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By *ea monkey OP Man 7 weeks ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I've not done one of these for a while so it's that time again!
Fab is filled with lots of single folks looking for a possible connection or just a nice fun time out, so here's your chance!
Get yourself on the thread with a few details of your rough location and about yourself, then see if theres someone on the thread that takes your fancy and send them a message!
What you both get up to is entirely up to yourselves but the idea is to go out for a date together with no commitment or pressure for anything to happen, think of it as a social but what you make of it is up to you! |
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I’m love dates and I’m open to new connections including fwb or romantic. Please note it would never exclusive as I’m one of those poly types 😆
I’m told I’m easy to talk to but it helps if you can bring your favourite dinosaur to the conversation, 🦕 or understand why it’s a scone and not a scone.
Manchester area |
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By *sWyldWoman 7 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
Ooo this is a great thread.
I have to be honest and say a swinging relationship isn't really for me . While I'm currently loving single life , I miss proper dates. I miss romance and I want it in my life.
I am looking for someone who loves an adventure, would think it fun to fly to Italy or Paris for lunch, someone who kisses like they mean it and someone who doesn't want to change me (some might say tame)
I am in Edinburgh and I am rubbish at replying to messages. So you should also be patient.
What's the worst that could happen? |
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"Ooo this is a great thread.
I have to be honest and say a swinging relationship isn't really for me . While I'm currently loving single life , I miss proper dates. I miss romance and I want it in my life.
I am looking for someone who loves an adventure, would think it fun to fly to Italy or Paris for lunch, someone who kisses like they mean it and someone who doesn't want to change me (some might say tame)
I am in Edinburgh and I am rubbish at replying to messages. So you should also be patient.
What's the worst that could happen?"
Try the Romantasy section |
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By *sWyldWoman 7 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
"Ooo this is a great thread.
I have to be honest and say a swinging relationship isn't really for me . While I'm currently loving single life , I miss proper dates. I miss romance and I want it in my life.
I am looking for someone who loves an adventure, would think it fun to fly to Italy or Paris for lunch, someone who kisses like they mean it and someone who doesn't want to change me (some might say tame)
I am in Edinburgh and I am rubbish at replying to messages. So you should also be patient.
What's the worst that could happen?
Try the Romantasy section "
But I'm quite real! |
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"Ooo this is a great thread.
I have to be honest and say a swinging relationship isn't really for me . While I'm currently loving single life , I miss proper dates. I miss romance and I want it in my life.
I am looking for someone who loves an adventure, would think it fun to fly to Italy or Paris for lunch, someone who kisses like they mean it and someone who doesn't want to change me (some might say tame)
I am in Edinburgh and I am rubbish at replying to messages. So you should also be patient.
What's the worst that could happen?"
You sound like me, we can live in hope   |
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Great thread Tea.
Im trying to get back into the Dating scene, as I would like to find Mr Right. Would prefer to find him via a site like this as im not sure I can go back to vanilla life.
North Oxfordshire area |
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Oh interesting thread.
I'm always open to connection but things are a slow burn with me and others will need to be okay with that. I'm not looking for someone to share my exact passions (though some overlap would help) but it is a requirement for you to have passions of your own. I want to hear about them, I want to explore them too potentially. Must be kind, cute and at least a little funny.
Near Reading. |
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Great thread OP. Thank you.
I’m a single woman looking for a kink relationship 1 on 1 with a single man. I’m not poly so I’m not looking for someone with an existing partner.
What I can offer is intelligent conversation, lots of laughter and fucking and a happy outlook on life.
Oh. And I’m under 5 feet tall. If that’s what’s important.
Based North London
Namaste 😘 |
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By *dalisqueWoman 7 weeks ago
land of make believe |
I already only meet people I have a deep connection with,our meets are more like dates,it is never only all about the sex,but more about enjoying ever aspect of each other.
I'm not specifically looking for a romantic liaison,however occasionally,in the past,this has happened & I am not entirelly opposed to the idea.
Ultimately i would like to find someone who adores me although I am realistic enough to know the adoration may only last a weekend.
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I think as most have already said, connection is key, the best meets aren’t just sex and fun enjoyable dates would be nice and if something develops from there then that would be wonderful but not putting any end goal on it! Ohh and I’m in north notts! |
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Hello
I’m Steve/ Stephen/ Pickle
I’m open to dating someone. I am poly and have a nesting partner.
Nothing else to add. If you’re into fat Black guys with long hair, let’s do something different.
Love. |
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By *dalisqueWoman 7 weeks ago
land of make believe |
"My last date turned into a disaster so I'm looking for someone to show me things can be different, Hampshire based fun, flirty and hilarious "
Doesn't the fact that you have a couples profile hinder dating?
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I'm GG.
From Telford, but happy to travel via trains.
Always looking for gig buddies (metal, rock etc) or just days out in new places. Or to hear nerdy people rant about their newest obsession!
Open to suggestions for DnD!
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WLTM
A guy who doesn't take life or himself too seriously for fun and frolics. Must also like snacks and not mind me pinching his snacks...
Someone who allows me to be my neurodivergent me, unapologetically, perfectly imperfect me 
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"My last date turned into a disaster so I'm looking for someone to show me things can be different, Hampshire based fun, flirty and hilarious
Doesn't the fact that you have a couples profile hinder dating?
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I've never really thought about it... I mostly play solo with husbands permission... I did consider setting up a solo profile but decided against it lol |
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By *dalisqueWoman 7 weeks ago
land of make believe |
"My last date turned into a disaster so I'm looking for someone to show me things can be different, Hampshire based fun, flirty and hilarious
Doesn't the fact that you have a couples profile hinder dating?
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I've never really thought about it... I mostly play solo with husbands permission... I did consider setting up a solo profile but decided against it lol"
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I'm TT
North east based.
Love a flirt and a giggle, sarcastic humour is used so probably someone with a dry sense of humour would be best as i would hate to upset.
I love a good bacon bap and chocolate ... (not together im not a psychopath)
Preferrably looking for someone who knows the difference between flirty banter and i want to fuck you, as some people on here seem to attach the two and get unhappy when im just having a laugh with others.
No drama, all about the fun.
Oh and if you wear jeans and a belt from time to time your winning!
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Looking to connect with a beautiful woman in the Hampshire area, with whom I can have a laugh and decent conversation. Hopefully leading to fun social meets and lots of intense passionate times together. |
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...awww it's all sweet here with folk looking for romance!
Agree with Thickthighs that spotting the difference between flirty banter (which the forum does in spades very well) and I want to fuck you is key.
Near Leeds, looking for Mr Right! Or Ms Right... |
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I’m from Nottingham!
I’m a musician, composing mostly electronic music these days.
I’m a business owner, and have lots of time.
I find it hard to sell myself lol!
I’d be up for both women and men. But my preference is women. |
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Hiya,
I’m funny and bright but also alarmingly stupid sometimes 🤣 Based in South London on the Surrey border, I’d love to talk about almost anything other than ULEZ (please, no more!). Please have a penis, be a warm person and also a highly sexual devil 😈 |
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Be nice to find a lady off here, at least there would be something in common from the off .. and at my age now, it would be nice to have that casual relationship with fun laughter and naughty times.. ain’t to good at selling one’s self in a thread like this but not a bad conversationist in person..
but we can live in hope |
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By *eth2024Man 7 weeks ago
haywards heath |
Great thread OP!
Sadly not seen responses from West Sussex but happy to travel and meet anywhere south east / London!
Easy going guy, funny and cheeky, great legs (so I’m told).
Professionally self employed, stable, neurodivergent, non conformist, free thinker, sapiosexual, athletic, strong, respectful.
Connection key, looking for that elusive spark. |
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Great post. I've been single far too long now. I'd like to find something meaningful for dates and weekends away. Must have some kinky involved but doesnt have to be all the time
Im 50, single, good job, have dogs and based in berkshire 😊 |
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"Hiya,
I’m funny and bright but also alarmingly stupid sometimes 🤣 Based in South London on the Surrey border, I’d love to talk about almost anything other than ULEZ (please, no more!). Please have a penis, be a warm person and also a highly sexual devil 😈"
It’s a match |
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I've been single a looong time, but I'm open to a romantic ENM relationship with someone local to Manchester who has the same likes and interests sexually and non sexually, but finding someone I click with in that way hasn't been easy so I'm not actively pursuing it.
I want someone I have high compatibility with, who is also into swinging and a bit of kink, and where I wouldn't be a secondary partner to something already established (I've been single quite a while and need to ease myself into a less complex relationship for now).
Seems like I want the impossible mostly 😅 |
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Wolverhampton, West Midlands.
Easy going, told I’m very funny, love to meet an equally funny lady who is into gigs, I’m a big music lover. On top of that I like eating out, travelling, and would like to meet someone to just generally do stuff and live the dream with.  |
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"Hiya,
I’m funny and bright but also alarmingly stupid sometimes 🤣 Based in South London on the Surrey border, I’d love to talk about almost anything other than ULEZ (please, no more!). Please have a penis, be a warm person and also a highly sexual devil 😈
It’s a match"
Always knew it! 😍🥰😍 |
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A little about me, I grew up in west London and I was a little bit of a shit in my teen years through my twenties. Had a kid and I now reside in Hampshire for a better life for my kids and have grown up quite a lot. I have a dog, two lizards and fish. Just starting to dabble in to 3d printing. Ive come to the realisation that I'm in here to have a browse and a chat and hopefully cheer someone up every now and then. |
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I'm a little odd, autistic, impulsive and whimsical.
Somehow managed to become a registered professional which typically means if you meet me life went wrong somewhere. I can have 50 hobbies in 5 minutes, I play guitar and build fairy houses this week. I'd sell my mother for a pointless trophy.
No idea of what I want or need but let's be honest patience is probably essential.
Either that or a genuine mythical being who can fascinate nay bamboozle my brain into paying attention.
Physically I'm 6"3 with a waining level of muscle tone that I'm trying in vain to stave off. Gym bro's tend to give me a sympathetic thumbs up. Long hair, own teeth, huge hands and feet.
Sexually I'm a very intricate person (tism) thorough and tactile.
If you got this far I hope you at least had a chuckle.
If you like what you read you should question your life choices.
And if youre a mythical being use whatever powers you have to make me palletable. |
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Nice thread!
I'll get the bad news out of the way first. I'm not looking for a relationship as I like the freedom of being single. Sorry ladies 😉
However, I like forming connections with people so would be up for meeting people for dates.
In London, but still have time to extract value out of the Railcard if needed.
I'd be particularly interested in activity-based ideas like going for a walk or playing a game or watching a movie (not sure this works first time). |
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I would love to meet someone I can enjoy the lifestyle with and firm a long lasting connection, I’m from the northwest, currently working away I’m Germany but will be back in the UK shortly, looking for someone who doesn’t take life too seriously and like the weird little things too  |
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I'm quite comfortable dating, and ltr. This is also probably just the place to meet someone who is not narrow minded or judgemental of our somewhat colourful past. However, factoring in distance, and the fact that I've now crept over the age criteria for most people on here, I'm not exactly holding my breath on it happening. |
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By *akedMMan 7 weeks ago
Witney |
I would love to meet someone with a similar mindset to me. For days out, meals, film nights, I have my own projector plus big screen with 5:1 surround sound. If they are a naturist even better. I’m from West Oxfordshire |
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Hi. I’m Arthur and I’m a romanceaholic.
WLTM a woman in the North West who is equally nervous about dates and is willing to share war stories and maybe more.
I like daft jokes and puns.
Thank you for reading. |
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"Hi. I’m Arthur and I’m a romanceaholic.
WLTM a woman in the North West who is equally nervous about dates and is willing to share war stories and maybe more.
I like daft jokes and puns.
Thank you for reading."
Arthur The Thread Killer lol |
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"I would love a proper date! I’m in Leeds. I’ve been single for the past 5 years and tried dating apps with no success! "
Should also add that I want an exclusive relationship, I don’t really consider myself a swinger! |
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By *2021Man 2 weeks ago
Chester |
Professional single guy based in the North West ( but work all over the country ) looking for a long term relationship ( possibly marriage ) with a swinging/voyeuristic/cuckold/hotwife kink. I don't want the kink to be what defines 'us', more, if it happens then we're both ok with it......
I drink, don't smoke, don't do drugs, already have children and don't want any more. I run, ski, sail, camp, hike and spend time with my family when I decompress, and that Swedish made penis enlarger isn't mine, baby
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I certainly wouldn't say no to dating the right person.
Certainly happy to go out for nice food/drinks and having a good film night with someone, as I'm a bit of a music/film obsessive.
Yes I am too here due to frustrations with dating apps. |
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