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Common fantasies that don’t turn you on?
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Nurse/Patient scenario for me.
Think it’s because I find the fantasy (very attractive nurse, cleavage, stocking tops & suspenders straps on show etc) difficult to separate in my mind from my worst nightmare (battle axe type getting the bedpan & bum wipes out in no nonsense fashion etc)
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The Schoolgirl one must rank pretty high especially with the ladies because of perceived connotations?
I’m ambivalent on that one tbh, though never have requested the Mrs or anyone else to dress up in that manner I might add. |
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Women dressed as schoolgirls. Yeah the look is hot, but I can't get past the fact the the outfit is normally associated with under aged girls. Or is that the fantasy? If it is, it's definitely wrong. |
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D/s
Dominant
Grape
Spit Roast
Bukkake
Gangbang
Bondage
Threesome
Throat fucking
Pretty much most porn induced rubbish that's followed by those who know no better.... just say all of it..saves me typing.
First to shout vanilla is out!
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"The Schoolgirl one must rank pretty high especially with the ladies because of perceived connotations?
I’m ambivalent on that one tbh, though never have requested the Mrs or anyone else to dress up in that manner I might add."
Schoolgirl.....no 😕🥷 |
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"The Schoolgirl one must rank pretty high especially with the ladies because of perceived connotations?
I’m ambivalent on that one tbh, though never have requested the Mrs or anyone else to dress up in that manner I might add."
Times change. Years ago there were decent debates in here about whether there were connotations or whether it was just 'fun' that harkened back to teenage fantasies.... ( I heard some blind,self supporting shite in those debates )  The wheel has definitely swung in favour of one side of that argument. |
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The involvement of food.... Back in the day when I'd get hold of a copy of Fiesta or something, I'd be happily looking at all the ladies in various types of sexy lingerie, then occasionally there would always be a a few pages of a sexy lass totally ruined by being covered in fucking custard, or smearing baked beans all over herself, it did absolutely nothing for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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“seduce my wife without her knowing”
It seems a common fantasy on here. Most weeks I’ll get men messaging saying their wife is uptight, doesn’t swing etc, and that the wife is going out and I should try and find her and bed her.
It turns me off.
I find it disturbing that someone would put their partner in that kind of situation without her permission or knowledge. Not to mention the potential danger they are putting their wives in. |
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"“seduce my wife without her knowing”
It seems a common fantasy on here. Most weeks I’ll get men messaging saying their wife is uptight, doesn’t swing etc, and that the wife is going out and I should try and find her and bed her.
It turns me off.
I find it disturbing that someone would put their partner in that kind of situation without her permission or knowledge. Not to mention the potential danger they are putting their wives in."
I agree and this is one of mine ( if I had one ❤️🌅❤️)⬆️ |
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"Never been turned on by the flight attendant fantasy .. most seem preoccupied with with being orange tanned and selling me things I don’t need.. "
I have never had a flight attendant try to sell me anything. |
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"The involvement of food.... Back in the day when I'd get hold of a copy of Fiesta or something, I'd be happily looking at all the ladies in various types of sexy lingerie, then occasionally there would always be a a few pages of a sexy lass totally ruined by being covered in fucking custard, or smearing baked beans all over herself, it did absolutely nothing for me. "
Yeah, I’m with you there, I totally avoid food.
I remember as a teen just getting started doing sexy time & I got a tub of Chocolate body paint complete with brush as you do to try & impress the girlfriend…
….started spreading it on, except it didn’t spread, it was like rock hard butter, so I was using considerable force to try & get this stuff out of the jar, still less actually spread this stuff on.
Needless to say, that killed the vibe somewhat.
Had a look at the jar afterwards to read ‘warm gently before applying’ Doh!  |
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"School girl is a big no from us.
We also don’t get all of the step-mom / step-sister ones on porn.
I mean, really?
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Porn works in buzz word trends. That’s just been a trend couple of years. It will phase out shortly and something else will be the prime traffic engagement
Many men young men love taboo roleplay fantasy when wanking hence the porn is lucrative still.
The data the big studios / sites have on its fans is vast in what’s popular Pornhub release data to public each year with what has been the most popular terms and by which demographics |
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"The involvement of food.... Back in the day when I'd get hold of a copy of Fiesta or something, I'd be happily looking at all the ladies in various types of sexy lingerie, then occasionally there would always be a a few pages of a sexy lass totally ruined by being covered in fucking custard, or smearing baked beans all over herself, it did absolutely nothing for me.
Yeah, I’m with you there, I totally avoid food.
I remember as a teen just getting started doing sexy time & I got a tub of Chocolate body paint complete with brush as you do to try & impress the girlfriend…
….started spreading it on, except it didn’t spread, it was like rock hard butter, so I was using considerable force to try & get this stuff out of the jar, still less actually spread this stuff on.
Needless to say, that killed the vibe somewhat.
Had a look at the jar afterwards to read ‘warm gently before applying’ Doh! "
😂 😂 😂 Brilliant 😂 |
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"The involvement of food.... Back in the day when I'd get hold of a copy of Fiesta or something, I'd be happily looking at all the ladies in various types of sexy lingerie, then occasionally there would always be a a few pages of a sexy lass totally ruined by being covered in fucking custard, or smearing baked beans all over herself, it did absolutely nothing for me. "
Used to find the ones with baked beans absolutely repellent |
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"Never been turned on by the flight attendant fantasy .. most seem preoccupied with with being orange tanned and selling me things I don’t need..
I have never had a flight attendant try to sell me anything."
Should try flying more |
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"Anything with food involved. Yuk
I don’t associate the schoolgirl look with age play tbh. I think the pigtails and stockings, short skirt and bulging white blouse is sexy as fuck. "
Someone had the balls to post then… |
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"Anything with food involved. Yuk
I don’t associate the schoolgirl look with age play tbh. I think the pigtails and stockings, short skirt and bulging white blouse is sexy as fuck.
Someone had the balls to post then… "
Haha. I’m sure a lot agree with me but won’t say. It’s a woman ffs. Never seen a kid go school in the attire I’m talking about!
Age play sickens me though. As does a 50/60 year old man meeting an 18 year old. I’m sure a lot wont agree with that 🤷♀️. To each their own as they say x |
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"Anything with food involved. Yuk
I don’t associate the schoolgirl look with age play tbh. I think the pigtails and stockings, short skirt and bulging white blouse is sexy as fuck. "
Neither do I. It's a grown woman. I think calling it 'school girl fantasy' gives the wrong impression entirely. |
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"Nurse/Patient scenario for me.
Think it’s because I find the fantasy (very attractive nurse, cleavage, stocking tops & suspenders straps on show etc) difficult to separate in my mind from my worst nightmare (battle axe type getting the bedpan & bum wipes out in no nonsense fashion etc)
Mr.
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I'll see your nurse / patient and raise you schoolgirl stuff...
That stuff where you beat eachother up isn't for me either but hey...a chacun son gout.
And and anything that involves lasts.
What's wrong with a bit of normal dv? |
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"Anything with food involved. Yuk
I don’t associate the schoolgirl look with age play tbh. I think the pigtails and stockings, short skirt and bulging white blouse is sexy as fuck.
Neither do I. It's a grown woman. I think calling it 'school girl fantasy' gives the wrong impression entirely. "
Yes definitely. I think ladies in pig tails etc is a sexy look. |
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Water sports does nothing for me.
Another one who enjoys the school outfit look. I don’t link it at all to age play - short tartan skirt, knee high socks and a tight white shirt/blouse…you could be describing the secretary look too 🤷🏻♂️
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"Anything with food involved. Yuk
I don’t associate the schoolgirl look with age play tbh. I think the pigtails and stockings, short skirt and bulging white blouse is sexy as fuck.
Neither do I. It's a grown woman. I think calling it 'school girl fantasy' gives the wrong impression entirely.
Yes definitely. I think ladies in pig tails etc is a sexy look. "
Except me I look like four pen'orth of gawd help us |
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"Anything with food involved. Yuk
I don’t associate the schoolgirl look with age play tbh. I think the pigtails and stockings, short skirt and bulging white blouse is sexy as fuck.
Neither do I. It's a grown woman. I think calling it 'school girl fantasy' gives the wrong impression entirely.
Yes definitely. I think ladies in pig tails etc is a sexy look.
Except me I look like four pen'orth of gawd help us "
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I think context is the deciding factor.
In a casual fab sense breeding is grim, keep your swimmers to yourself!
But! In a committed relationship with someone I adore? Going bare with my guy and enjoying cum play when feeling super sexy & fertile even whilst on birth control? I love that intimacy. I'd still not call it breeding though.
Also, uniforms and role play are too silly for me to ever feel sexy doing.
But! Dating a guy in uniform and jumping his hot self before or after work? That'd set us both up for the day with huge smiles on our faces 😉😈
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There are several which overlap with life experience/stuff I've seen which kind of give me the creeps for that reason.
Also all the wife pic sharing and the like - I wonder how many women are completely unaware that their partner is using their intimate pictures as currency with strangers. |
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"The dressing as a schoolgirl fantasy. It inappropriately sexualises young girls.
"Breeding".
Being called someone's "mummy" or "aunty".  "
Breeding I don’t mind when it’s in gay sex / trans scene. As it has no bad vibe with it like the Hetros one does |
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Nurse and schoolgirl outfits is a no no just a bit gross. Also guys who call themselves vikings, you know the ones that watched the viking TV show then did a DNA test and found 10% scandi blood. Then grow a beard and braid Thier hair and make it Thier whole personality. |
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"Nurse and schoolgirl outfits is a no no just a bit gross. Also guys who call themselves vikings, you know the ones that watched the viking TV show then did a DNA test and found 10% scandi blood. Then grow a beard and braid Thier hair and make it Thier whole personality. "
The viking thing tends to bring with it a whole lot of vile beliefs.
But yes to the DNA thing. It's very common among Americans - although I mostly notice when it's Irish. They make Ireland their whole fucking personality when their great grandparents were all born in the US. (My heritage is notably Irish. I'm not going to call myself Irish, or I'd have to go give myself a wedgie then flush myself) |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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I think it depends on the situation and people, I think helping people live out their fantasies is very sexy, plus when you get that horny, everything seems that much more appealing 😏 |
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"Girl on girl. As a straight woman, it does nothing for me "
As a bi woman, it's often weird to me when guys are into it. Like unless that's your partner with me, this has nothing to do with you. I'm not putting on a show 🤷♀️ |
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Nurse, school teacher not my thing. I mean there are many I suppose.
I'm not really into role play like that anyway, some yes but those types of scenarios not my thing. I do like a natural free flowing interlude.
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"Nurse, school teacher not my thing. I mean there are many I suppose.
I'm not really into role play like that anyway, some yes but those types of scenarios not my thing. I do like a natural free flowing interlude.
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I think medical and educational involve improper use of power over vulnerable people. It's why it gives me the shivers. |
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"Anything family related, Daddy, Step mum, auntie... Just no 🫥
I get people ask me to be daddy I am a trans woman 
My humour though can’t help myself with commenting at irony "
Well, you could be both 😂 |
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"Anything with food involved. Yuk
I don’t associate the schoolgirl look with age play tbh. I think the pigtails and stockings, short skirt and bulging white blouse is sexy as fuck.
Neither do I. It's a grown woman. I think calling it 'school girl fantasy' gives the wrong impression entirely. "
I agree with this completely! My tartan mini skirt is my most requested dress up for meets but I’m a fully grown woman and still look like one in the skirt! Xx 😄 |
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"Anything with food involved. Yuk
I don’t associate the schoolgirl look with age play tbh. I think the pigtails and stockings, short skirt and bulging white blouse is sexy as fuck.
Neither do I. It's a grown woman. I think calling it 'school girl fantasy' gives the wrong impression entirely.
I agree with this completely! My tartan mini skirt is my most requested dress up for meets but I’m a fully grown woman and still look like one in the skirt! Xx 😄"
That cheer leader outfit is causing quite a stirring in my down belows too. |
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Anything that relates to the clue is = Tom Hardy was in this series (had his kit off ..can't say the word or get banned. Most of the T#boo emails I get are just wrong on so many levels for me anyway  |
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