people I’d spend time with, let alone inside me.

It isn’t about party politics. It’s about core values. I need to trust, respect, and actually like the person I’m sharing my body with. If we don’t align on the basics, nothing else matters.

So no, I wouldn’t knowingly sleep with a Tory. I have standards."

couldn't agree more

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By *liceDarkTV/TS 7 weeks ago

Worksop


"Tory, Reform, right-wing types or anyone quoting Andrew Tate aren’t people I’d spend time with, let alone inside me.

It isn’t about party politics. It’s about core values. I need to trust, respect, and actually like the person I’m sharing my body with. If we don’t align on the basics, nothing else matters.

So no, I wouldn’t knowingly sleep with a Tory. I have standards."

Absolutely this.

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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago

They can be quite Priti

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By *etitesaraTV/TS 7 weeks ago

rochdale


"Tory, Reform, right-wing types or anyone quoting Andrew Tate aren’t people I’d spend time with, let alone inside me.

It isn’t about party politics. It’s about core values. I need to trust, respect, and actually like the person I’m sharing my body with. If we don’t align on the basics, nothing else matters.

So no, I wouldn’t knowingly sleep with a Tory. I have standards."

Exactly this.

People with those views often stridently deny the right of trans people's existence. Why would I knowingly entertain these people in my life?

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By *hil most chillMan 7 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

I've got this on my profile and use it as a filter to keep cunts away. I don't actively ask about it in general, but if someone brings up their tory views around me, their odds of riding Phil's sex rod dramatically increase to zero.

I prefer to have at least a little respect for the person I'm being intimate with.

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By *estructionDollyWoman 7 weeks ago

Manchester

For dating it absolutely matters. If I have very different politics to someone then we likely don't share the same core values. My personal politics are important to me. I am one of those "no tories, terfs, bigots" women

With just sex it matters less, but if someone was full of hatred/bigotry I still wouldn't want to shag them.

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple 7 weeks ago

Nottingham

As a society we seem to be increasingly intolerant with people who have different opinions to us. I have friends who have fell out with each other over stupid things like brexit and have barely talked since.

This is a sex and swinging site, it blows my mind you wouldn't fuck someone you found attractive because of a political opinion.

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By *_andlerMonicaCouple 7 weeks ago

Leicester


"As a society we seem to be increasingly intolerant with people who have different opinions to us. I have friends who have fell out with each other over stupid things like brexit and have barely talked since.

This is a sex and swinging site, it blows my mind you wouldn't fuck someone you found attractive because of a political opinion. "

I think the point is, for some people, a person's opinions can make them unattractive.

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By *vaRoseWoman 7 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"As a society we seem to be increasingly intolerant with people who have different opinions to us. I have friends who have fell out with each other over stupid things like brexit and have barely talked since.

This is a sex and swinging site, it blows my mind you wouldn't fuck someone you found attractive because of a political opinion. "

The key issue is where you draw the line between a harmless difference of opinion and something more serious. Not liking coffee is a difference of opinion. Supporting views or policies that harm already marginalised groups is not. That’s not just personal preference, it has real-world consequences for people’s lives.

Personally, I don’t find those kinds of views attractive. It’s not about needing someone to agree with me on everything, it’s about fundamental values. If someone’s opinion involves denying others dignity, safety, or equality, then no, I’m not going to fancy them. Desire doesn’t exist in a vacuum. For me, ethics and empathy are part of attraction.

Yes, this is a sex and swinging site, but that doesn’t mean compatibility starts and ends with physical appeal. For many of us, it includes shared respect, integrity, and the ability to not be a danger to others.

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By *sStephenPickleMan 7 weeks ago

Ends

It matters to me.

God forbid I ever slept with a racist. 🙆🏾‍♂️

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple 7 weeks ago

Nottingham

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By *uckurcumMan 7 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Never blurred the lines between having sex and the persons politics,everyone is entitled to have an opinion,political or otherwise...

Its complicated enough trying to get a fuck without screening for politics or anything else ...

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman 7 weeks ago

North West

It matters to me. EvaRose has put it absolutely perfectly as she so often does. 😍

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By *heHookyMonsterMan 7 weeks ago

Coventry

The only ones I avoid are those who are clearly and openly extreme. Anyone who says they won't meet 'Lefties', Tories etc. are basically telling me to avoid them.

It's a case of telling me they're a Bigot, while trying to make out they're not. Laughable. Massive swerve! This world is supposed to bewelcoming and inclusive, but the general politics, along with 'swinging politics' are rife.

Can't be arsed with any of that rubbish.

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By *eve500Man 7 weeks ago

Leeds

If someone voted Brexit, and doesn't regret their stupidity.... Its a massive f**koff red flag for me.... As is if theyre tempted to vote for Fartage

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By *oveandfastWoman 7 weeks ago

Bromsgrove


"In a club I'm hardly likely to interview people on their politics before having sex with them, but given the widespread anti-trans hysteria spouted by so many on the hard right, I feel I need to protect myself from that attitude & frankly, potential violence.

So, any profile with a hint of right wing views is one I will avoid interacting with for my own safety."

This!! It’s not a matter of a “difference of opinion” for some of us, it’s a matter of safety.

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By *entlemanrogueMan 7 weeks ago

Motherwell


"We see that a lot from attractive women on regular dating sites. Does someone's politics have a bearing on whether or not you fuck them? We have a strong aversion to people who blather on about "woke" but maybe that's an attractive characteristic for some."

Some people literally hate people of different political persuasions. Me I would love to h*te fuck a Tory.

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By *entlemanrogueMan 7 weeks ago

Motherwell


"If someone voted Brexit, and doesn't regret their stupidity.... Its a massive f**koff red flag for me.... As is if theyre tempted to vote for Fartage"

TBH none of them are worthy of anyone vote/trust

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By *dam and slutCouple 7 weeks ago

Manchester

In all honesty as a bdsm lifestyle person,flogging a Tory either male or female holds an additional attraction for me.

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By *liceDarkTV/TS 7 weeks ago

Worksop


"In all honesty as a bdsm lifestyle person,flogging a Tory either male or female holds an additional attraction for me."

😂

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By *sStephenPickleMan 7 weeks ago

Ends


"In a club I'm hardly likely to interview people on their politics before having sex with them, but given the widespread anti-trans hysteria spouted by so many on the hard right, I feel I need to protect myself from that attitude & frankly, potential violence.

So, any profile with a hint of right wing views is one I will avoid interacting with for my own safety.

This!! It’s not a matter of a “difference of opinion” for some of us, it’s a matter of safety."

🫶🏾

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By *ddfellowMan 7 weeks ago

wirral


"As a society we seem to be increasingly intolerant with people who have different opinions to us. I have friends who have fell out with each other over stupid things like brexit and have barely talked since.

This is a sex and swinging site, it blows my mind you wouldn't fuck someone you found attractive because of a political opinion.

The key issue is where you draw the line between a harmless difference of opinion and something more serious. Not liking coffee is a difference of opinion. Supporting views or policies that harm already marginalised groups is not. That’s not just personal preference, it has real-world consequences for people’s lives.

Personally, I don’t find those kinds of views attractive. It’s not about needing someone to agree with me on everything, it’s about fundamental values. If someone’s opinion involves denying others dignity, safety, or equality, then no, I’m not going to fancy them. Desire doesn’t exist in a vacuum. For me, ethics and empathy are part of attraction.

Yes, this is a sex and swinging site, but that doesn’t mean compatibility starts and ends with physical appeal. For many of us, it includes shared respect, integrity, and the ability to not be a danger to others.

"

very well said

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By *occerstar579Man 7 weeks ago

Harrogate

As long as they dont try and ram it down my throat im ok!

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By *iseekingbiCouple 7 weeks ago

N ireland and West Midlands


"Well, we vote Reform so take it or leave it 😂"

We will leave it thanks

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By *hechonkyduoCouple 7 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Thankfully our profile puts the Tory and Reform people off.

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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago


"Political opinions don’t necessarily bother us unless someone tries to force their opinions on us political or not. .

"

As long as we all treat others as we want to be treated ourselves that’s what’s important.

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By *i_alternative_coupleCouple 7 weeks ago

cradley


"Thankfully our profile puts the Tory and Reform people off."

I hope ours does too

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By *wistedTooCouple 7 weeks ago

Frimley

No chance. If you’re just fucking someone, you’re an idiot if you want to talk politics. This scene is not about daily life choices. It’s about enjoying something that literally existed before politics was even a consideration in the human brain.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS 7 weeks ago

rochdale


"As long as they dont try and ram it down my throat im ok!"

Well done..

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By *ellinever70Woman 7 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I'm more concerned about the people who want to hate fuck the tories

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple 7 weeks ago

Somerset

If we avoided Tories we would have no gay friends! For some reason every gay man we know, and we know a fair few, is right wing.

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By *acky RacersCouple 7 weeks ago

Lincoln

We dont really get to a stage where we talk politics really but if they're very opposite in views to me or abhorrent, I dont engage any further...

Tend to avoid horsey people too in case they're hunt cunts.

Was at a party once where a woman started banging on about running cyclists over...avoided her too, especially as we were going out on our bikes the next day...

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By *he Gentleman 52Man 7 weeks ago

Beverley

Talking politics is a huge turn off ! It’s the last thing on my mind unless I’m trying not to cum to soon 😉

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By *etitesaraTV/TS 7 weeks ago

rochdale


"We dont really get to a stage where we talk politics really but if they're very opposite in views to me or abhorrent, I dont engage any further...

Tend to avoid horsey people too in case they're hunt cunts.

Was at a party once where a woman started banging on about running cyclists over...avoided her too, especially as we were going out on our bikes the next day..."

They think they are decent people too..

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By *ongAndThick123Man 7 weeks ago

UK


"We see that a lot from attractive women on regular dating sites. Does someone's politics have a bearing on whether or not you fuck them? We have a strong aversion to people who blather on about "woke" but maybe that's an attractive characteristic for some."

It’s very cringe. Personally, i grew up on the receiving end of a lot of division and hatred in my younger life. So I know what a bad person is, and it’s nothing to do with being a tory or labour supporter.

I find it a total turn off when people want to stir up even more division over something so minor. The people that write that kind of stuff are totally out of touch with reality, and have a lot in common with the bad people I saw growing up. (The irony is that the people expressing “no this, no that” probably think they’re the good ones).

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By *hechonkyduoCouple 7 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge


"Thankfully our profile puts the Tory and Reform people off.

I hope ours does too "

It would in the open, in secret not so much.

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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago


"Tory, Reform, right-wing types or anyone quoting Andrew Tate aren’t people I’d spend time with, let alone inside me.

It isn’t about party politics. It’s about core values. I need to trust, respect, and actually like the person I’m sharing my body with. If we don’t align on the basics, nothing else matters.

So no, I wouldn’t knowingly sleep with a Tory. I have standards."

This!

Also anyone who believes that anybody that isn’t a Tory or further right wing is immediately a “Leftist”.

Add to that anyone that immediately brands any sort of idea that doesn’t marginalise a section of society or actually helps a disadvantaged community as “woke nonsense”.

If lacking basic human empathy or political extremism is your thing, then I want nothing to do with you. You might be beautiful on the outside, but you’re ugly to the core

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By *ongAndThick123Man 7 weeks ago

UK


"Tory, Reform, right-wing types or anyone quoting Andrew Tate aren’t people I’d spend time with, let alone inside me.

It isn’t about party politics. It’s about core values. I need to trust, respect, and actually like the person I’m sharing my body with. If we don’t align on the basics, nothing else matters.

So no, I wouldn’t knowingly sleep with a Tory. I have standards.

This!

Also anyone who believes that anybody that isn’t a Tory or further right wing is immediately a “Leftist”.

Add to that anyone that immediately brands any sort of idea that doesn’t marginalise a section of society or actually helps a disadvantaged community as “woke nonsense”.

If lacking basic human empathy or political extremism is your thing, then I want nothing to do with you. You might be beautiful on the outside, but you’re ugly to the core"

Why are you speaking in such extremes?

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By *iseekingbiCouple 7 weeks ago

N ireland and West Midlands


"We dont really get to a stage where we talk politics really but if they're very opposite in views to me or abhorrent, I dont engage any further...

Tend to avoid horsey people too in case they're hunt cunts.

Was at a party once where a woman started banging on about running cyclists over...avoided her too, especially as we were going out on our bikes the next day..."

She missed out on a ride with you then

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By *XLucy_lashezXxTV/TS 7 weeks ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Doesnt wanting to sleep with A Tory count as some form of Extreme sado masochism ?

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple 7 weeks ago

Stoke


"Well, we vote Reform so take it or leave it 😂

We will leave it thanks "

That's great with us 🤣

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By *andb69Couple 7 weeks ago

leeds

We play primarily in clubs. I rarely even get as far as discovering the names of the men I fuck, let alone their politics. That works fine for me.

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By *inky Perky OP   Couple 7 weeks ago

Kingston


"We play primarily in clubs. I rarely even get as far as discovering the names of the men I fuck, let alone their politics. That works fine for me. "

That made me laugh. Bravo.

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By *dalisqueWoman 7 weeks ago

land of make believe

I used to have this on a dating profile many years ago,however on fab it is different.

🩵

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By *irsSubCouple 7 weeks ago

Darlington

Despite not being a Tory in slightest I used to see that as an automatic swipe left on the famous dating app, as to me it says more about the person writing it than who it's intended for.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple 7 weeks ago

Coventry

I'm not a fan of the Conservatives, I don't vote for them and I've massively spoken out and active against them. I am after all an active Trade Unionist. However do I hate Conservatives, no. Do I think all Conservatives are bad people, no. Do I recognise the party is a broad church with not everyone being behind the direction of the leadership all the time for good or bad reasons, yes. I am not here for the politics of division of everyday people through partisan politics.

So in general when I see something like no Tories it's a bit of a red flag. I like to take people as I find them and they are more than just the political party they voted for. As much as I don't find being a Conservative an endearing feature as such I also don't find being so ignorantly judgmental on partisan lines an endearing feature either. I much prefer to take people by a more in depth veiw of their words, deeds and souls than buy into a world were the class of the everyday people is divided by blind partisanism. And in all fairness if I adopted an aproach of banning Tories from my life I would have to get rid of some good freinds. Personally I prefer to have those freindship and continue to show them they're wrong.

Mr

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By *sxboy69Man 7 weeks ago

Rayleigh

No Tories = sign of a mentalist. I would be inclined to wind them up with 'no Labia/Vegans/Palestine/Peoples Republic of Judea' (delete as appropriate)...

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By *sStephenPickleMan 7 weeks ago

Ends


"Well, we vote Reform so take it or leave it 😂"

Ye 🙆🏾‍♂️

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By *sStephenPickleMan 7 weeks ago

Ends


"No Tories = sign of a mentalist. I would be inclined to wind them up with 'no Labia/Vegans/Palestine/Peoples Republic of Judea' (delete as appropriate)... "

Ah.

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By *ootylover25Man 7 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Politics make no difference to me. If we get on we get on simple as that. Although people who make politics their whole personality grate on me a bit

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By *aizyWoman 7 weeks ago

west midlands


"No Tories = sign of a mentalist. I would be inclined to wind them up with 'no Labia/Vegans/Palestine/Peoples Republic of Judea' (delete as appropriate)... "

No labia?? 🤔

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By *sStephenPickleMan 7 weeks ago

Ends


"No Tories = sign of a mentalist. I would be inclined to wind them up with 'no Labia/Vegans/Palestine/Peoples Republic of Judea' (delete as appropriate)...

No labia?? 🤔"

That was also my favourite

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By *aizyWoman 7 weeks ago

west midlands


"No Tories = sign of a mentalist. I would be inclined to wind them up with 'no Labia/Vegans/Palestine/Peoples Republic of Judea' (delete as appropriate)...

No labia?? 🤔

That was also my favourite"

It's a good un, I'm looking forward to seeing it on protest signs on marches.

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By *lym4realCouple 7 weeks ago

plymouth

Depends on how extreme they are though but if they were on the more right side of the divide and going by their oft shared views on women and what they can't or can't do with their bodies it's highly ironic them even being on here ? and read somewhere that the trumpers staffers etc ect were moaning women/men wouldn't talk to them as soon as they found out they worked for trump ?? and even their well known homophobia and so if they wanted to watch two fems which of course is a homosexual act ? could get rather confusing ? and they do tend to be rather angry like some of the left and pointing out the sometimes more than obvious faults in their view points tends the escalate matters ....xx

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By *sStephenPickleMan 7 weeks ago

Ends


"No Tories = sign of a mentalist. I would be inclined to wind them up with 'no Labia/Vegans/Palestine/Peoples Republic of Judea' (delete as appropriate)...

No labia?? 🤔

That was also my favourite

It's a good un, I'm looking forward to seeing it on protest signs on marches."

Labia OUT.

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By *_andlerMonicaCouple 7 weeks ago

Leicester


"No Tories = sign of a mentalist. I would be inclined to wind them up with 'no Labia/Vegans/Palestine/Peoples Republic of Judea' (delete as appropriate)...

No labia?? 🤔

That was also my favourite

It's a good un, I'm looking forward to seeing it on protest signs on marches.

Labia OUT. "

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By *atentHeelsCouple 7 weeks ago

Salford

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By *atentHeelsCouple 7 weeks ago

Salford

It’s interesting how it’s always the “so called” liberals are the only ones who do this, yet they’re the ones supposed to be all accepting of everyone aren’t they? Utter hypocrites.

You never see people writing “no liberal lefty’s” do you. Perhaps that’s speaks volumes about people’s character and which way they lean.

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By *asycouple777Couple 7 weeks ago

bristol


"It’s interesting how it’s always the “so called” liberals are the only ones who do this, yet they’re the ones supposed to be all accepting of everyone aren’t they? Utter hypocrites.

You never see people writing “no liberal lefty’s” do you. Perhaps that’s speaks volumes about people’s character and which way they lean."

Yes 100 percent correct

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 7 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"It’s interesting how it’s always the “so called” liberals are the only ones who do this, yet they’re the ones supposed to be all accepting of everyone aren’t they? Utter hypocrites.

You never see people writing “no liberal lefty’s” do you. Perhaps that’s speaks volumes about people’s character and which way they lean."

"I don't want to fuck you" is not refusing to accept people or their opinions. It's just not wanting to fuck them 💜

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By *vonne5exMan 7 weeks ago

Doncaster

I'm a bit political but I wouldn't dream of bringing it into my sex life vanilla or swinging.

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By *obtributeMan 7 weeks ago

Somerset

Judging by the way politics are at the moment, there don't appear to be too many Tories anyway.

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By *sStephenPickleMan 7 weeks ago

Ends


"It’s interesting how it’s always the “so called” liberals are the only ones who do this, yet they’re the ones supposed to be all accepting of everyone aren’t they? Utter hypocrites.

You never see people writing “no liberal lefty’s” do you. Perhaps that’s speaks volumes about people’s character and which way they lean.

"I don't want to fuck you" is not refusing to accept people or their opinions. It's just not wanting to fuck them 💜"

Literally this

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By *sStephenPickleMan 7 weeks ago

Ends

I wouldn’t fuck anyone who votes labia either if that helps

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By *hechonkyduoCouple 7 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge


"It’s interesting how it’s always the “so called” liberals are the only ones who do this, yet they’re the ones supposed to be all accepting of everyone aren’t they? Utter hypocrites.

You never see people writing “no liberal lefty’s” do you. Perhaps that’s speaks volumes about people’s character and which way they lean."

We would love if people did that.

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By *verageHoesCouple 7 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm not particularly fussed on others politics, providing they're not extreme. It's not really a topic of conversation I'd be interested in having if I'm meeting from Fab.

If someone feels that strongly that they need to mention it on their profile, I'd actively avoid them.

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By *ristol BiteMan 7 weeks ago

all over

Most of my friends are relatively liberal and left leaning to different degrees. There's one or two who have voted Tory in the past, but that's their decision and they have their reasons even if I don't agree.

Without going into subject matters too much there's a connection between attraction, common ground and morality when you step beyond only the physical.

A lot of the modern right (not all) has become quite extreme and/or doesn't seem support the rights of certain people, can be openly racist or was weirdly supportive of some politicians as useless or corrupt as Truss, Boris and Farrage and unfeeling to other issues like wars and the suffering of people who are different to them aboard.

If you have a fundamental moral opposition to someone and how they think other people should be treated, it can be difficult seeing past that for anything beyond just getting your end away.

If I were with a woman and she started spouting some vaguely racist daily mail nonsense blaming things on small boats it would be hard to have any respect for them or want to spend time with them.

A person's politics does generally matter as it gives you an inclination to their opinion on things that really matter beyond hooking up on here.

Also all politicians are pretty bad, it's just a case of avoiding the worst ones haha.

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By *atentHeelsCouple 7 weeks ago

Salford


"

A lot of the modern right (not all) has become quite extreme and/or doesn't seem support the rights of certain people, can be openly racist or was weirdly supportive of some politicians as useless or corrupt as Truss, Boris and Farrage and unfeeling to other issues like wars and the suffering of people who are different to them aboard."

A little ironic don’t you think. Isn’t it the lefty’s who are the modern terrorists, just stop oil, the Palestine brigade vandalising things - the left have become far more extreme than the right and far more intolerant of anyone who have any different views to them. Ensuring suffering of people with different views through any means like cancelling/doxing or any labelling of every ist and ism they can think of. Hence the utter hypocrisy of ‘liberalism’. They’re the least accepting of others who are different than anyone on the right - including that man called H!

But this is getting rather political so shall leave that one there

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By *estinysswingersCouple 7 weeks ago

Worsley

Yeah we’ve got a no Tory or Reform voter rule

Lefties unite.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS 7 weeks ago

rochdale


"

A lot of the modern right (not all) has become quite extreme and/or doesn't seem support the rights of certain people, can be openly racist or was weirdly supportive of some politicians as useless or corrupt as Truss, Boris and Farrage and unfeeling to other issues like wars and the suffering of people who are different to them aboard.

A little ironic don’t you think. Isn’t it the lefty’s who are the modern terrorists, just stop oil, the Palestine brigade vandalising things - the left have become far more extreme than the right and far more intolerant of anyone who have any different views to them. Ensuring suffering of people with different views through any means like cancelling/doxing or any labelling of every ist and ism they can think of. Hence the utter hypocrisy of ‘liberalism’. They’re the least accepting of others who are different than anyone on the right - including that man called H!

But this is getting rather political so shall leave that one there "

Don't remember 'the Left' rioting & setting fire to hostels last summer...

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By *immyMcGillMan 7 weeks ago

Hornchurch

Probably best to avoid talking politics if you’re just meeting for casual sex. It’s not the same as preparing for marriage.

There are people on both the left and right of politics that can be very unpleasant. One of the most horrible things I recall from recent years is after the Brexit vote. Some on the remain side seized upon the data indicating that older people had been more likely to vote leave. All over Facebook (which I have long since deleted, absolute load of shite) I saw things where remainers were gleefully proclaiming that hopefully most of the older people would die soon so that they stood more chance of winning another referendum. I found that particularly repugnant. Many of them would have been talking about their parents or grandparents.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 7 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Probably best to avoid talking politics if you’re just meeting for casual sex. It’s not the same as preparing for marriage.

There are people on both the left and right of politics that can be very unpleasant. One of the most horrible things I recall from recent years is after the Brexit vote. Some on the remain side seized upon the data indicating that older people had been more likely to vote leave. All over Facebook (which I have long since deleted, absolute load of shite) I saw things where remainers were gleefully proclaiming that hopefully most of the older people would die soon so that they stood more chance of winning another referendum. I found that particularly repugnant. Many of them would have been talking about their parents or grandparents."

I mean, let other people die so we can get our way seems to be the attitude of the sink the boats sort of people. Is the problem in them being relatives we know the lives and attitudes of rather than strangers?

If that's the worst you can recall I definitely need to work harder on avoidance of the news 💜

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By *immyMcGillMan 7 weeks ago

Hornchurch


"Probably best to avoid talking politics if you’re just meeting for casual sex. It’s not the same as preparing for marriage.

There are people on both the left and right of politics that can be very unpleasant. One of the most horrible things I recall from recent years is after the Brexit vote. Some on the remain side seized upon the data indicating that older people had been more likely to vote leave. All over Facebook (which I have long since deleted, absolute load of shite) I saw things where remainers were gleefully proclaiming that hopefully most of the older people would die soon so that they stood more chance of winning another referendum. I found that particularly repugnant. Many of them would have been talking about their parents or grandparents.

I mean, let other people die so we can get our way seems to be the attitude of the sink the boats sort of people. Is the problem in them being relatives we know the lives and attitudes of rather than strangers?

If that's the worst you can recall I definitely need to work harder on avoidance of the news 💜"

Yes, the fact that it’s the people who gave birth to them and bought them up and in many cases supported them through a large part of their lives.

There’s also the gross shortsightedness that they one day will also be old. Are they saying that society will be better off if they themselves die young so they aren’t around to vote on future issues? I’m certain that their opinions will shift before they actually reach that stage. Old people will be the most important opinions of all then.

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By *immyMcGillMan 7 weeks ago

Hornchurch


"Probably best to avoid talking politics if you’re just meeting for casual sex. It’s not the same as preparing for marriage.

There are people on both the left and right of politics that can be very unpleasant. One of the most horrible things I recall from recent years is after the Brexit vote. Some on the remain side seized upon the data indicating that older people had been more likely to vote leave. All over Facebook (which I have long since deleted, absolute load of shite) I saw things where remainers were gleefully proclaiming that hopefully most of the older people would die soon so that they stood more chance of winning another referendum. I found that particularly repugnant. Many of them would have been talking about their parents or grandparents.

I mean, let other people die so we can get our way seems to be the attitude of the sink the boats sort of people. Is the problem in them being relatives we know the lives and attitudes of rather than strangers?

If that's the worst you can recall I definitely need to work harder on avoidance of the news 💜"

Also, if you want to avoid the worst of the nasty people there’s no need to avoid the news. Just don’t be on social media. Particularly Facebook. I was on it from 2007 for quite a while, but over the years I noticed that it more and more became a vehicle for morons that know absolutely nothing about anything to post their idiotic opinions and beliefs. It got to be a continuous stream of shit. I just thought it was insidious. I deleted it about five years ago now and have never missed it a bit. The only remotely ‘social media’ thing I have now is YouTube. That can be a bit the same but you just need to pick and choose which channels you watch and avoid reading the comments. Some people make really great videos about all sorts.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 7 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Yes, the fact that it’s the people who gave birth to them and bought them up and in many cases supported them through a large part of their lives.

There’s also the gross shortsightedness that they one day will also be old. Are they saying that society will be better off if they themselves die young so they aren’t around to vote on future issues? I’m certain that their opinions will shift before they actually reach that stage. Old people will be the most important opinions of all then."

Perhaps you had a more idyllic upbringing than most.

It may be more of a generational thing than an age thing. Millennials already have no hope for a future, zoomers have embraced meme nihilism with open arms. The self interest of people liable to die of old age before policies truly come to fruition is a factor. Obviously noone is defined entirely by the time frame in which they were born.

To mention gross short sightedness when those who'll be most affected aren't yet old enough to vote is fun 💜

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By *XLucy_lashezXxTV/TS 7 weeks ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Oh actually there is one tory i would defo smash . ..

Porn star Tory Black .

Oooh unspeakable things 😈😈

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By *effdelightMan 7 weeks ago

Grimsby

Why fuck a tory when we've all been fucked already

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By *ornucopiaMan 7 weeks ago

Bexley

I tend to discover that my dates are religious fanatics rather than political ones...

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By *heHookyMonsterMan 4 weeks ago

Coventry

Bigots to the left of me, Bigots to the right........hopefully 'stuck in the middle with.....' the decent folk instead!

Anyone who writes no Tories/No Lefties/whatever is someone to be avoided. Bigots who profess hate for other Bigots, while being so dense that they don't recognise their own bigotry......

Would be funny if it wasn't so pathetically sad.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan 4 weeks ago

Coventry


"I don't care about peoples politics but I do care about how they speak about people. That often rules out rabid tory voters, but similarly raging left wing lunatics who think that anyone who doesn't agree with them is a 'phobe of sorts. "

Great shout!

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By *inbad1976Man 4 weeks ago

Bristol

My kink is acceptance, which is a bastard when I fail to be able to accept people’s intolerance to difference.

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By *dalisqueWoman 4 weeks ago

land of make believe


"Yeah we’ve got a no Tory or Reform voter rule

Lefties unite. "

🩵🩵

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By *issolvedOrdersMan 4 weeks ago

Bristol


"Yeah we’ve got a no Tory or Reform voter rule

Lefties unite.

🩵🩵"

Amen

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By *ilverjagMan 4 weeks ago

swansea

Well at nearly 3am and having an insomnia moment, I'm racking my brains here, and in all the years I've been around, and in all the scenarios I've found myself in, I can honestly say that I don't remember discussions on politics or religion for that matter, ever coming up. If it did, I'd probably agree with whatever their political persuasion was, especially if I thought that it was going to get me a positive result.

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