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Hotel meet yes/no and why?
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By *aandLoCouple 2 days ago
Southampton |
We love a hotel. Feels that bit naughtier.
We don't worry about noise except on one occasion when the lady checking in at the same time as us, then followed us to the room next door.
We were meeting a sexy friend for a threesome, while the lady looked like she would be in the room for the evening. We requested to move.
Felt awkward having met her when we knew we'd (well, Mrs!) be a bit noisy for quite a few hours. 🤣 |
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Hotel. Always. It's neutral territory, convenient and secure.
I meet for a social (or two) first before taking things further at a future date.
There is much delight in the notion of meeting someone at a hotel bar, imbibing and taking our sexual frisson to the next level, before being sequestered into a comfortable room and embarking on a dalliance that lingers for days after. |
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By *WB85Man 2 days ago
Staffordshire |
"No, was held against my will once in a hotel room, never again unless I know them
Can I ask what you find safer?
I prefer clubs, there are lots of people around "
That makes sense...its always a risk meeting a new person.
I've never enjoyed the club scene so its not an option for me.
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Yes for us, more convenient in the city centre.
We also use it as a filter... if a single guy messages us for a 3sum we tell them to book a hotel and we'll be there. 99% of the time they immediately vanish!
Funny that! 💋 |
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Yes for us, more convenient in the city centre.
We also use it as a filter... if a single guy messages us for a 3sum we tell them to book a hotel and we'll be there. 99% of the time they immediately vanish!
Funny that! 💋 |
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Hell yes,
Bar downstairs so ideal for the initial social, mutual ground, other people about so safe etc
Room above if the meet progresses to that point
Regularly in hotels mid week but sadly lots won’t meet visitors to the area even if I’m there all through the year regularly |
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"Yes for us, more convenient in the city centre.
We also use it as a filter... if a single guy messages us for a 3sum we tell them to book a hotel and we'll be there. 99% of the time they immediately vanish!
Funny that! 💋"
, stupid isn't it |
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We would only ever meet in a hotel. There’s no way we would give strangers our home address especially as we have kids at home and I (Gem) wouldn’t feel comfortable going to someone else’s home unless we became regular and I knew them really well. However how well can you actually know someone you casually meet for sex 🫣 |
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"We would only ever meet in a hotel. There’s no way we would give strangers our home address especially as we have kids at home and I (Gem) wouldn’t feel comfortable going to someone else’s home unless we became regular and I knew them really well. However how well can you actually know someone you casually meet for sex 🫣"
, well I've met some at home and found very cosy and private, but as you said when someone you do not trust, it is a solution
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By *sWyldWoman 2 days ago
Edinburgh |
"Here we go, we have to treat the queen, so why then hotel?"
I don't expect others to foot the bill. I very happily pay my own way.
I prefer them because its neutral ground. You close the door and can shut the world away and get lost in pleasure.
I personally don't want anyone in my home and unless I'm really comfortable don't really want to go to someone else's. |
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"We would only ever meet in a hotel. There’s no way we would give strangers our home address especially as we have kids at home and I (Gem) wouldn’t feel comfortable going to someone else’s home unless we became regular and I knew them really well. However how well can you actually know someone you casually meet for sex 🫣, well I've met some at home and found very cosy and private, but as you said when someone you do not trust, it is a solution "
Why would you have sex with someone you didn't trust? 🤔 |
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"We would only ever meet in a hotel. There’s no way we would give strangers our home address especially as we have kids at home and I (Gem) wouldn’t feel comfortable going to someone else’s home unless we became regular and I knew them really well. However how well can you actually know someone you casually meet for sex 🫣, well I've met some at home and found very cosy and private, but as you said when someone you do not trust, it is a solution
Why would you have sex with someone you didn't trust? 🤔"
I think when you are meeting strangers for sex it would be foolish to totally trust them. I guess I’m in a fortunate position that I would only meet first time private meets with my husband so can totally understand why single people would have even more trust issues |
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Yeah, I can't help be but be amazed at the number of people that clearly fine totally fine about showing up to the hotel room of someone they've never met before, and might only have exchanged some messages with 🙃
Clubs and socials all the way to start with, then go from there for me. |
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"Yeah, I can't help be but be amazed at the number of people that clearly fine totally fine about showing up to the hotel room of someone they've never met before, and might only have exchanged some messages with 🙃
Clubs and socials all the way to start with, then go from there for me."
I guess you could apply that to any first time meet though not just at hotels |
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