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Question about Sex for the first time.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Reason I'm asking this question is... well because I've never had sex and want to ask a few questions. I was in a relationship but my gf would refuse sex :/. As I'm 26 now i feel a little embarrassed about it  .
I'm meeting up with a girl I know ( not on this site as I'm finding it hard to get a meet) she knows I'm a virgin but I'm so scared. Can anyone offer my some advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reason I'm asking this question is... well because I've never had sex and want to ask a few questions. I was in a relationship but my gf would refuse sex :/. As I'm 26 now i feel a little embarrassed about it .
I'm meeting up with a girl I know ( not on this site as I'm finding it hard to get a meet) she knows I'm a virgin but I'm so scared. Can anyone offer my some advice "
Don't do it, sex is something sacred to be shared between two people who love each other very much  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think ye should take the lad seriously 
Its a big thing if he's serious, but I'm not gonna be the one to give advice seeing as I lost my virginity in a ditch   |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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I would suggest that you don't aim for full sex. Just enjoy kissing and caressing initially. Discover what type of touch she enjoys and enjoy spending time naked and cuddling. Discuss what her previous experience is and just take things steady. Don't rush it. Have you had experience of foreplay ? Just relax and have fun. |
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It's actually not that unusual to still be a virgin in your mid to late twenties despite what the media and pub culture says.
Don't put pressure on yourself and don't expect too much first time round.
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Don't worry about penetrative sex so early. My advice is to aim for enjoyable mutual masturbation and getting comfortable with each other for a while first. Once you're both able to help each other to come, then maybe progress onwards. Then when you do, there's a good chance it will be fantastic as you're both used to each other. |
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"It's actually not that unusual to still be a virgin in your mid to late twenties despite what the media and pub culture says.
Don't put pressure on yourself and don't expect too much first time round.
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This is perfect  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I lost mine when I was 22 to a friend, we were both sick of being virgins! Bad mistake.Unless its someone you really care about, hold on for the right time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Took long because i think it's me being scared . Thanks for the advice
"Can I ask why it is taken you so long? I'm just curious that is all.
Don't overthink things, is the best I can advice, be as relaxed as possible and don't overthink it but good luck x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheers for all the advice guys. . The deed is happening tomorrow night but I'm so nervous  I'm looking forward to it but scared at the same time. My friend suggested this site but have to say I'm finding it so hard to get a meet as I'm not verified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would suggest that you don't aim for full sex. Just enjoy kissing and caressing initially. Discover what type of touch she enjoys and enjoy spending time naked and cuddling. Discuss what her previous experience is and just take things steady. Don't rush it. Have you had experience of foreplay ? Just relax and have fun. "
Or just get it In, move it about a bit and have the best thirty seconds of your life before it falls off! |
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"Reason I'm asking this question is... well because I've never had sex and want to ask a few questions. I was in a relationship but my gf would refuse sex :/. As I'm 26 now i feel a little embarrassed about it .
I'm meeting up with a girl I know ( not on this site as I'm finding it hard to get a meet) she knows I'm a virgin but I'm so scared. Can anyone offer my some advice "
Bullshit you can't be 26 n be a Virgin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reason I'm asking this question is... well because I've never had sex and want to ask a few questions. I was in a relationship but my gf would refuse sex :/. As I'm 26 now i feel a little embarrassed about it .
I'm meeting up with a girl I know ( not on this site as I'm finding it hard to get a meet) she knows I'm a virgin but I'm so scared. Can anyone offer my some advice
Bullshit you can't be 26 n be a Virgin. "
Yes he can. I know people who were older and virgins. I had sex with one. |
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"Reason I'm asking this question is... well because I've never had sex and want to ask a few questions. I was in a relationship but my gf would refuse sex :/. As I'm 26 now i feel a little embarrassed about it .
I'm meeting up with a girl I know ( not on this site as I'm finding it hard to get a meet) she knows I'm a virgin but I'm so scared. Can anyone offer my some advice
Bullshit you can't be 26 n be a Virgin.
Yes he can. I know people who were older and virgins. I had sex with one. "
Lol how did you know he was a virgin? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think ye should take the lad seriously
Its a big thing if he's serious, but I'm not gonna be the one to give advice seeing as I lost my virginity in a ditch "
As above op...Very few first times are great due to nerves but relax and chat and who knows...You may get to have a first second time too. Best of luck |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"Reason I'm asking this question is... well because I've never had sex and want to ask a few questions. I was in a relationship but my gf would refuse sex :/. As I'm 26 now i feel a little embarrassed about it .
I'm meeting up with a girl I know ( not on this site as I'm finding it hard to get a meet) she knows I'm a virgin but I'm so scared. Can anyone offer my some advice "
Get married then do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think ye should take the lad seriously
Its a big thing if he's serious, but I'm not gonna be the one to give advice seeing as I lost my virginity in a ditch "
I haven't laughed this hard in a long time!!
OP, assuming this is a genuine post, and your friend knows the situation, just take your time and don't have any expectations. You really can't do anything 'wrong' just take your time. It's the first step on a great journey  |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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I lost my virginity at 19 and married the first man I fucked at 23. Divorced at 26 at which time my net sexual experience was 1 person. Story has changed dramatically ever since and that's a long story. Bottom line is that you'll be fine, agree with focusing on foreplay first. |
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