"Years ago I met a couple who hadn't chatted about their boundaries beforehand and that was rather uncomfortable when they weren't on the same page as each other."
Yep, we had that the other weekend! Despite their profile saying we're fully open, confident and know exactly what we're looking for...
Didn't really do anything, Flo cracked on with some kisses, I held back to just to survey the scene and I could tell he wasn't feeling it and then that was that, he lost his head and we felt proper awkward! |
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"No but I always say that anyone can stop proceedings at any point if they're not comfortable
Exactly this
We use sign language in case any of us wants to stop any proceedings.
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We agreed after a 'difficult' experience that we would either ask for a time out of just say "stop". |
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By *WB85Man 3 days ago
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Its not a situation I've found myself in.
But let's of couples love the idea, but the reality is just too much to handle.
Fair play to him for stopping things.
I these days prefer to look for people with actual experience of the lifestyle rather than meeting newbies. Let them gain experience and find their limits first. |
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