I’ve thought about posting and decided I should talk about this, I’m sure there are many of us who have been lost our friends. So excuse me for not being chirpy for the last few weeks. Baphunter hasn’t been on point. Far from it x it’s ok for men to cry, I’ve done my fair share. I don’t have a question to end this chat. It all to raw x love your fab lives x |
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Sorry to hear you've lost your friends.
I'm not able to chat but just wanted to agree it is definitely good to talk about it.
Either chatting with friends, here, or professional.
There are also grief cafes where you can just go have a cuppa and have a chat with people. |
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"Sorry to hear you've lost your friends.
I'm not able to chat but just wanted to agree it is definitely good to talk about it.
Either chatting with friends, here, or professional.
There are also grief cafes where you can just go have a cuppa and have a chat with people."
It’s so nice that there are still such empathetic people like you. What you wrote is incredibly kind.
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Nice one for sharing and sorry for your loss. I understand you as I experienced it too. Death of
Someone close to you particularly of young is a complex and profound thing to make any sense of.
Grief is non linear and unique to everyone. Someone described as a large balloon in a box and constantly banging of the sides and edges and dominates the space… in time the balloon reduces but it will always remain just not with skull bursting intensity.
Don’t put yourself under pressure to pay homage or do things that’s natural. Right now go for long walks and hikes with mutual friends and talk. |
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To feel is to be human. You had a connection with this other human being. That connection is now gone. Hold onto the memories and grieve as you see fit. You are not alone. Death is part of life. Remember your friend. Remember the love you shared. 🫶🏾❤️ |
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I used to do civil war re enactment and through that met an absolutely amazing lady who picked me up from many a station and gave me a bunk in her caravan and fed me all weekend. She really was like a second mum and I adored her beyond measure. She died just before my daughter turned 3 (she's 14 this year). I still miss jer to this day. There's something to be said for the good ones x. |
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By *WB85Man 4 weeks ago
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Sorry to hear this OP. Life throws some real difficult stages at times, but we have to push through and come out the other side.
I made mistake years ago of not talking about my shit.....and it only makes things worse. Its good to talk.
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By *omRachCouple 3 weeks ago
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About 18 months ago we lost a very good friend from this site who died very suddenly & unexpectedly.
He had been a fuckbuddy for Rach for about 2 years at his time of passing and due to the nature of our relationship we both found it very hard to mourn him whilst keeping ours and his lifestyle discreet.
He wasn't just our hotwife playmate he an her actually became really good friends too and she lost 2 persons when he died.
A lovely warm & wonderful man, R.I.P. Steve |
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Appreciate you shar8ng this op. How are you doing today?
Grief is personal and that's ok, do what you feel like doing whether that's crying/ laughing/ exersise- whatever, just give yourself permission.
It exists because love exists and ultimately, love is a beautiful thing.
It never goes but in time, life can grow around it.
I lost 4 friends over 5 years, it made me evaluate relationships (become more insular) but I am coming out of hibernation again, slowly but surely.
Take care. |
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Thank you everyone xx I had two close friends pass in 48 hours. Just starting to feel a bit lighter. Thanks for all the replies, really kind. I heard some words recently and made sense, that grief is the price we pay for love. I’ll be back, just takes time to adjust x |
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