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By *loverMan 10 weeks ago
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"When you send out face pictures and then it’s suddenly quiet on the other side. Do you prefer it like this or hearing a “thankyou but not for us” kind of thing?
Has this happened to you before? "
This happens quite often.. honestly I would rather the reply. But each to their own |
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An outcome is always nice and does help!
Anyway I know the females/couples does have hundreds of messages and this is hard to do so but perhaps the admins should think of this side too as there are huge amount of members.
Anyway have fun! |
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Never happened to me, probably because I look like Henry Cavill and Hugh Jackman mixed together.
That being said, if someone ever preferred the Vampire guy from twilight looks, I would rather they delete my message and never reply. |
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"When you send out face pictures and then it’s suddenly quiet on the other side. Do you prefer it like this or hearing a “thankyou but not for us” kind of thing?
Has this happened to you before? "
Best not to read too much into it OP. Could be any number of reasons why they haven't messaged since.
Don't give it a second thought, just focus on who is in front of you and wants to get close and personal with your pretty face  |
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By *inx000Couple 10 weeks ago
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Unfortunately we get it quite often and it does become annoying..we would prefer a reply than no reply at all and be ignored as we find that quite rude.
A simple 'sorry your not what we are looking for' would do just fine. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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I don't really give out my face pic very often...but and extended silence would make me feel like the Elephant Man.. 
I'm not sure there is a nice way of telling someone they look fuck ugly...so that doesn't work either.
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I've had this. One guy blocked me which I thought was extreme! 🤣
I think I'd rather they didn't reply back tbh. No reply is a response as they say.
I've had some guys be really brutal and it's not nice. I'd rather be in my not as attractive as as the ones they like bubble! 😅 |
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There’s so many ways to adress this. I’d rather have a polite “sorry you are not what we’re looking for” then being left on read or just leaving the message unread forever. The message is delivered that way too but just think it’s not left with the best feeling |
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I’ve been on both sides of this lol, that’s why I just decided to have no private pics and put my face out there it’s deffo disheartening to get the “not for me sorry”.
But I was speaking to a woman for a couple of days once until she showed me pictures and I felt horrible saying she wasn’t my type, she took it very well and didn’t give me a hard time, but i did feel like a dick after two days of positive chat.
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Hasn’t happened for a long time I don’t really get into those kinds of conversations anymore and I think I have enough on my profile so people can see what I look like, but I remember doing it as a couple a long time ago and it’s weird. It just goes quiet after, I mean what can you say but no thanks . 😂 |
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Has this happened to you before? "
Yes, it happens a lot.
I’m not sure what I’d prefer, I get that I’m not everyone’s type, but when you think there’s something there, and then you are ghosted, that’s pretty sad.
Do I prefer an honest ‘not gonna happen mate!’? I’m not sure. 😅 |
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"When you send out face pictures and then it’s suddenly quiet on the other side. Do you prefer it like this or hearing a “thankyou but not for us” kind of thing?
Has this happened to you before? "
My heart sinks not because of rejection but I wonder is it somebody that knows us? |
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I rarely send face photos and even then it's usually a month or so from the inception of chatting. If photos are shared the conversation either continues at pace or just fizzles out after a while. That way we never really know if it was the photos that did it or just the natural decay of the conversation. |
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"When you send out face pictures and then it’s suddenly quiet on the other side. Do you prefer it like this or hearing a “thankyou but not for us” kind of thing?
Has this happened to you before?
My heart sinks not because of rejection but I wonder is it somebody that knows us?"
Yeah I worry about this but it’s inevitable lol. |
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"When you send out face pictures and then it’s suddenly quiet on the other side. Do you prefer it like this or hearing a “thankyou but not for us” kind of thing?
Has this happened to you before? "
Honestly just having the mail deleted is usually the easiest.
Speaking from the male perspective people are usually looking for something specific (BBC, Bi, Over 50, Under 30, VWE etc)
Most of your messages never get read.
If it gets read and there is no response you don't know if they're interested or not.
It's so easy to be too keen for some people or not keen enough or another.
And if you do get a no thank you it's WAY to easy to pick over everything about yourself wondering what you did wrong or is wrong about you.
So someone just deleting the mail is the quickest and easiest to deal with.
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I've had responses ranging from just "No" to silent delete and block.
I'm not particularly arsed whether someone rejects in words or by silence - the communication method doesn't change the message! |
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"When you send out face pictures and then it’s suddenly quiet on the other side. Do you prefer it like this or hearing a “thankyou but not for us” kind of thing?
Has this happened to you before? "
Just confirms my penis is better looking than my face |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"When you send out face pictures and then it’s suddenly quiet on the other side. Do you prefer it like this or hearing a “thankyou but not for us” kind of thing?
Has this happened to you before? "
happens quite often id rather hear no thank you than the ghosting. But then again I understand replying no to everyone could be a hassle |
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I hate when people don't reply at all or just delete your message. If you're not interested fine but at least acknowledge it. I reply to everyone eventually, depending on time or how many I have but I'll always reply either way. |
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We always say "not for us thanks" and get the same back but have been ghosted a few times.
We dont fancy everyone and they dont us its the way of the world. We never take offence if its a no but no reply is a bit rude but dont really let it bother us x |
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IIf we're talking purely about what happens after sending a face pic, I think I prefer a 'deleted without reading'. Brutal but unambiguous.
I'd rather that than a faux polite message which is really just code for "we didn't like your ugly mush"! |
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As important as face pics are . When your asked to show yours first then get blocked , isn’t easy to go through but it’s the way it is ! Women have the control . Also when they say face pic with first message or you get deleted ! A bit harsh when they have no pics at all ! |
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