I'd go with the amount of fake profiles and time wasters. With swinging clubs becoming increasingly more popular and the lifestyle gaining a lot of exposure in recent years, a lot of couples simply dont need fab to meet people. They go to clubs and socials instead as its more direct and much faster.
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I chat to couples who never seem to want to meet in the end. I can only think it's the man acting out a fantasy (fake profile).
I'm likely to leave too when my subscription runs out and try some clubs. |
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By *TinRedCouple 4 days ago
Reading |
We find the site pretty unbearable most days. We used to cam a lot, but no longer trust that someone isn't recording their screen.
The amount of dodgy profiles, and dick pics are a constant turn off. We find we have much more fun, and positive experiences on other platforms! |
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We meet at clubs but using Fab is a great way to keep track of upcoming events, friends and arranging to meet new people. If they don't turn up it doesn't matter were at the club anyway so can still have fun. I get why people are frustrated though as there are way too many fakes and dreamers but that usually happens anytime Fab gets media exposure, chances sign up thinking it's a meat market and they aren't real swingers. |
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Many couples have drama between them and delete their profile. Some have admitted that to us, but some will lie. One couple told us it was because they were busy and had a new kitchen fitted, they're no longer together. Many others who go to clubs just don't have the patience for the pointless messages that lead to nothing. |
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By *4bimMan 4 days ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
i see people on here who were couples and still get hassle from one side of the desolved partnership.
you can often read it on their profiles.
sometimes when there is backstabbing going on its just best to leave for your own peace of mind. |
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By *aandLoCouple 4 days ago
Southampton |
We use the site for connecting with single guys who are looking for an ongoing thing. They don't seem to be about in clubs, parties etc.
The site also allows us to find out about the clubs, parties etc and connect with people before attending. We like to make a few connections as clubs are generally pretty clicky in our experience. We're rarely approached by anyone so have to put in all the work which gets a bit demoralising.
Trying to connect with couples and single ladies has been a non starter on Fab though so can see why single guys would leave the site.
And we love the forums most of the time.
We've also chatted to a few people who aren't enamoured with Fab and no longer use it, or plan to leave once their subscription runs out.
We don't get too much rubbish through our profile so it's not an unpleasant experience. We're good here for now. |
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"We find the site pretty unbearable most days. We used to cam a lot, but no longer trust that someone isn't recording their screen.
The amount of dodgy profiles, and dick pics are a constant turn off. We find we have much more fun, and positive experiences on other platforms! "
Certainly agree here |
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"Many couples have drama between them and delete their profile. Some have admitted that to us, but some will lie. One couple told us it was because they were busy and had a new kitchen fitted, they're no longer together. Many others who go to clubs just don't have the patience for the pointless messages that lead to nothing."
We notice that, not great |
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I will say that there isn’t much protection to couples - a man referred to Lucy as a fat C**t and said some awful things - we reported and nothing happened so we put a status up (which did break the rules) and now we can never post again and his profile is still going. He has abused other people on here (friends at clubs)
I think they do need to tighten up there safety - I’ll probably get a forum ban for this  |
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The difference I suppose is that in a club you seeing the person of cpl in real time face to face. It's much easier to make a decision as to whether you would want to play or not.
On my single profile I've never found anyone interesting enough to meet. No problem in a club tho. So I suppose fab is becoming superfluous in that respect. I use it now just to keep up with what's happening in the clubs I visit & a few forums.  |
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"A lot of couples we speak to at clubs are seemingly leaving Fab, we are curious as to why? What’s your nightmare story behind it? "
Boredom I think is why and probably not needing fab if you are regular going to clubs anyway in reality |
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They leave, and then often come back again.
People knock fab....but the simple fact is it works.
You have to keep yourself safe, thats the number 1 rule. Some that join are very naive and leave themselves feeling very vulnerable.
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"The difference I suppose is that in a club you seeing the person of cpl in real time face to face. It's much easier to make a decision as to whether you would want to play or not.
On my single profile I've never found anyone interesting enough to meet. No problem in a club tho. So I suppose fab is becoming superfluous in that respect. I use it now just to keep up with what's happening in the clubs I visit & a few forums. "
Tbh that’s also what we do, I was just curious |
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"Interesting- I more think that it doesn’t have decent competition and if it did it would probably die out
But I get what you’re saying. We are not slating it, just asking a question"
There are members here for such a broad range of reasons. Some, like me, don't do clubs. I don't do cams. I don't do one offs, I don't do quickies, I don't do alcohol. I suppose that I'm like a drift net fisherman. I have keyworded nets out in many places online, from vanilla sites to darker than here. never knowing from where the next response will come. It's what works for me. |
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"We meet at clubs but using Fab is a great way to keep track of upcoming events, friends and arranging to meet new people. If they don't turn up it doesn't matter were at the club anyway so can still have fun. "
This is our approach these days too. On the rare occasion we try to arrange a home meet on here we get little to no response despite 100's of messages in between times asking when we're available. |
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By *WB85Man 4 days ago
Staffordshire |
A couple quite recently built a different website, it just didnt live up the the high expectations they suggested.
My best advise for fab is to slow your approach down. Most people just get bored and block you, but I find it leaves the nice and genuine people.
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By *4bimMan 4 days ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
if you want to see the stae of a relationship go into the cam rooms late at night.
a lot of couples are smashed on something and that show signs of depression and unhappiness. some of the things you see are incredible. |
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"if you want to see the stae of a relationship go into the cam rooms late at night.
a lot of couples are smashed on something and that show signs of depression and unhappiness. some of the things you see are incredible. "
That doesn't come as a surprise, in clubs many drink heavily and some get Dr*nk. |
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