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What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
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By *avie65Man 37 weeks ago
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
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Reading and writing is considered to be multi-tasking, would any guy be able to take over a profile? 🤭 |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
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I have a female friend that passes the worst into me! I love hearing about them just for the cringe! |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"You don't think we get messages from silhouetted men offering/demanding sex at the drop of a hat?
Do they open with a question about your use of any birth control though? "
OK, OK, you win. Or lose, depending on your viewpoint. If I could stop my fellow males from all being dicks I would. |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
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What about your WhatsApp inbox.. is that one a car crash too? 😉 |
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"You don't think we get messages from silhouetted men offering/demanding sex at the drop of a hat?
Do they open with a question about your use of any birth control though?
OK, OK, you win. Or lose, depending on your viewpoint. If I could stop my fellow males from all being dicks I would. "
I’ve had quite a few “suck you off now?” Messages from guys! They’ve always been quite understanding when I’ve turned them down! |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"The amount of bumming you would all get would be unreal
Is that an offer? "
Thats the only messages i send ... fancy a bum .. but i do accept no reply is a reply im not that bad |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"The amount of bumming you would all get would be unreal
I'll have you know I get daily offers to bum some bloke. Usually the same bloke. "
No im not bumming you for a change 🤭 |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
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I'd love to give this a bash on solo account just for the laughs! Especially if it's a male with good banter in control of the account |
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"You don't think we get messages from silhouetted men offering/demanding sex at the drop of a hat?
Do they open with a question about your use of any birth control though? "
Oh mine was along the lines of being stuck up slut who thinks I'm entitled because i have a cunt....because I didnt immediately open the message while I was online.... such a charmer 😂 |
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"You don't think we get messages from silhouetted men offering/demanding sex at the drop of a hat?
Do they open with a question about your use of any birth control though?
Oh mine was along the lines of being stuck up slut who thinks I'm entitled because i have a cunt....because I didnt immediately open the message while I was online.... such a charmer 😂"
So… we put him down as a maybe?  |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
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I can't do emojis but you know that one with the teeny tiny violin.? Yeah that one |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
I can't do emojis but you know that one with the teeny tiny violin.? Yeah that one "
Put those claws away tiger 🐯 |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
What about your WhatsApp inbox.. is that one a car crash too? 😉"
If you manage to make it to WhatsApp! |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Evening - for clarity and avoidance of doubt, this iOS the OH here on night watch duty - seriously, you couldn’t make it up, can’t believe what what my wife puts up with on here! 97 messages in about two hours!! Crazy content ! |
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"I mean personally speaking... I think women are overstating it 👀🏃♂️💨
Mr Beans, do you want my profile? "
Bring it on. A bit of effort and a can-do attitude and that inbox will be down to 0 in no time! 🤗 |
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"Clearing out my Inbox earlier I came across a charmer who said he wanted to do a line off my tits, fist me, then fuck me.
Men, there really is a low bar. "
That must be quite difficult - doing a line off someone’s tits! |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
What about your WhatsApp inbox.. is that one a car crash too? 😉
If you manage to make it to WhatsApp! "
Must try harder 🙎🏽♂️ |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
What about your WhatsApp inbox.. is that one a car crash too? 😉
If you manage to make it to WhatsApp! "
I can wish.  |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
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They would be horrified! And we’re a couples profile..can imagine single women get more hassle than we do!
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"I mean personally speaking... I think women are overstating it 👀🏃♂️💨
Mr Beans, do you want my profile?
Bring it on. A bit of effort and a can-do attitude and that inbox will be down to 0 in no time! 🤗"
I know how much effort you put in to a reply, you'll have no time to yourself replying to all my messages |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"But then they would see the messages I send out and I’m no better than a man 😔
Ahhh but you have two very important aspects that means it's fine! 😜"
Ooop! Yeah, I forgot about that. Bloody men! If only we had some kind of filters to stop them🤔 |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Maybe, if all you ladies got together and coordinated to message all us men in the same manner at the same time, surely we'd all realise the error of our ways and stop... |
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"But then they would see the messages I send out and I’m no better than a man 😔
Ahhh but you have two very important aspects that means it's fine! 😜
Ooop! Yeah, I forgot about that. Bloody men! If only we had some kind of filters to stop them🤔"
Exactly! Then women can stop the flood of messages while searching and messaging guys they actually like! It's a win/win really |
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"I think I'd struggle to not be biting and to the point 🤓
I'd enjoy winding them up.  "
Over 100 times, breaking the filter for future use, and dismissing the odd good message? Excellent strategy, boys! |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"But then they would see the messages I send out and I’m no better than a man 😔
Ahhh but you have two very important aspects that means it's fine! 😜
Ooop! Yeah, I forgot about that. Bloody men! If only we had some kind of filters to stop them🤔
Exactly! Then women can stop the flood of messages while searching and messaging guys they actually like! It's a win/win really"
Don’t be silly, Joe! That’s far too sensible.
In all seriousness though, the harmless messages far outweigh the nasty ones in most cases. Yeah, it’s annoying and I’m not defending their behaviour, but it’s never going to stop. Filters and the block button are there to be utilised.
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"In all seriousness though, the harmless messages far outweigh the nasty ones in most cases. Yeah, it’s annoying and I’m not defending their behaviour, but it’s never going to stop. Filters and the block button are there to be utilised. "
Yeah, I this is mostly my position too. In an ideal world, men wouldn't send such shit messages and I get that it's wearing but unlike when men moan about not getting any messages, I think women do have a degree of control over their inbox. Filters and actively searching for the men you like the look of may change that experience  |
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"But then they would see the messages I send out and I’m no better than a man 😔
Ahhh but you have two very important aspects that means it's fine! 😜
Ooop! Yeah, I forgot about that. Bloody men! If only we had some kind of filters to stop them🤔"
You might be onto something there. But then what would happen if there were no emails... Its an enigma within a conundrum within a riddle. |
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I’m not surprised by the horror stories you ladies have mentioned. My takeaway from this is that I’m a true upstanding gentleman, to date I have made no offers to fist anyone and no threats to kill |
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"This is my thread and as the opening poster of this thread I will not neglect it, I'll be back later  "
Psst! Has she gone yet?
I’ve got her password if you want to have a go until she comes back? |
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"This is my thread and as the opening poster of this thread I will not neglect it, I'll be back later
Psst! Has she gone yet?
I’ve got her password if you want to have a go until she comes back? "
Is it still 'Password' or has she changed it? 😆 🤣 |
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"At this point I'm like grandpa Simpson, sitting alone in his room picking up a non ringing phone hoping someone will call me."Hello, is anybody there?" 🤣"
You call this stuff the weirdos send out filth? In my day they sent real filth... |
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"The amount of bumming you would all get would be unreal "
For someone who allegedly "doesn't like anal"
You spend an inordinate amount of time in both threads about bumming and the general topic 😂
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I do have to admit compared to others on here i get very few messages a day. I saw my friend’s inbox yesterday while having drinks and she had like 250 odd unread messages. Because I don’t come up on the search as I haven’t ticked the “looking for men” box I definitely don’t get it as bad as some. |
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"You don't think we get messages from silhouetted men offering/demanding sex at the drop of a hat?
Do they open with a question about your use of any birth control though?
Oh mine was along the lines of being stuck up slut who thinks I'm entitled because i have a cunt....because I didnt immediately open the message while I was online.... such a charmer 😂"
Sounds like a keeper...
Before he asks, you're a hottie, after you say no. You're a stuck up slut. 😂
Someone who obviously has rejection issues 🤷🏽♂️
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"You don't think we get messages from silhouetted men offering/demanding sex at the drop of a hat?
Do they open with a question about your use of any birth control though?
Oh mine was along the lines of being stuck up slut who thinks I'm entitled because i have a cunt....because I didnt immediately open the message while I was online.... such a charmer 😂
Sounds like a keeper...
Before he asks, you're a hottie, after you say no. You're a stuck up slut. 😂
Someone who obviously has rejection issues 🤷🏽♂️
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That sounds more like incel energy…. |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
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I used to date a woman from here. She let me read her messages. I was constantly shcocked. |
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"I do have to admit compared to others on here i get very few messages a day. I saw my friend’s inbox yesterday while having drinks and she had like 250 odd unread messages. Because I don’t come up on the search as I haven’t ticked the “looking for men” box I definitely don’t get it as bad as some. "
You're making the assumption that the idiots bother reading profiles. It's the filters that can block them |
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"You don't think we get messages from silhouetted men offering/demanding sex at the drop of a hat?
Do they open with a question about your use of any birth control though?
Oh mine was along the lines of being stuck up slut who thinks I'm entitled because i have a cunt....because I didnt immediately open the message while I was online.... such a charmer 😂
Sounds like a keeper...
Before he asks, you're a hottie, after you say no. You're a stuck up slut. 😂
Someone who obviously has rejection issues 🤷🏽♂️
That sounds more like incel energy…."
You mean it's her fault that he's a virgin 😂
Well technically it is in a way... |
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"This is my thread and as the opening poster of this thread I will not neglect it, I'll be back later
Psst! Has she gone yet?
I’ve got her password if you want to have a go until she comes back?
Is it still 'Password' or has she changed it? 😆 🤣 "
Password is - FAB123Iluvcock |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
What about your WhatsApp inbox.. is that one a car crash too? 😉
If you manage to make it to WhatsApp!
Must try harder 🙎🏽♂️"
Yes, much! Do better boy! |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
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Having the profile I do, the insight into male attitudes has been a real eye opener.
Venom after rejection. Expectations of instant gratification.
My block list is huge, and I have come to value decent conversations. |
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Maybe this is regional.
I do get the odd bit of certifiable content from time to time but my fab filters work as they are supposed to and my own very scientific* ways of deciding what to open&read or straight delete do the rest 😁😎🥸
*not at all scientific |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
What about your WhatsApp inbox.. is that one a car crash too? 😉
If you manage to make it to WhatsApp!
Must try harder 🙎🏽♂️
Yes, much! Do better boy! "
Ermm.. it's easier if I just reply to your 'other' inbox 🤭 |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
What about your WhatsApp inbox.. is that one a car crash too? 😉
If you manage to make it to WhatsApp!
Must try harder 🙎🏽♂️
Yes, much! Do better boy!
Ermm.. it's easier if I just reply to your 'other' inbox 🤭"
If you've been accepted into the inner circle, enjoy it and get comfy |
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"It's a shame that you can't set your message filters to automatically reject and block when certain words (you choose).
Currently you can't message me unless you're 99yrs old 😁
Great idea.  "
Seems to be working a treat |
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"Only if I can take the filters down, put up a nekkid pic and compose a suitable status update "
My filters are aged 99 to 99, seems to stemming the flow
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"You don't think we get messages from silhouetted men offering/demanding sex at the drop of a hat? "
Ah, you too! Send me your replies, I'll use it as a 'copy and paste' 😈
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"At this point I'm like grandpa Simpson, sitting alone in his room picking up a non ringing phone hoping someone will call me."Hello, is anybody there?" 🤣"
I don't believe that for a minute 🤔
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"The amount of bumming you would all get would be unreal "
I'm guna need your copy and paste reply too... Inbox me 😉 😂
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
I'd love to give this a bash on solo account just for the laughs! Especially if it's a male with good banter in control of the account"
The 'top bants' messages are the best and the most sexy!!
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"I mean personally speaking... I think women are overstating it 👀🏃♂️💨
Mr Beans, do you want my profile?
Bring it on. A bit of effort and a can-do attitude and that inbox will be down to 0 in no time! 🤗"
Password is FAB123Iluvcock
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*skips off to do FABmin*
Aka - delete all |
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"I do have to admit compared to others on here i get very few messages a day. I saw my friend’s inbox yesterday while having drinks and she had like 250 odd unread messages. Because I don’t come up on the search as I haven’t ticked the “looking for men” box I definitely don’t get it as bad as some.
You're making the assumption that the idiots bother reading profiles. It's the filters that can block them "
Ok so now I am thinking I am just ugly! Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"I do have to admit compared to others on here i get very few messages a day. I saw my friend’s inbox yesterday while having drinks and she had like 250 odd unread messages. Because I don’t come up on the search as I haven’t ticked the “looking for men” box I definitely don’t get it as bad as some.
You're making the assumption that the idiots bother reading profiles. It's the filters that can block them
Ok so now I am thinking I am just ugly! Thanks "
Not looking for men in your profile is enough to put me off from messaging. And you're gorgeous BTW. |
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"I do have to admit compared to others on here i get very few messages a day. I saw my friend’s inbox yesterday while having drinks and she had like 250 odd unread messages. Because I don’t come up on the search as I haven’t ticked the “looking for men” box I definitely don’t get it as bad as some. "
Same. I don’t anymore but my filters are pretty high and it did calm down a bit when I hit 50.
No complaints though. |
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By *ost SockMan 37 weeks ago
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At my very first social meet (14 years ago, blimey!), the woman showed me her messages.
I already had an idea from reading what Fab members said, but seeing the actual content was a shock. Always think back to that evening. |
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I’ve sat next to my girlfriend whilst she trawls through the sheer volume of messages she gets on her solo profile and all the drivel they contain. Other female friends have also showed me the content of messages they get.
So trust me, some of us men know full well the stress of managing your inbox on here |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
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I’ve seen it on a FWB I met on here and she let me have a really good brows of some of the absolutely horrendous messages. Whether it was content, spelling or grammar. Mostly all three |
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"I turned the single male filters off for ten minutes a couple of months ago as a bit of a social experiment (after a bottle of wine of course!) to see how bad it was.
Never.
Again. "
How is a stud like myself to get in touch with a sexy lady like yourself then? The only way is for you to send me a message. Go on, you know you want to  |
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"I do have to admit compared to others on here i get very few messages a day. I saw my friend’s inbox yesterday while having drinks and she had like 250 odd unread messages. Because I don’t come up on the search as I haven’t ticked the “looking for men” box I definitely don’t get it as bad as some.
You're making the assumption that the idiots bother reading profiles. It's the filters that can block them
Ok so now I am thinking I am just ugly! Thanks "
You are not ugly, I was making the point that most of the idiots on here don't read profiles at all. I get approached by gay guys despite my profile clearly stating that I am straight. 🤷🏽♂️ Hence I blocked all guys too.
Ps I'm not far from Gloucester if you want another fan to add to your collection |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Is it the volume or content of the messages? And are most of them just shit or are they genuinely horrible. I know everyone is different but I like to think that most of my fellow men have some level of decency, but totally accept that most of us are shit at messaging people. |
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"I turned the single male filters off for ten minutes a couple of months ago as a bit of a social experiment (after a bottle of wine of course!) to see how bad it was.
Never.
Again.
How is a stud like myself to get in touch with a sexy lady like yourself then? The only way is for you to send me a message. Go on, you know you want to "
Prime example right here folks. The pushy "you know you want to mentality" |
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Thick thighs, I like yours suggestion
I have chosen mr Gatekeeper for mailbox duties. He asks for very modest payment.
Reason I chose him is because he can tell all the meet me nows to F off
He is also in to footie like I am. |
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Lol when we had a couples profile it was unreal ...until one tosser followed wife home to the house where our kids are after a meet then that was the end of our couples profile. It was horny as a husband seeing all the messages but yeah some very weird ones too |
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"Is it the volume or content of the messages? And are most of them just shit or are they genuinely horrible. I know everyone is different but I like to think that most of my fellow men have some level of decency, but totally accept that most of us are shit at messaging people. "
The volume, the content or lack of, their inability to read someone's profile and message you with the basics - 90% of my inbox is dire and gets deleted without reading |
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"I turned the single male filters off for ten minutes a couple of months ago as a bit of a social experiment (after a bottle of wine of course!) to see how bad it was.
Never.
Again.
How is a stud like myself to get in touch with a sexy lady like yourself then? The only way is for you to send me a message. Go on, you know you want to
Prime example right here folks. The pushy "you know you want to mentality""
I'm not pushy, you have misunderstood my humour. |
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"Lol when we had a couples profile it was unreal ...until one tosser followed wife home to the house where our kids are after a meet then that was the end of our couples profile. It was horny as a husband seeing all the messages but yeah some very weird ones too "
Fucking hell that's awful.
We've been the victims of cyber stalking even phone calls in the middle of the night but what happened with you is unthinkable |
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"I turned the single male filters off for ten minutes a couple of months ago as a bit of a social experiment (after a bottle of wine of course!) to see how bad it was.
Never.
Again.
How is a stud like myself to get in touch with a sexy lady like yourself then? The only way is for you to send me a message. Go on, you know you want to
Prime example right here folks. The pushy "you know you want to mentality"
I'm not pushy, you have misunderstood my humour."
You are trying to bypass filters people have set up for their own safety by being a "cheeky lad" and you've done it twice on here during people telling you stories of how they've been made uncomfortable with messages.
Read the fucking room dude |
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By *arierWoman 37 weeks ago
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"I turned the single male filters off for ten minutes a couple of months ago as a bit of a social experiment (after a bottle of wine of course!) to see how bad it was.
Never.
Again.
How is a stud like myself to get in touch with a sexy lady like yourself then? The only way is for you to send me a message. Go on, you know you want to
Prime example right here folks. The pushy "you know you want to mentality"
I'm not pushy, you have misunderstood my humour."
No thank you anyway mate, it clearly states in my profile I’m not looking for things with a penis attached.  |
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"I turned the single male filters off for ten minutes a couple of months ago as a bit of a social experiment (after a bottle of wine of course!) to see how bad it was.
Never.
Again.
How is a stud like myself to get in touch with a sexy lady like yourself then? The only way is for you to send me a message. Go on, you know you want to
Prime example right here folks. The pushy "you know you want to mentality"
I'm not pushy, you have misunderstood my humour.
You are trying to bypass filters people have set up for their own safety by being a "cheeky lad" and you've done it twice on here during people telling you stories of how they've been made uncomfortable with messages.
Read the fucking room dude"
With respect I don't need advice from you on how to behave, ive been a regular here on the forum for years. learn some manners then maybe I'll talk to you. |
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"I turned the single male filters off for ten minutes a couple of months ago as a bit of a social experiment (after a bottle of wine of course!) to see how bad it was.
Never.
Again.
How is a stud like myself to get in touch with a sexy lady like yourself then? The only way is for you to send me a message. Go on, you know you want to
Prime example right here folks. The pushy "you know you want to mentality"
I'm not pushy, you have misunderstood my humour.
No thank you anyway mate, it clearly states in my profile I’m not looking for things with a penis attached. "
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"I turned the single male filters off for ten minutes a couple of months ago as a bit of a social experiment (after a bottle of wine of course!) to see how bad it was.
Never.
Again.
How is a stud like myself to get in touch with a sexy lady like yourself then? The only way is for you to send me a message. Go on, you know you want to
Prime example right here folks. The pushy "you know you want to mentality""
This was clearly a joke |
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"I turned the single male filters off for ten minutes a couple of months ago as a bit of a social experiment (after a bottle of wine of course!) to see how bad it was.
Never.
Again.
How is a stud like myself to get in touch with a sexy lady like yourself then? The only way is for you to send me a message. Go on, you know you want to
Prime example right here folks. The pushy "you know you want to mentality"
I'm not pushy, you have misunderstood my humour.
You are trying to bypass filters people have set up for their own safety by being a "cheeky lad" and you've done it twice on here during people telling you stories of how they've been made uncomfortable with messages.
Read the fucking room dude
With respect I don't need advice from you on how to behave, ive been a regular here on the forum for years. learn some manners then maybe I'll talk to you."
Manners doesn't involve begging for DM's regardless of how long you've been on here. I don't need to or really want to talk to you, as a woman, you give me the creeps which I'd say is pretty relevant for the forum topic. |
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By *ustBoWoman 37 weeks ago
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To be fair mine would probably be pretty similar to the men's own profile. Filters tighter than a ducks ass prevent the majority of messages. So I might average 2 messages a week sometimes none. Just the way I like it. |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
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😂😂😂 it would be an eye opener I’m sure! |
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"I do have to admit compared to others on here i get very few messages a day. I saw my friend’s inbox yesterday while having drinks and she had like 250 odd unread messages. Because I don’t come up on the search as I haven’t ticked the “looking for men” box I definitely don’t get it as bad as some.
You're making the assumption that the idiots bother reading profiles. It's the filters that can block them
Ok so now I am thinking I am just ugly! Thanks
You are not ugly, I was making the point that most of the idiots on here don't read profiles at all. I get approached by gay guys despite my profile clearly stating that I am straight. 🤷🏽♂️ Hence I blocked all guys too.
Ps I'm not far from Gloucester if you want another fan to add to your collection "
My post didn’t mention my profile. My post said I didn’t have the box ticked that would mean I show up in guys search’s. So thats why I don’t get many messages.
And no thanks not interested. My profile says I am not looking to meet anyone |
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Ladies and couples, I’ve got a “groundbreaking” idea here you can use to avoid crap messages, wait for it…
Message filters!! If you don’t want rubbish in your inbox, block those you don’t contacting you e.g. men, silhouette profiles, unverified accounts etc. and seek out profiles of those you DO wish to be contacted by.
Not really “groundbreaking” but it seems to go over so many heads on here… |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I’ve seen it before 1st hand …..
They’ll get multiple messages .. a lot from the same sender and his 7 other profiles talking all types of shite …. and then there’s the rest …
I can imagine it can be quite overwhelming and not that fun being on here at times …. 🙄 … to the point where it’s negative - … |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
"
I had a guy message me to tell me he hoped I died screaming in a Fiat during a car crash. There are honestly some demented people out there
I shouldn't have responded but curiosity got the better of me = "Why a Fiat! I don't drive a Fiat so I feel that scenario is unlikely"  |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
I had a guy message me to tell me he hoped I died screaming in a Fiat during a car crash. There are honestly some demented people out there
I shouldn't have responded but curiosity got the better of me = "Why a Fiat! I don't drive a Fiat so I feel that scenario is unlikely" "
Two things
I hope you reported him and, did he reply to your Fiat comment? |
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I was on a meet where the lady showed me her inbox ( no not that, that was earlier) I was genuinely shocked with some of the stuff that was sent to her
I can see why so many women block men or never reply to a message
Oh and if anyone would like a reply composing to anything send me the message and I will get writing |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
I had a guy message me to tell me he hoped I died screaming in a Fiat during a car crash. There are honestly some demented people out there
I shouldn't have responded but curiosity got the better of me = "Why a Fiat! I don't drive a Fiat so I feel that scenario is unlikely"
Two things
I hope you reported him and, did he reply to your Fiat comment?"
Yes I reported him then blocked. But despite setting filters and blocking he would delete, wait the two weeks before starting again....I never engaged after the initial response
It stopped after my FWB who is in the Police stepped in....Not sure how he did it but he managed to track the guy down
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
I had a guy message me to tell me he hoped I died screaming in a Fiat during a car crash. There are honestly some demented people out there
I shouldn't have responded but curiosity got the better of me = "Why a Fiat! I don't drive a Fiat so I feel that scenario is unlikely"
Two things
I hope you reported him and, did he reply to your Fiat comment?
Yes I reported him then blocked. But despite setting filters and blocking he would delete, wait the two weeks before starting again....I never engaged after the initial response
It stopped after my FWB who is in the Police stepped in....Not sure how he did it but he managed to track the guy down
"
What a prick, I hope he got what he deserves. The fiat is a weird specification though 😂
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"I turned the single male filters off for ten minutes a couple of months ago as a bit of a social experiment (after a bottle of wine of course!) to see how bad it was.
Never.
Again.
How is a stud like myself to get in touch with a sexy lady like yourself then? The only way is for you to send me a message. Go on, you know you want to
Prime example right here folks. The pushy "you know you want to mentality"
I'm not pushy, you have misunderstood my humour.
You are trying to bypass filters people have set up for their own safety by being a "cheeky lad" and you've done it twice on here during people telling you stories of how they've been made uncomfortable with messages.
Read the fucking room dude
With respect I don't need advice from you on how to behave, ive been a regular here on the forum for years. learn some manners then maybe I'll talk to you.
Manners doesn't involve begging for DM's regardless of how long you've been on here. I don't need to or really want to talk to you, as a woman, you give me the creeps which I'd say is pretty relevant for the forum topic."
It's just possible that you may not be alone in your opinion. I may be wrong, of course, about, "regular on the forum for years," with only one play verification during that time.
Anyway, just ignore me, I'm old. Was there a time when FabSwingers was for, er, swingers to swing? |
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"Ladies and couples, I’ve got a “groundbreaking” idea here you can use to avoid crap messages, wait for it…
Message filters!! If you don’t want rubbish in your inbox, block those you don’t contacting you e.g. men, silhouette profiles, unverified accounts etc. and seek out profiles of those you DO wish to be contacted by.
Not really “groundbreaking” but it seems to go over so many heads on here… "
Ahhhh...
Got to love a good mansplaining... |
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"Thick thighs, I like yours suggestion
I have chosen mr Gatekeeper for mailbox duties. He asks for very modest payment.
Reason I chose him is because he can tell all the meet me nows to F off
He is also in to footie like I am. "
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"Ladies and couples, I’ve got a “groundbreaking” idea here you can use to avoid crap messages, wait for it…
Message filters!! If you don’t want rubbish in your inbox, block those you don’t contacting you e.g. men, silhouette profiles, unverified accounts etc. and seek out profiles of those you DO wish to be contacted by.
Not really “groundbreaking” but it seems to go over so many heads on here…
Ahhhh...
Got to love a good mansplaining..."
The satire of my post clearly went over your head… |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
I had a guy message me to tell me he hoped I died screaming in a Fiat during a car crash. There are honestly some demented people out there
I shouldn't have responded but curiosity got the better of me = "Why a Fiat! I don't drive a Fiat so I feel that scenario is unlikely"
Two things
I hope you reported him and, did he reply to your Fiat comment?
Yes I reported him then blocked. But despite setting filters and blocking he would delete, wait the two weeks before starting again....I never engaged after the initial response
It stopped after my FWB who is in the Police stepped in....Not sure how he did it but he managed to track the guy down
What a prick, I hope he got what he deserves. The fiat is a weird specification though 😂
"
I know, I drove a Vauxhall at the time so Fiat didn't fit with the schematic thought process of my ADHD brain 😂 |
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"Ladies and couples, I’ve got a “groundbreaking” idea here you can use to avoid crap messages, wait for it…
Message filters!! If you don’t want rubbish in your inbox, block those you don’t contacting you e.g. men, silhouette profiles, unverified accounts etc. and seek out profiles of those you DO wish to be contacted by.
Not really “groundbreaking” but it seems to go over so many heads on here… "
Because they shouldn't have to. People should just show manners and not message the shit in the firstplace |
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"Thick thighs, I like yours suggestion
I have chosen mr Gatekeeper for mailbox duties. He asks for very modest payment.
Reason I chose him is because he can tell all the meet me nows to F off
He is also in to footie like I am.
I accept "
Woo hoo! |
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I get the petulant man-child, who plays the victim or throws a tantrum when he is called out on his behaviour, or I respond with the same level is disregard for limits he has shown me.
Usually end up being blocked. |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
I had a guy message me to tell me he hoped I died screaming in a Fiat during a car crash. There are honestly some demented people out there
I shouldn't have responded but curiosity got the better of me = "Why a Fiat! I don't drive a Fiat so I feel that scenario is unlikely"
Two things
I hope you reported him and, did he reply to your Fiat comment?
Yes I reported him then blocked. But despite setting filters and blocking he would delete, wait the two weeks before starting again....I never engaged after the initial response
It stopped after my FWB who is in the Police stepped in....Not sure how he did it but he managed to track the guy down
What a prick, I hope he got what he deserves. The fiat is a weird specification though 😂
I know, I drove a Vauxhall at the time so Fiat didn't fit with the schematic thought process of my ADHD brain 😂"
Did you think that a fiat was an upgrade on a vauxhall? 😂🤷🏽♂️ |
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"What female would be up for a male to take over their inbox for 24hrs, just to witness the absolute car crash of messages we receive?
*this is not a genuine offer
**the car crash messages are genuine
"
My wife has shown me messages she received and some guys are completely out of touch...not all must a vast majority think One liners are ok and send messages about them getting off making it all about them. No thought whatsover. |
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