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By *WB85 OP Man 43 weeks ago
Staffordshire |
I'm the male half of Cherrybakewell, and we've recently stopped meeting couples. The whole 4 way attraction and trying to please 4 people......just rarely works for us.
So our question is, do many couples play solo?
Do people find it disrespectful to message a couples account when you're only really interested in one person?
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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I find it disrespectful being asked for solo meets on our couples profile and personally I’d only ask on a profile that makes it explicitly clear they are open to meeting solo. |
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By *WB85 OP Man 43 weeks ago
Staffordshire |
"I find it disrespectful being asked for solo meets on our couples profile and personally I’d only ask on a profile that makes it explicitly clear they are open to meeting solo. "
Agreed. We wouldn't message profile that states they only play together.
Its a funny thing though. A single lady account messages a couple wanting solo meets and its an interesting dynamic.
A man messaging a couple is disrespectful. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"I find it disrespectful being asked for solo meets on our couples profile and personally I’d only ask on a profile that makes it explicitly clear they are open to meeting solo.
Agreed. We wouldn't message profile that states they only play together.
Its a funny thing though. A single lady account messages a couple wanting solo meets and its an interesting dynamic.
A man messaging a couple is disrespectful. "
I’d still find it annoying if a single lady messaged me for a solo meet  |
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By *WB85 OP Man 43 weeks ago
Staffordshire |
"I find it disrespectful being asked for solo meets on our couples profile and personally I’d only ask on a profile that makes it explicitly clear they are open to meeting solo.
Agreed. We wouldn't message profile that states they only play together.
Its a funny thing though. A single lady account messages a couple wanting solo meets and its an interesting dynamic.
A man messaging a couple is disrespectful.
I’d still find it annoying if a single lady messaged me for a solo meet "
I appreciate your gender equality lol |
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By *CExeCouple 42 weeks ago
Hong-Kong/Exeter |
We both play separately, but find the 'can we borrow Chels' messages a bit rude. I suspect given the 'unicorn' status of single girlies on here, they presume they'll get more luck messaging and asking a couple.
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I wouldnt dream of asking a couple if they meet solo, unless they bring up the subject first, then thats different... but for me to outright ask if they meet solo, even thought its stated in their profile? Nah, i just could never bring myself to ask that
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"I find it disrespectful being asked for solo meets on our couples profile and personally I’d only ask on a profile that makes it explicitly clear they are open to meeting solo.
Agreed. We wouldn't message profile that states they only play together.
Its a funny thing though. A single lady account messages a couple wanting solo meets and its an interesting dynamic.
A man messaging a couple is disrespectful. "
Oh I would never message a couples profile asking for a solo meet unless they expressed that was what they were looking for, interested in.
I think it's disrespectful regardless if a woman or man asks if they only meet as a couple. |
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As a cuck couple, it happens all the time to us on here, if Dee want to meet a guy or even a girl on her own that’s up to her, but at least start the dialogue with the couple, not just ignore one of the couple from the start. |
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We have recently started playing solo as we aren't able to meet together at this time. But we have set up solo profiles for this purpose.
Prior to this our joint profile was always very clear that we would only meet as a couple so any messages directed just at one of us were ignored |
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Yes, I think unless they've stated they meet alone, asking is a bit disrespectful.
I'm half a couple and we both have permission to meet alone, I don't really meet though at the min.
I met my partner here and we kept our solo profiles, due to how hard it is to find couples looking for the same and where there is mutual attraction. |
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I think most couples end up with the wife playing with a single male simply because the four way attraction thing is so hard for couples to pull off.
I always assume I am speaking to both people in a couple when I message but usually they are looking for her. |
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