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By *kittex OP Man 7 weeks ago
Liverpool |
since been on fab for some time i never received an invite or a message from a female i just clearly don't understand what you guis want from this website plenty of single females here and nobody talks properly 🤨☹️ |
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Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek |
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By *kittex OP Man 7 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek"
- Is not about that every time i try to chat my messages got deleted and blocked and i don't iven say anything bat just - Hi to you or if is a couple hi Guis and instantly get blocked so what's wrong with people on here 😒😒😒 haven't done nothing wrong or said anything to trigger this behaviour 🧐 |
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By *kittex OP Man 7 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"You've had three meets this month I really don't know what your expecting"
- Them 3 meets was in a swing club and nothing happened there either people just verified me for my presence and nice conversations but nothing specifically happened at the time so they equal to 0 to me |
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"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek"
Look Diamond…this is a man moan thread. The last thing it needs is you sashaying in ere with your common sense and reasonable perspective stuff. Next thing ya know it’ll all be alright.. then what’s everyone gonna talk about all night? Allotments and bum fingering that’s what.  |
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"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek
Look Diamond…this is a man moan thread. The last thing it needs is you sashaying in ere with your common sense and reasonable perspective stuff. Next thing ya know it’ll all be alright.. then what’s everyone gonna talk about all night? Allotments and bum fingering that’s what. "
Actually I do find allotments quite interesting….. |
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"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek
Look Diamond…this is a man moan thread. The last thing it needs is you sashaying in ere with your common sense and reasonable perspective stuff. Next thing ya know it’ll all be alright.. then what’s everyone gonna talk about all night? Allotments and bum fingering that’s what.
Actually I do find allotments quite interesting….."
Cause of the vegetables? |
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"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek
Look Diamond…this is a man moan thread. The last thing it needs is you sashaying in ere with your common sense and reasonable perspective stuff. Next thing ya know it’ll all be alright.. then what’s everyone gonna talk about all night? Allotments and bum fingering that’s what. "
I really think me and my common sense are wasted on this site  |
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"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek
Look Diamond…this is a man moan thread. The last thing it needs is you sashaying in ere with your common sense and reasonable perspective stuff. Next thing ya know it’ll all be alright.. then what’s everyone gonna talk about all night? Allotments and bum fingering that’s what.
Actually I do find allotments quite interesting…..
Cause of the vegetables? "
Love them. That and it’s one of the few place I feel young still |
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"You've had three meets this month I really don't know what your expecting"
If I had 3 meets in one month from beautiful people I don't think I'd be complaining, I'd be shouting from the rooftops proclaiming I'm god to all women! |
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"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek
Look Diamond…this is a man moan thread. The last thing it needs is you sashaying in ere with your common sense and reasonable perspective stuff. Next thing ya know it’ll all be alright.. then what’s everyone gonna talk about all night? Allotments and bum fingering that’s what. I really think me and my common sense are wasted on this site "
I know the feeling. |
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"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek
Look Diamond…this is a man moan thread. The last thing it needs is you sashaying in ere with your common sense and reasonable perspective stuff. Next thing ya know it’ll all be alright.. then what’s everyone gonna talk about all night? Allotments and bum fingering that’s what. "
Allotments and bum fingering.....
That took an unexpected turn 😂 |
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"since been on fab for some time i never received an invite or a message from a female i just clearly don't understand what you guis want from this website plenty of single females here and nobody talks properly 🤨☹️"
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Nobody talks properly...?? 🤔 |
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By *kittex OP Man 7 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"You've had three meets this month I really don't know what your expecting
If I had 3 meets in one month from beautiful people I don't think I'd be complaining, I'd be shouting from the rooftops proclaiming I'm god to all women!"
- If you read the comment u will see that i stated them 3 meets was the whole time ivbeen since i have an account on fab and they wasn't been with an happy end for everyone i just meet a couple of people in my local swing club and nothing happened coz they wasn't been fancy single males simple as that 🫣🤭 |
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"My biggest issue is when I’m lying in bed at night and trying to be certain if I turned the kitchen lights off.
I worry about putting the cat out.....and I don't even have one "
Exactly, being single is complicated.  |
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By *kittex OP Man 7 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"since been on fab for some time i never received an invite or a message from a female i just clearly don't understand what you guis want from this website plenty of single females here and nobody talks properly 🤨☹️
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Nobody talks properly...?? 🤔"
- Well when i said nobody talks properly i don't know what else i have to do , i text them first with a simple welcoming and nobody reach out back so should i text people every time first or how does this aspect works i haven't received a message in 2 months or so 🫣 |
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By *kittex OP Man 7 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"My biggest issue is when I’m lying in bed at night and trying to be certain if I turned the kitchen lights off.
I worry about putting the cat out.....and I don't even have one
Exactly, being single is complicated. "
Yes it is..... 🤥 |
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By *kittex OP Man 7 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek
Look Diamond…this is a man moan thread. The last thing it needs is you sashaying in ere with your common sense and reasonable perspective stuff. Next thing ya know it’ll all be alright.. then what’s everyone gonna talk about all night? Allotments and bum fingering that’s what. I really think me and my common sense are wasted on this site "
- Well no idea what your trying to say by this to be onest ... 🤔🤥🤥🤥🤥 |
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"Allotments and bum fingering that’s what.
Do I have to choose Glow ?
Is it either or both ?
SinSpin what happens on the allotment stays on the allotment. "
As long as there are hand washing facilities, I'm happy to bum finger at the allotment.
Whose joining me ?
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"Allotments and bum fingering that’s what.
Do I have to choose Glow ?
Is it either or both ?
SinSpin what happens on the allotment stays on the allotment.
As long as there are hand washing facilities, I'm happy to bum finger at the allotment.
Whose joining me ?
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Sign us up! Getting down and dirty in more than one way 😉 |
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"Allotments and bum fingering that’s what.
Do I have to choose Glow ?
Is it either or both ?
SinSpin what happens on the allotment stays on the allotment.
As long as there are hand washing facilities, I'm happy to bum finger at the allotment.
Whose joining me ?
Sign us up! Getting down and dirty in more than one way 😉"
Top of my list |
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"Allotments and bum fingering that’s what.
Do I have to choose Glow ?
Is it either or both ?
SinSpin what happens on the allotment stays on the allotment.
As long as there are hand washing facilities, I'm happy to bum finger at the allotment.
Whose joining me ?
Sign us up! Getting down and dirty in more than one way 😉"
This here bum fingering on the allontment, is it in a shed or a greenhouse? |
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"Is that soil, or …? 
Sniff it.....
Not sure we're feeling that brave 😂
No pain no gain
*Takes deep breaths*......
Nice Breaths.
Think I might need someone to hold my hand..... Just for support 🤭"
I'll do what I can to help.
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"Is that soil, or …?
Sniff it.....
Not sure we're feeling that brave 😂
No pain no gain
*Takes deep breaths*......
Nice Breaths.
Think I might need someone to hold my hand..... Just for support 🤭
I'll do what I can to help.
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Knew I could rely on you! |
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"So if you don't have a shed, but have visited a garden centre looking at sheds, does that make you curious?"
Depends, did you fancy more than one of them? Not everyone has the stamina to erect two. |
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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- Them 3 meets was in a swing club and nothing happened there either people just verified me for my presence and nice conversations but nothing specifically happened at the time so they equal to 0 to me"
Found your problem. That attitude |
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"So if you don't have a shed, but have visited a garden centre looking at sheds, does that make you curious?
Depends, did you fancy more than one of them? Not everyone has the stamina to erect two."
I'll try. |
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"So if you don't have a shed, but have visited a garden centre looking at sheds, does that make you curious?
Depends, did you fancy more than one of them? Not everyone has the stamina to erect two."
Those sheds man! Run you ragged! |
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"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek
- Is not about that every time i try to chat my messages got deleted and blocked and i don't iven say anything bat just - Hi to you or if is a couple hi Guis and instantly get blocked so what's wrong with people on here 😒😒😒 haven't done nothing wrong or said anything to trigger this behaviour 🧐"
The reason they delete your message is because either your profile or you are not what they are looking for. Which is completely acceptable as everyone has their own preferences.
They’ll then block you for a number of reasons, one of those is so you don’t show up in searches. I do the same, if I message a guy and he just deletes my message. I take that as he isn’t interested in me and I’ll block him. That way when I go on “who’s near” he won’t appear and take up a space for somebody who might be.
As with any other scenario, women have the power/control here. Same as a night club environment. They’ll usually be able to pick and choose who they hook with. On here, it’s just 1000 times worse. There are so many single guys looking for women and couples that women and couples have the privilege of being picky. |
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By *aizyWoman 7 weeks ago
west midlands |
"So if you don't have a shed, but have visited a garden centre looking at sheds, does that make you curious?
Depends, did you fancy more than one of them? Not everyone has the stamina to erect two."
I did actually, one had a lovely entrance, the other was very well endowed with a lovely sloping roof. |
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"I did actually, one had a lovely entrance, the other was very well endowed with a lovely sloping roof.
One from the bottom, one from the top? Oh, I say."
Sounds like a sound MO for a single man, don't you agree RTG... |
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"So if you don't have a shed, but have visited a garden centre looking at sheds, does that make you curious?
Depends, did you fancy more than one of them? Not everyone has the stamina to erect two.
I did actually, one had a lovely entrance, the other was very well endowed with a lovely sloping roof."
Have to admit big fan of the old pent roof.... |
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By *kittex OP Man 7 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek
- Is not about that every time i try to chat my messages got deleted and blocked and i don't iven say anything bat just - Hi to you or if is a couple hi Guis and instantly get blocked so what's wrong with people on here 😒😒😒 haven't done nothing wrong or said anything to trigger this behaviour 🧐
The reason they delete your message is because either your profile or you are not what they are looking for. Which is completely acceptable as everyone has their own preferences.
They’ll then block you for a number of reasons, one of those is so you don’t show up in searches. I do the same, if I message a guy and he just deletes my message. I take that as he isn’t interested in me and I’ll block him. That way when I go on “who’s near” he won’t appear and take up a space for somebody who might be.
As with any other scenario, women have the power/control here. Same as a night club environment. They’ll usually be able to pick and choose who they hook with. On here, it’s just 1000 times worse. There are so many single guys looking for women and couples that women and couples have the privilege of being picky. "
this doesn't sound right to me i'm a simple nice single guy 🫣 why would i be judged straight away and deleted without iven given a chance for a chat, so if your single girl and u don't want a good looking single male with i consider to be apparently 🫣 then means something is wrong or ? As how will you build your profile if u don't have a chance to meet you see my point ? Is a loop circle recycle over and over again i just really don't understand what i have to do to match at least one vibe and meet . |
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"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek
- Is not about that every time i try to chat my messages got deleted and blocked and i don't iven say anything bat just - Hi to you or if is a couple hi Guis and instantly get blocked so what's wrong with people on here 😒😒😒 haven't done nothing wrong or said anything to trigger this behaviour 🧐
The reason they delete your message is because either your profile or you are not what they are looking for. Which is completely acceptable as everyone has their own preferences.
They’ll then block you for a number of reasons, one of those is so you don’t show up in searches. I do the same, if I message a guy and he just deletes my message. I take that as he isn’t interested in me and I’ll block him. That way when I go on “who’s near” he won’t appear and take up a space for somebody who might be.
As with any other scenario, women have the power/control here. Same as a night club environment. They’ll usually be able to pick and choose who they hook with. On here, it’s just 1000 times worse. There are so many single guys looking for women and couples that women and couples have the privilege of being picky.
this doesn't sound right to me i'm a simple nice single guy 🫣 why would i be judged straight away and deleted without iven given a chance for a chat, so if your single girl and u don't want a good looking single male with i consider to be apparently 🫣 then means something is wrong or ? As how will you build your profile if u don't have a chance to meet you see my point ? Is a loop circle recycle over and over again i just really don't understand what i have to do to match at least one vibe and meet ."
Unfortunately I think not understanding is many people’s downfall when it comes to meeting people here…..
I think many come to fab as a last resort having struggled to meet people in everyday life….thinking it will be easier. It’s actually harder but the reward is finding people for specific desires.
You will probably find those that are successful here are not using it as a last resort….and have no problem meeting people in everyday life…but are here seeking something extra. |
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this doesn't sound right to me i'm a simple nice single guy 🫣 why would i be judged straight away and deleted without iven given a chance for a chat, so if your single girl and u don't want a good looking single male with i consider to be apparently 🫣 then means something is wrong or ? As how will you build your profile if u don't have a chance to meet you see my point ? Is a loop circle recycle over and over again i just really don't understand what i have to do to match at least one vibe and meet ."
OP, You're not understand what's being explained to You ..
The Women here can get upwards of 300+ messages a day, You've got to understand that most of Your messages won't even get read in the melee of the "Inbox" and some of them are not looking for You..(Grammer,Looks,Age,Sexuality,Hell, even eye colour!)
We (Single Males) drastically outnumber Single Females, TV/TS and Couples so You've got to stand out (IF Your message and Your Profile are read) and to be Honest, most of us are so "Standard" we fade into the Background. |
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"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek
- Is not about that every time i try to chat my messages got deleted and blocked and i don't iven say anything bat just - Hi to you or if is a couple hi Guis and instantly get blocked so what's wrong with people on here 😒😒😒 haven't done nothing wrong or said anything to trigger this behaviour 🧐
The reason they delete your message is because either your profile or you are not what they are looking for. Which is completely acceptable as everyone has their own preferences.
They’ll then block you for a number of reasons, one of those is so you don’t show up in searches. I do the same, if I message a guy and he just deletes my message. I take that as he isn’t interested in me and I’ll block him. That way when I go on “who’s near” he won’t appear and take up a space for somebody who might be.
As with any other scenario, women have the power/control here. Same as a night club environment. They’ll usually be able to pick and choose who they hook with. On here, it’s just 1000 times worse. There are so many single guys looking for women and couples that women and couples have the privilege of being picky.
this doesn't sound right to me i'm a simple nice single guy 🫣 why would i be judged straight away and deleted without iven given a chance for a chat, so if your single girl and u don't want a good looking single male with i consider to be apparently 🫣 then means something is wrong or ? As how will you build your profile if u don't have a chance to meet you see my point ? Is a loop circle recycle over and over again i just really don't understand what i have to do to match at least one vibe and meet ."
It's really not rocket science, people have preferences it could be something as simple as your to young or rightly or wrongly some women don't meet bi men so that could also be a factor plus you smoke which will also put some people off.
Women and couples can get ridiculously stupid amounts of messages you have to make your first message stand out (in a good way).. Top marks for being honest about your sexuality lots of men aren't and your doing the right thing by attending clubs the more you go the more people will recognise you.
Just because tho you pay your entry fee don't mean women are going to be dropping their knickers for you left right and centre.
Don't moan and whinge tho about lack of messages noone likes a moaning whinging twat unless it's in a sexual way. |
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"this doesn't sound right to me i'm a simple nice single guy 🫣 why would i be judged straight away and deleted without iven given a chance for a chat, so if your single girl and u don't want a good looking single male with i consider to be apparently 🫣 then means something is wrong or ? As how will you build your profile if u don't have a chance to meet you see my point ? Is a loop circle recycle over and over again i just really don't understand what i have to do to match at least one vibe and meet ."
As was explained, the block isn't a personal attack, and often simply a means of making the site work better for the person using it.
If I post a good picture, I'll get about 80 messages that only say hey or hi. I'm not responding to every one of those to find out what their next move is, they're getting deleted. If a first message has nothing to respond to and is impersonal enough it could be sent to every viable hole in the vicinity, it goes in the bin.
If online isn't your medium, use the events forum to find socials. Go to clubs. Meet people in group settings where your positives can shine through 💜 |
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"Sounds like a sound MO for a single man, don't you agree RTG... "
For a man about town, maybe. But this was Daizy speaking. Can her dainty feminine hands support those lofty slopes adequately while poking about the entrance below? |
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By *aizyWoman 7 weeks ago
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"Sounds like a sound MO for a single man, don't you agree RTG...
For a man about town, maybe. But this was Daizy speaking. Can her dainty feminine hands support those lofty slopes adequately while poking about the entrance below?"
You said I've got dainty feminine hands 🤗🫶 |
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By *kittex OP Man 7 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"this doesn't sound right to me i'm a simple nice single guy 🫣 why would i be judged straight away and deleted without iven given a chance for a chat, so if your single girl and u don't want a good looking single male with i consider to be apparently 🫣 then means something is wrong or ? As how will you build your profile if u don't have a chance to meet you see my point ? Is a loop circle recycle over and over again i just really don't understand what i have to do to match at least one vibe and meet .
As was explained, the block isn't a personal attack, and often simply a means of making the site work better for the person using it.
If I post a good picture, I'll get about 80 messages that only say hey or hi. I'm not responding to every one of those to find out what their next move is, they're getting deleted. If a first message has nothing to respond to and is impersonal enough it could be sent to every viable hole in the vicinity, it goes in the bin.
If online isn't your medium, use the events forum to find socials. Go to clubs. Meet people in group settings where your positives can shine through 💜"
- Right so in your Eyes if i say hi to you in Private, you don't reply however i expect a bit of a chat , then means if i push and invade you with messages in girls eyes here on fab i will sound desperate and go in block anywhere , u see my point ? So what in your eyes will be a good message written as a first move ? Coz girls here deffo never text you first. 🤔🫣 |
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"- Right so in your Eyes if i say hi to you in Private, you don't reply however i expect a bit of a chat , then means if i push and invade you with messages in girls eyes here on fab i will sound desperate and go in block anywhere , u see my point ? So what in your eyes will be a good message written as a first move ? Coz girls here deffo never text you first. 🤔🫣"
If you're expecting a chat why are you only saying hi? Are you expecting the person you messaged to do all the legwork on finding a topic that interests you both and actually driving the conversation?
Why would there need to be multiple messages? Why can't you get to your point of interest in the first one rather than batting back and forth first? If there are 80 hi messages to get through are you really expecting people to send 3+ messages to find out what the actual point of each one is?
I've messaged people first on here. If they've seriously stood out to me as someone I want to talk to. No-one having messaged you doesn't mean no-one messages anyone 💜 |
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By *olo180Man 7 weeks ago
West London |
"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek
- Is not about that every time i try to chat my messages got deleted and blocked and i don't iven say anything bat just - Hi to you or if is a couple hi Guis and instantly get blocked so what's wrong with people on here 😒😒😒 haven't done nothing wrong or said anything to trigger this behaviour 🧐"
Maybe work on your grammar? |
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By *ert999400Man 7 weeks ago
Glasgow/Edinburgh/Cardiff |
"- S-o being a single male on fab is basically impossible for you to find out play around coz nobody is looking for single males 🤦😀"
Your profile is shit, as for your verifications anyone including me could meet anyone at a club and ask to be verified.
Suck it up bud and welcome to the weird wacky world that is fab. |
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"- S-o being a single male on fab is basically impossible for you to find out play around coz nobody is looking for single males 🤦😀
Your profile is shit, as for your verifications anyone including me could meet anyone at a club and ask to be verified.
Suck it up bud and welcome to the weird wacky world that is fab."
🤣🤣🤣 |
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By *vaRoseWoman 7 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
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This isn’t aimed directly at you but if any of this rings true then that’s something to work on.
I exclusively met single guys. When I post a new public pic I get hundreds of messages so I have to filter. Right now I’m not meeting so when I do reply it’s to that effect, but let’s assume I am…
No public pics - auto delete, same with the silhouette profile pic
Only cock pics - auto delete
Other off putting pics (this could be but isn’t limited to, dirty background, obvious poor hygiene, lots of action pics where more of their partner is in view than themselves, simply not my type) - delete
No bio - delete
Off putting bio - delete
If someone can’t be bothered to fill in their profile or something in their profile doesn’t align with my own wants or needs I’ll delete.
So now I’ve done a basic filter I’ll open what’s left. Most of them are hi/hey/im nearby fancy a fuck - they go in the bin too. A decent opening message that either makes me laugh or shows they’ve taken the time to read my profile and it’s not some long winded copy/paste job will get a reply.
The truth is every one of us will not actually match with that many people online.
Oh and yes I’ve sent first messages too |
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By *im le2Man 7 weeks ago
AYLESTONE |
"- S-o being a single male on fab is basically impossible for you to find out play around coz nobody is looking for single males 🤦😀"
Nobody this sexy is only looking for one sex.
Your the spitting image of the married guy in my local chippy and I still flirt with him. |
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"Fuck it I'm going to reply, nothing knew I here you say.
There are lots of people looking for single guys, whether that's couples looking to add a single guy or single women looking for a single guy. When i was meeting i used this site to solely meet guys.
It's absolutely rubbish to say noone is looking for single guys.
There are plenty of successful single guys on here it's up to you to make yourself attractive to those that seek
- Is not about that every time i try to chat my messages got deleted and blocked and i don't iven say anything bat just - Hi to you or if is a couple hi Guis and instantly get blocked so what's wrong with people on here 😒😒😒 haven't done nothing wrong or said anything to trigger this behaviour 🧐"
There's a very low probability that any 2 parties are going to be mutually compatible. Your opening messages are chatty, bright, positive (I assume) but the recipients don't share your appeal level. They may ordinarily be chatty etc but there's no point, if they've dozens of similar messages to get through. And blocking prevents any future repeated but avoidable contact between you.
The Fab rules show no reply = no thanks.
It helps to have realistic expectations here. It's perhaps 1% of people who are mutually compatible, so most messages won't get a reply. |
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yes there are a lot of single men here and you might not get laid but look on the bright side - the forums are always open for them to start threads and feel sorry for themselves. you won't get that on tinder
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"yes there are a lot of single men here and you might not get laid but look on the bright side - the forums are always open for them to start threads and feel sorry for themselves. you won't get that on tinder
mrs"
Lol |
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"- S-o being a single male on fab is basically impossible for you to find out play around coz nobody is looking for single males 🤦😀"
My (currently hidden) summary disagrees with you.
Verified by 36 people, newest 3 weeks ago by 44 meet.
*Two pence spent.
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By *bi HaiveMan 7 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"- S-o being a single male on fab is basically impossible for you to find out play around coz nobody is looking for single males 🤦😀"
Sorry, skipped all the previous comments but for my 2p here's my answer.
No it isn't and yes they are. 🤷♂️ |
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"- S-o being a single male on fab is basically impossible for you to find out play around coz nobody is looking for single males 🤦😀
Sorry, skipped all the previous comments but for my 2p here's my answer.
No it isn't and yes they are. 🤷♂️"
Precisely.
Literally thousands of people are looking for single men.
However most have broader criteria than a man with a cock, just any man with a cock. |
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If you are sensible with messages and are always respectful, then success will come.
If people say no thanks, then it's best wishes and move on.
Single women and couples must get bombarded so it's unreasonable to expect a reply to a 'hi' or a 'wanna fuck' message. |
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By *ire_thornMan 7 weeks ago
Sol The Narion system |
"I'm looking for single males...not just any single male though!"
Are you looking for the single male that is the shine to your sparkle? Or... I was going to try and be funny but totally lost my train of thought... Carry on |
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"I'm looking for single males...not just any single male though!
Are you looking for the single male that is the shine to your sparkle? Or... I was going to try and be funny but totally lost my train of thought... Carry on"
Just looking for some that's on the same wavelength... |
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"My biggest issue is when I’m lying in bed at night and trying to be certain if I turned the kitchen lights off.
I worry about putting the cat out.....and I don't even have one "
I had a dream worrying about ordering chopstick stands.
I don't own any chopsticks. |
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Finding a lady or a couple looking for a single man with a great amount of fun to give his hard even just watching a couple or lady or even just chatting would be a miracle after all life’s a gamble specially after covid we only live once |
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I think fab is easier for men….very little admin ….very few weird women sending odd messages….I could list more reasons
