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When you fuck do you use condoms or go bareback? |
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"When you fuck do you use condoms or go bareback? "
Bareback if can prove clean |
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Condoms with anyone new/random at a club. Bareback is only reserved for my partner and a long-term FWB. |
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"When you fuck do you use condoms or go bareback?
Bareback if can prove clean"
How does someone prove they are clean? Surely a sti test would had to of been done on the day you are having sex with them.
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"When you fuck do you use condoms or go bareback? "
either but prefer bareback but also depends on the person who are fucking
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By *udere.Couple 3 weeks ago
South West |
"When you fuck do you use condoms or go bareback? "
Definitely prefer bareback, but couldn’t ever risk it outside of our own play. |
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"When you fuck do you use condoms or go bareback?
Definitely prefer bareback, but couldn’t ever risk it outside of our own play. "
if I ever had the chance to fuck you I would fuck you bareback |
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I play bareback with regular partner/FWB and friends. Anyone new must have clean test result within the last 12 days. I can't wear condoms so no test no fucking.
Who wears a condoms for oral I don't. |
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Condoms for a meet bareback with each other |
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"I play bareback with regular partner/FWB and friends. Anyone new must have clean test result within the last 12 days. I can't wear condoms so no test no fucking.
Who wears a condoms for oral I don't. "
Why within the last 12 days? Within those 12 days they could of picked up anything and you wouldn’t know
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"Yes very very true. "
Does all common sense go out the window when a guy is horny?
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By *igad999Man 3 weeks ago
wolverhampton |
"When you fuck do you use condoms or go bareback? "
Wife doesn’t play anymore so just us for full sex
So bareback all the time as she doesn’t line condoms and like the feel of cum inside |
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Mostly bare but I don't play around. I'm just a shy very exclusive type xx |
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"When you fuck do you use condoms or go bareback?
Wife doesn’t play anymore so just us for full sex
So bareback all the time as she doesn’t line condoms and like the feel of cum inside "
It’s different when it’s your partner/wife/husband etc
Mrs |
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always start with a comdom but if i get in the zone it seems to come off, oops. |
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"always start with a comdom but if i get in the zone it seems to come off, oops."
Totally agree |
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"Bate back for me and tested "
As I said earlier a test is only valid on the day the test is done so it’s not a good indicator or anything
Mrs |
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Only ever barebacked when i'm a relationship, a friend with benefits who i trust i would consider. |
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Depends who I’m with, situation etc. and also even then it depends on how long we want it to last as I always go longer with a condom |
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With my fella bare. Everyone else condom always |
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Bare for us...our preferred way to play...but respect everyones wishes x |
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I've recently switched to bare. Feels so much better. I love being cum inside.
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For all doing bareback do you not care about your sexual health?
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Condoms 💯
Only guy gets bare is a long-term regular. |
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Condoms for meets
Bareback is just for between us |
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Condoms go casual
BB for regular |
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Condoms for meets but bare together for sure |
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"Condoms for meets but bare together for sure "
This |
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By *enelope2UWoman 2 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
If we're regular there's no restrictions |
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We all prefer bare, let’s be honest about it, but selectively, with those we trust |
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"For all doing bareback do you not care about your sexual health?
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Of course I do I'm not stupid.
Your looking for a bi man for your man while you watch well I will not fuck him bareback till I trust you both. |
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Prefer without condom but would not do it without, only with my husband. We’d rather be safe than sorry. |
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"When you fuck do you use condoms or go bareback?
Definitely prefer bareback, but couldn’t ever risk it outside of our own play.
if I ever had the chance to fuck you I would fuck you bareback "
Does she get a choice? |
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By *emma200Woman 2 weeks ago
Warwickshire |
"We all prefer bare, let’s be honest about it, but selectively, with those we trust "
This! |
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I prefer bare but it is condoms for me. Bare only with a partner, i value my health. |
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Condoms, unless it's with my other half. |
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Only done it bare. Was bareback on here few years back |
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If the lady wants safe then use a condom, but I do love bareback xx |
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I have a creampie fetish, love watching a husband unload inside his wife. I go in after but always with a condom. The reality is, I would like to go bare but seems risky. |
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Bareback all the time, never think twice |
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Condoms with randoms, condom-free with friends… |
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Condoms with meetings off here. Only bareback when in an exclusive relationship. |
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By *riel13Woman 2 weeks ago
Northampton |
Condoms... Don't even like the idea of not using one  |
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By *ulsmucCouple 2 weeks ago
Aberaeron |
Always bareback but only with clean and respectful gents x |
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Condoms. Especially if the other party says they don’t mind it bare |
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By *oobaaMan 2 weeks ago
South Shields |
bare is best But I always respect a partners wishes...if they want me to rubber up then thats 100& fine |
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"When you fuck do you use condoms or go bareback? "
Ooh see that depends on the people. If it's people I know, either or.
If its not, precautions providing proof.
But I ALWAYS prefer bare of course. |
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"Definitely with condoms, "
Bare for us, but protected with anyone else! |
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Condoms unless we really know each other’s sexual behaviour. Regular STI checks are no brainier. |
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By *oelMan 2 weeks ago
Midlands, London, Brussels |
It depends, usually condoms however if everyone is confirmed tested then open to play without in the right circumstances |
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Bare for us, but protected with anyone else |
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Condoms unless it’s someone I fully trust who I intend to see regularly. |
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"Condoms unless it’s someone I fully trust who I intend to see regularly. "
This, but bare takes a long time to get to |
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If you’re a couple, it’s expected you’ll be bare together. It’s the people you class as trusted friends you go bare with who’ll have other ‘trusted friends’ and they’ll have ‘trusted friends’ too. This is where the problem lies.
It’s all a numbers game really. Some will be lucky and never get anything, and some not so. Especially as many STD’s transmit through oral too and no one really bags up for that.
If you’re in a couple, I think you owe it to your partner to keep it safe, if nothing else. |
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I have been going bare with a lady I've been seeing over the past year from here. We both trust each other. If we meet anyone else it's strictly safe only. She's the only person I go bare with and she's on contraception so no risks. We didn't start going bare until after around 5-6 times meeting. It just feels better and you can't beat cumming inside a nice lady lol |
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Which ever they want it condom or bb |
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Varies tbh. On person/s . Usually I find it’s always couples that press for bareback on fab .
Regular Testing / prep / vacs … minimise risk but there is no such thing as safe sex unless you stop all sex other than with life partner .
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Condoms, unless Its very regular. |
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Bareback with each other, benefits of the snip, condoms always with others. We don’t need any more kids  |
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By *eckard25Man 2 weeks ago
North West Durham |
Condoms unless I know the person very well. |
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Bareback with my fella only. Condoms for everyone else |
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Always used to use condoms then moved to bareback which we both found much much sexier. Not met at all for last 4 months though |
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Which ever they want bareback or condom |
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"When you fuck do you use condoms or go bareback? "
with each other.. its always bare.. with others its always with condoms, no exceptions
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Much prefer bareback but will use condoms if asked to. |
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Prefer a trusted regular then consider bare which I much prefer.  |
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Bare looks great but I never play without. |
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Condoms. Bareback feels amazing but the potential sti isn't worth it. Although it's possible to build enough trust with a play partner that tests etc. that it significantly lowers the risk they have something and wouldn't say. |
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I'm a bare girl, I know the risks and am always honest |
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By *eatupMan 2 weeks ago
wirral |
I love both but up to the woman/couple |
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By *e101Couple 2 weeks ago
Birmingham |
Bareback with partner !
It’s always wrapped up before slapped up on others !! |
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We’re bare together always but safe when we swap with others |
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Condoms only, unless it's with a steady partner who's on the pill.
I value my life tbh. |
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Bare with our fab friends. New people safe. |
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Always safe on here. Bare is when close trusted friends |
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Condoms unless a long term partner, but would then depend on who else they are with. I was bare with an fwb until he started seeing someone else who refused to use condoms. I trusted him completely but didn’t know or trust her so made him start using condoms again. It’s just not worth the risk. |
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Bare with trusted and clean up fun |
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Condoms, unless with trusted friends |
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By *b1980Man 1 week ago
Manchester |
I let friend bb wife on first time and it was amazing seeing cum dripping out of her |
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Condoms, I can't take any other contraception. I don't agree with people taking prep either. Recipe for disaster. |
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"If you’re a couple, it’s expected you’ll be bare together. It’s the people you class as trusted friends you go bare with who’ll have other ‘trusted friends’ and they’ll have ‘trusted friends’ too. This is where the problem lies.
It’s all a numbers game really. Some will be lucky and never get anything, and some not so. Especially as many STD’s transmit through oral too and no one really bags up for that.
If you’re in a couple, I think you owe it to your partner to keep it safe, if nothing else. "
Yes this! I believe in the term, sex degrees of separation. Yeah you might trust Sally, but Sally trust Dave, who you've never met. Dave trusts Amy, who's a complete dickhead and never gets tested.
I don't want to fuck Amy by sex degrees of separation. |
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I've always gone bareback personally x |
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Me (mrs) personally don't enjoy using condoms as feel like it takes an element of the intimacy away, honestly can't remember the last time I used one, as have been in long term relationships, however now I'm with a partner who has encouraged me to explore the idea of including another person, we both agreed that condoms would take away from the moment for all involved, but again having both discussed it, bareback would only be an option for us if we both felt comfortable after a while with anyone else xx |
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Bareback is our absolute turn on, but only in a private meet (not clubs) and with all parties recently checked
Horny as fuck! Mrs once took 11 loads in one night  |
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By *manteeCouple 1 week ago
Manchester |
Em does much prefer bareback |
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By *otgirl32Woman 1 week ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
Bareback only. Yes I'm aware of the pros and cons. Love it |
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With my partners bareback, at clubs condoms. I much prefer without but safety first. |
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"Bareback always "
Lovely profile. |
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"Bareback always
Lovely profile."
Thanks |
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Bareback....never been one for condoms
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Bareback is so sexy..an occasional treat for a nice guy xx |
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"Condoms only, unless it's with a steady partner who's on the pill.
I value my life tbh. "
All sexually transmitted diseases are treatable if detected. The phrase "value my life" is very much outdated. This is why so many people are willing to go bareback. |
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We play bare as a couple as J hates the feel of a condom inside her. S play solo sometimes and will use condoms if the lady prefers that |
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By *ad2badCouple 1 week ago
walsall |
I have never been a fan of condoms much prefer bare back for sheer sexual pleaure.
Its everyone's personal choice and who they play with. My hubby is more than happy for me to play bare back with a man. |
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It's my choice to play bareback and who with, I'm regularly checked and clean. People say safe sex but will perform oral with someone they just met. |
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I use condoms with anyone new or random at a club. Bareback is reserved for my partner and a long-term friend with benefits. |
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"Bate back for me and tested
As I said earlier a test is only valid on the day the test is done so it’s not a good indicator or anything
Mrs"
Same with an MOT. But I bet the car still gets Driven |
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Whatever is requested by the other person |
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By *picy2Couple 1 week ago
essex |
"It's my choice to play bareback and who with, I'm regularly checked and clean. People say safe sex but will perform oral with someone they just met. "
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Always condoms it’s better to be safe for all parties involved |
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Always use condoms with anybody new but open to bareback if they can prove clean |
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I enjoy bareback but I can't find a pill that doesn't make me constantly bleed. |
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The people saying condoms do they not give head? .. |
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"I enjoy bareback but I can't find a pill that doesn't make me constantly bleed. "
Have you tried the depo injection completely changed my life I haven’t had a period in nearly a year after being on a period on different contraceptions for way to long |
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Condoms all they way for us, we always provide our own latex free condoms. |
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"Always use condoms with anybody new but open to bareback if they can prove clean "
And how can anyone prove they are clean on any day other than the day they had the test?
Mrs |
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Condoms.
My health is too important to me. |
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By *ypersoonMan 1 week ago
WHITCHURCH, Shropshire |
Condoms but will only go bareback if they're a regular partner (which presently hasn't happened & won't anytime soon) |
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Always with condoms! Latex free in our case! |
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bare every time with us, condoms with everyone else except very close friend we trust and they are honest with us. |
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"We prefer bare"
Thank you for the to my comment. |
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What did the dick say to the condom? COVER ME IM GOING IN! Always play safe with swingers  |
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always safe unless in a long term |
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Bare between us she hates condoms |
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Generally bare. But I don’t meet loads. |
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Really down to the woman! Personally prefer bare |
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Bare feels better but obviously condoms have there uses xx |
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"For all doing bareback do you not care about your sexual health?
Mrs"
Yep. That’s why I’m tested regularly. There are risks but i understand and accept those risks. Of all the fun things i choose to do with my life, i consider having bare sex at the low end of the risk scale. |
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"Varies tbh. On person/s . Usually I find it’s always couples that press for bareback on fab .
Regular Testing / prep / vacs … minimise risk but there is no such thing as safe sex unless you stop all sex other than with life partner .
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I second that. Especially the ones that want a black man going in raw |
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Bareback for me
When I go out and hook up, mostly bareback. Some girls have even said nah fuck that dont use it.
Since I've been swinging, I've used more condoms in this space Vs just going out on regular nights out or meeting girls out in the day. When we fuck it's mostly raw |
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"When you fuck do you use condoms or go bareback? "
I prefer bare
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"When you fuck do you use condoms or go bareback? I prefer bare "
Hottie |
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Without is much better but very risky xx oh and messy lol |
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Definitely bareback feels way more intimate x |
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Raw is more fun. Condom is safer. Mainly a mix of preferences between you and the other player(s) |
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Always protected now as not in a relationship. |
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By *ynergyMan 1 week ago
Chelmsford |
Bareback all day . What's the point without a creampie  |
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Whatever she is comfortable with.
That said, the only time I ever caught anything all we did was kiss plus a bit of boob fondling. There was no cock or pussy touching of any kind. So pretty much whatever you do comes with some risk.
And I do love licking pussy. |
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I'll do both but unfortunately with one I'm definitely not going to finish  |
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I think its upto the couples if they want to do Bareback not up to everyone else to have there's say
It's there life style not yours
Move on people
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Condom and do get tested regular |
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By *en ukMan 5 days ago
harrow London |
30% bareback, 70% condom |
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Mrs has only gone BB with married but straying FWBs.
I’m pretty sure they have good motive to behave in that situation. |
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"Condoms only, unless it's with a steady partner who's on the pill.
I value my life tbh.
All sexually transmitted diseases are treatable if detected. The phrase "value my life" is very much outdated. This is why so many people are willing to go bareback."
Treatable does not mean curable. A few hundred people die from HIV in the UK every year.
But if you want a more accurate statement, sure....
I value my health, and don't want a sore, weeping cock, with spots, rashes, lumps or any of that other shit that doesn't always go away quickly, thanks. 🤢 |
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Condoms with a new partner but can’t beat bareback with a regular partner |
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