I've been cheated on. Found out reading exs diary. Felt sick from betrayal and was hard as fuck. I've always wanted my partners to cheat on me since, but let me know at some point.
I have cheated in the past. There were times it was a turn on, but usually it happened when things weren't great and I was being treated like crap and I should have left. Cheating or being cheated on is a huge turn on for me though. |
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I've had a couple of flings with married women.
In the first her husband knew and didn't like it at all, especially that I was barebacking with her (vasectomy after my four kids but he didn't have the balls for it so to speak, so they still used condoms). He'd been cheating, she found out so made her own dating profile on match just to spite him and show him how many men wanted her; she hadn't expected it to progress but I silver-tongued her into it. Wit and empathy get you farther than looks or cock size. Also she was about a million miles out of my league but I asked the right question in my first message.
Second he was unaware and remained so because he simply didn't believe his wife was a sexual being. Referred to her as like a comfy old sofa that's a bit beaten up but great for watching TV on. She was no great looker by any objective criteria but by far the most orgasmic woman I've ever been with and I loved making her cum over and over.
Answering the question, no, I don't seek out married women and it's not a fetish by any means, and I don't get a sexual thrill from fucking another man's wife or being a bull (I'm as far from a bull as it's possible to get). But reawakening her sexual self that's been taken for granted it worse ignored, yep that works for me. |
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An Ex of many moons ago ,told me on our first date, that she got married at 18 and as soon as she got back after the honeymoon she cheated on him.
She told him, and left him.
I think that's why we was just FWB for 6 years..but at least she was honest with me |
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