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What is your ability to meet like?
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
I can be flexible as in I can travel a reasonable distance if I am very interested (not happening lately) and if I am off work. But since I work shifts with no set pattern and I never know my days off until 6 weeks in advance or so, my job and family take total priority.
But if I am not working and totally interested, I definitely make meets happen.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Typically really good, my wife and I balance who’s looking after home affairs, whilst one of is ‘out-out’.
But this next month is difficult, but typically we make it work for each other. 
All We Need is notice, and transparency.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am between careers at the moment so apart from the fact that I don't like mornings I am fairly flexible when I can meet.
Honestly I need caffeine in the mornings x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I work FT.. Sometimes very long hours. I have pets, an allotment and gym commitments most week evenings.
Sometimes i fancy being spontaneous on a weekend, but I'm usually just exhausted or need to do the shopping 
So in a nutshell I'm a nightmare to arrange a meet up with unless you are less than an hour from me and like meeting on Saturday afternoons or Sunday mornings  |
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I only meet in clubs, by chance, at least for the first time, so my availability doesn't matter much here. But if I was to do a 1:1 meet, I am not very flexible due to working Mon to Fri during the day, having time commitments within my online gaming community and seeing my partner at the weekends. So no, my availability for 1:1 meets is absolutely crap! Only make exceptions for my FB/FWB, one of whom might be moving to Liverpool soon. |
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Unfortunately I'm on the road alot and am one of those "in your area" wankers, which isn't always appealing to meets understandably"
That seems to work well enough in other variants of 'the game'! |
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"Almost every evening is good for us, weekends are pretty free too. I can't understand how someone is so busy that they can't plan anything. Maybe I'm just boring though! Lol
Mrs"
I imagine majority of single working parents with no family or other available childcare easily fall into that category. |
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Unfortunately I'm on the road alot and am one of those "in your area" wankers, which isn't always appealing to meets understandably
That seems to work well enough in other variants of 'the game'!"
I am definitely the wrong variant for it to work well haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Flexible on working hours and in an open relationship so pretty damn flexible but I do plan life stuff in advance so a little notice or flexibility the other way helps to make stuff happen too. |
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We are fairly flexible - we only have child commitments every other weekend and none live at home.
We both work from home too so could technically meet in the day.
Guys are the hardest to arrange time with. Despite them complaining about not being able to get a meet 
K
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer daytime's it's just easier with childcare, otherwise it takes a bit more planning.
As a couple it's trickier again with childcare but manageable but that's mostly evenings.
With the holidays coming up I will have less time to meet than usual. |
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I pretty much work office hours and the odd Saturday here and there. Outside of that I’m free and don’t mind a bit of travelling
I have been to clubs but with my work hours I can’t stay late so a bit pointless even going in that case |
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If you're exceptional and exquisite then I can have an ebony carriage waiting at the granite steps to your front door almost immediately.
If you're above average, give me a day. If you're mediocre then I may need to shift my diary somewhat but can afford you an afternoon of my time during the week.
If you're below par then we're looking at the next month or so for a slot to appear in my calendar.
I can be flexibly inflexible and inflexibly flexible, dependent on the calibre of the lady. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Weekends.
I could do a weekday evening if they’re quite local but I get up very early for work and I’d hate to end a night early if we’ve got a vibe going. |
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I'm self-employed and set my own hours so can work my availability around pretty much anyone unless I have a prior plan with my wife, but we're both pretty flexible about modifying our plans if opportunities arise elsewhere.
Though someone told me earlier that noting that I set my own hours is potentially a marker for cheating? So I may take that out of my bio to avoid that implication. |
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"I work FT.. Sometimes very long hours. I have pets, an allotment and gym commitments most week evenings.
Sometimes i fancy being spontaneous on a weekend, but I'm usually just exhausted or need to do the shopping
So in a nutshell I'm a nightmare to arrange a meet up with unless you are less than an hour from me and like meeting on Saturday afternoons or Sunday mornings "
Midnight, some nightmares are worth having  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I work FT.. Sometimes very long hours. I have pets, an allotment and gym commitments most week evenings.
Sometimes i fancy being spontaneous on a weekend, but I'm usually just exhausted or need to do the shopping
So in a nutshell I'm a nightmare to arrange a meet up with unless you are less than an hour from me and like meeting on Saturday afternoons or Sunday mornings
Midnight, some nightmares are worth having "
some people have been waiting 5 years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually only late at night at weekends (I have an ordinary social life and normal domestic things to do a lot of the time, and unfortunately I still have to work) but very occasionally in the day during the week too, but very rarely at short notice (except late at night at weekends, that is). |
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By *empted23Couple
over a year ago
countryside |
Only a Friday
Also , that’s not .. oh it’s Friday “ we are free “
Nope
Only have the option of a sitter on a Friday
And the sitter has to be booked
IN Advance
So not particularly flexible or infact not particularly free to meet at all
But we are keen
It would just need reliable people as a few times we booked the sitter in advance and then the people we would of met flake on us
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By *luefire2Couple
over a year ago
just somewhere around here |
I work shifts so sometimes it is awkward, my shifts can be 4.45 starts or 1.30am finishes plus most weekends and bank holidays.......pays well but eats up my social life!
This is why we hate tine wasters!
Mrs R |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Given my work involves copious amounts of travel and I'm retraining to become a psychologist, I'd say my time is very limited, but I will always make time for that special someone |
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I just can’t be arsed with theses thing right now.
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