"It seems that if your not a full swap couple the majority of people here are not interested?"
There are a few of us who are soft swap only, but people do try to push for more.
We just stick to our choices, soft swap is lots of fun! |
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By *aandLoCouple 21 weeks ago
Southampton |
We agree that soft swap can be a lot of fun.
For us as the social connection is important, so playing to whatever level is enjoyable and fun for everyone is a fabulous extension of that social.
We full swap, MFM, MMMF, MMMFF, play in groups etc etc and enjoy all the dynamics with the right people. |
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"We agree that soft swap can be a lot of fun.
For us as the social connection is important, so playing to whatever level is enjoyable and fun for everyone is a fabulous extension of that social.
We full swap, MFM, MMMF, MMMFF, play in groups etc etc and enjoy all the dynamics with the right people."
Yep same for us. We are more than comfortable with full swap but some of our best meets have Ben soft swap. It all depends on connection and circumstance.
Clubs might be a good place to go, that's actually where we have had the most soft swap experiences, when hands start wandering in the couples room  |
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We're not bothered either way, full or soft swap. We've had some really hot soft swaps. For us it's more about the chemistry and how we melt together than the technically of who stuck who's penis in who. I think for us the main thing is chemistry and that they both kiss. Kissing is really important to us. |
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"It seems that if your not a full swap couple the majority of people here are not interested?"
Agree
We have only just changed our boundaries and allow full swap but no other couples seemed interested in soft swap which we still love |
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By *aandLoCouple 21 weeks ago
Southampton |
"We agree that soft swap can be a lot of fun.
For us as the social connection is important, so playing to whatever level is enjoyable and fun for everyone is a fabulous extension of that social.
We full swap, MFM, MMMF, MMMFF, play in groups etc etc and enjoy all the dynamics with the right people.
Yep same for us. We are more than comfortable with full swap but some of our best meets have Ben soft swap. It all depends on connection and circumstance.
Clubs might be a good place to go, that's actually where we have had the most soft swap experiences, when hands start wandering in the couples room "
Yes, we enjoy the natural development in couples rooms at clubs. We've had 3 couples all merge together for soft play while being fucked by their partner. Very hot! |
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By *avidNPMan 21 weeks ago
manchester |
Very hard to find a couple that’s wants fill swap with me and my trans gf. It always just seems the male wants her and I’m pushed out and the female isn’t interested at all. Lots of single guys want her but not to join is both. We want couples and females but all we get is guys wanting to try it out with a trans woman as some kind of experience for them. That’s not much fun for us. |
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By *eeNKayCouple 21 weeks ago
Stockport |
We've had some great soft swap experiences in groups in the couples room at clubs.
Being open to full swap isn't thecsame thing as actively looking for it too.
Have to say, outside of clubs (and often at clubs...) what we get are folks looking for Kay as a "full swap" unicorn and pretending Tee isn't there once they find out penetration might be on the menu for the other penis. |
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By *avidNPMan 21 weeks ago
manchester |
"We've had some great soft swap experiences in groups in the couples room at clubs.
Being open to full swap isn't thecsame thing as actively looking for it too.
Have to say, outside of clubs (and often at clubs...) what we get are folks looking for Kay as a "full swap" unicorn and pretending Tee isn't there once they find out penetration might be on the menu for the other penis."
Similar story to mine. Nearly all the time we get chatting a turns out it’s Dee they want. They think I can be pushed out. That won’t happen. |
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