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What’s something newbies always get wrong?
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They don't always get the same thing wrong.
We assumed everyone was discreet, respectful and honest when we started out .  poor naive fools that we were .
*Some* people have wildly unrealistic expectations when they start swinging which includes us I guess |
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By *ero5 OP Man 2 weeks ago
London |
"They don't always get the same thing wrong.
We assumed everyone was discreet, respectful and honest when we started out . poor naive fools that we were .
*Some* people have wildly unrealistic expectations when they start swinging which includes us I guess "
So it’s more about managing expectations than anything else? |
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"They don't always get the same thing wrong.
We assumed everyone was discreet, respectful and honest when we started out . poor naive fools that we were .
*Some* people have wildly unrealistic expectations when they start swinging which includes us I guess
So it’s more about managing expectations than anything else? "
Yes I think so. We had unrealistic expectations which we soon adjusted. A lot of people expect it will be very easy to meet people for sex, a lot expect people to be exactly who they purport to be, a lot of people expect everyone to be truthful. A lot of people are disappointed |
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Apparently, they join the masses who expect almost instantaneous sex. wanted by everyone logged in, at any time of the day or night
A pic taken with the quality of the 1st phone cameras, of anything, should satisfy anyone
Copying and pasting several thousand words of disclaimers, more than your 'Fill in later' profile text, will prevent anything, even a nuclear apocalypse |
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"Very much a newbie so any advice is greatly appreciated guys and girls "
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My dear chap, the usual protocol is to create your own thread and ask for advice, as opposed to hijacking someone else's thread. The reason being other people might also start asking for advice and then we don't know whose advice is being offered to whom. |
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By *tr1990Man 2 weeks ago
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"Very much a newbie so any advice is greatly appreciated guys and girls
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My dear chap, the usual protocol is to create your own thread and ask for advice, as opposed to hijacking someone else's thread. The reason being other people might also start asking for advice and then we don't know whose advice is being offered to whom."
Ah very true my apologies all. |
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"Very much a newbie so any advice is greatly appreciated guys and girls
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My dear chap, the usual protocol is to create your own thread and ask for advice, as opposed to hijacking someone else's thread. The reason being other people might also start asking for advice and then we don't know whose advice is being offered to whom.
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Ah very true my apologies all. "
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No apologies necessary. ⚜️ |
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We thought this would be a walk in the park. We used a different platform before fab got photo sharked several times and then had a failed meet ghosted on the day.
Joined fab bombarded with dick pics and “want to fuck” messages filtered out the single men to get some breathing space and then its failed messages no responses or blocked
Swinging is a very difficult hobby 🤣 |
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By *ero5 OP Man 2 weeks ago
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"We thought this would be a walk in the park. We used a different platform before fab got photo sharked several times and then had a failed meet ghosted on the day.
Joined fab bombarded with dick pics and “want to fuck” messages filtered out the single men to get some breathing space and then its failed messages no responses or blocked
Swinging is a very difficult hobby 🤣"
Sounds like you’ve been through the wars. I hope it gets easier for you. |
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