Well, it’s finally happened. I’ve just had someone comment on a Facebook post of mine, with a picture from my profile on here and a link to my profile. 
I’ve never been too fussed about sharing my name/pictures, and have been open with friends and family about my lifestyle.
But to post one of my photos, on a Facebook post that was about my dead dog is just something else.
Lesson learnt I guess, not sure what the point of this post is tbh I just needed to vent. |
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There's an old adage from William Steig that goes "people are no damn good", and it's the best way of looking at life to avoid disappointment and hurt when someone does something really shitty to you.
We recently have had someone we know from "the scene" contact us on FB, so know how easy it is for your personal life to be exploded into your public life. |
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What is wrong with some people 😡
That's really not cool. Sorry that happened to you. One of the reasons I don't post my full face on my public profile pics is the fact that people can make accounts that remain anonymous. And some arseholes clearly don't understand privacy.
I do wonder what they were trying to achieve doing that to you, was it to get your attention? Was it to shame/humiliate you? Whatever it was, it was a cunty move. |
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over a year ago
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Some people are just vile, sorry that happened to you op.
If you go through your privacy settings you can lock your profile down so creeps can't find it. |
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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago
land of make believe |
Sorry to hear about your loss 🩵
Something similar happened to me quite a few years ago & now I have it so noone I am not friends with can post or comment on my wall.
It doesn't help you today.
There are some repugnant folk out there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it not show who posted it? Name and shame on here so others caan avoid this nasty person. X"
I totally agree. That’s a shit thing to do. Your private life should be exactly that. X |
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Sorry this has happened OP - what an odd way to behave. I don’t understand some people’s logic! 
This is the problem with even just giving a phone number out now - you can come up on searches for a lot of the other social media sites and therefore a lot of your information can be obtained.
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
When I studied Othello as a set work at school, our English teacher banged on about Iago being an "anti-life force"; someone who delights in spoiling, hurting and kicking out at those around them. The term stuck in my head, because it describes behaviour such as the OP has experienced so well.
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I'm so sorry that's happened Demi!
It's awful that people feel the need to intrude into your personal life.
It's perfectly fine to vent, as a large proportion of people here would be equally as miffed as you are.
It's a sad reflection on a certain subset of internet users and their ability to hide amongst relative anonymity.
I'm so sorry it's happened to you. It's quite frankly disgusting. |
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By *he RookMan
over a year ago
Hampshire |
Someone tried to BMail me with an old profile a few years back on faceache messenger on a fake profile. Had nothing to hide but it's an inconvenience trying to work out who it was. That's why I don't have public face photos. But to post it on Faceache is scummy. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Apalling. Worth noting that if you Whatsapp anyone these days you automatically pop up on their Facebook profile as a potential new friend..."
I guess that depends if you use a phone linked to both accounts. I've always used a 'Fab Phone' for here and swinging life and kept my day to day number separate.
I've whatsapped dozens of people over the years, including both my partners. Not once has either of them popped up in suggested friends on Facey.
Separating the two keeps things simple for me. 🤷♂️ |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Whilst even Facebook has privacy settings so no one out of your family/friends list is able to not only view your profile but unable to comment on a photo add any photos as you are able to set who view's or who is able to comment
Some people may think why should they need to, for this whole reason |
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That is a really nasty thing to have done to you. I have had a few people from here pop up as FB friend suggestions because I have their number, sometimes wven other memwbera of their family. But I keep my fab and vanilla life separate. Would never contact anyone from here through FB. Sorry this has happened to you. X |
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"Well, it’s finally happened. I’ve just had someone comment on a Facebook post of mine, with a picture from my profile on here and a link to my profile.
I’ve never been too fussed about sharing my name/pictures, and have been open with friends and family about my lifestyle.
But to post one of my photos, on a Facebook post that was about my dead dog is just something else.
Lesson learnt I guess, not sure what the point of this post is tbh I just needed to vent."
Vent away despicable behaviour think we all need to vent sometimes   |
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This kind of behaviour of 'outing' someone is illegal and considered a hate crime. It's covered under the new laws.
And apart from that, it's a really shitty and immature thing to do.
Rant all you like, OP. This is not the action of an ethical libertine.
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"This kind of behaviour of 'outing' someone is illegal and considered a hate crime. It's covered under the new laws.
And apart from that, it's a really shitty and immature thing to do.
Rant all you like, OP. This is not the action of an ethical libertine.
C"
Even though it is a crime if you have been outed to family the damage can’t be undone |
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By *ACOLCouple
over a year ago
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Op, you are entitle to be upset, not only was the person an 🫏 but he took your kost vulnerable moment and did it then, what a 🍆.
I wish whoever did that to you, a minimum of 20 years of ruined orgasm.
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Thank you everyone 
I managed to delete it straight away, and have since locked down my fb profile so only friends can view/comment, I thought I already had done that.
No clue on what their username is on here, as I only had their Facebook name. Thanks for letting me have the space to rant x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, it’s finally happened. I’ve just had someone comment on a Facebook post of mine, with a picture from my profile on here and a link to my profile.
I’ve never been too fussed about sharing my name/pictures, and have been open with friends and family about my lifestyle.
But to post one of my photos, on a Facebook post that was about my dead dog is just something else.
Lesson learnt I guess, not sure what the point of this post is tbh I just needed to vent."
That's awful...some people are just arseholes.. |
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"Well, it’s finally happened. I’ve just had someone comment on a Facebook post of mine, with a picture from my profile on here and a link to my profile.
I’ve never been too fussed about sharing my name/pictures, and have been open with friends and family about my lifestyle.
But to post one of my photos, on a Facebook post that was about my dead dog is just something else.
Lesson learnt I guess, not sure what the point of this post is tbh I just needed to vent."
That must be the lowest of the low. Hope you are OK.x |
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