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Do you care if people like you
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By (user no longer on site) OP 13 weeks ago
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"I am the same now, but I used to be a people pleaser."
me too I used to help people out all time people took the Piss I don't bother anymore I have got few nice people in my life
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"I am not bothered "
Same girl!
No matter who you are, what you look like, what you do. Someone is ALWAYS going to have something to say, so fucking let them.
We all experience life differently which shapes our views and opinions, therefore it’s impossible to please everyone.
So fuck them! 😀 |
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"Often seeking Approval from others too much I used to do that when I was younger but I am nearly 52 I don't care anymore "
Same here. And certain experiences over the past few years have led to me having some trust issues, so now it's just easier to keep people at arms length and not give a f**k what anyone thinks of me. |
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Can't please everybody as they say!
We're just us, that means we'll treat you with respect and be generally all round nice to you, but we're definitely not people pleasers.
It's nice to be liked, but at the end of the day, it's healthy to have a recognition that trying to care what everyone thinks is really unhealthy. There will always be people who don't like you and that's totally ok. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 13 weeks ago
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"The older i get, the less im bothered. Youre never going to please everybody and not everyone deserves your time. I keep my energy for those that deserve it. "
totally agree 👍
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By *ilbzMan 13 weeks ago
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No its never bothered me at all.
Plus working as a mechanic everyone wants to be your friend for one reason and one reason only, thinking they were your friend they’d get it done for free. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 13 weeks ago
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"No its never bothered me at all.
Plus working as a mechanic everyone wants to be your friend for one reason and one reason only, thinking they were your friend they’d get it done for free. "
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People in general? Not really. I know most people actively dislike the me on show and I'm okay with that.
The majority of people who have gotten to actually know me have stuck around and seem to like me. That's good enough for me 💜 |
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"People in general? Not really. I know most people actively dislike the me on show and I'm okay with that.
The majority of people who have gotten to actually know me have stuck around and seem to like me. That's good enough for me 💜"
I think you're great |
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I truly believe the adage you can't please all the people all the time and understand one persons heaven is another persons hell, but that doesn't stop me from trying! I don't like to be disliked (a bitter pill, knowing there are a few out there that don't - but as Philosophised above, that's a them problem) |
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"Yeah I'd prefer for people to like me, rather than dislike me... Isn't that natural? "
This. Not everyone has to think I'm the bomb of course, but I'd be a disappointed if someone actively disliked me. |
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"Not in the slightest.
If someone doesn’t like me then that’s on them, it has no concern to me what those people think.
Pah though we were friends... Apparently not 🤣"
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I didn’t think that we wasn’t 🤷♂️🤦♂️😂 |
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"Not in the slightest.
If someone doesn’t like me then that’s on them, it has no concern to me what those people think.
Pah though we were friends... Apparently not 🤣
😳
I didn’t think that we wasn’t 🤷♂️🤦♂️😂"
We're not friends according to my profile!  |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Nope, not on this site. There are people I don't particularly find appealing and I'm sure some feel the same way about me. No skin off my dick, well there is really. |
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"Not in the slightest.
If someone doesn’t like me then that’s on them, it has no concern to me what those people think.
Pah though we were friends... Apparently not 🤣
😳
I didn’t think that we wasn’t 🤷♂️🤦♂️😂
We're not friends according to my profile! "
A profile doesn’t necessarily mean that two people aren’t friends 😂
And I’ve not long been back on fabs after a break 😂 |
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"Not in the slightest.
If someone doesn’t like me then that’s on them, it has no concern to me what those people think.
Pah though we were friends... Apparently not 🤣
😳
I didn’t think that we wasn’t 🤷♂️🤦♂️😂
We're not friends according to my profile!
A profile doesn’t necessarily mean that two people aren’t friends 😂
And I’ve not long been back on fabs after a break 😂"
Fair enough..I have forgiven you for ditching me last summer 🤣. |
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"Not in the slightest.
If someone doesn’t like me then that’s on them, it has no concern to me what those people think.
Pah though we were friends... Apparently not 🤣
😳
I didn’t think that we wasn’t 🤷♂️🤦♂️😂
We're not friends according to my profile!
A profile doesn’t necessarily mean that two people aren’t friends 😂
And I’ve not long been back on fabs after a break 😂
Fair enough..I have forgiven you for ditching me last summer 🤣. "
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I wonder whether it's because I don't care that I'm not very likeable or if it's because I'm not very likeable that I don't care.
That's not true, I don't wonder that at all. I thought about it 30 seconds ago and now my brain has moved onto thoughts of cheeseburgers. I really want a Baconator.
If someone buys me a Baconator I'll totally care. Even a Big Mac, I'm pretty low maintenance. |
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