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Do you judge people before hand by the type of pics / videos they post?
We unknowingly do, unkempt hair, over the toilet shots , extreme genitalia closeups, out of focus et etc where do draw the line ? 🫣 |
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By *Effy-Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
Well, yeah. It's what draws me in and gets me interested in someone in the first place.
The message they send could be wonderful but if I find a picture of them strangling their cock with dirty finger nails over a toilet with shit stains in, kinda dries me up. |
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"Well, yeah. It's what draws me in and gets me interested in someone in the first place.
The message they send could be wonderful but if I find a picture of them strangling their cock with dirty finger nails over a toilet with shit stains in, kinda dries me up. "
only kinda?! |
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By *Effy-Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"Well, yeah. It's what draws me in and gets me interested in someone in the first place.
The message they send could be wonderful but if I find a picture of them strangling their cock with dirty finger nails over a toilet with shit stains in, kinda dries me up.
only kinda?!"
I have bad days too! |
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Absolutely...
If it's a video, I can generally judge by the thumbnail... (if it's shite looking.. it's shite. If it's 3 seconds long.....it's shite. and if it's in the toilet..... It's definitely shite..)
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Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people. |
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"There are 2 types of pictures on here.
The ones on a profile, and the ones you get via pm.
The ones on a profile I can deal with, it's the ones via pm that are, just wow  "
Yeah.
Yeah. I've seen some shit. (Fortunately not literally. Yes I do feel the need to clarify that 😬) |
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There’s a reason why someone said …. a picture speaks a thousand words or something along those lines …
We are big believers of each one to their own but the way we are we can’t help ourselves running away in the opposite direction when such profiles approach us.
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"If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
Of course they're not, Halfeti would spoil if left on a dresser."
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You've just outed yourself. You've scuppered any chance of a third date.  |
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people."
Any thing with Penhaligon label is overrated. Full stop. |
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people."
..Do you get your hole much on here.? |
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
..Do you get your hole munched on here.?"
Bit forward! |
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
..Do you get your hole munched on here.?
Bit forward!"
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I don't even understand the question.  |
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
..Do you get your hole munched on here.?
Bit forward!
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I don't even understand the question. "
Not me. I was trying to help him with my edits! 🤣 |
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
..Do you get your hole munched on here.?
Bit forward!
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I don't even understand the question.
Not me. I was trying to help him with my edits! 🤣"
Nor |
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
..Do you get your hole munched on here.?
Bit forward!"
Oooh naughty....😘 |
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
..Do you get your hole munched on here.?
Bit forward!
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I don't even understand the question. "
Dear chap...
Does one get to the front line on marching orders....?
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
..Do you get your hole much on here.?
Bit forward!"
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
..Do you get your hole munched on here.?
Bit forward!
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I don't even understand the question.
oh fab peeps, we have some online editer 's....
Not me. I was trying to help him with my edits! 🤣"
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
..Do you get your hole much on here..?
oh fab peeps, we have some online editer 's....
Not me. I was trying to help him with my edits! 🤣"
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
..Do you get your hole munched on here.?
Bit forward!
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I don't even understand the question.
Not me. I was trying to help him with my edits! 🤣"
Looks good to me.... Is someone pissing about with fab...? Surely not....😄 |
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
..Do you get your hole munched on here.?
Bit forward!
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I don't even understand the question.
Not me. I was trying to help him with my edits! 🤣
Looks good to me.... Is someone pissing about with fab...? Surely not....😄"
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
..Do you get your hole much on here.?"
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I have videos of myself masturbating, I don’t know what people make of this or how they see me, but I am just an ordinary fella who likes to wank the same as most people but interested to know what people think other person by their video and who they really are |
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"Judge? Nø.
But it serves as a method to guage whether we could be compatible or not, whether they align with my ideals or outlook.
If they have a bottle of Penhaligon's Halfeti on their dresser then that's enough to tell me they aren't my people.
..Do you get your hole much on here.?"
Ooooh.... Sounds like tumble....
Anybody there...? nero.? 😄 |
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⬆️ your comments naming another Fab member breach site rules and are likely to get you banned. Not sure what your beef is with Nero, but you probably should keep it to yourself rather than starting a thread about him (which I imagine the mods will soon delete). |
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"⬆️ your comments naming another Fab member breach site rules and are likely to get you banned. Not sure what your beef is with Nero, but you probably should keep it to yourself rather than starting a thread about him (which I imagine the mods will soon delete)."
Comment was to MillGuy69 |
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"⬆️ your comments naming another Fab member breach site rules and are likely to get you banned. Not sure what your beef is with Nero, but you probably should keep it to yourself rather than starting a thread about him (which I imagine the mods will soon delete).
Comment was to MillGuy69"
Haha I was like don't you be pointing at me!!  |
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"⬆️ your comments naming another Fab member breach site rules and are likely to get you banned. Not sure what your beef is with Nero, but you probably should keep it to yourself rather than starting a thread about him (which I imagine the mods will soon delete).
Comment was to MillGuy69
Haha I was like don't you be pointing at me!! "
Sorry, the problem of writing an epistle, means someone gets their comment in above one's tome! |
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"... if they're bare then I'm unlikely to bother...
I thought if they were bare than a lot of women would bother (judging by the demand for being** and helicopter videos!!)
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** boing (ffs #autobloodycorrect) |
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I totally judge pics.
A close up of an ugly bush tucker trials cock with some sort of cottage cheese...I'm not offending my eyes with it again it's a block.
Big gaping hairy holes also not a thing I wanna see with my coffee.
Loads of action shots with different woman...make me wonder if the ladies even know especially if they are not verified 
So these types of profiles I don't think I'm going to have interaction witb due to their pics.
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By *AYENCouple 1 week ago
Lincolnshire |
Of course, the first questions we always ask is would we trust them, do we find them attractive, are they right for us - pictures go a long way, very quickly, in answering those questions for us. K. |
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"I totally judge pics.
A close up of an ugly bush tucker trials cock with some sort of cottage cheese...I'm not offending my eyes with it again it's a block.
Big gaping hairy holes also not a thing I wanna see with my coffee.
Loads of action shots with different woman...make me wonder if the ladies even know especially if they are not verified
So these types of profiles I don't think I'm going to have interaction witb due to their pics.
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Good things come from north west ! |
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"Have you ever taken a pic and deleted it because whichever room is in the background looks like a shit tip?
I think about what's going to be in the background before taking the picture. "
The perfect hack for this.
Take a picture of where you intend to pose, then clean that area and a few feet around. It looks good in the picture or video then |
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By *ino200Man 1 week ago
Bournemouth,london and Sienna |
"Do you judge people before hand by the type of pics / videos they post?
We unknowingly do, unkempt hair, over the toilet shots , extreme genitalia closeups, out of focus et etc where do draw the line ? 🫣"
Yes if the woman does close up genitalia shots ,her sense of style ,obviously her age range ,the negative write up that goes on forever etc etc |
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By *mf123Man 1 week ago
with one foot out the door |
"I dont judge anyone i dont really care enough to bother
Not a direct comment at you ….
…. And that’s why men wonder why they don’t get the attention 🙄"
theres a tiny difference where im conserned tho is im not wanting attention im not here for chasing sex n all that been there seen it done it and retired so iv no need to judge |
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"I have zero idea what sort of vibe my pictures give off. 🙈
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The kind of vibes that would be the envy of other men, dear fellow. These are superlative vibes. ⚜️"
Coming from you, that’s a huge compliment. I’ll take that! 😅 |
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"Do you judge people before hand by the type of pics / videos they post?
We unknowingly do, unkempt hair, over the toilet shots , extreme genitalia closeups, out of focus et etc where do draw the line ? 🫣"
If people put pics up, they are all part of their advert, along with words and any veris of how they wish to portray themselves to strangers to achieve whatever it is they wish to achieve from this site. Whether that's meets or adoration or recognition or acknowledgement. It's all part of the advert so yes they will inform any thoughts of the advertiser. |
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If I’m just window shopping at females (which is most of the time) and I FAB the pics, I know it doesn’t mean much to them, but for me it genuinely means - ‘yep quite like the look of you and wouldn’t mind some naughty fun with you’ so yes maybe I am slightly shallow to look at the person first and not read the profile. But this is not my first time on FAB and I know most females and couples are not looking for a lone guy to play with so I don’t think there’s much harm FABBING without reading profiles. X |
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By *Effy-Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"Do you judge people before hand by the type of pics / videos they post?
We unknowingly do, unkempt hair, over the toilet shots , extreme genitalia closeups, out of focus etc where do draw the line ? 🫣
Everyone is equally...except, 'nero'...?
But 'Nero' ...london..
...( complete twat),
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You're lovely. |
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I always judge people by their pics but only in so far as how consistent they are with the rest of their profile.
They can be as demure or as graphic as that person wishes them to be and it doesn't bother me just as long as they line up with what they say in their bio and reflect their verifications. |
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Yep as said above, couples who only show the lady, when they seek couples and women.They're a straight pass on my couple account.
Also male profiles where you can see more of women and their bits, than them. Then their cock or finger is the only bit of them to see in the shot.
Impossible to see if there would be any attraction & they don't seem very discreet as you can often see the ladies face on show, whilst there's is nowhere to be seen.
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By *aked beachMan 1 week ago
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Yes of course, it’s not really any different to walking into a Pub (anywhere actually) and chatting to the person you find attractive/hot and not to the people you don’t. I do agree that at times there are people who clearly don’t suffer from any sort of ‘house proud’ syndrome though! |
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"... if they're bare then I'm unlikely to bother...
I thought if they were bare than a lot of women would bother (judging by the demand for being and helicopter videos!!)
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Haha well I think if a nice chap showed me his helicopter in person the that's different  |
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I live with a hoarder so really lack space as my belongings are crammed into quite a small area, and I have an old phone so the quality of my photos isn't great, but I can't help that. We aren't all photographers or have the money for a decent phone. I can tell most people view my profile and photos as shit. It is what
Photos that show a cock next to a can of monster or lynx etc really turn me off. If I can see someone isn't into getting rid of body hair that isn't on their head I'll know we aren't suited physically. Lots of bareback photos with different women are also a turn off for me. We all luke different things though. I don't judge whether someone has a tidy house or not, because I really struggle with tidying due to physical health issues and depression. A room being cluttered doesn't automatically mean someone isn't hygienic. I'm very paranoid about being clean and smelling nice.
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Yes. Like the angry penis in a ch*kehold photos dry my vagina, less likely to reply.
