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By *as0046 OP Man 24 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
Name something on fab that rub you the wrong way 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
When they put on the pics and videos “Fab to see more” 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️ |
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"Name something on fab that rub you the wrong way 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
When they put on the pics and videos “Fab to see more” 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️"
The list is long haha... definitely agree with not liking the captions begging for fabs, but some of ours are...
Guys asking when they can have a turn.
Guys asking us to let them know when we're going to be available, like we have a duty to inform someone we've never met.
Full swap couples that only have pics of the female....just doesn't make sense.
Guys that send pics of them fucking other women....we're not after free porn, just a face pic will do.
Pictures that say "Not Mrs" or "Not Husband"
Any messages that have zero effort or makes it difficult to have a grown up conversation. |
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Cock pics on profiles, it can be off putting as I peruse the forum. The same goes for women with just their pussy on display. I know it's a site for sex but keep them in your profile where people have the choice to look or not. |
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I love the ones who ask for people to pay for there membership  |
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Those demanding photos on first message when they have no photos at all. |
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People who have 'respectful' and 'discreet' on their profile then offer to share photos of others or have photos of others in their gallery.
Other than that the constant complaining about single men wears me down a little |
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Anyone who starts posts to bait people, then try to claim it was just a joke /fun.
Creepy feckers who dm you from from posts that they've not contributed to and try and turn it sleazy.
As forget me knot said, couple profiles, where they're after meeting women or couples and only show her. |
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“Single” men with dick pics as a profile, like if that’s your only best feature then, no thank you.
Just to top it off would be if there marred and there wife doesn’t know. |
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People who use the word c*nt as an endearing word in messages/otherwise 🤢 |
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"“Single” men with dick pics as a profile, like if that’s your only best feature then, no thank you.
Just to top it off would be if there marred and there wife doesn’t know. "
Yes!! This times a million |
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"“Single” men with dick pics as a profile, like if that’s your only best feature then, no thank you.
Just to top it off would be if there marred and there wife doesn’t know.
Yes!! This times a million "
It’s an instant delete when they message. |
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Refering to "Fab" as "Fabs".....irrational turn off for us. |
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By *as0046 OP Man 24 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
People who demand a face pic on first message why the don’t have one 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️ |
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Couples profiles that are either just a guy fantasising about what he wants his wife to do (if she exists at all) or single guys wanting to talk about their wives despite them being on a single profile. 🙄 |
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"Name something on fab that rub you the wrong way 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
When they put on the pics and videos “Fab to see more” 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️"
same people begging for fabs x |
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‘Wide awake can’t sleep’ on a status
well for one, no one gives a shit, for two I bet you a couple of quid if you put down your phone and logged out of a sex site that’s stimulating your mind it’s highly likely you won’t be wide awake,
Oh and asking for stuff like trade work, plumbers etc, in a none sexual way, is google not more efficient? Surely they are not trying to get a freebie by doing... never mind haha |
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1 more for us .
Looking in back ground of peoples pics and the house is scruffy and messy. If you can’t clean your house what’s chances other bits aren’t clean. |
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By *abs9Man 23 weeks ago
driffield |
People insisting on u having a face photo & them either refusing 2 send 1 or don’t have 1 on their profile!!! Sorry my ugly mug is all over my profile… Y not? |
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By *eyeYCouple 23 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
One overriding one, "D can watch" 🤬👎 |
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This isn’t just on Fab, but digital communication in general, when someone writes ‘If you know, you know’.
Stop trying to make yourself sound mysterious and just state what you’re talking about! 🤷♂️ |
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"This isn’t just on Fab, but digital communication in general, when someone writes ‘If you know, you know’.
Stop trying to make yourself sound mysterious and just state what you’re talking about! 🤷♂️"
I never know what they are talking about  |
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I know this site is stacked against single males but being asked by couples profiles within two messages, despite the profile having either no or few pictures and zero verifications is very frustrating - asking single males to make leaps of faith and possibly dangerous safety ones.
There’s also a LOT of vaguely racist requests here too. |
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"This isn’t just on Fab, but digital communication in general, when someone writes ‘If you know, you know’.
Stop trying to make yourself sound mysterious and just state what you’re talking about! 🤷♂️
I never know what they are talking about "
I think that’s meant to be the point - they’re the holders of exclusive information that only select individuals are exclusive enough to also posses.
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Messages that are “hey” or similar
Typing “mmmmmmm” at the beginning or end of messages
Text speak.
“Can we meet” from a silhouette profile with no pics.
The list goes on |
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By *aveonMan 23 weeks ago
Dartford |
Did I miss this one …..
People sending friend invites - no chat and then you check their profile and don’t have a single picture and can’t offer anything like even being able to accom
Face pics when they don’t have any pics themselves
Demands in a chat that make you feel like your life has to stop to suit theirs (we all mostly have a life away from here)
I must say however that mostly those I connect with are always decent
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‘Will fill in later’ on their profile text, then you notice they’ve been on the site for more than a year.
To be honest it’s a good indicator that any meet wouldn’t happen if they’re that lazy. |
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The words “play” and “fun” as euphemisms always makes me wince.
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'Will fill in later'
'Was on here previously, verify if you know me'
Non geographical locations - e.g. 'Near you' |
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A looonnnggg list of just what people don’t want or like. |
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Status asking to meet or message but has aex blocked they ask for
Commenting on forums but hiding profile |
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More and more thing's are starting to annoy me haha.
Profiles using Fab to promote their o/f content.
Single guy profiles talking about wanting someone to fuck their Mrs. Most are probably on Fab behind their partners back.
Men working away from home staying in a hotel constantly pestering Mrs to meet. I've started to block anyone who does that now.
Single guy profiles that state straight when their profile picture is them bent over spreading their cheeks.
Think I've woken up on the wrong side of the bed this morning lol. |
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Think we need to do a popular opinions thread to even out the negativity haha.
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Deffo wrong side of bed today 😂 |
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By *arand25Couple 23 weeks ago
Crowborough |
Hi how r u etc
If you can't be bothered to write decently we can't be bothered to meet you. |
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"Deffo wrong side of bed today 😂"
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Filters, filters, filters. They need banning |
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By *arand25Couple 23 weeks ago
Crowborough |
"Filters, filters, filters. They need banning "
Without the single guy messaging filter we wouldn't be here & nor would a lot of others, you have no idea how many cretins are on here.
It's a shame as there are lots of decent, honest guys.
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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People who message for the first time with a dick pic or a pic of them fucking someone else
When they say they are married, but the wife knows im on here (yip, sure she does 🙄) |
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People who aren't here for physical meets or interactions. Couldn't care less about your X, your OF or anything else in where you're not actually 'swinging' |
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When u say you arnt interested but they keep been persistent |
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By *MCMan 23 weeks ago
East Anglia |
"I love the ones who ask for people to pay for there membership "
This, or say they love being spoilt on a meet and not to forget to bring a gift (usually a bottle) if you have any intention of meeting them |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Pics of spunk dripping out of a pussy...seems a little unclassy to us. But as with everything it's each to their own isnt it! |
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When you send a DM to someone nice and friendly and fun and they don’t even read it when you have done exactly as they have asked for. Fine if you don’t want to chat or get to know me but at least read my message. |
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Disrespect
Entitlement
Passive aggressive posts/messages
Abusive messages
X |
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For me it has to be profiles with absolutely no pics having this phrase into the profile or status: “no face pic , no reply” …. Really bugs me to asked for something that yourself don’t have the decency to share either .
I really never even try to contact this profiles |
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"Filters, filters, filters. They need banning
Without the single guy messaging filter we wouldn't be here & nor would a lot of others, you have no idea how many cretins are on here.
It's a shame as there are lots of decent, honest guys.
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I mean filters that make you look like your face has lived an expressionless life yet everything else points toward something else |
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Those who say that this isn't their first rodeo, like they're some sort of cowboy.
Grown men who use the term "Lol". |
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By *inkShyWoman 23 weeks ago
near Windsor |
Demanding an instant meet.
Bombarding me with messages or "bump" to stay "on top".
Pretending we have talked before to try and make me talk now. |
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People who ask for a face pic in the second message. |
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Still see this shitty Snapchat filters, you know bunny/cat/do ears etc. still can’t believe people still post them.
Pretty much anything AI too
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By *om_38Man 23 weeks ago
stoke |
Posting and Asking for someone to pay membership |
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No pics of the guy at all on the couples profile |
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Pics on profile that have shown no effort to pose, frame or focus. Selfies are inherently unflattering without effort. |
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"Name something on fab that rub you the wrong way 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️"
Profiles that appear in a search as they have ticked looking for Tgirls...but have active block stopping Tgirls messaging them,what's that all about ?? |
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By *usurrusCouple 23 weeks ago
north, north west |
People who put their peanut butter in the fridge.
Oh and messy floors. However, we love a good radiator photo.  |
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- no profile pic
- ignoring profiles
- sending me bare back pics when I don’t do bare
- sending pics of other meets
- asking “can I ask you a question” as the first message
- thinking they are the exception to my profile
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By *s_BBWoman 23 weeks ago
close to you |
- men who copy and paste a large opening message, telling you what they’ll do to you in detail. How do you know, you don’t know me and don’t know what I like?!
- people who are rude or are persistent when you’ve politely declined
- messages from photoless profiles expecting to engage in in-depth conversations.
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The wink & friend request combo |
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Multiple messages over a short period of time. We had one recently that started with 'Gangbang at mine?' followed by 8 different versions of 'R U interested' within an hour. |
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Sydney Uni disclaimers.
Everyone knows the published in 2017.
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People I've never spoken to messaging me simply to tell me they're "free now". |
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Photos of a cock whilst sat on the loo with their pants round their ankles lol
and messages that say... hey, how's fab working out for you...
Vix xx |
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By *as0046 OP Man 23 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
When your call there selves princess or Barbie doll 🤮🤮
We still know your shit stinks 🤣🤣 |
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"People I've never spoken to messaging me simply to tell me they're "free now". "
There's been an outbreak of those recently. |
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Friend requests when we have never spoke or met.
Single men with lots of photos of women being fucked are they aware their photos are being used? Probably not.
Being called vanilla and boring because we don’t go bareback and take our sexual health seriously.
Calling us names because we politely ask that you don’t refer to my ladies parts as the C word.
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By *inkShyWoman 23 weeks ago
near Windsor |
I take particular offence when I get a message telling me I look like I'm "built to take this BBC/BWC", and getting irritated by the "Can I ask you a naughty question?" |
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When someone winks me and then don't reply to my message really makes me wonder what the hell i did wrong 😂 |
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"When someone winks me and then don't reply to my message really makes me wonder what the hell i did wrong 😂"
We have that all the time they wink us and we normally start with thanks for the wink how are you ? Get absolutely nothing back ?
Also had a couple recently that asked for a last minute meet which we normally can’t do, replied the SECOND we read it to say yes we can today, what place and what time only to be completely ignored. Makes no sense ? |
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When they log on and don't bother to read your message. Irritates the shit out of me! |
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Sex seems to take over some people's lives way too much, it's kinda sad to see.
Mrs |
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"People who put their peanut butter in the fridge.
Oh and messy floors. However, we love a good radiator photo. "
...and bananas too. Bad in the fridge. |
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I (Char) hate...
* No profile picture.
* Text language in messages.
* Telling a guy politely that he's not my type, to get "what is your type then", like he can change.
* Guys who say safe sex only, but all their 100 pics are of him fucking various women bareback.
* Racists
* Homophobics
* General c**ts |
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People thinking a forum post is an invite to reply by private message with something totally unrelated to the topic they are replying to.
It’s a straight delete and sometimes block just for the rudeness. |
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By *as0046 OP Man 23 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
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By *as0046 OP Man 23 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
People who ask for face pics but they don’t have one.
Women who hate dick pics but all the photos they have are close up pics of the pussy.
Women who say they don’t like to see pics of men hanging out of the the back of other women but they have 100 of them of men hanging out the back of them.
Double standards are brutal 🤣🤣 |
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"I love the ones who ask for people to pay for there membership "
This, and they say they'll upload a video for you, big deal! |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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That lobster is all that. |
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Straight men who complain about being messaged or fabbed by gay men, while messaging every women and couple in a 50 mile radius regardless of the preferences of those women and couples. |
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No pictures
No verifications
'Free Now?' or 'Hey'
No profile message
It isn't that hard... |
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Peeps who feel they're owed something regardless of effort or fairness. |
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People that put something passive aggressive about time wasters on they're profile, and then proceed to waste there own time messaging me when my profile clearly states they're not what I'm seeking.
Fab status updates |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Being mentally stable and respecting people’s boundaries on here well regarded |
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Brand new couples with no verifications who put “Face pic in 1st message or message deleted “. |
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Really short single sentence messages with no context outside of any variation of "sucking me off" |
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Silhouette profiles , sending a message
“” hi any pics “ |
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The lack of attention “most” guys put into their pictures
When you can see they guy probably has a nice body but every single picture is of their cock |
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"Women who hate dick pics but all the photos they have are close up pics of the pussy.
Women who say they don’t like to see pics of men hanging out of the the back of other women but they have 100 of them of men hanging out the back of them.
Double standards are brutal 🤣🤣"
They're not double standards, they're knowing their market. In general women don't want to see loads of genitals or action shots, but men do. So the types of pics that work better attracting women aren't the same as those attracting men. |
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By *hynot xCouple 23 weeks ago
Woop Woop |
Tributes of people wanking and cuming over their phone/tablet 🤢 |
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By *F25Man 23 weeks ago
kent |
shy to say hi but keep looking at your profile. say hey |
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People who ask for opinions or pics on forums but have blocked your sex (or age maybe idk) |
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Messages from men saying how many time wasters and crazy people there are on here.
The 'erotica' as an opening message. "I come in the door to find you bent over..." etc 🤢 |
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"Those demanding photos on first message when they have no photos at all."
I giggle as well
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Anything on our profile that tick any of these boxes? |
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Messages saying "can I ask you a question?".
To which we reply, "you just have". |
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"Messages saying "can I ask you a question?".
To which we reply, "you just have"."
Or can I ask you something cheeky to which we reply that 9/10 it’s going to be a no but fill your boots and it’s normally permission to wank over our pics, and as I always say well if we say yes you will and if we say no you still will so what’s the point in asking… |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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They initiate a conversation then don’t reply? Like you started this nonsense |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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The one word messages are definitely most annoying for us.
Also, single men who message and say their partner has no interest in sex anymore. We ask if its okay if we chat with their partner to confirm they are aware of them using the site but then get abuse normally. Oh we do laugh!! |
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Guys who have their age set at 47 then say in the profile text "site messed up, I'm actually 27".......no darling, that's because YOU lied when setting up your account! |
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By *as0046 OP Man 23 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
"Women who hate dick pics but all the photos they have are close up pics of the pussy.
Women who say they don’t like to see pics of men hanging out of the the back of other women but they have 100 of them of men hanging out the back of them.
Double standards are brutal 🤣🤣
They're not double standards, they're knowing their market. In general women don't want to see loads of genitals or action shots, but men do. So the types of pics that work better attracting women aren't the same as those attracting men."
🤦🏻♂️ taking the hump because they live in the double standards. |
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By *as0046 OP Man 23 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
People who can do either. Can’t accommodate or can’t travel. So how are we suppose to meet 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️ |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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"People who can do either. Can’t accommodate or can’t travel. So how are we suppose to meet 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️"
Agreed 😂 |
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No photo, no reply…..
Maybe some people don’t want there face to be shown until they are comfortable with the chat… |
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Couples who repeatedly view my profile but aren't looking for single men |
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By *F25Man 23 weeks ago
kent |
you gey a message. you reply. then they dont ever and it was a simple hi or simple question |
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Single men who completely ignore D when messaging, and don’t pay him any heed.
Yes we primarily play with single men, and sometimes only I play while D watches, and we get that you want to talk to a woman not a man, but this is as much for him as me and we come as a team. If you can’t show him respect to even include him when messaging, what’s the chances you will if we meet |
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Oh, and “free now?” As a opening message |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Cats aren’t a legitimate pet |
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Couples accounts with pictures of the female only!
Half of a couple looking for a female to treat their partner - I'm not a human sex toy.
Look elsewhere for a professional lady!
Couples who actually expect a lone female (who doesn't drive) who has never met them to turn up at their house in a remote area, start drinking then have sex with them both - look elsewhere for a professional lady! |
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"Cats aren’t a legitimate pet"
Err🤔 have we missed something |
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By *as0046 OP Man 22 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
"Cats aren’t a legitimate pet
Err🤔 have we missed something"
🤣🤣🤣 |
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"you gey a message. you reply. then they dont ever and it was a simple hi or simple question"
It might be because your message was hard to read
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By *as0046 OP Man 22 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
Poly or pans
Stop bring the kitchen in to this 🧐 |
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This type of post 😂
Everyone whinging about something others are doing
Just enjoy it for yourself and don’t worry what everyone else is doing
I can assure you I have an extremely unpopular opinion
And it’s probably the above comment 😂
XXX and probably that to 😂 |
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Sending and message the message is read no reply after 6 weeks but not deleted |
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"fab is a public traded company"
"Facebook is a public traded company"
Cambridge university.
What an absolute load of shite |
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By *as0046 OP Man 22 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
When she hasn’t messaged in six months and then messages for Valentine’s Day 😂😂 |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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‘Scooby-do’ profiles… where they upload the same videos over and over again day after day. If the video didn’t get attention the first 500 times, it won’t work at attempt 501! |
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By *as0046 OP Man 22 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
"‘Scooby-do’ profiles… where they upload the same videos over and over again day after day. If the video didn’t get attention the first 500 times, it won’t work at attempt 501!"
I’ve notice this as well 🤣🤣
Or they up load the same every few months looking for attention |
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Can't travel can't accommodate no cars or hotel meets |
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"Name something on fab that rub you the wrong way 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
When they put on the pics and videos “Fab to see more” 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️"
More like when they put "Fab to fuck". Never had an invite yet!!
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"Can't travel can't accommodate no cars or hotel meets"
Yes! Do they just stand in the street waiting for sex?! |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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""fab is a public traded company"
"Facebook is a public traded company"
Cambridge university.
What an absolute load of shite"
It really is. Even the site has a bit stating the Sydney Uni stuff is all untrue in their FAQ’s. Lump them in with the ‘fab to fuck’ lot (who are clearly just using the site to divert people to other sites where people have to pay or subscribe to see their stuff) |
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By *inkShyWoman 22 weeks ago
near Windsor |
When a man messages me out of the blue saying "I bet you taste great", "You look tasty", "I'd love to taste you","You look juicy".
I'm not a bloody steak or peach. |
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By *F25Man 22 weeks ago
kent |
viewing profile several times but never saying hey |
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“ Daddy’s little slut, I want my daddy’s spunk , I’m daddy’s spunk dump “
Everyone into their own stuff but I never will understand how something that can mean something so horrendous in a child’s life can be somehow sexualised n be a massive turn on.
I said this to a fella other day who messaged us on about it and I said it’s too close to abuse, his first reply was “ Oooo have you been abused “
Each to own but for us it’s an absolute no no |
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When I get messages that say ‘your near by’ |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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Men describing themselves as ‘Vikings’ when they’re not from Scandanavia in the years between 800 and 1050AD, they’re from Coventry in 2026 and just have a beard and a couple of shit tattoos. |
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By *inkShyWoman 22 weeks ago
near Windsor |
"Men describing themselves as ‘Vikings’ when they’re not from Scandanavia in the years between 800 and 1050AD, they’re from Coventry in 2026 and just have a beard and a couple of shit tattoos."
😂😂 |
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"Men describing themselves as ‘Vikings’ when they’re not from Scandanavia in the years between 800 and 1050AD, they’re from Coventry in 2026 and just have a beard and a couple of shit tattoos."
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By *as0046 OP Man 22 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
"Men describing themselves as ‘Vikings’ when they’re not from Scandanavia in the years between 800 and 1050AD, they’re from Coventry in 2026 and just have a beard and a couple of shit tattoos."
Women with shit tattoos as well 🤣🤣 |
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That BrightonSteve is a complete and utter cretin. |
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By *as0046 OP Man 22 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
"That BrightonSteve is a complete and utter cretin. "
Yeah true 🤣🤣 |
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Profiles that contact you believing themselves to be superior, like we owe them something; they find "no thank you" for an answer difficult to absorb and then they feel the need to hurl abuse...!
Still, I don't allow it to phase me because Fabswingers has a clever function "block" 🤣🤣🤣
Bullet dodged....!
99.99% these kinda peeps believe themselves to be DOM but have a tiny lil pecker & think they're the dogs bollocks, ego has no boundaries, simply delusional. In addition, they never read profile and feel the need to ask questions for which if they'd read profile, they've already an answer to their questions raised...!
The irony...! |
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Can I ask a question?
No you bloody cant, you used up your chance of making a positive first impression with a pointless empty message
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By *as0046 OP Man 22 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
"Can I ask a question?
No you bloody cant, you used up your chance of making a positive first impression with a pointless empty message
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Sure you don’t want that question?? 🤣🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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Blokes that ask if they can spoil me and then follow up with a message saying ‘£££’ like I’m available for rent or available for auction or selling it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"Can I ask a question?
No you bloody cant, you used up your chance of making a positive first impression with a pointless empty message
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There’s a guy on here that sends you a pic of him wearing a hairpiece and a message saying “can I ask you anything?”… have you had him message yet? |
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By *as0046 OP Man 22 weeks ago
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"Can I ask a question?
No you bloody cant, you used up your chance of making a positive first impression with a pointless empty message
There’s a guy on here that sends you a pic of him wearing a hairpiece and a message saying “can I ask you anything?”… have you had him message yet?"
😱😱 no I haven’t. You must be one of the lucky ones 🤣 |
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By *he HMFsCouple 22 weeks ago
Stratford Upon Avon |
Sweatpants. Instant turn off. |
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"Can I ask a question?
No you bloody cant, you used up your chance of making a positive first impression with a pointless empty message
There’s a guy on here that sends you a pic of him wearing a hairpiece and a message saying “can I ask you anything?”… have you had him message yet?"
He has messaged me that a few times |
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3 second videos. What's the point? |
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By *as0046 OP Man 22 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
Valentine’s Day 🤦🏻♂️ it can real fuck off now |
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"Name something on fab that rub you the wrong way 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
When they put on the pics and videos “Fab to see more” 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
The list is long haha... definitely agree with not liking the captions begging for fabs, but some of ours are...
Guys asking when they can have a turn.
Guys asking us to let them know when we're going to be available, like we have a duty to inform someone we've never met.
Full swap couples that only have pics of the female....just doesn't make sense.
Guys that send pics of them fucking other women....we're not after free porn, just a face pic will do.
Pictures that say "Not Mrs" or "Not Husband"
Any messages that have zero effort or makes it difficult to have a grown up conversation. "
Single guys sending us a video of them fucking a women is a massive red flag for us, we always report it. You have no clue if that girl has given permission |
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Photos when the background of the house is really messy or horrible
Or men who have cocks pics taken in the toilet or bathroom, screams secret married man to us |
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"The lack of attention “most” guys put into their pictures
When you can see they guy probably has a nice body but every single picture is of their cock"
Note to self, add more cock pics from a hundred different angles 😂 |
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By *as0046 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Stourbridge |
When they ask for real man then you can’t handle it 🤣🤣 |
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When they call themselves professional people
That makes my 💩 itch |
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When they have a requirement list as long as your arm |
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When you look at the background of a picture and the place is filthy if they cant clean the house they cant clean themselves
They must smell like Bigfoots Bell end ffs |
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"Can I ask a question?
No you bloody cant, you used up your chance of making a positive first impression with a pointless empty message
There’s a guy on here that sends you a pic of him wearing a hairpiece and a message saying “can I ask you anything?”… have you had him message yet?
He has messaged me that a few times "
Not since he's been blocked. Used to be an almost daily occurrence.
Often wonder if anyone actually replies 🤣🤣🤣 |
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Funnily I was coming online to start a thread on this very subject.
In no particular order.
Wanting photos when they have none showing themselves.
Any mention of seeking an ‘alpha’ - think you need to go and do some reading about where the whole ‘Alpha’ bollocks comes from and what it means.
Lots of close up pictures of cocks and pussy, yeah we all know what they look like, but what’s the rest of you look like?
Complaints that people don’t chat on here, omg most chats are like trying to pull teeth and when you do get a response most of the time it’s short and they don’t give you anything to work with.
This one is rather specific - Complaints from clear fit and attractive people that they can’t find anyone.
No it’s you’ve set yourself unrealistic standards, there are plenty of people on here who would be more that willing to get together with you, some of whom will be pretty close to your unrealistic standards.
That’s about it.
Now I’ve put FAB to rights just need to sort myself out, lol.
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"Hi how's you" messages 🥴 we get absolutely tons of them and if we replied to them all, we'd never get a day off haha.
Also pictures that say "not the hubby" or "not the Mrs" as if that isn't what swinging is about haha. |
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People with names like pussy destroyer, alpha dom bull instant delete and People messaging who clearly havn't read what we are looking for |
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"Refering to "Fab" as "Fabs".....irrational turn off for us."
Huh, it's fabswingers isn't it... Wingers whom are fabs? |
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Couples that strike up a conversation that’s actually not so bad then block you out of nowhere |
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"Men describing themselves as ‘Vikings’ when they’re not from Scandanavia in the years between 800 and 1050AD, they’re from Coventry in 2026 and just have a beard and a couple of shit tattoos.
😂😂"
Totally |
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By *inkShyWoman 21 weeks ago
near Windsor |
Someone telling you they've seen a fake profile of your pics. But won't give you the name because you've never talked before. |
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Couples who arrange to meet and when you do, it’s a single man and not a couple.
And that’s why I do not verify people. Also entitled profiles that demand this and that.
“Dont have a dick on your profile!” But it’s alright having your battered lasagne out for the world to dip garlic bread in!
Also men pretending to be women, why?
Also location….” Over the rainbow, somewhere, in your dreams “ really!!
“Fab if you wanna eat this pussy” “hang on I’ll get my garlic bread”
Rant over
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The ran out of messages cry for attention. I think of it as you have no messages. |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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The fawning veri's from women to guys they've met. Grinds my gears.
If the fucker is that fantastic, marry him, why wait until "Can't wait for our next meet, don't let this one get away girls!"
Well you obviously did!
Or the guys to girls, "I'm gentleman, I never kiss and tell. You'll just have to find out for yourselves."
You didn't even get a sniff of her knickers, it was a coffee meet veri hoping for a veri in return to help you actually get your dick wet!
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Nothing dries me up quicker than messages and profiles that use derogatory names for women. Some people enjoy that, but at least pick your audience
Also darling and dear…its so insincere
I need to stop ranting or someone will post ranty forum posts piss them off |
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By *hynot xCouple 21 weeks ago
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"Nothing dries me up quicker than messages and profiles that use derogatory names for women. Some people enjoy that, but at least pick your audience
Also darling and dear…its so insincere
I need to stop ranting or someone will post ranty forum posts piss them off "
Ranting forum posts really piss me off... 😉 |
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Threads like this where everyone is having a moan  |
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No face pic no reply - someone with no facepics 😂 |
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"Someone telling you they've seen a fake profile of your pics. But won't give you the name because you've never talked before. "
Ha I get that line sent me to a lot as an attempt at trying to get me to talk |
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By *inkShyWoman 21 weeks ago
near Windsor |
"Someone telling you they've seen a fake profile of your pics. But won't give you the name because you've never talked before.
Ha I get that line sent me to a lot as an attempt at trying to get me to talk "
Pathetic, isn't it? If anything it annoys you and makes you block them! |
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Had it this morning. Blocked as usual. |
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