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By *izzy. OP Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I have one guy that sends me a message. Before i have chance to reply, he has sent 3 more.
He isn't repeating himself. It's just daft one line messages. What are you doing today ? You still free Friday? Is it sunny there ? I do like your photos smiley face.
He is filling up my inbox. I have said I don't mind chatting, but send me one message with all the chat, not one sentence per message.
Anyone else had this ? I am accompanying him to a club Friday, so can't ignore him. He seems pleasant enough, but how do I stop him sending me 3 messages every 5 minutes whenever I am online ??? |
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By *izzy. OP Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"Hopefully he'll see this post  "
I dont think he has discovered the forums yet. But it might help if he does. Me asking him not to write messages one sentence at a time hasn't registered with him ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hopefully he'll see this post
I dont think he has discovered the forums yet. But it might help if he does. Me asking him not to write messages one sentence at a time hasn't registered with him !"
Have been asking L to stop doing this when texting me, and im pleased to say after 3 years, she still does it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it a put off and block after a while, I had one I was chatting to and because I hadn't reply he copied the message and resent it, I ignored he then sent a further 2 saying my name so I blocked him. A needy guy is a instant turn off for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've asked him to do one simple thing and he's ignored you. I'd be having second thoughts about meeting him to be honest. "
I think she's getting a lift so unlikely x |
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By *izzy. OP Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"You've asked him to do one simple thing and he's ignored you. I'd be having second thoughts about meeting him to be honest.
I think she's getting a lift so unlikely x"
Lol. I wouldn't have a lift from someone I haven't met. No I said I would meet him and keep him company at my local club until he finds his feet. I do enjoy calming people's nerves and introducing them to the club scene, but if he keeps on, he might get blocked. ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have one guy that sends me a message. Before i have chance to reply, he has sent 3 more.
He isn't repeating himself. It's just daft one line messages. What are you doing today ? You still free Friday? Is it sunny there ? I do like your photos smiley face.
He is filling up my inbox. I have said I don't mind chatting, but send me one message with all the chat, not one sentence per message.
Anyone else had this ? I am accompanying him to a club Friday, so can't ignore him. He seems pleasant enough, but how do I stop him sending me 3 messages every 5 minutes whenever I am online ??? "
I have had the same from one or two guys and they call me rude when I say I can't be answering several messages as it's get confusing. That one at a time is more than enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You've asked him to do one simple thing and he's ignored you. I'd be having second thoughts about meeting him to be honest.
I think she's getting a lift so unlikely x
Lol. I wouldn't have a lift from someone I haven't met. No I said I would meet him and keep him company at my local club until he finds his feet. I do enjoy calming people's nerves and introducing them to the club scene, but if he keeps on, he might get blocked. ! "
Just block him till Friday then lol To be fair tho he's probably just nervous and excited. He'll be full of confidence tho if he reads this thread pmsl x |
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By *izzy. OP Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"Can u imagine how bad he’s going to be in person .....but at least you will have someone to hold your drink alnight  "
Shit, never occurred to me that he might be chat chat chat in my ear all night.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not just the chatting ....why did u walk off and leave me ...where are you going etc etc but hey only you know if your doing the right thing or not |
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