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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Why is it that the good guys the ones you would trust in your house with women you care about generally aren’t really that much into threesomes ( I think I’m the same when I get an invite tbh)

Yet the total dickheads that you wouldn’t go near, usually married/cheating too , always up for it?🤷‍♂️

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By *bi HaiveMan 3 weeks ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

The law of Sod. 🤷‍♂️

I guess some guys just aren't into MMF's. Many just want a solo meet, but probably wouldn't pass up the chance for an FFM. 🤔😂

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By *dalisqueWoman 3 weeks ago

land of make believe

Emotionally intelligent people want to be the protagonist?

I'm not saying this is true ,it is a question.

🩵

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By *enrietteandSamCouple 3 weeks ago

Brum

My personal opinion on this is that just as many are into it as any other kind of guy, it’s just that the trustworthy emotionally mature, confident and attractive ones don’t advertise it.

They don’t need to.

In man terms it’s like ford not really advertising the transit, it sells itself just by being the absolute beez kneez.

It’s worth getting some extra security fitted because they are that desirable to anyone that wants a van for work or even conversion to leisure vehicles.

I hope this explanation isn’t too much.

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Emotionally intelligent people want to be the protagonist?

I'm not saying this is true ,it is a question.

🩵"

Maybe a little bit yes, I get put off when someone refers to me as there ‘playmate’ and things like that anything that feels like I’m simply serving there purpose

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"My personal opinion on this is that just as many are into it as any other kind of guy, it’s just that the trustworthy emotionally mature, confident and attractive ones don’t advertise it.

They don’t need to.

In man terms it’s like ford not really advertising the transit, it sells itself just by being the absolute beez kneez.

It’s worth getting some extra security fitted because they are that desirable to anyone that wants a van for work or even conversion to leisure vehicles.

I hope this explanation isn’t too much."

I get that but unless you do this kind of thing regularly and build up male ‘stock’ it’s really hard to find one

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By *sStephenPickleMan 3 weeks ago

Ends

I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry"

Did I put the letters the wrong way around ? I don’t really get any of that stuff!

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By *host63Man 3 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

Not married or attached and woukd never cheat and I am always up for a threesome.

It's how I got into the lifestyle.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 3 weeks ago

Central

I'm guessing the unsuitable brigade is liberally distributed amongst many of the sexual pursuits that you might or might not be interested.

The clusterfuck dipshits etc aren't just desperate to jump into MMF action

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago

We found it relatively easy to find great guys to join us when I was part of a couple. A lot are not so keen to join people who aren't a couple. That's what it seemed from chatting to some of the guys we involved. They felt meeting with an established couple easier.

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry"

If i join can it be an mfmf??🤣

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By *entleman JayMan 3 weeks ago

Wakefield

I’ve met lots of couples for MFM. I’d like to think I’m an OK guy. 😀

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

If i join can it be an mfmf??🤣"

He’s already bailed,, you talk to him….

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"We found it relatively easy to find great guys to join us when I was part of a couple. A lot are not so keen to join people who aren't a couple. That's what it seemed from chatting to some of the guys we involved. They felt meeting with an established couple easier. "

I’ve done it before on here a long time ago, actually probably 6-7 yrs and it did seem easier but I did put in a lot of effort interviewing and enjoyed all that side of it. I think now I can’t really be bothered with all that what you learn from that is people can be complete dickheads even that seem nice, so I just prefer guys that I already know and have met socially

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago


"We found it relatively easy to find great guys to join us when I was part of a couple. A lot are not so keen to join people who aren't a couple. That's what it seemed from chatting to some of the guys we involved. They felt meeting with an established couple easier.

I’ve done it before on here a long time ago, actually probably 6-7 yrs and it did seem easier but I did put in a lot of effort interviewing and enjoyed all that side of it. I think now I can’t really be bothered with all that what you learn from that is people can be complete dickheads even that seem nice, so I just prefer guys that I already know and have met socially "

Is it you that wants it or the woman? I'm thinking it would be easier for her to do the hunting tbh. Unless you both have a couples profile

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By *estructionDollyWoman 3 weeks ago

Manchester


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

Did I put the letters the wrong way around ? I don’t really get any of that stuff! "

MMF tends to mean two bi men

MFM is two straight men

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"We found it relatively easy to find great guys to join us when I was part of a couple. A lot are not so keen to join people who aren't a couple. That's what it seemed from chatting to some of the guys we involved. They felt meeting with an established couple easier.

I’ve done it before on here a long time ago, actually probably 6-7 yrs and it did seem easier but I did put in a lot of effort interviewing and enjoyed all that side of it. I think now I can’t really be bothered with all that what you learn from that is people can be complete dickheads even that seem nice, so I just prefer guys that I already know and have met socially

Is it you that wants it or the woman? I'm thinking it would be easier for her to do the hunting tbh. Unless you both have a couples profile"

Her but she definitely does not want to do the hunting just wants me to arrange it all

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

Did I put the letters the wrong way around ? I don’t really get any of that stuff!

MMF tends to mean two bi men

MFM is two straight men "

Well, whenever I do one, I always make it clear. I’m straight so there’s no confusion. Close proximity to cock his absolutely fine, even to nice fat ones in a small mouth or vagina I can handle, but I don’t want to lose my anal virginity or anything!

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago


"We found it relatively easy to find great guys to join us when I was part of a couple. A lot are not so keen to join people who aren't a couple. That's what it seemed from chatting to some of the guys we involved. They felt meeting with an established couple easier.

I’ve done it before on here a long time ago, actually probably 6-7 yrs and it did seem easier but I did put in a lot of effort interviewing and enjoyed all that side of it. I think now I can’t really be bothered with all that what you learn from that is people can be complete dickheads even that seem nice, so I just prefer guys that I already know and have met socially

Is it you that wants it or the woman? I'm thinking it would be easier for her to do the hunting tbh. Unless you both have a couples profile

Her but she definitely does not want to do the hunting just wants me to arrange it all"

Sounds like hard work. Good luck.

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By *estructionDollyWoman 3 weeks ago

Manchester


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

Did I put the letters the wrong way around ? I don’t really get any of that stuff!

MMF tends to mean two bi men

MFM is two straight men

Well, whenever I do one, I always make it clear. I’m straight so there’s no confusion. Close proximity to cock his absolutely fine, even to nice fat ones in a small mouth or vagina I can handle, but I don’t want to lose my anal virginity or anything! "

😂 As long as you all set our your boundries beforehand I'm sure it's fine!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 3 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Threesomes were my whole reason for joining Fab in the first place. That was a very long time ago though, and I found all sorts of other reasons to stick around.

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By *parkle1974Woman 3 weeks ago

Leeds

I've been lucky and found some great single guys who have been more than happy to meet me altogether....its took a lot of time (and I mean lots) but it's been so worth it.

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By *isskxxyvWoman 3 weeks ago

Reading

Too many sausage rolls at the after party.

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I've been lucky and found some great single guys who have been more than happy to meet me altogether....its took a lot of time (and I mean lots) but it's been so worth it."

I’m at the most amazing guy on here about 10 years ago. He was everything you would want for adding to a couple. He was a Dom but in the nicest possible way. He would meet and have dinner with us as a three without expecting anything to happen for the first couple of dates in the bedroom. It was absolutely well behaved. Never push to cross any boundaries even if it was clear he wasn’t having penetrative sex I think he set the bar very high.

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By *EAT..85Woman 3 weeks ago

Nottingham


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

Did I put the letters the wrong way around ? I don’t really get any of that stuff! "

Maybe that's where you're going wrong 😂

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

Did I put the letters the wrong way around ? I don’t really get any of that stuff!

Maybe that's where you're going wrong 😂"

It’s my ADHD init…. I think what I really want is a (m)fM when I get to boss everybody around, they all do sex my way and the lad makes us tea after

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By *tedee4Man 3 weeks ago

here


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

Did I put the letters the wrong way around ? I don’t really get any of that stuff!

MMF tends to mean two bi men

MFM is two straight men "

I found this out when meeting a couple before, arranged a mmf and was pleasantly surprised when he went to suck my cock haha I had no idea

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By *sStephenPickleMan 3 weeks ago

Ends


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

If i join can it be an mfmf??🤣

He’s already bailed,, you talk to him…. "

im most certainly in

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

Did I put the letters the wrong way around ? I don’t really get any of that stuff!

MMF tends to mean two bi men

MFM is two straight men

I found this out when meeting a couple before, arranged a mmf and was pleasantly surprised when he went to suck my cock haha I had no idea "

That's hot!

In my world that is the best bit about mmf. I don't really get the point with 2 straight guys. I've done that before and it just felt a bit like going through the motions. Like the guys didn't really want to let go and be in the moment. It's a really tricky dynamic to get right.

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By *EAT..85Woman 3 weeks ago

Nottingham


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

If i join can it be an mfmf??🤣

He’s already bailed,, you talk to him…. im most certainly in"

You don't know who the female is yet...

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By *tedee4Man 3 weeks ago

here


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

Did I put the letters the wrong way around ? I don’t really get any of that stuff!

MMF tends to mean two bi men

MFM is two straight men

I found this out when meeting a couple before, arranged a mmf and was pleasantly surprised when he went to suck my cock haha I had no idea

That's hot!

In my world that is the best bit about mmf. I don't really get the point with 2 straight guys. I've done that before and it just felt a bit like going through the motions. Like the guys didn't really want to let go and be in the moment. It's a really tricky dynamic to get right. "

Yeah it's incredible haha I was more than happy but could defo scare straight men if they didn't know what they were signing up for! Also a risk of the men having too much fun together haha

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

Did I put the letters the wrong way around ? I don’t really get any of that stuff!

MMF tends to mean two bi men

MFM is two straight men

I found this out when meeting a couple before, arranged a mmf and was pleasantly surprised when he went to suck my cock haha I had no idea

That's hot!

In my world that is the best bit about mmf. I don't really get the point with 2 straight guys. I've done that before and it just felt a bit like going through the motions. Like the guys didn't really want to let go and be in the moment. It's a really tricky dynamic to get right. "

It’s about an experience / maximum pleasure for the woman, I tended to go with slightly submissive men in the past that were good at following instructions so it was almost like having an extra set of hands, extra cock etc. They become a they become an extension of my desire / sexuality to for her.

But I did use one dominant guy and that was good because he didn’t need as much instruction & was still well behaved. No interest in the man on man stuff, but I get that some women like that kind of thing it’s just not my kind of thing. With a woman that is a bratty or switch it can end up being more of a mFM, poor guy

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By *haron1701ETV/TS 3 weeks ago

Southport


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

Did I put the letters the wrong way around ? I don’t really get any of that stuff!

MMF tends to mean two bi men

MFM is two straight men

I found this out when meeting a couple before, arranged a mmf and was pleasantly surprised when he went to suck my cock haha I had no idea

That's hot!

"

Yes,it certainly is. Especially when the woman really gets off on watching the two guys all over each other before joining in.

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By *ongjon270493Man 3 weeks ago

Lincoln

i had no idea about this

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By *enrietteandSamCouple 3 weeks ago

Brum


"My personal opinion on this is that just as many are into it as any other kind of guy, it’s just that the trustworthy emotionally mature, confident and attractive ones don’t advertise it.

They don’t need to.

In man terms it’s like ford not really advertising the transit, it sells itself just by being the absolute beez kneez.

It’s worth getting some extra security fitted because they are that desirable to anyone that wants a van for work or even conversion to leisure vehicles.

I hope this explanation isn’t too much.

I get that but unless you do this kind of thing regularly and build up male ‘stock’ it’s really hard to find one "

True story.

Either do it regularly or accept that the ‘fuck boy’s’ are where you’re at.

The kind of people you refer to know what they want, what they enjoy and more importantly know how they want to be treated.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan 3 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

That’s a good observation.

I actually would have joined a couple of guys if a woman’s fantasy was 2 guys. Why not? We could have rocked her world for a night in just the same way I might have fantasies and stuff I can’t imagine doing.

Another observation is by the time you begin to think ‘ they’re alright’ they disappear. I’m not going to do that type of thing with a stranger, and good ones don’t seem to stick around.

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By *arlequin_tearsMan 3 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Yet the total dickheads that you wouldn’t go near, usually married/cheating too , always up for it?🤷‍♂️"

I think there are a couple of factors.

- There are lots of dickheads. They drown out a lot of positive and good bods

- If you're looking at MMF you need someone who is comfortable in their own skin. If the male half of the couple is Bi, straight guys may steer clear as they're is an assumption that there will be M on M play.

Similarly if the M of the couple is straight any bi guys may avoid as they don't necessarily want to risk the bloke flipping out.

So more thoughtful blokes may shy away as they'd like a little clarity of what the couple want/are after.

And if the couple are digging through mountains of idiots, someone actually asking questions and wanting to get to know the couple can get ignored etc.

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By *ISSchievous CoupleCouple 3 weeks ago

Bedford


"Maybe a little bit yes, I get put off when someone refers to me as there ‘playmate’ and things like that anything that feels like I’m simply serving there purpose "

For most couples, single men are there just to serve a purpose. It’s about adding to our pleasure.

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By *ISSchievous CoupleCouple 3 weeks ago

Bedford


"Yet the total dickheads that you wouldn’t go near, usually married/cheating too , always up for it?🤷‍♂️

I think there are a couple of factors.

- There are lots of dickheads. They drown out a lot of positive and good bods

- If you're looking at MMF you need someone who is comfortable in their own skin. If the male half of the couple is Bi, straight guys may steer clear as they're is an assumption that there will be M on M play.

Similarly if the M of the couple is straight any bi guys may avoid as they don't necessarily want to risk the bloke flipping out.

So more thoughtful blokes may shy away as they'd like a little clarity of what the couple want/are after.

And if the couple are digging through mountains of idiots, someone actually asking questions and wanting to get to know the couple can get ignored etc.

"

This is why it’s so important to understand the dynamic differences between a MMF and MFM meeting.

One is where the M is the centre of attention and the other is where the F is the centre of attention.

We find a great deal of single guys do not understand that and far too many single guys say their bi but when it comes to it, they just want to get to the F.

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By *oupleSeducedCouple 3 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

Would love to do a MFM and will look for the right guy on here. He has to be sensual as I get very turned on and wet by that. He can then fuck me senseless after that all the sensual touching

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By *sStephenPickleMan 3 weeks ago

Ends


"Would love to do a MFM and will look for the right guy on here. He has to be sensual as I get very turned on and wet by that. He can then fuck me senseless after that all the sensual touching "

Noted

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By *igJohn4uMan 3 weeks ago

Devonshire


"I've been lucky and found some great single guys who have been more than happy to meet me altogether....its took a lot of time (and I mean lots) but it's been so worth it."

What she said.

Been searching around for this for a long long time.

Just wondering if fab is the right place to find 3 singles for want to play together?

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By *hechonkyduoCouple 3 weeks ago

Dudley...kinda

I suppose we have been really lucky as we have found some great single blokes for bi MMF meets.

Single guys for MFM on the other hand is where we find the most cheaters/timewasters

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By *igJohn4uMan 3 weeks ago

Devonshire


"Would love to do a MFM and will look for the right guy on here. He has to be sensual as I get very turned on and wet by that. He can then fuck me senseless after that all the sensual touching "

Sounds perfect

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By *igJohn4uMan 3 weeks ago

Devonshire


"Yet the total dickheads that you wouldn’t go near, usually married/cheating too , always up for it?🤷‍♂️

I think there are a couple of factors.

- There are lots of dickheads. They drown out a lot of positive and good bods

- If you're looking at MMF you need someone who is comfortable in their own skin. If the male half of the couple is Bi, straight guys may steer clear as they're is an assumption that there will be M on M play.

Similarly if the M of the couple is straight any bi guys may avoid as they don't necessarily want to risk the bloke flipping out.

So more thoughtful blokes may shy away as they'd like a little clarity of what the couple want/are after.

And if the couple are digging through mountains of idiots, someone actually asking questions and wanting to get to know the couple can get ignored etc.

This is why it’s so important to understand the dynamic differences between a MMF and MFM meeting.

One is where the M is the centre of attention and the other is where the F is the centre of attention.

We find a great deal of single guys do not understand that and far too many single guys say their bi but when it comes to it, they just want to get to the F."

Very interesting stuff I’ll update my profile from mmf to mfm

Thank you for explaining this nuance that I wasn’t really consider it to.

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By *uts123Man 3 weeks ago

Nr Ipswich

When I joined Fabs I started off looking for MFM, which at the time were very enjoyable.

During one meet it unexpectedly took a turn to MMF and I have to say that dynamic was even more enjoyable.

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By *igJohn4uMan 3 weeks ago

Devonshire


"When I joined Fabs I started off looking for MFM, which at the time were very enjoyable.

During one meet it unexpectedly took a turn to MMF and I have to say that dynamic was even more enjoyable."

Would you say that you play with the M or the F the most when you are in a 3 sum ?

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By *ronmant16Man 3 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Why is it that the good guys the ones you would trust in your house with women you care about generally aren’t really that much into threesomes ( I think I’m the same when I get an invite tbh)

Yet the total dickheads that you wouldn’t go near, usually married/cheating too , always up for it?🤷‍♂️"

I'm a good guy with manners and respect but get sod all offers, seems manner gets you nowhere

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By *ingle ex cuckMan 3 weeks ago

chester

There is a good one named on my profile if you want to drop him a message.

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By *ittlebirdWoman 3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"

I get that but unless you do this kind of thing regularly and build up male ‘stock’ it’s really hard to find one "

Perhaps it’s because they don’t want to be treated as male “stock” 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

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By *ude LawMan 3 weeks ago

Harrogate


"

I get that but unless you do this kind of thing regularly and build up male ‘stock’ it’s really hard to find one

Perhaps it’s because they don’t want to be treated as male “stock” 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️"

I'd rather Knorr my arm off.

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By *uts123Man 3 weeks ago

Nr Ipswich


"When I joined Fabs I started off looking for MFM, which at the time were very enjoyable.

During one meet it unexpectedly took a turn to MMF and I have to say that dynamic was even more enjoyable.

Would you say that you play with the M or the F the most when you are in a 3 sum ? "

It really depends on what was agreed and the dynamics of the 3some. Some couples like everyone to be equally involved, others just want one of the partners pleasured more than the other.

I guess what I’m saying is that every situation is different and you have to adapt to what is required.

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By *ittlebirdWoman 3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"

I get that but unless you do this kind of thing regularly and build up male ‘stock’ it’s really hard to find one

Perhaps it’s because they don’t want to be treated as male “stock” 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

I'd rather Knorr my arm off."

🤣

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By *sStephenPickleMan 3 weeks ago

Ends


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

If i join can it be an mfmf??🤣

He’s already bailed,, you talk to him…. im most certainly in

You don't know who the female is yet... "

Well one of them is Scarlet.

And besides maybe I just want to have sex with my boy

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By *igJohn4uMan 3 weeks ago

Devonshire


"When I joined Fabs I started off looking for MFM, which at the time were very enjoyable.

During one meet it unexpectedly took a turn to MMF and I have to say that dynamic was even more enjoyable.

Would you say that you play with the M or the F the most when you are in a 3 sum ?

It really depends on what was agreed and the dynamics of the 3some. Some couples like everyone to be equally involved, others just want one of the partners pleasured more than the other.

I guess what I’m saying is that every situation is different and you have to adapt to what is required. "

So do you say that you seek out mfm of mmf or both depending upon who is meeting with you?

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By *illy IdolMan 3 weeks ago

Midlands

I could be in the dickhead category, but I've enjoyed threesomes here. I've never actively searched for them as it's hard to find that 3 way connection online.

I didn't need to be attracted to the gent, but I did need to get on with them and trust them, and that can be hard to gauge over messages.

One thing I never would have entertained is offers from a single males account. If that's something you're doing. It would be worth setting up a couples account.

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By *uts123Man 3 weeks ago

Nr Ipswich


"When I joined Fabs I started off looking for MFM, which at the time were very enjoyable.

During one meet it unexpectedly took a turn to MMF and I have to say that dynamic was even more enjoyable.

Would you say that you play with the M or the F the most when you are in a 3 sum ?

It really depends on what was agreed and the dynamics of the 3some. Some couples like everyone to be equally involved, others just want one of the partners pleasured more than the other.

I guess what I’m saying is that every situation is different and you have to adapt to what is required.

So do you say that you seek out mfm of mmf or both depending upon who is meeting with you?"

There are couples who enjoy mm fun and others who dont, so depending on the boundries set will depend on how the dynamics of the meet unfold.

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By *igJohn4uMan 3 weeks ago

Devonshire


"When I joined Fabs I started off looking for MFM, which at the time were very enjoyable.

During one meet it unexpectedly took a turn to MMF and I have to say that dynamic was even more enjoyable.

Would you say that you play with the M or the F the most when you are in a 3 sum ?

It really depends on what was agreed and the dynamics of the 3some. Some couples like everyone to be equally involved, others just want one of the partners pleasured more than the other.

I guess what I’m saying is that every situation is different and you have to adapt to what is required.

So do you say that you seek out mfm of mmf or both depending upon who is meeting with you?

There are couples who enjoy mm fun and others who dont, so depending on the boundries set will depend on how the dynamics of the meet unfold."

Make sense, thank you

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By *igJohn4uMan 3 weeks ago

Devonshire


"I could be in the dickhead category, but I've enjoyed threesomes here. I've never actively searched for them as it's hard to find that 3 way connection online.

I didn't need to be attracted to the gent, but I did need to get on with them and trust them, and that can be hard to gauge over messages.

One thing I never would have entertained is offers from a single males account. If that's something you're doing. It would be worth setting up a couples account."

What say a MM account would be better than a M account for Mmfs

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By *i versMan 3 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

I would love a mmf or a mff or even mmm, I'm just a dirty boy

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By *illy IdolMan 3 weeks ago

Midlands


"I could be in the dickhead category, but I've enjoyed threesomes here. I've never actively searched for them as it's hard to find that 3 way connection online.

I didn't need to be attracted to the gent, but I did need to get on with them and trust them, and that can be hard to gauge over messages.

One thing I never would have entertained is offers from a single males account. If that's something you're doing. It would be worth setting up a couples account.

What say a MM account would be better than a M account for Mmfs "

The Op is straight. When he says MMF I believe he's just talking about finding a straight threesome, so in this case a MF account.

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By *igJohn4uMan 3 weeks ago

Devonshire


"I could be in the dickhead category, but I've enjoyed threesomes here. I've never actively searched for them as it's hard to find that 3 way connection online.

I didn't need to be attracted to the gent, but I did need to get on with them and trust them, and that can be hard to gauge over messages.

One thing I never would have entertained is offers from a single males account. If that's something you're doing. It would be worth setting up a couples account.

What say a MM account would be better than a M account for Mmfs

The Op is straight. When he says MMF I believe he's just talking about finding a straight threesome, so in this case a MF account."

Got ya

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I could be in the dickhead category, but I've enjoyed threesomes here. I've never actively searched for them as it's hard to find that 3 way connection online.

I didn't need to be attracted to the gent, but I did need to get on with them and trust them, and that can be hard to gauge over messages.

One thing I never would have entertained is offers from a single males account. If that's something you're doing. It would be worth setting up a couples account."

I don’t know if this will surprise you or not, but there are a lot of people in this lifestyle who would never ever ever agree to have their photographs or details on the Internet or sites like this

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I’d join you for an mfm. But that’s all mate sorry

If i join can it be an mfmf??🤣

He’s already bailed,, you talk to him…. im most certainly in

You don't know who the female is yet...

Well one of them is Scarlet.

And besides maybe I just want to have sex with my boy "

Haha! Thanks pops

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By *illy IdolMan 3 weeks ago

Midlands


"I could be in the dickhead category, but I've enjoyed threesomes here. I've never actively searched for them as it's hard to find that 3 way connection online.

I didn't need to be attracted to the gent, but I did need to get on with them and trust them, and that can be hard to gauge over messages.

One thing I never would have entertained is offers from a single males account. If that's something you're doing. It would be worth setting up a couples account.

I don’t know if this will surprise you or not, but there are a lot of people in this lifestyle who would never ever ever agree to have their photographs or details on the Internet or sites like this"

I'm sure you're right with that. It's certainly another hurdle for you, though.

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I could be in the dickhead category, but I've enjoyed threesomes here. I've never actively searched for them as it's hard to find that 3 way connection online.

I didn't need to be attracted to the gent, but I did need to get on with them and trust them, and that can be hard to gauge over messages.

One thing I never would have entertained is offers from a single males account. If that's something you're doing. It would be worth setting up a couples account.

I don’t know if this will surprise you or not, but there are a lot of people in this lifestyle who would never ever ever agree to have their photographs or details on the Internet or sites like this

I'm sure you're right with that. It's certainly another hurdle for you, though."

You are right I would be very nervous going along to meet somebody that might not even exist or be consenting on the basis of chatting with a complete stranger. I think that’s the issue isn’t it? Good/decent people simply won’t do that

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By *eyond PurityCouple 3 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We wouldn’t meet a couple that doesn’t have a couples profile, so maybe the problem is you searching instead of the lady as not many will take a guy from a single guys profile seriously.

We’ve had a number of messages where a single guy has asked about wanting us to play with his woman - but gives no info - we just see it as wank fodder for the guy.

K

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"We wouldn’t meet a couple that doesn’t have a couples profile, so maybe the problem is you searching instead of the lady as not many will take a guy from a single guys profile seriously.

We’ve had a number of messages where a single guy has asked about wanting us to play with his woman - but gives no info - we just see it as wank fodder for the guy.

K"

Yeah, I totally agree. It works for a certain kind of guy. There are lots of offers but they are just not the kind of guys you would trust in your house.

I just think it’s much better to go through people in your own network people you have met face-to-face already, rather than stranger sex

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By *eyond PurityCouple 3 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

And when we started out in this lifestyle the idea of sharing a decent guy with others wouldn’t have been entertained however we can see the appeal now.

A decent single guy is hard to come by on FAB so recommendations go a long way on here!

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By *.nottsbloke..Man 3 weeks ago

nottinghamshire

Had a few mmf meets but not in a while

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