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So what gives you the ick on a profile that you have to delete or block immediately?
For me it’s just a cock pic, or an ass picture or some utterly horrendous underwear
Come on guys, you have to win us over not put us
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For us it’s:
- Only cock or pussy close up pics, one is ok but when that’s all there is no thanks
- little to no bio
- no profile pics
- only one or two profile pics
- photos that don’t factor in the surroundings e.g toilets
- profiles claiming they are bi but the bio only talks about women
- Messages from profiles that don’t match our boundaries. It’s clear they’ve not read our profile
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A long list of demands with little to no effort put into their profile
One word messages, just fuck off why even bother.
Dirty scruffy rooms in background of pics, just screams poor hygiene.
Rough feet 🤢
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Not really an ick or block worthy, but if someone can't string a few meaningful sentences together for their profile, it does make me wonder if they can hold an intelligent conversation in real life.
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By *aandLoCouple 2 weeks ago
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If it's a single guy and his profile pic, or even the first pic in his gallery, has another person in it, we delete immediately. We want to find out about him, not who he's been in. Plus, the issues of consent....
Lists in bios just seem dull, lazy, and somewhat proscriptive. We need paragraphs with reasonable spelling and punctuation.
If any part of their bio is needlessly graphic or crude we're turned off. It's just not our vibe - well not until we know them better anyway.
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Profiles full of action shots, where they are hanging out of various women bare.
Single male accounts that have profile pics not of them ie a woman's arse/vag. I'm not after women, I'd be wanting to see the man.
Condoms full of jizz hanging off a cock 🤢.
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Some ranting whining woman/couple profile text that is like an essay to read .. I can shorthand it for them  to a sensible level .
Any profile with that dogshit term hint of snow / party etc
Alpha / CNC / dominant master etc
Stupid photo quality / positioning / composition. It’s not hard this day and age to get a basic understanding of framing shots. YouTube is a thing
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"For us it’s:
- Only cock or pussy close up pics, one is ok but when that’s all there is no thanks
- little to no bio
- no profile pics
- only one or two profile pics
- photos that don’t factor in the surroundings e.g toilets
- profiles claiming they are bi but the bio only talks about women
- Messages from profiles that don’t match our boundaries. It’s clear they’ve not read our profile
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All of the above except we do like an occasional cock and pussy close up 🤣 |
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There are plenty of things that put us off a profile (gynaecological photos, gaping orifices, women's arses sticking in the camera, men in women's underwear, vulgarity rather than eroticism etc, etc) but we don't block any of them because everyone has a right to post whatever pictures they choose. We just quickly move on. |
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Empty profiles
Fill in later
A gross pic that freaks me out
Zero info
Happy to go unprotected
Men being like 'make me interested'
Hidden profiles creeping
Statuses that talk about women like they're a commodity
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Gaping cum dripping holes
People who put a stupid word like "juice" and say quote juice in you message - no i wont you pleb.
Couples profiles thats just all of the lady and we dont know if the man exists or is just locked in the cupboard.
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"Will fill in later "
^^ This. Along with 18 to 99 age ranges, silhouette profile pic, not verified genuine, no veris, only 1 cock pic despite being couples profile, any form of legal bollocks at bottom. |
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Profile pictures of just 🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆 extra minus posts for his hand choking his 🍆 till it matching the emoji in colour.
Single male pictures of him fucking various other people bare especially giving anal.
And I need mind bleach for a view of man's arsehole winking at me whilst his 🍆🥜 hang down 🤢🤢
A person in their late 40's 50's 60's with will shag anything from 18 to 99.
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Single guy profiles where all the pics are of women. Seriously we’re really happy for you that you’ve had sex before, but a full body pic of a woman with a tiny snapshot of your balls going in her is not much use. You’re selling yourself, not her!! |
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"Single guy profiles where all the pics are of women. Seriously we’re really happy for you that you’ve had sex before, but a full body pic of a woman with a tiny snapshot of your balls going in her is not much use. You’re selling yourself, not her!! "
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This is my comment from two weeks ago on this thread (higher up):
"Women's profiles displaying gratuitous action shots or crass videos of them having sex with other men. I'm well aware that enjoy sex but I don't need to see the evidence of it."
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I'm going to expand on this: I don't often use the search facility on here but I did last night. Out of the 300 single women's profiles approx' 200 of them had videos and photos of them engaged in sex, with their quims being pummeled and looking like yesterday's jam, with seminal fluids spurting onto them like a bottle of Champagne that's just been popped.
Men aren't blind to the exploits of some women. Crass videos and photos exist on both men and women's profiles. |
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"Single guy profiles where all the pics are of women. Seriously we’re really happy for you that you’ve had sex before, but a full body pic of a woman with a tiny snapshot of your balls going in her is not much use. You’re selling yourself, not her!!
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This is my comment from two weeks ago on this thread (higher up):
"Women's profiles displaying gratuitous action shots or crass videos of them having sex with other men. I'm well aware that enjoy sex but I don't need to see the evidence of it."
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I'm going to expand on this: I don't often use the search facility on here but I did last night. Out of the 300 single women's profiles approx' 200 of them had videos and photos of them engaged in sex, with their quims being pummeled and looking like yesterday's jam, with seminal fluids spurting onto them like a bottle of Champagne that's just been popped.
Men aren't blind to the exploits of some women. Crass videos and photos exist on both men and women's profiles."
Not really talking about the crass aspect, that’s to each their own, I’m talking 99% of the picture being someone else. It’s like showing someone a satellite picture of the earth and telling them it’s a picture of your house. It’s disingenuous. |
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"Single guy profiles where all the pics are of women. Seriously we’re really happy for you that you’ve had sex before, but a full body pic of a woman with a tiny snapshot of your balls going in her is not much use. You’re selling yourself, not her!!
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This is my comment from two weeks ago on this thread (higher up):
"Women's profiles displaying gratuitous action shots or crass videos of them having sex with other men. I'm well aware that enjoy sex but I don't need to see the evidence of it."
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I'm going to expand on this: I don't often use the search facility on here but I did last night. Out of the 300 single women's profiles approx' 200 of them had videos and photos of them engaged in sex, with their quims being pummeled and looking like yesterday's jam, with seminal fluids spurting onto them like a bottle of Champagne that's just been popped.
Men aren't blind to the exploits of some women. Crass videos and photos exist on both men and women's profiles."
Do you think any of those women's profiles are run by men? We've spoke to couples who also have a "single woman" profile and it's the man who runs it. |
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"Do you think any of those women's profiles are run by men? We've spoke to couples who also have a "single woman" profile and it's the man who runs it."
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No. They were proprietary profiles owned by women, photo verified, invested with gold/silver site supporter and with a clutchfull of verifications leading to a breadcrumb trail of other well-established profiles, including people on the forums.
Perhaps a handful might have been but that hardly detracts from my original point. |
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"...Not really talking about the crass aspect, that’s to each their own, I’m talking 99% of the picture being someone else. It’s like showing someone a satellite picture of the earth and telling them it’s a picture of your house. It’s disingenuous."
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I think some introspection might be advised: I've looked at your profile.
The irony. |
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Men aren't blind to the exploits of some women. Crass videos and photos exist on both men and women's profiles."
I totally agree and as a woman who is only interested in men I can only comment on what I see, as I don't look at women's profiles. |
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"So what gives you the ick on a profile that you have to delete or block immediately?
For me it’s just a cock pic, or an ass picture or some utterly horrendous underwear
Come on guys, you have to win us over not put us
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It has to be the "sat on the toilet cock pic"  |
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"If it's a single guy and his profile pic, or even the first pic in his gallery, has another person in it, we delete immediately. We want to find out about him, not who he's been in. Plus, the issues of consent.... "
Absolutely this!
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"...Not really talking about the crass aspect, that’s to each their own, I’m talking 99% of the picture being someone else. It’s like showing someone a satellite picture of the earth and telling them it’s a picture of your house. It’s disingenuous.
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I think some introspection might be advised: I've looked at your profile.
The irony."
We (mostly the hotwife side of us given that is what our profile is) are the main subject of every single one of our pictures. So there I’m sorry to tell you there is absolutely nothing ironic in this post. |
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