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There are many reason why someone might choose to step out of their marriage. We are not looking to get in to a relationship with anyone, so personally it’s none of our business. We have seen it a few times when someone is married and they spend time moaning and criticising their wife/partner and that’s a no from us |
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Its not my place to judge anyone else's personal situation.
When I or we play, we expect the potential playmate to be open and honest with us. If they are In a relationship/ married then what they do is their choice. And likewise if we know if they have a partner then it is our choice to indulge or not.
Personally I cant see why you would want to cheat if your on here. Open and honest is the best policy in my opinion OP 👌 |
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Surely the only opinion that matters is your own, OP?
You will receive a whole spectrum of responses here, but I doubt anything would change your opinion, as I'm sure you've already worked through the pros and cons. |
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Some think it's ok some don't.
I think there are rare circumstances where it is but mostly I don't think it is.
I'm often surprised at how people will overlook or forget someone being married if they're popular though |
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"Some think it's ok some don't.
I think there are rare circumstances where it is but mostly I don't think it is.
I'm often surprised at how people will overlook or forget someone being married if they're popular though "
Or they find them hot enough. |
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"Some think it's ok some don't.
I think there are rare circumstances where it is but mostly I don't think it is.
I'm often surprised at how people will overlook or forget someone being married if they're popular though
Or they find them hot enough. "
Yep!
I recall a very popular person in the forum who has now left who was never criticised although it was on their profile. |
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"Some think it's ok some don't.
I think there are rare circumstances where it is but mostly I don't think it is.
I'm often surprised at how people will overlook or forget someone being married if they're popular though "
You can get away with anything on here if your "popular" |
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"Some think it's ok some don't.
I think there are rare circumstances where it is but mostly I don't think it is.
I'm often surprised at how people will overlook or forget someone being married if they're popular though
You can get away with anything on here if your "popular""
Never a truer word spoken!
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"Some think it's ok some don't.
I think there are rare circumstances where it is but mostly I don't think it is.
I'm often surprised at how people will overlook or forget someone being married if they're popular though "
I’ll interact on the forums with those people. I have turned down any that have asked to meet via DM and explained that it’s a hard line for me. I wouldn’t be dragging my disapproval into every post though - that would be weird. But if they were to do an “is it okay” post like this I’d say no to them.
In answer to the OP, being married is okay if their partner is aware and approves, cheating isn’t. There are very rare medical circumstances where I could understand - coma, dementia etc.
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It's wrong if they try say there are single when married. If they are open about been married then it's your choice if to meet or not.
One argument is married will be more discreet not after relationship or going down pub telling friends etc
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"Some think it's ok some don't.
I think there are rare circumstances where it is but mostly I don't think it is.
I'm often surprised at how people will overlook or forget someone being married if they're popular though
I’ll interact on the forums with those people. I have turned down any that have asked to meet via DM and explained that it’s a hard line for me. I wouldn’t be dragging my disapproval into every post though - that would be weird. But if they were to do an “is it okay” post like this I’d say no to them.
In answer to the OP, being married is okay if their partner is aware and approves, cheating isn’t. There are very rare medical circumstances where I could understand - coma, dementia etc.
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I'm thinking along the lines of people who choose who they disapprove if depending on attractiveness and perceived popularity.
It'd human nature and something I notice outside of the net too. Probably guilty of it myself  |
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"One thing I'd say op, always be honest about it and give others the choice to meet you or not, based on you being married. ⬆️💯
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Is the OP married?"
Maybe he can come back to the thread and say, but there's usually a reason this is asked so often and many don't explicitly state they are on profiles. |
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"If they're willing to tell lies to someone they love.....what lies will they tell someone that they don't in this type of situation.
It's a no from us. "
People often find it easier to be truthful to strangers. |
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It's very easy to say if you going to cheat . You should just leave marriage have new start etc.
I have a good friend is wife he loves deeply as early dementia very early dementia . He never leave her he care for her does evey thing for her even days she does not know him or gets angry with him. Where should he go for relaxing fun I ould support him back him up whatever he did. As far as I know he just takes it out on golf ball once a week when someone helps him have half day free
What I am saying is sometime people cheat for very different reasons . 90% time probably no good reason
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"It's very easy to say if you going to cheat . You should just leave marriage have new start etc.
I have a good friend is wife he loves deeply as early dementia very early dementia . He never leave her he care for her does evey thing for her even days she does not know him or gets angry with him. Where should he go for relaxing fun I ould support him back him up whatever he did. As far as I know he just takes it out on golf ball once a week when someone helps him have half day free
What I am saying is sometime people cheat for very different reasons . 90% time probably no good reason
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It's not always cut and dried is it but I'd say 99.9% have no good reason |
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"It's very easy to say if you going to cheat . You should just leave marriage have new start etc.
I have a good friend is wife he loves deeply as early dementia very early dementia . He never leave her he care for her does evey thing for her even days she does not know him or gets angry with him. Where should he go for relaxing fun I ould support him back him up whatever he did. As far as I know he just takes it out on golf ball once a week when someone helps him have half day free
What I am saying is sometime people cheat for very different reasons . 90% time probably no good reason
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Something like that is totally understandable....it's the ones who do it just because they aren't getting any at home. |
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"It's very easy to say if you going to cheat . You should just leave marriage have new start etc.
I have a good friend is wife he loves deeply as early dementia very early dementia . He never leave her he care for her does evey thing for her even days she does not know him or gets angry with him. Where should he go for relaxing fun I ould support him back him up whatever he did. As far as I know he just takes it out on golf ball once a week when someone helps him have half day free
What I am saying is sometime people cheat for very different reasons . 90% time probably no good reason
Something like that is totally understandable....it's the ones who do it just because they aren't getting any at home."
Or they are but they just like 'the thrill of the chase'. |
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"It's very easy to say if you going to cheat . You should just leave marriage have new start etc.
I have a good friend is wife he loves deeply as early dementia very early dementia . He never leave her he care for her does evey thing for her even days she does not know him or gets angry with him. Where should he go for relaxing fun I ould support him back him up whatever he did. As far as I know he just takes it out on golf ball once a week when someone helps him have half day free
What I am saying is sometime people cheat for very different reasons . 90% time probably no good reason
Something like that is totally understandable....it's the ones who do it just because they aren't getting any at home.
Or they are but they just like 'the thrill of the chase'. "
Exactly.... |
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I'm all about consent and clear communication. I once had someone's wife start sending my business pages on social media loads of abuse because I had unknowingly met up with her husband. So for me it's an absolute dick move and I did not consent to it. |
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"One thing I'd say op, always be honest about it and give others the choice to meet you or not, based on you being married. ⬆️💯
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Is the OP married?
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Maybe he can come back to the thread and say, but there's usually a reason this is asked so often and many don't explicitly state they are on profiles."
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I interpreted it differently: he's probably fed up with messaging women and then discovering most of them are married, hence his query.
I mean we could be presumptuous and interpret his "can accommodate" as an indication of him not being married. But, yeah, he may surprise us all... |
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By *unny girl7Woman 2 days ago
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"If someone is on here, behind their other half's back. Is it ok?
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Do you have a guilty conscience then?
Lets face it-we all know its you and yes,you are cheating ,despicable.
Same goes for all you other cheats-you know who you are. |
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If you have no intention of meeting and don’t share photos of your partner, I don't see it as a problem.
When someone is actively looking to cheat or share photos without permission. I don't agree at all.
If you're in a unhappy marriage you need to either sort it out or get out, in my opinion. |
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