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By *ambtop OP Man 43 weeks ago
Cambridge |
Do you prefer to watch others fucking, or to fuck and be watched? |
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Depends on the mood  |
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By *apybarasCouple 43 weeks ago
High Lighthouse |
"Do you prefer to watch others fucking, or to fuck and be watched?"
Surely the division is between the voyeurs/exhibitionists, and those that like to turn the lights off?!
In my experience, most exhibitionists are also somewhat voyeuristic. |
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I am very much a voyeur but I also love being watched too  |
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Both, but Mrs P loves to put on a show! |
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By *aulgreen22Man 43 weeks ago
English Riviera Torquay & Finchley |
We both prefer to watch so sexy |
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Both but I'm not as subtle as I once was but can still put on a good show, I do enjoy watching couples enjoying themselves and in the past been asked to film them , we all know it's difficult to film your own escapades |
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Both but prefer to be involved |
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I enjoy both. Nothing wrong with either |
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By *andB130Couple 43 weeks ago
northampton |
We enjoy both but suppose I'm more of a voyeur as I love to watch the Mrs being fucked. |
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"We enjoy both but suppose I'm more of a voyeur as I love to watch the Mrs being fucked."
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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We love both at the same time  |
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Both! Watching just means free live action porn lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Would love to watch someone fucking ! Get my cock out and have a crafty wank ! |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Big time exhibitionist, not so much a voyeur |
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I love voyeurism but also like getting naked too. Always happy to watch but will join in if asked and then hopefully be watched too. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Can't say that I've experienced it to say |
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In a hotel room now , feeling naughty tell me a exciting pic to take and il post it publicly |
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Exhibitionists.
We like the stable doors at The Attic for this very reason. |
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By *rmrs95Couple 43 weeks ago
Chester |
Definitely both
I ( Mr ) also love it when a guy or a girl sits there playing with themselves whilst me and Mrs are going at it and my eyes lock with the third person |
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To watch if im bound up helpless wanting to join the fun |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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I absolutely love both |
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We love both, and it’s been too long now x |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Def not for us
We love playing in clubs around couples. |
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Probably prefer to watch than be watched.
Anyone who prefers to be watched give me a shout |
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By *ust_us999Couple 43 weeks ago
The sticks of north Mayo |
Watching, when taking a breather, and then quickly back into the action! |
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I love watching couples fuck but i think i’m definitely an exhibitionist as you can probably tell from my pics and vids |
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By *epheusMan 43 weeks ago
Aylesbury |
I’m definitely an exhibitionist. Love being watched when out cruising. Love other guys watching and playing with themselves when I’m on my knees sucking cock or bent over. Even better when they join in.
Love flashing neighbour next door. He’s an old guy and know he spys on me undressing in bedroom and love putting on a show for him |
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Both but deep down love to watch
Film take pics |
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"Do you prefer to watch others fucking, or to fuck and be watched?"
Both but more than happy with either |
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I'm way more exhibitionist. It really gets me off knowing people are watching and getting off themselves on what I'm doing. I can watch but I'm always projecting myself into that scenario when I do. |
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By *ambtop OP Man 43 weeks ago
Cambridge |
I've made videos of TV orgies, a couple of guys fucking 3-5 "girls". It's a turn on to know that others are watching me fucking |
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Both and also depends on the dynamics who else is there |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Very much both in a group setting |
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I would like to experience been in the same room watching a over a couple and hold the camera for them. |
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By *abonTedCouple 43 weeks ago
Midlands & Cheltenham |
He’s the voyeur and she’s the exhibitionist. Just two reasons we work so well  |
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I think it depends on who I'm with.. but there's definitely something fun about watching with a partner and saying what we find a turn on
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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I prefer to fuck |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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I wanna explore both options xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"I prefer to fuck"
Me too |
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I’m prob 60% voyeur and 40% exhibitionist |
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"Do you prefer to watch others fucking, or to fuck and be watched?
Surely the division is between the voyeurs/exhibitionists, and those that like to turn the lights off?!
In my experience, most exhibitionists are also somewhat voyeuristic."
This. Nail on head |
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"Do you prefer to watch others fucking, or to fuck and be watched?"
We love both x |
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By *sm265Woman 43 weeks ago
Perthshire |
Both. Quite often simultaneously. |
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Big ole voyeur. I'm too body conscious to be much of an exhibitionist |
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never thought I'd be an exhibitionist but it seems to work - and it means I'm having all the fun too |
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We love to be watched but my partner loves wtching |
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"Do you prefer to watch others fucking, or to fuck and be watched?"
I love watching others fuck such a big turn on for me |
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I love watching. So voyeur for me! |
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Well if there's fucking going on, I want to be part of it, I'm not bothered who watches 🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Voyeur mmmm
Used to be exhibitionist but after watching alot of videos here changed my perspective
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Both , depending on situation x |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Either is good for me |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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I honestly don't mind either tbh, being watched is super horny though |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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We're definitely more exhibitionists than voyeurs. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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To fuck and be watched turns me on |
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Depends on the situation. I like both |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Both, it's the not touching that's the tease |
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We love to play sameroom to see each other having fun |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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We like both. Mrs likes to be watched if anyone is interested |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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I’m a Perve so I love watching but I love putting on a show too |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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We both enjoy being watched |
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We both love me being watched. |
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Voyeur for sure !
Wouldn’t inflict the sight of me wriggling around like a landed wet fish on anyone |
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I’d love to respectfully watch a couple have fun, if any couples would like that let me know |
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By *ick1111Man 43 weeks ago
Near Spalding |
Call me greedy, but I love both... |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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We love watching other couples 🫣 |
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Watch , whilst tied up so I can’t even pleasure myself until allowed !! |
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I think ive always preferred being voyeur, I think theirs nothing sexier than watching others having fun |
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By *ayd100Man 43 weeks ago
clitheroe |
Bit of both, got roasted once while out dogging, turned round after I had been used to see about twelve watching. Sucked as many as I could as they cheered me on. |
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By *ambtop OP Man 43 weeks ago
Cambridge |
Went to a gay underwear fetish club once with my boyfriend. I was in a thong he was wearing panties. He got in the sling and I pulled them down to fuck him, with guys standing round watching and wanking. |
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Both, but we're probably more exhibitionist |
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I've never watched anyone (but would probably like to) but my husband and I have been watched, many years ago.
Katie |
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"Big ole voyeur. I'm too body conscious to be much of an exhibitionist"
I'd take you to a private room |
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I’m very much a voyeur and exhibitionist. |
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We love both, but I especially love to see Julie being pleasured. |
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Love to be a voyeur with full respect for boundaries for exhibitionists |
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I prefer to be watched. Huge turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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I love to watch a couple |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Both |
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By *ini1275Man 42 weeks ago
stoke on trent |
I love to watch find it so erotic x |
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Enjoy guys walking past us on nude beach when she has legs spread wide open |
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I enjoy both, watching and being ridden simultaneously |
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We're up for either or both if anyone is nearby. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Be watched |
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Both, always available for the right couple or woman |
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By *sWyldWoman 42 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
I think I'm definitely leaning more towards being an exhibitionist.
Who knew! |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Enjoy exhibition. Always wanted to voyeur but never had the chance to |
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Love a bit of both to be honest |
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In a club, we love to watch…..at first. Being around others who are playing and fucking really turns us on. |
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By *ony 2016Man 42 weeks ago
lincs /Hudd & Derby cinema |
100% voyeur ,, love watching ,, |
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Love to watch a couple …..I’d enjoy a couple watch me as well |
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Watching but love being watched wanking |
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Exhibitionist, parading in stockings |
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We love both. Love to watch and play next to another couple |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Absolutely both |
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We enjoy both , often put on a show to get others interested at club , allways works 😊 |
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By *aznjoCouple 42 weeks ago
manchester |
Love calling to a guys house and putting on a show and watching him wanking |
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By *ee1967Man 42 weeks ago
rickmansworth |
For me its both. But i did love to watch my ex wife and recent ex gf suck my hung best mate as I wanked |
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Exhibitionist in clubs. It's tunnel vision when you are enjoying someone and they are loving it too. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Exhibitionist in clubs. It's tunnel vision when you are enjoying someone and they are loving it too."
Agree with this completely |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Love showing off to absolutely anyone who wants to look |
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"Love calling to a guys house and putting on a show and watching him wanking "
I would love this |
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Mr likes to be watched , I like to watch him fuck as I fuck aswell |
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Love to watch , 100% Voyeur .. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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A bit of both |
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Bit of both. Sall really likes an audience. |
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Mrs is exhibitionist and Mr is voyeur, works perfectly for our kinks |
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For us it is both , we can be in a mixed room with many couples , or either of us watching the other with another couple. |
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I do love to watch, sometimes I purely go to a club for that.
I have no issue playing in public though. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Both |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Both. |
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I’m adding to all the ‘both’ comments. Absolutely love to watch and enjoy being watched… Might nip on cam in chat for a bit to get a fix of both  |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Love being watched by the woman’s partner…  |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Mrs loves to be watched and touched. We don't mind putting on a show |
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"She exhibitionist, he voyeur "
That’s us too. |
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I like to be watched. Although watching someone masturbate right in front of you is such a turn on. |
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Defo love to watch - would love to watch a couple fucking maybe they know or don't know I can see them. Wud be so hot |
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I like to watch such a turn on mm. |
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bloody erotic being watched and watching at the same time side by side and watch the wife reach across rubbing the other girls tits pussy or his cock as he slides in his wife, so hot |
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