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Does anyone else seem to come across these on a daily basis or is it just me?
Im not just talking the obvious unverified ones, some are photo verified but just scream dodge.
I've lost count of the "i really want to see my man with another woman" messages. Or, "im out of town and looking for a lady to have fun with my man while im away"
Is there anything we or admin can do to create a more robust vetting system? Or do I just need to suck it up?...so to speak  |
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Unfortunately I think it's a case of suck it up.
I had a guy message me here, then add me on Kik as the 'woman'. Saying the same things you describe, telling me to ask him for a dick pic. I reverse image searched the pics of 'her' and it was a OF girl!
Reported but profile still here. |
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I get between 5 and 10 a day from single men, who claim to be a couple.”Me and my wife are looking for….”
I suggest you make a couples profile then.
The ones that give me the shivers the most are where they send me direct photos from their phone which are at best scalped from internet, or at worst their actual partner who has zero clue her intimate pictures are being shared., in order to prove they are a couple.
The verification process on here needs to be better. |
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" I get between 5 and 10 a day from single men, who claim to be a couple.”Me and my wife are looking for….”
I suggest you make a couples profile then.
The ones that give me the shivers the most are where they send me direct photos from their phone which are at best scalped from internet, or at worst their actual partner who has zero clue her intimate pictures are being shared., in order to prove they are a couple.
The verification process on here needs to be better. "
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That’s why we have both couples and solo profiles not that hard is it 🙄 |
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" I get between 5 and 10 a day from single men, who claim to be a couple.”Me and my wife are looking for….”
I suggest you make a couples profile then.
The ones that give me the shivers the most are where they send me direct photos from their phone which are at best scalped from internet, or at worst their actual partner who has zero clue her intimate pictures are being shared., in order to prove they are a couple.
The verification process on here needs to be better. "
Exactly this! I have a couples problem as well as this one.
I do think the verification needs to be improved |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Loads. We have even had guys admit their missus doesn't know they're on here.
We've reported but nothing seems to happen as I guess it's difficult for the mods to verify.
There's also a fair few on here where couples have split up and the male keeps the profile going. We ignore profiles with no recent veris and only old pics of the female for this reason. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Get at least 4 of these a day. For that reason I’m always a bit dubious about couples on here.
Even worse are the single male profiles that claims they’re with a woman and asks you questions about what you’d do with her. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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We have had a few that start off with good convo then the person typing goes with “Mrs doesn’t like the look of your man but I’m still up for it” needless to say convo stops at that point they could be genuine and preferences do come into it but just seems a little suspicious if you ask me |
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" I get between 5 and 10 a day from single men, who claim to be a couple.”Me and my wife are looking for….”
I suggest you make a couples profile then.
The ones that give me the shivers the most are where they send me direct photos from their phone which are at best scalped from internet, or at worst their actual partner who has zero clue her intimate pictures are being shared., in order to prove they are a couple.
The verification process on here needs to be better. "
Literally had this today even as a single guy, and the other guys profile said "Mrs has made me into a cuckold" and he's asking if I want pics of her and to chat about her, so creepy and lile wtf she probably doesn't know you even took them let alone are sharing them |
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I would actually say about half the couples I talk to turn out just to be hubby. Wife is in bed, at the shops, on holiday, stopped playing etc etc etc.
Generally speaking hubby is also super horny and playing with his cock and soon asks if I want mine serviced.
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It happens all too frequently.
I am sometimes looking for females for company and fun while Matt's working away. All I get are messages from 'couples' (the male) wanting to discuss, at great length, the intimate details of what I want to do with his Mrs before he will decide if she can meet or not.
I am not saying it is a bad thing, but we have noticed that there are an ever-increasing number of couple profiles who are a COUPLE by Fab status only. Two people who previously had their own single profile, but set up a Couple profile for clubs or hoping it will open the floodgates to meets with fems or couples. They don't live together, they are only ever together for the purpose of a meet.
Matt recently set up a single M profile for when he is working away, so he's logging in as a male alone and not misleading anyone.
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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If anyone want to put us to test I’m at Ds from 2pm to video call together. I never know who these threads refer too but it doesn’t apply to us, just saying. |
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We get this regularly, it’s often me on here for various reasons, as soon as I log on it’s.. are you looking to meet up, I always ask for a chat with the f half of a couple before any meet and we insist on a group WhatsApp chat so nobody is left out, if genuinely interested it’s not so hard to accommodate |
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"Does anyone else seem to come across these on a daily basis or is it just me?
Im not just talking the obvious unverified ones, some are photo verified but just scream dodge.
I've lost count of the "i really want to see my man with another woman" messages. Or, "im out of town and looking for a lady to have fun with my man while im away"
Is there anything we or admin can do to create a more robust vetting system? Or do I just need to suck it up?...so to speak "
This happens about 10 times more than a messages from genuine couple for us. Very disheartening x |
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That's why we make a point of only meeting at clubs, then we don't risk giving anyone dubious our phone number or address.
There's a lot out there that want to chat somewhere else (TG or whatsapp) and when we first started out we found out pretty quickly that they only intend to swap pics and chat.
Usually pretty easy to spot timewasters, fakes and couples profiles with no apparent female. We just look for things like..
Have they been on over a year with no verifications.
What kind of verifications do they have and are they from well verified swingers.
What do they say in forums when you look at the green arrow.
And what does their profile and bio look like.
Unfortunately with a site like this that is not only free but also not very strict on authentication its easy for people to sign up under false pretenses.
There's a lot of us legitimate swingers here that have a great experience if navigated well and used as a tool to compliment the lifestyle. It's just a shame it's tainted with fake couples, picture collecting males and women that just want to sell content.
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"Does anyone else seem to come across these on a daily basis or is it just me?
Im not just talking the obvious unverified ones, some are photo verified but just scream dodge.
I've lost count of the "i really want to see my man with another woman" messages. Or, "im out of town and looking for a lady to have fun with my man while im away"
Is there anything we or admin can do to create a more robust vetting system? Or do I just need to suck it up?...so to speak "
Mrs Generally does enjoy me being with other women, however we tend not to message straight women just for fun with me because of this reason 🤷♂️ it's a shame because some of us are genuine and if it was the other way round it wouldn't be a problem for most to belive 🙄
Guess that's why we enjoy clubs or people we have met in person so know she loves it 😈 |
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