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"Not long to go !! Remember those who have bought their tickets , we do have a telegram page Pm Twisted1 if youd like to be added "or pm me | |||
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"Not on the telegram chat sorry we don't use it old fashioned we know lol any chance of the guest list being put up on the forum or private message on our profile? " | |||
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"Not on the telegram chat sorry we don't use it old fashioned we know lol any chance of the guest list being put up on the forum or private message on our profile? "The guest list will not be published on the forum or privately sorry | |||
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looking forward the this so much and catching up with everyone xx | |||
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"We are really looking forward to this again. Are many staying on the Friday as well? We had a bit of FOMO last time. " We are | |||
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"Is there parking at the hotel or near by ? " Plenty of parking at hotel 😊 | |||
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"Is there parking at the hotel or near by ? " Bring cash for the raffle! | |||
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"Awesome raffle prizes guys make sure to bring your cash for that! Or for if you wanna tip the entertainment 🤣🤣🤣 or make it stop 🤣🤣🤣" Make it stop £20 | |||
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"Awesome raffle prizes guys make sure to bring your cash for that! Or for if you wanna tip the entertainment 🤣🤣🤣 or make it stop 🤣🤣🤣 Make it stop £20" Haha I'll hold you to that!! | |||
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"As we are newbies couldn't comment on the entertainment lol" Aw it's terrible tbh. The last ball was good because she wasn't there... | |||
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"Not long to go now guys !! Countdown has begun " | |||
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"Hey all, anyone fancy a meal in the coach and horses castleton before, owned by the Martinez family, same people as Le Monde, El Puerto etc ????? We suggest about 2:30, then to the hotel to shower and dress for the ball " Sounds lovely, but I want to do my dress justice, so we will go and have a salad somewhere | |||
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But would still like 2 tickets if those are still available please. | |||
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"Sorry, just saw the comment saying that rooms have been fully booked.
But would still like 2 tickets if those are still available please. "Please message Kinkypair40-socials to secure tickets | |||
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"Less than 3 weeks to go
Xx"The only thing in fabland that I want to come quickly | |||
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"Less than 3 weeks to go
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The only thing in fabland that I want to come quickly "Lol lol | |||
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"Any spaces left ?" Yes there is , message Kinkypair40-socials | |||
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"Remember pre covid when you last wore your tux or cocktail dress and it fitted !!! FFS - where’s the monjaro "That's what I meant about the pre-ball meal being a salad. I only managed to zip my dress up last time with the power of prayer | |||
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"I decided yesterday to snap up one of the final available tickets. My Dress has been ordered and dispatched. I'm really excited but also really terrified. This will be my first ever social event. So if you see a nervous wallflower sitting alone in the corner it will probably be me. Please say hi! "Everyone is really friendly, you will be fine. Have you joined the telegram group yet? | |||
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"I decided yesterday to snap up one of the final available tickets. My Dress has been ordered and dispatched. I'm really excited but also really terrified. This will be my first ever social event. So if you see a nervous wallflower sitting alone in the corner it will probably be me. Please say hi! "Please don't worry. It's a lovely bunch of people. X | |||
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"I decided yesterday to snap up one of the final available tickets. My Dress has been ordered and dispatched. I'm really excited but also really terrified. This will be my first ever social event. So if you see a nervous wallflower sitting alone in the corner it will probably be me. Please say hi!
Everyone is really friendly, you will be fine. Have you joined the telegram group yet? "Can we join the telegram group please | |||
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"I decided yesterday to snap up one of the final available tickets. My Dress has been ordered and dispatched. I'm really excited but also really terrified. This will be my first ever social event. So if you see a nervous wallflower sitting alone in the corner it will probably be me. Please say hi!
Please don't worry. It's a lovely bunch of people. X"2nd that x | |||
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"I decided yesterday to snap up one of the final available tickets. My Dress has been ordered and dispatched. I'm really excited but also really terrified. This will be my first ever social event. So if you see a nervous wallflower sitting alone in the corner it will probably be me. Please say hi!
Everyone is really friendly, you will be fine. Have you joined the telegram group yet?
Can we join the telegram group please "Message the OP of the thread with your telegram name | |||
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"I decided yesterday to snap up one of the final available tickets. My Dress has been ordered and dispatched. I'm really excited but also really terrified. This will be my first ever social event. So if you see a nervous wallflower sitting alone in the corner it will probably be me. Please say hi!
Everyone is really friendly, you will be fine. Have you joined the telegram group yet? "I didn't know there was one. I shall get on that now. Thank you x | |||
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"Would love to get a ticket if there is any left " Message Kinkypair40-socials | |||
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"Is there a raffle ? "I think that was just a rumour 😂 | |||
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"Putting my name down 🙋🏾♂️" It should be fun! | |||
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"How many tickets left now? " 5 tickets left | |||
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"Hi, is this event open to single Gents? X" Of course it is , | |||
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"Details received thank you very much looking forward to our Friday and Saturday (event) with you all "Can’t wait to catch up with you pair again xx | |||
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"How many tickets left now? 5 tickets left "Is it sold out yet? Xx | |||
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We can't wait to welcome you all
J&C x | |||
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"Last minute as always but we’ll be there!! Xx 😄😄" Better late than never | |||
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"Last minute as always but we’ll be there!! Xx 😄😄" yay ! dance partner | |||
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"Last minute as always but we’ll be there!! Xx 😄😄 Better late than never "Can’t wait! I ordered a dress just in case so I’ll get to wear it! Xx 😄 | |||
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"Last minute as always but we’ll be there!! Xx 😄😄 yay ! dance partner" Absolutely!!! Xx 😄😄 | |||
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"Last minute as always but we’ll be there!! Xx 😄😄" Yay!!! | |||
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"Last minute as always but we’ll be there!! Xx 😄😄 Yay!!!" Excited!!! Xx 😄 | |||
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"Omg guys this time next week xx" Can't wait | |||
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"Is it too late for us to join? " Drop _aucy sexy cpl a message. | |||
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"Is it too late for us to join? Drop _aucy sexy cpl a message. " Also Kinkypair40-Socials | |||
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"Why is it not the weekend already 😭" We are in the foreplay part of the weekend😂 | |||
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"Forplay what polishing my shoes for the evening "Whatever floats your boat! | |||
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""Are we nearly there yet"? " I wish. | |||
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"Lots of celebrations tonight! Looking forward to celebrating Trick or Treats 10th wedding anniversary .. and our 45th! See you all later Rosie & Stig xx" Have a great night 😘 | |||
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"Lots of celebrations tonight! Looking forward to celebrating Trick or Treats 10th wedding anniversary .. and our 45th! See you all later Rosie & Stig xx" Happy anniversary both x | |||
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"Wow - kicked out of the chat group for mentioning that photographs shouldn’t be allowed at a swingers party !!! We should be given the privacy as a club - really not good to take photos especially using a professional camera at a swingers party - it’s a very big NO NO " 1. It was a social event, not a club. It was not a "swingers" event. 2. The photographs only go to the people who were there, who would have see you there, not made public in any other forum, website, social media etc 3. If you had approached the team and advised you didnt wish to be in photographs they would have ensured you weren't. I'm sure if you reach out, the organisers will delete any photographs with you in them | |||
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"Wow - kicked out of the chat group for mentioning that photographs shouldn’t be allowed at a swingers party !!! We should be given the privacy as a club - really not good to take photos especially using a professional camera at a swingers party - it’s a very big NO NO 1. It was a social event, not a club. It was not a "swingers" event. 2. The photographs only go to the people who were there, who would have see you there, not made public in any other forum, website, social media etc 3. If you had approached the team and advised you didnt wish to be in photographs they would have ensured you weren't. I'm sure if you reach out, the organisers will delete any photographs with you in them" We just discussed this and you're 100% It was a social event, which was very clearly stated. If you would have preferred to not have you photo taken then all you need to do was politely say. It was another great night and we are really looking forward to the next one. Thank you so much for all the hard work you put in for us all. Xx | |||
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"Wow - kicked out of the chat group for mentioning that photographs shouldn’t be allowed at a swingers party !!! We should be given the privacy as a club - really not good to take photos especially using a professional camera at a swingers party - it’s a very big NO NO 1. It was a social event, not a club. It was not a "swingers" event. 2. The photographs only go to the people who were there, who would have see you there, not made public in any other forum, website, social media etc 3. If you had approached the team and advised you didnt wish to be in photographs they would have ensured you weren't. I'm sure if you reach out, the organisers will delete any photographs with you in them We just discussed this and you're 100% It was a social event, which was very clearly stated. If you would have preferred to not have you photo taken then all you need to do was politely say. It was another great night and we are really looking forward to the next one. Thank you so much for all the hard work you put in for us all. Xx" We did ask not to be photographed and was told that we could either leave or he will “try” not to include us Regardless of a social event or not no cameras should be permitted or at least forewarned and then a decision could have been made wether to attend or not | |||
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"Wow - kicked out of the chat group for mentioning that photographs shouldn’t be allowed at a swingers party !!! We should be given the privacy as a club - really not good to take photos especially using a professional camera at a swingers party - it’s a very big NO NO 1. It was a social event, not a club. It was not a "swingers" event. 2. The photographs only go to the people who were there, who would have see you there, not made public in any other forum, website, social media etc 3. If you had approached the team and advised you didnt wish to be in photographs they would have ensured you weren't. I'm sure if you reach out, the organisers will delete any photographs with you in them We just discussed this and you're 100% It was a social event, which was very clearly stated. If you would have preferred to not have you photo taken then all you need to do was politely say. It was another great night and we are really looking forward to the next one. Thank you so much for all the hard work you put in for us all. Xx We did ask not to be photographed and was told that we could either leave or he will “try” not to include us Regardless of a social event or not no cameras should be permitted or at least forewarned and then a decision could have been made wether to attend or not " Well just reading your profile is a contradiction, really funny actually and you were worried about a social event where everybody were taking pictures of each other yet the way you spoke to the organiser was not nice after he explained he would not take any photos of you in but were welcome to leave the event with a refund to save any problems. Most people like to have pictures taken of them when all dressed up, you seem very naive confusing a club to a social event, but yet you are happy to go out to a social venue to meet a couple flirt snog in public where anyone from vanilla life could see your actions if that is not putting your self out in public, your profile is one contradiction, but it always guarantees to get one person that will try and put a damper on which was an amazing event, so you came on here to vent your anger making yourselves look absolutely stupid yet your profile says happy to swap face pics with any Tom Dick or Harry from here. Need we say any more. | |||
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"Wow - kicked out of the chat group for mentioning that photographs shouldn’t be allowed at a swingers party !!! We should be given the privacy as a club - really not good to take photos especially using a professional camera at a swingers party - it’s a very big NO NO 1. It was a social event, not a club. It was not a "swingers" event. 2. The photographs only go to the people who were there, who would have see you there, not made public in any other forum, website, social media etc 3. If you had approached the team and advised you didnt wish to be in photographs they would have ensured you weren't. I'm sure if you reach out, the organisers will delete any photographs with you in them We just discussed this and you're 100% It was a social event, which was very clearly stated. If you would have preferred to not have you photo taken then all you need to do was politely say. It was another great night and we are really looking forward to the next one. Thank you so much for all the hard work you put in for us all. Xx We did ask not to be photographed and was told that we could either leave or he will “try” not to include us Regardless of a social event or not no cameras should be permitted or at least forewarned and then a decision could have been made wether to attend or not Well just reading your profile is a contradiction, really funny actually and you were worried about a social event where everybody were taking pictures of each other yet the way you spoke to the organiser was not nice after he explained he would not take any photos of you in but were welcome to leave the event with a refund to save any problems. Most people like to have pictures taken of them when all dressed up, you seem very naive confusing a club to a social event, but yet you are happy to go out to a social venue to meet a couple flirt snog in public where anyone from vanilla life could see your actions if that is not putting your self out in public, your profile is one contradiction, but it always guarantees to get one person that will try and put a damper on which was an amazing event, so you came on here to vent your anger making yourselves look absolutely stupid yet your profile says happy to swap face pics with any Tom Dick or Harry from here. Need we say any more." We’re not trying to put a dampener on your event, that’s your interpretation!! If we decide to chat to people on the internet and feel we can trust them and swap photos here that’s our decision, they’re are our pictures to swap or not, not yours !! And if we decide to have fun in a bar, again that’s our decision not yours However you want to spin this, people who enjoy “swinging” expect discretion wether in a social setting or a swinging club, that’s not much to ask - No PHOTOS without permission Expecting to take take photos in this type of environment is a big NO NO All you had to do is say upfront that photos will be taken and people can then make a decision to go or not We wouldn’t have bought tickets if we’d have known that you were taking photos !!! Stop trying to defend or spin something that is wrong - its an over site in your behalf, not lease learn from it and be honest and upfront next time | |||
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"Wow - kicked out of the chat group for mentioning that photographs shouldn’t be allowed at a swingers party !!! We should be given the privacy as a club - really not good to take photos especially using a professional camera at a swingers party - it’s a very big NO NO 1. It was a social event, not a club. It was not a "swingers" event. 2. The photographs only go to the people who were there, who would have see you there, not made public in any other forum, website, social media etc 3. If you had approached the team and advised you didnt wish to be in photographs they would have ensured you weren't. I'm sure if you reach out, the organisers will delete any photographs with you in them We just discussed this and you're 100% It was a social event, which was very clearly stated. If you would have preferred to not have you photo taken then all you need to do was politely say. It was another great night and we are really looking forward to the next one. Thank you so much for all the hard work you put in for us all. Xx We did ask not to be photographed and was told that we could either leave or he will “try” not to include us Regardless of a social event or not no cameras should be permitted or at least forewarned and then a decision could have been made wether to attend or not Well just reading your profile is a contradiction, really funny actually and you were worried about a social event where everybody were taking pictures of each other yet the way you spoke to the organiser was not nice after he explained he would not take any photos of you in but were welcome to leave the event with a refund to save any problems. Most people like to have pictures taken of them when all dressed up, you seem very naive confusing a club to a social event, but yet you are happy to go out to a social venue to meet a couple flirt snog in public where anyone from vanilla life could see your actions if that is not putting your self out in public, your profile is one contradiction, but it always guarantees to get one person that will try and put a damper on which was an amazing event, so you came on here to vent your anger making yourselves look absolutely stupid yet your profile says happy to swap face pics with any Tom Dick or Harry from here. Need we say any more. We’re not trying to put a dampener on your event, that’s your interpretation!! If we decide to chat to people on the internet and feel we can trust them and swap photos here that’s our decision, they’re are our pictures to swap or not, not yours !! And if we decide to have fun in a bar, again that’s our decision not yours However you want to spin this, people who enjoy “swinging” expect discretion wether in a social setting or a swinging club, that’s not much to ask - No PHOTOS without permission Expecting to take take photos in this type of environment is a big NO NO All you had to do is say upfront that photos will be taken and people can then make a decision to go or not We wouldn’t have bought tickets if we’d have known that you were taking photos !!! Stop trying to defend or spin something that is wrong - its an over site in your behalf, not lease learn from it and be honest and upfront next time " Ok safe to say you won't be at the next one. BTW I wouldn't advise attending any of the other socials or events, of you feel so strongly about it, as people do tend to take pictures with their phones and you could be in the background. The organisers work bloody hard to make this event happen, and generally take everything on board to make the night and future nights as enjoyable as they can. 99% of the people attending have gone to great effort to dress in accordance to a ball and are greatful for a picture of themselves as a momento of the evening. Let's face it, its not going to be posted in the south Wales media, or any other prominent media outlets. I think there are far bigger things going on in the world to worry about a few people having the most wonderful night and enjoying themselves. Keep calm, learn from this, and now you know to question before committing to anything in the future. | |||
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"Wow - kicked out of the chat group for mentioning that photographs shouldn’t be allowed at a swingers party !!! We should be given the privacy as a club - really not good to take photos especially using a professional camera at a swingers party - it’s a very big NO NO 1. It was a social event, not a club. It was not a "swingers" event. 2. The photographs only go to the people who were there, who would have see you there, not made public in any other forum, website, social media etc 3. If you had approached the team and advised you didnt wish to be in photographs they would have ensured you weren't. I'm sure if you reach out, the organisers will delete any photographs with you in them We just discussed this and you're 100% It was a social event, which was very clearly stated. If you would have preferred to not have you photo taken then all you need to do was politely say. It was another great night and we are really looking forward to the next one. Thank you so much for all the hard work you put in for us all. Xx We did ask not to be photographed and was told that we could either leave or he will “try” not to include us Regardless of a social event or not no cameras should be permitted or at least forewarned and then a decision could have been made wether to attend or not Well just reading your profile is a contradiction, really funny actually and you were worried about a social event where everybody were taking pictures of each other yet the way you spoke to the organiser was not nice after he explained he would not take any photos of you in but were welcome to leave the event with a refund to save any problems. Most people like to have pictures taken of them when all dressed up, you seem very naive confusing a club to a social event, but yet you are happy to go out to a social venue to meet a couple flirt snog in public where anyone from vanilla life could see your actions if that is not putting your self out in public, your profile is one contradiction, but it always guarantees to get one person that will try and put a damper on which was an amazing event, so you came on here to vent your anger making yourselves look absolutely stupid yet your profile says happy to swap face pics with any Tom Dick or Harry from here. Need we say any more. We’re not trying to put a dampener on your event, that’s your interpretation!! If we decide to chat to people on the internet and feel we can trust them and swap photos here that’s our decision, they’re are our pictures to swap or not, not yours !! And if we decide to have fun in a bar, again that’s our decision not yours However you want to spin this, people who enjoy “swinging” expect discretion wether in a social setting or a swinging club, that’s not much to ask - No PHOTOS without permission Expecting to take take photos in this type of environment is a big NO NO All you had to do is say upfront that photos will be taken and people can then make a decision to go or not We wouldn’t have bought tickets if we’d have known that you were taking photos !!! Stop trying to defend or spin something that is wrong - its an over site in your behalf, not lease learn from it and be honest and upfront next time Ok safe to say you won't be at the next one. BTW I wouldn't advise attending any of the other socials or events, of you feel so strongly about it, as people do tend to take pictures with their phones and you could be in the background. The organisers work bloody hard to make this event happen, and generally take everything on board to make the night and future nights as enjoyable as they can. 99% of the people attending have gone to great effort to dress in accordance to a ball and are greatful for a picture of themselves as a momento of the evening. Let's face it, its not going to be posted in the south Wales media, or any other prominent media outlets. I think there are far bigger things going on in the world to worry about a few people having the most wonderful night and enjoying themselves. Keep calm, learn from this, and now you know to question before committing to anything in the future. " How do you know where it’s going to be posted - now or in the future, isn’t that the point, you’re happy with pictures of yourself being owned by others in this scenario that’s you’re decision, but it wasn’t ours and it has been taken from us without asking - that’s the point and no other | |||
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"Wow - kicked out of the chat group for mentioning that photographs shouldn’t be allowed at a swingers party !!! We should be given the privacy as a club - really not good to take photos especially using a professional camera at a swingers party - it’s a very big NO NO 1. It was a social event, not a club. It was not a "swingers" event. 2. The photographs only go to the people who were there, who would have see you there, not made public in any other forum, website, social media etc 3. If you had approached the team and advised you didnt wish to be in photographs they would have ensured you weren't. I'm sure if you reach out, the organisers will delete any photographs with you in them We just discussed this and you're 100% It was a social event, which was very clearly stated. If you would have preferred to not have you photo taken then all you need to do was politely say. It was another great night and we are really looking forward to the next one. Thank you so much for all the hard work you put in for us all. Xx We did ask not to be photographed and was told that we could either leave or he will “try” not to include us Regardless of a social event or not no cameras should be permitted or at least forewarned and then a decision could have been made wether to attend or not Well just reading your profile is a contradiction, really funny actually and you were worried about a social event where everybody were taking pictures of each other yet the way you spoke to the organiser was not nice after he explained he would not take any photos of you in but were welcome to leave the event with a refund to save any problems. Most people like to have pictures taken of them when all dressed up, you seem very naive confusing a club to a social event, but yet you are happy to go out to a social venue to meet a couple flirt snog in public where anyone from vanilla life could see your actions if that is not putting your self out in public, your profile is one contradiction, but it always guarantees to get one person that will try and put a damper on which was an amazing event, so you came on here to vent your anger making yourselves look absolutely stupid yet your profile says happy to swap face pics with any Tom Dick or Harry from here. Need we say any more. We’re not trying to put a dampener on your event, that’s your interpretation!! If we decide to chat to people on the internet and feel we can trust them and swap photos here that’s our decision, they’re are our pictures to swap or not, not yours !! And if we decide to have fun in a bar, again that’s our decision not yours However you want to spin this, people who enjoy “swinging” expect discretion wether in a social setting or a swinging club, that’s not much to ask - No PHOTOS without permission Expecting to take take photos in this type of environment is a big NO NO All you had to do is say upfront that photos will be taken and people can then make a decision to go or not We wouldn’t have bought tickets if we’d have known that you were taking photos !!! Stop trying to defend or spin something that is wrong - its an over site in your behalf, not lease learn from it and be honest and upfront next time Ok safe to say you won't be at the next one. BTW I wouldn't advise attending any of the other socials or events, of you feel so strongly about it, as people do tend to take pictures with their phones and you could be in the background. The organisers work bloody hard to make this event happen, and generally take everything on board to make the night and future nights as enjoyable as they can. 99% of the people attending have gone to great effort to dress in accordance to a ball and are greatful for a picture of themselves as a momento of the evening. Let's face it, its not going to be posted in the south Wales media, or any other prominent media outlets. I think there are far bigger things going on in the world to worry about a few people having the most wonderful night and enjoying themselves. Keep calm, learn from this, and now you know to question before committing to anything in the future. How do you know where it’s going to be posted - now or in the future, isn’t that the point, you’re happy with pictures of yourself being owned by others in this scenario that’s you’re decision, but it wasn’t ours and it has been taken from us without asking - that’s the point and no other " I know because 1. This isn't the first time this event has happened 2. If you had asked the organisers what happens to the photographs you would get the reply they only go to the people in them. 3. I can personally garuntee the organisers would not be putting your pictures on the 6 o'clock news or selling them to some greasy old man to mastubate to online. They are wonderful people who care, work hard, and wouldn't want their eveto fail. | |||
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"Wow - kicked out of the chat group for mentioning that photographs shouldn’t be allowed at a swingers party !!! We should be given the privacy as a club - really not good to take photos especially using a professional camera at a swingers party - it’s a very big NO NO 1. It was a social event, not a club. It was not a "swingers" event. 2. The photographs only go to the people who were there, who would have see you there, not made public in any other forum, website, social media etc 3. If you had approached the team and advised you didnt wish to be in photographs they would have ensured you weren't. I'm sure if you reach out, the organisers will delete any photographs with you in them We just discussed this and you're 100% It was a social event, which was very clearly stated. If you would have preferred to not have you photo taken then all you need to do was politely say. It was another great night and we are really looking forward to the next one. Thank you so much for all the hard work you put in for us all. Xx We did ask not to be photographed and was told that we could either leave or he will “try” not to include us Regardless of a social event or not no cameras should be permitted or at least forewarned and then a decision could have been made wether to attend or not Well just reading your profile is a contradiction, really funny actually and you were worried about a social event where everybody were taking pictures of each other yet the way you spoke to the organiser was not nice after he explained he would not take any photos of you in but were welcome to leave the event with a refund to save any problems. Most people like to have pictures taken of them when all dressed up, you seem very naive confusing a club to a social event, but yet you are happy to go out to a social venue to meet a couple flirt snog in public where anyone from vanilla life could see your actions if that is not putting your self out in public, your profile is one contradiction, but it always guarantees to get one person that will try and put a damper on which was an amazing event, so you came on here to vent your anger making yourselves look absolutely stupid yet your profile says happy to swap face pics with any Tom Dick or Harry from here. Need we say any more. We’re not trying to put a dampener on your event, that’s your interpretation!! If we decide to chat to people on the internet and feel we can trust them and swap photos here that’s our decision, they’re are our pictures to swap or not, not yours !! And if we decide to have fun in a bar, again that’s our decision not yours However you want to spin this, people who enjoy “swinging” expect discretion wether in a social setting or a swinging club, that’s not much to ask - No PHOTOS without permission Expecting to take take photos in this type of environment is a big NO NO All you had to do is say upfront that photos will be taken and people can then make a decision to go or not We wouldn’t have bought tickets if we’d have known that you were taking photos !!! Stop trying to defend or spin something that is wrong - its an over site in your behalf, not lease learn from it and be honest and upfront next time Ok safe to say you won't be at the next one. BTW I wouldn't advise attending any of the other socials or events, of you feel so strongly about it, as people do tend to take pictures with their phones and you could be in the background. The organisers work bloody hard to make this event happen, and generally take everything on board to make the night and future nights as enjoyable as they can. 99% of the people attending have gone to great effort to dress in accordance to a ball and are greatful for a picture of themselves as a momento of the evening. Let's face it, its not going to be posted in the south Wales media, or any other prominent media outlets. I think there are far bigger things going on in the world to worry about a few people having the most wonderful night and enjoying themselves. Keep calm, learn from this, and now you know to question before committing to anything in the future. How do you know where it’s going to be posted - now or in the future, isn’t that the point, you’re happy with pictures of yourself being owned by others in this scenario that’s you’re decision, but it wasn’t ours and it has been taken from us without asking - that’s the point and no other I know because 1. This isn't the first time this event has happened 2. If you had asked the organisers what happens to the photographs you would get the reply they only go to the people in them. 3. I can personally garuntee the organisers would not be putting your pictures on the 6 o'clock news or selling them to some greasy old man to mastubate to online. They are wonderful people who care, work hard, and wouldn't want their eveto fail." I’m sure they are nice people, although we’re beginning to wonder because of our private conversations with them Nevertheless you can’t guarantee that at all, you never know what happens in the future, anything can happen, they may get hacked, they may make a mistake - literally anything can happen to those photos in the future and this could cause huge problems for anyone in them. Jobs - relationships - well being - confidence Our son was rejected for an Ivy League American university due to a poor post by someone else on social media, which has a very negative affect on him If photos are allowed this should have been stated up front and decisions to come or not could be made - it’s easy to say this was a social event BUT it was for members of fab swingers only and therefore a swingers event, which could be posted on social media and effect people’s lives Not good at all It’s expected in events such as this that discretion is assured, but it wasn’t, it has been thrown out of the window and could possibly have devastating consequences Really not good, just for the sake of openness upfront Poor thought, that’s all | |||
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"Wow - kicked out of the chat group for mentioning that photographs shouldn’t be allowed at a swingers party !!! We should be given the privacy as a club - really not good to take photos especially using a professional camera at a swingers party - it’s a very big NO NO 1. It was a social event, not a club. It was not a "swingers" event. 2. The photographs only go to the people who were there, who would have see you there, not made public in any other forum, website, social media etc 3. If you had approached the team and advised you didnt wish to be in photographs they would have ensured you weren't. I'm sure if you reach out, the organisers will delete any photographs with you in them We just discussed this and you're 100% It was a social event, which was very clearly stated. If you would have preferred to not have you photo taken then all you need to do was politely say. It was another great night and we are really looking forward to the next one. Thank you so much for all the hard work you put in for us all. Xx We did ask not to be photographed and was told that we could either leave or he will “try” not to include us Regardless of a social event or not no cameras should be permitted or at least forewarned and then a decision could have been made wether to attend or not Well just reading your profile is a contradiction, really funny actually and you were worried about a social event where everybody were taking pictures of each other yet the way you spoke to the organiser was not nice after he explained he would not take any photos of you in but were welcome to leave the event with a refund to save any problems. Most people like to have pictures taken of them when all dressed up, you seem very naive confusing a club to a social event, but yet you are happy to go out to a social venue to meet a couple flirt snog in public where anyone from vanilla life could see your actions if that is not putting your self out in public, your profile is one contradiction, but it always guarantees to get one person that will try and put a damper on which was an amazing event, so you came on here to vent your anger making yourselves look absolutely stupid yet your profile says happy to swap face pics with any Tom Dick or Harry from here. Need we say any more. We’re not trying to put a dampener on your event, that’s your interpretation!! If we decide to chat to people on the internet and feel we can trust them and swap photos here that’s our decision, they’re are our pictures to swap or not, not yours !! And if we decide to have fun in a bar, again that’s our decision not yours However you want to spin this, people who enjoy “swinging” expect discretion wether in a social setting or a swinging club, that’s not much to ask - No PHOTOS without permission Expecting to take take photos in this type of environment is a big NO NO All you had to do is say upfront that photos will be taken and people can then make a decision to go or not We wouldn’t have bought tickets if we’d have known that you were taking photos !!! Stop trying to defend or spin something that is wrong - its an over site in your behalf, not lease learn from it and be honest and upfront next time Ok safe to say you won't be at the next one. BTW I wouldn't advise attending any of the other socials or events, of you feel so strongly about it, as people do tend to take pictures with their phones and you could be in the background. The organisers work bloody hard to make this event happen, and generally take everything on board to make the night and future nights as enjoyable as they can. 99% of the people attending have gone to great effort to dress in accordance to a ball and are greatful for a picture of themselves as a momento of the evening. Let's face it, its not going to be posted in the south Wales media, or any other prominent media outlets. I think there are far bigger things going on in the world to worry about a few people having the most wonderful night and enjoying themselves. Keep calm, learn from this, and now you know to question before committing to anything in the future. How do you know where it’s going to be posted - now or in the future, isn’t that the point, you’re happy with pictures of yourself being owned by others in this scenario that’s you’re decision, but it wasn’t ours and it has been taken from us without asking - that’s the point and no other I know because 1. This isn't the first time this event has happened 2. If you had asked the organisers what happens to the photographs you would get the reply they only go to the people in them. 3. I can personally garuntee the organisers would not be putting your pictures on the 6 o'clock news or selling them to some greasy old man to mastubate to online. They are wonderful people who care, work hard, and wouldn't want their eveto fail. I’m sure they are nice people, although we’re beginning to wonder because of our private conversations with them Nevertheless you can’t guarantee that at all, you never know what happens in the future, anything can happen, they may get hacked, they may make a mistake - literally anything can happen to those photos in the future and this could cause huge problems for anyone in them. Jobs - relationships - well being - confidence Our son was rejected for an Ivy League American university due to a poor post by someone else on social media, which has a very negative affect on him If photos are allowed this should have been stated up front and decisions to come or not could be made - it’s easy to say this was a social event BUT it was for members of fab swingers only and therefore a swingers event, which could be posted on social media and effect people’s lives Not good at all It’s expected in events such as this that discretion is assured, but it wasn’t, it has been thrown out of the window and could possibly have devastating consequences Really not good, just for the sake of openness upfront Poor thought, that’s all " So if I or anyone were to see in the future a picture of you from last night, how would I know that you were at a "swingers' social" and not just at another social event? | |||
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"Wow - kicked out of the chat group for mentioning that photographs shouldn’t be allowed at a swingers party !!! We should be given the privacy as a club - really not good to take photos especially using a professional camera at a swingers party - it’s a very big NO NO 1. It was a social event, not a club. It was not a "swingers" event. 2. The photographs only go to the people who were there, who would have see you there, not made public in any other forum, website, social media etc 3. If you had approached the team and advised you didnt wish to be in photographs they would have ensured you weren't. I'm sure if you reach out, the organisers will delete any photographs with you in them We just discussed this and you're 100% It was a social event, which was very clearly stated. If you would have preferred to not have you photo taken then all you need to do was politely say. It was another great night and we are really looking forward to the next one. Thank you so much for all the hard work you put in for us all. Xx We did ask not to be photographed and was told that we could either leave or he will “try” not to include us Regardless of a social event or not no cameras should be permitted or at least forewarned and then a decision could have been made wether to attend or not Well just reading your profile is a contradiction, really funny actually and you were worried about a social event where everybody were taking pictures of each other yet the way you spoke to the organiser was not nice after he explained he would not take any photos of you in but were welcome to leave the event with a refund to save any problems. Most people like to have pictures taken of them when all dressed up, you seem very naive confusing a club to a social event, but yet you are happy to go out to a social venue to meet a couple flirt snog in public where anyone from vanilla life could see your actions if that is not putting your self out in public, your profile is one contradiction, but it always guarantees to get one person that will try and put a damper on which was an amazing event, so you came on here to vent your anger making yourselves look absolutely stupid yet your profile says happy to swap face pics with any Tom Dick or Harry from here. Need we say any more. We’re not trying to put a dampener on your event, that’s your interpretation!! If we decide to chat to people on the internet and feel we can trust them and swap photos here that’s our decision, they’re are our pictures to swap or not, not yours !! And if we decide to have fun in a bar, again that’s our decision not yours However you want to spin this, people who enjoy “swinging” expect discretion wether in a social setting or a swinging club, that’s not much to ask - No PHOTOS without permission Expecting to take take photos in this type of environment is a big NO NO All you had to do is say upfront that photos will be taken and people can then make a decision to go or not We wouldn’t have bought tickets if we’d have known that you were taking photos !!! Stop trying to defend or spin something that is wrong - its an over site in your behalf, not lease learn from it and be honest and upfront next time Ok safe to say you won't be at the next one. BTW I wouldn't advise attending any of the other socials or events, of you feel so strongly about it, as people do tend to take pictures with their phones and you could be in the background. The organisers work bloody hard to make this event happen, and generally take everything on board to make the night and future nights as enjoyable as they can. 99% of the people attending have gone to great effort to dress in accordance to a ball and are greatful for a picture of themselves as a momento of the evening. Let's face it, its not going to be posted in the south Wales media, or any other prominent media outlets. I think there are far bigger things going on in the world to worry about a few people having the most wonderful night and enjoying themselves. Keep calm, learn from this, and now you know to question before committing to anything in the future. How do you know where it’s going to be posted - now or in the future, isn’t that the point, you’re happy with pictures of yourself being owned by others in this scenario that’s you’re decision, but it wasn’t ours and it has been taken from us without asking - that’s the point and no other I know because 1. This isn't the first time this event has happened 2. If you had asked the organisers what happens to the photographs you would get the reply they only go to the people in them. 3. I can personally garuntee the organisers would not be putting your pictures on the 6 o'clock news or selling them to some greasy old man to mastubate to online. They are wonderful people who care, work hard, and wouldn't want their eveto fail. I’m sure they are nice people, although we’re beginning to wonder because of our private conversations with them Nevertheless you can’t guarantee that at all, you never know what happens in the future, anything can happen, they may get hacked, they may make a mistake - literally anything can happen to those photos in the future and this could cause huge problems for anyone in them. Jobs - relationships - well being - confidence Our son was rejected for an Ivy League American university due to a poor post by someone else on social media, which has a very negative affect on him If photos are allowed this should have been stated up front and decisions to come or not could be made - it’s easy to say this was a social event BUT it was for members of fab swingers only and therefore a swingers event, which could be posted on social media and effect people’s lives Not good at all It’s expected in events such as this that discretion is assured, but it wasn’t, it has been thrown out of the window and could possibly have devastating consequences Really not good, just for the sake of openness upfront Poor thought, that’s all So if I or anyone were to see in the future a picture of you from last night, how would I know that you were at a "swingers' social" and not just at another social event? " Who knows, maybe someone will put a title in it saying “swingers event” Do you think Pr Andrew - Trump - musk - Clinton etc thought a little pic with Epstein would get them in the shit, do you think they regret it now, innocent or not, pictures can be manipulated in the wrong hands Don’t be naive Maybe the organisers will do the same, maybe the photos will get hacked and the hacker do it - who knows what happens in the future …. Nobody !!! You don’t know, It may not effect you, it may effect your children The point is swingers event, which this was, only for fab swinger members, should not have cameras and if they are allowed it should be stated up front so people can than make informed decisions to go or not We wouldn’t have gone knowing that | |||
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