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What do you like to be called?
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Other than not later for dinner… 🙄
During The Sex….
There seems to be an assumption that a hotwife enjoys “slut” or other (in my opinion) degrading terms.
What do you like? Is slut empowering to you? Do you prefer to a “good girl”? Or is that gross and you’d rather just be called “sexy as fuck”? |
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By *dstefiMan 19 hours ago
Solihull |
Slut is the honourable exception to all the other pejoratives, which will politely get rammed up someone's rectum with interest if used with me.
I like slut though, used in the heat of sex with a trusted friend. |
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By *sWyldWoman 19 hours ago
Edinburgh |
I hate derogatory words too. Anyone called me those things, I'd leave.
I suppose ultimately I want to feel desired so things that symbolise that.
The good girl thing is fun, partly tongue and cheek but partly because deep down I possibly do have a little bit of a praise kink going on. I like to know I'm doing a good job 
Beyond that my name is pretty good |
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"I struggle with the derogatory terms , make me a bit uncomfortable at times
I guess it’s all about context though"
Exactly - for those that want it and are with someone happy to provide it - it’s win win. |
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"Slut is the honourable exception to all the other pejoratives, which will politely get rammed up someone's rectum with interest if used with me.
I like slut though, used in the heat of sex with a trusted friend. "
Interesting there’s a chosen one you’re happy with! I hope friends use it in abundance! |
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"I hate derogatory words too. Anyone called me those things, I'd leave.
I suppose ultimately I want to feel desired so things that symbolise that.
The good girl thing is fun, partly tongue and cheek but partly because deep down I possibly do have a little bit of a praise kink going on. I like to know I'm doing a good job
Beyond that my name is pretty good"
Good girl is always a little tongue in cheek, until they growl it in the heat of the moment with context and suddenly 🫠 |
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By *aandLoCouple 18 hours ago
Southampton |
It's simple for me: my name.
I'm a contrary bugger who hates the derogatory terms like slut, whore etc but also (with less ferocity) dislikes the sickly sweet terms of endearment like baby, precious, good girl etc. 😬 |
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'Slut' is an absolute no. Show me some respect or show yourself out.
‘Good girl’ just makes me feel like I've successfully sat on command and am about to receive a biscuit and a pat on the head. 😂
I am aware that others differ to me and that is the joy of fab. We all like different things. |
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"It's simple for me: my name.
I'm a contrary bugger who hates the derogatory terms like slut, whore etc but also (with less ferocity) dislikes the sickly sweet terms of endearment like baby, precious, good girl etc. 😬"
So just your name for you too? |
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"'Slut' is an absolute no. Show me some respect or show yourself out.
‘Good girl’ just makes me feel like I've successfully sat on command and am about to receive a biscuit and a pat on the head. 😂
I am aware that others differ to me and that is the joy of fab. We all like different things. "
Yeah, I love a biscuit me! |
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By *dstefiMan 16 hours ago
Solihull |
"Slut is the honourable exception to all the other pejoratives, which will politely get rammed up someone's rectum with interest if used with me.
I like slut though, used in the heat of sex with a trusted friend.
Interesting there’s a chosen one you’re happy with! I hope friends use it in abundance!"
It's been known
Really my liking for it comes from an old gf who decided to reclaim it from being a misogynist hate word to.an empowering one for somebody who simply loves sex, the harder the better, but with one person, not many: that would be a slag. She said there's no reason a man can't be a slut too, in that context. |
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By *eliWoman 15 hours ago
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I wouldn't say slut is empowering as such for me, it's a word I like very occasionally though.
Good girl... I dunno, it's starting to feel a bit clichéd, a bit basic starter park. If someone really meant it, said it in a certain way, maybe. I do have a slight praise kink but I'd much rather they used my name when telling me how I feel, that kind of thing. |
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By *andb69Couple 15 hours ago
leeds |
Unless I know the guy and he calls me by my name, I don't want guys to call me anything - I prefer anonymous sex with strangers, and certainly wouldn't want to be called anything derogatory, nor by any pet names (luv, darling, pet etc) |
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I quite like slut but in the right circumstances and from the right person said in quite a paticular way
And yes i have a praise kink so good girl, or indeed good slut, are words I love to hear.
But then I also like being called gorgeous, sexy or beautiful
It all depends on the nature of the sex at the tume. |
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By *aked beachMan 14 hours ago
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An ex GF, in the heat of the moment liked me calling her ‘my sex toy’ or ‘you’re nothing but a sex toy’ but that was her preference not mine. Typically I’m not that vocal (or at least I don’t think I am, it’s been a while 😂😂😂) |
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I would never call anyone anything derogatory with knowing they are happy with it or it is part of a kink fetish scene, of which it would be discussed pre fun.
Everyone is different and has individual tastes. |
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Good girl drives me wild when my husband says it to me. Sexy bitch, fucking hot and anything positive is good to me. Not into being called a slut or slag unless its a very specifically requested scenario between me and my husband. Never use derogatory terms on women unless preagreed before hand. Thats the lesson of the day x
Mrs x |
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"I (mr) hate derogatory words. “Slut” “cum slut” “bitch” just off putting.
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I feel the same I don't someone calling my wife like that and I'd rather them give her praise for what she's good at  now myself on the other hand I don't mind being degraded as a bi sub hubby or cuck |
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One guy was getting into it with me in the doggy position and getting near climaxing. Fuckbitch was the name I was anointed with as things got more vigorous. Then the verbal control went and it became fuckwitch then fuckwit as he spunked his load. I was cracking up with laughter. He started laughing too when it dawned on him what he was called me while regaining his composer. |
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