So if you turn up for a meet and your playmate or mates are hammered or off their face, do you leave or crack on?
I would make my excuses and go, I find wasted folk very annoying unless I’m in a similar condition |
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if someone needs to be high or tipsy / d*unk then im going nowhere near then if i turn up and this then i simply walk away ...
same goes for tipsy/d*unk in clubs i/we totally avoid..
also the amount of men who message me wanting to get booze involved ..i wonder why???
plus if a person is tipsy/d*unk then consent goes out the window and that spells trouble sadly mainly for guys |
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For some blokes, like my self.
I am very shy and nervous when I meet anyone new any where.
I have very little self confidence.
So a couple of drinks to me would help me be more relaxed and un shy,
But I would take it to the point where I would be bladdeed to the point I couldn't walk straight.
For some it helps.
But for substance abuse (cocaine).
Then I would definitely walk away or even use.
I openly admit I was an addict.
2 and half year clean now.
So if I seen anyone using in front of me then no thanks.
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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There’s a lot of room to question with this thread. We’ve had party nights at ours drinking with tunes on for hours and invited people round for a drink and chill leading to fun afterwards but would always tell our potential meet almost immediately that we were drinking, like you should. Most times this happens it’s usually one of our regulars invited though. Same way that if we arranged a meet through the day or wasn’t partying we’d expect to be told if they’d be drinking, or taken. Would completely understand someone walking away from a scenario the OP has put if no one was made aware and walked in to them more than merry |
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"We don’t play with anyone who has “HnH” in their profile. We see enough smackheads in every day life, never mind in swinging.
What does HnH mean?"
High and horny.
Nobody heard of urban dictionary anymore? |
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By *essTTWoman 7 weeks ago
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"So if you turn up for a meet and your playmate or mates are hammered or off their face, do you leave or crack on?
I would make my excuses and go, I find wasted folk very annoying unless I’m in a similar condition "
This happened to me once and I genuinely didn't understand what was happening
We carried on but I didn't realise he had taken drugs until It was too late
He messaged me and apologised the next day but I just blocked him
Thankfully it hasn't happened since but if would defo leave, as long as it was safe for me to do so, if i got that inkling again |
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