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By *ancs29 OP Man 13 hours ago
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Some people put a lot of time, effort, and thought into crafting the perfect message—non-pushy, genuine, and respectful—only to have them sit unread or ignored for long periods. I understand that women and couples probably get thousands of messages each day, but despite sending around 40 messages daily, I haven’t received a single reply, not even a “thank you” or a simple request for a picture. In 12 months, I’ve likely sent about 1,000 messages and only once did someone ask for a photo before saying I wasn’t for them. It feels like this site is overrun with greedy guys who only care about chasing as many conquests as possible rather than genuinely connecting with just one person. No matter where you go, it seems people like that push others to the sidelines. It’s incredibly frustrating to open my inbox hoping for a positive response after all the effort, only to be disappointed again and again. Maybe I expect too much, but after a year, I would have thought I could meet at least one woman or couple, even for a one-time meet, yet I can’t say I have. |
