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Does anyone use protection these days?
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I love watching the videos on here, but noticed most people don’t use protection. It’s pretty hot, but just also a bit concerning in a way  do most people not care anymore about that kinda thing?
Not judging at all, just curious I suppose. |
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If i was meeting, I would.
Presumably people know the risks and decide to still do it.
When I was meeting and single, I had several meets ask to go bare, before they even met me. So some aren't that responsible, I think you've just got to look after your own sexual health & use protection,as if others don't. |
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"If i was meeting, I would.
Presumably people know the risks and decide to still do it.
When I was meeting and single, I had several meets ask to go bare, before they even met me. So some aren't that responsible, I think you've just got to look after your own sexual health & use protection,as if others don't. "
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"If i was meeting, I would.
Presumably people know the risks and decide to still do it.
When I was meeting and single, I had several meets ask to go bare, before they even met me. So some aren't that responsible, I think you've just got to look after your own sexual health & use protection,as if others don't. "
Yeah I've had this too which I think is irresponsible personally but I don't judge, I just don't meet them because I just don't know who else they're doing that with. |
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"I love watching the videos on here, but noticed most people don’t use protection. It’s pretty hot, but just also a bit concerning in a way do most people not care anymore about that kinda thing?
Not judging at all, just curious I suppose."
don't think its needed in this weather |
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"I love watching the videos on here, but noticed most people don’t use protection. It’s pretty hot, but just also a bit concerning in a way do most people not care anymore about that kinda thing?
Not judging at all, just curious I suppose."
Because the vast majority of videos on here are either long term partners filming, or content creators only working with people who provide recent test results.
Most people are recording and posting their usual swinging meets. |
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"I love watching the videos on here, but noticed most people don’t use protection. It’s pretty hot, but just also a bit concerning in a way do most people not care anymore about that kinda thing?
Not judging at all, just curious I suppose."
We are a couple so we are always bareback with each other. Anyone else it’s safe sex only, 100% of the time |
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I don’t use protection in my clips but they are all with the same person. Who was trusted and tested and we played monogamously for 3 years together.
Not everyone on here is a swinger or sleeps with lots of people!
My next playmate will use protection until we have an mutual understanding and trust x |
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I blame porn. (Don’t we always blame porn? 🤷♂️)
When’s the last time you saw someone slip on a condom in porn?
It’s either cream pie or on the face. Not a condom inside. So if that’s what’s turning us all on, we end up copying. - maybe |
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I personally don't do any act that would need a condom with anyone else..
With all 3 of My long term partners condoms split, and leaked tremendously with My LTR current partner.
I wont take any risk with others. |
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"With a very trusted long term partner, then yes. But everyone else, protection is a must. And I test regularly as my health is very important to me."
Testing yourself won't protect you. It is if the other person regularly tests that you need to worry about! |
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"With a very trusted long term partner, then yes. But everyone else, protection is a must. And I test regularly as my health is very important to me.
Testing yourself won't protect you. It is if the other person regularly tests that you need to worry about!"
Yes we were both tested and monogamous. In no way did I say it was just me getting tested! |
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"I love watching the videos on here, but noticed most people don’t use protection. It’s pretty hot, but just also a bit concerning in a way do most people not care anymore about that kinda thing?
Not judging at all, just curious I suppose."
Yes. I like my playmates as people and would be horrified if I gave them anything, as they have kids that need them to be healthy! I care a little bit less about myself which is part of the low self-esteem/ self-h @rm that comes with my neurodivergent brain.
I can only tolerate one bareback partner at a time and there has to be some trust built there before.
I'm risk-averse and too uptight to bareback strangers and multiple men at once.
Even when I was in Cap I turned prudish because there was so much cock sucking that it triggered when a playmate got oral gonorrhoea, and it was a very stressful time for me and all my other playmates and him and his family!
It put me off sucking anyone's cock apart from the playmate I was with in France without a condom. A few men tried to get it in my mouth without a condom but I just couldn't do it.
I feel more relaxed with people I know for unprotected oral and we swap sexual health results also. Vaginal and anal is more high risk so I always insist on condoms for all my play partners. If a play partner were to turn into a committed life partner, protection and risk would have to be re-assessed.
I'm part of the Millennials who were traumatised by the AIDS epidemic in the 80s and 90s. We had a couple come to our school when I was 16-18, where the husband caught it and transferred it to his wife. By the time we graduated, they both had died and left 5 children behind. Things are better now with anti-virals but it's still a shock and a worry.
Also I'm still in the pregnancy zone so unless men want to pay child support best to keep your jacket/hat on. Condoms also prevent my vaginal ph from getting disrupted. |
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"I blame porn. (Don’t we always blame porn? 🤷♂️)
When’s the last time you saw someone slip on a condom in porn?
It’s either cream pie or on the face. Not a condom inside. So if that’s what’s turning us all on, we end up copying. - maybe "
Depends on the porn you watch.
I don't watch the most popular main stream porn which is anal, stepfamilies, very young child-like looking 18 year olds ( male and female), cock sucking and cream pies.
Part of it creeps me out and part of it is unrealistic for me. I have too small a jaw to be doing cock sucking acrobatics.
I watch more sensual porn, mature stuff, married/long-term couples or kink. There are often condoms on implements and on real penises in the kink ones.
I don't want to affect my brain wiring. One of my playmates says he doesn't watch any porn. He's very disciplined for that. I can see how it benefits him as an older man. Less sexual frustration.  |
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"With a very trusted long term partner, then yes. But everyone else, protection is a must. And I test regularly as my health is very important to me.
Testing yourself won't protect you. It is if the other person regularly tests that you need to worry about!
Yes we were both tested and monogamous. In no way did I say it was just me getting tested! "
I think that comment was directed at me rather you.
My long term partner wasn't seeing anyone else at the time, so they weren't testing regularly whereas I was seeing other people so as well as using protection, I took responsibility for my health and tested. When he started seeing someone else as well, he also started testing. |
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I don't bareback with anyone apart from Mrs DS. Condoms for one type of anatomy and dental dams for another. Of course, that doesn't guarantee complete STI protection, but it reduces the risk somewhat. And regular testing ofc.
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