How often do you and your partner attend swinger clubs/events or meet other couples to keep things exciting without it starting to feel routine We’re curious how other couples balance frequency anticipation, and keeping the spark alive do you find less frequent visits make it more exciting or does regular play work better ? |
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We go every 8 weeks or so, but maybe only involve others once or twice. The voyeurism aspect of it means we have a good time regardless, plus access to things we don't have at home like a sex swing etc. |
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Juggling parental responsibilities we trnd to go to events at least once a month. Try to find kink focussed events
Never played with others we satisfy our exhibitionist side and make use of dungeons.
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once a month or every two sounds ideal to us aswell we dont want to burn out because at the moment it really is exciting we havnt played with anyone in a private room etc only used to gloryholes and soo far had alot of fun
do you find private meets better than clubs ? |
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"once a month or every two sounds ideal to us aswell we dont want to burn out because at the moment it really is exciting we havnt played with anyone in a private room etc only used to gloryholes and soo far had alot of fun
do you find private meets better than clubs ? "
In the 9 years we've been going to clubs we've seen so many couples "burn" themselves out. Some were going to clubs every weekend but ended up splitting up. Maybe if they'd concentrated on each other more and were swinging occasionally they'd of had a happier ending. |
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