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Struggling with not being ‘seen’
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I am sending loads of messages there are no dick pics. Just me and a message-nothing rude just a general message.
Don’t know why I’m not getting many if any replies
If anyone can offer any advice I would be much appreciated
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By *eppipWoman 9 weeks ago
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Personally, I would be put off by the lack of profile picture. The one public photo you have is quite blurred, too. Other than that, it may be down to what you're actually putting in the message. Women can tell when it's a mass copy and paste message.
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By *bi HaiveMan 9 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Text seems fine. Visuals need work.
And it could be the message content given we'll never know what's sent, or maybe you're just trying to contact the wrong people.
There's no magic wand. No tried and tested guaranteed system.
It really is a case of just being the best 'you' possible and working with that. 🤷♂️ |
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Do you cast a wide net or only message people you are interested in? I'd suggest reading profiles, regardless of how much of hard work it can be, tailor the message to the profile and take it from there. Way too many men come here with expectations they'd be swimming in pussy without making any effort. |
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If you're sending loads of messages that's probably half the problem.
If you're going with something you can copy paste out to everyone it's unlikely to connect with anyone. If you're doing loads then you're unlikely to get making the effort to actually connect with the person on the other side.
Also, as mentioned, no profile picture can often mean messages aren't even opened 💜 |
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I'd just chill out with the messages. Don't send messages out everyday. Also bear in mind, most women here get hounded with messages. So take that into consideration.
Also change your profile pic. A silhouette puts most people off. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"I am sending loads of messages there are no dick pics. Just me and a message-nothing rude just a general message.
Don’t know why I’m not getting many if any replies
If anyone can offer any advice I would be much appreciated
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It's just the way it is mate...the life of the single guy on fab..just try and be interesting and varied in your approaches.
Expect to be ignored and you can only be pleasantly surprised when eventually you get a response!  |
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Having no profile picture may be going against you. I don't even open/look at messages from people who don't have a profile pic. I like to see a variety of pics of the person I'm talking to as well so I can get a sense of them as a person
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By *vaRoseWoman 9 weeks ago
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No profile pic and the one pic you do have is a screenshot of another photo…. I wouldn’t bother replying. A screenshot of a photo tells me that either it’s a fake account or you’re too lazy to crop your own pics. Neither is a good look |
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"Each message is tailored x
Possibly not well tailored if you're getting no response 💜
lol
I don’t get any responses. I actually thought I was trying with some 
Some, but not all?"
I try harder with profiles that actually have a well written bio.
The rest of the profiles I send a generic feeler:
Anal? |
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"Each message is tailored x
Possibly not well tailored if you're getting no response 💜
lol
I don’t get any responses. I actually thought I was trying with some
Some, but not all?
I try harder with profiles that actually have a well written bio.
The rest of the profiles I send a generic feeler:
Anal?"
It should be FAF 😉 |
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"Each message is tailored x
Possibly not well tailored if you're getting no response 💜
lol
I don’t get any responses. I actually thought I was trying with some
Some, but not all?
I try harder with profiles that actually have a well written bio.
The rest of the profiles I send a generic feeler:
Anal?
It should be FAF 😉"
Ok I’ll try that but if I still don’t get any replies I’m handing in a transfer request |
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"Each message is tailored x
Possibly not well tailored if you're getting no response 💜
lol
I don’t get any responses. I actually thought I was trying with some
Some, but not all?
I try harder with profiles that actually have a well written bio.
The rest of the profiles I send a generic feeler:
Anal?
It should be FAF 😉
Ok I’ll try that but if I still don’t get any replies I’m handing in a transfer request"
Ha ha ha ha ha. Dickhead 🤣 |
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