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Why do men do this
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Last few days we have had abuse randomly from men for no reason.
One send a pic of his dick and said can I fuck your slut so you can imagine why he didn’t get a reply it then followed by tits are fake anyway.
I’d never do this if I was single.
Does this happen often to other couples? |
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"Last few days we have had abuse randomly from men for no reason.
One send a pic of his dick and said can I fuck your slut so you can imagine why he didn’t get a reply it then followed by tits are fake anyway.
I’d never do this if I was single.
Does this happen often to other couples?"
It's the internet!
People can get away with being nasty and illogical without repercussions because of anonymity.
We just have to take advantage of that anonymity and move on because we don't have to know them or engage with them any further.
Do not let them occupy space in your head rent free! |
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Not just to Couples. I had a Guy message me about meeting up. I replied, quite politely I thought, that he wasn’t my type unfortunately but I was flatted by his approach. He messaged back saying he was after big muscle types (I was a gym rat at the time) but that wasn’t me anyway. It made be wonder why he got in touch in the first place! |
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"Last few days we have had abuse randomly from men for no reason.
One send a pic of his dick and said can I fuck your slut so you can imagine why he didn’t get a reply it then followed by tits are fake anyway.
I’d never do this if I was single.
Does this happen often to other couples?"
People can sadly be idiots! Block, report and move on, happy in the knowledge that your having a lovely sex life and they are probably not.... |
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We have men blocked on our couple profile , as we're only looking for couples.
However on this account I've had numerous dick pics and the attitude sometimes that well it's a sex site, why wouldn't I want to see their dick.
It's a swinging site and many of us need to have attraction to someone before we want to see their bits and bobs.
Sure, there are ladies and couples that like to see the goods, but unless a profile specifically states that, it's best to keep it to yourself.
I think some genuinely think a cock shot is going make all the women drop their pants. Others just like the thrill of showing it off to others, whether they want to see it or not.
His reaction tells me that he knew he'd overstepped the mark and didn't like being called out on it. It's a good filter, either way. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 6 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
If you're not actively looking for men then block all incoming mail from them. Problem solved instantly. 🤷♂️
It won't prevent you contacting them yourselves, nor continuing chats with any male friends or those you've spoken to before.
And always report abusive messages.
The site gives many tools to help manage an inbox, if people choose to use them of course. |
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We get so many terrible messages from men. It’s a rather sad reflection of modern men.
Insults and abuse
Degrading offers of payment
Two word messages
String messages of desperation
Not sure what they think they are achieving
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By *rLicksMan 6 weeks ago
Worcester |
Report abusive members and remember the block button is your friend.
Sadly there is always going to be an element of “hopers and dreamers” who are here for nothing more than their own fantasies in their head, seeking wank bank material and chat. Unlikely they would ever meet anyone etc etc.
They invested 45 seconds to send a message to you and feel “butt hurt” that you haven’t responded so decide to get abusive… because that will guarantee your desires for them will increase 10 fold of course 
Just a hazard of the territory sadly, don’t let them get to you  |
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"It’s shame that the good men’s reputations on here are often tainted by the absolute twat men on here. "
Well the decent guys shine like beacons so carry on doing what you do and let the idiots dig their holes and get blocked.
Think an issue is the effect on one's morale and confidence (we're good but not every one is) by getting unpleasant abuse on occasion |
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Just a reminder as sometimes people dont ...
have you got filters set for no newbies, no un-verified, and only those within age ranges you are looking for.
You could block all men for a couple of weeks and look around yourself, hiding your profile too lets you be online but reply to those you want and block those being fools |
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By *bi HaiveMan 6 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"It’s shame that the good men’s reputations on here are often tainted by the absolute twat men on here. "
Nope. Urban myth.
We're all individuals and responsible for our own actions, behaviour and engagements.
Nothing I do will ever have any impact on another single male on here and likewise nothing they do changes my experience. 🤷♂️ |
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Idiots , if they were stood next to you in a pub , they wouldn’t dare say that , but because they’re online they think it’s acceptable , they should be kicked off the site , it spoils for decent chaps
Have a good weekend all |
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The vast majority of the messages I get from men are respectful. Yes I get the occasional one that is pure filth or offering money but block and delete and they are gone. I know experiences vary tremendously here but that's my experience. |
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Strange way of attracting mates eh 
