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I don't do stuff like this, but I feel done. Not the first time a break has been needed, but we're taking one now.
I try to be nothing but inclusive, friendly and well, just me. Warts n all.
If anyone has anything to say to me, my inbox is open. Don't do the sketchy shit and inbox people who give us any attention. It makes you really fucking ugly. And quite frankly, I've really had a gut full of it. It's been going on since we started the forums a year ago.
If my name has been dropped into anyone elses inbox, id be happy to hear from you.
For now, a break is needed..catch you on the flip side x
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 3 days ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
"I don't do stuff like this, but I feel done. Not the first time a break has been needed, but we're taking one now.
I try to be nothing but inclusive, friendly and well, just me. Warts n all.
If anyone has anything to say to me, my inbox is open. Don't do the sketchy shit and inbox people who give us any attention. It makes you really fucking ugly. And quite frankly, I've really had a gut full of it. It's been going on since we started the forums a year ago.
If my name has been dropped into anyone elses inbox, id be happy to hear from you.
For now, a break is needed..catch you on the flip side x
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I totally understand the need to step back. I was off for nearly 4 months.
I hope to see you again.
God bless.
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"🥲. Hope you come back soon. 🫶🏼
Just need a little break. Sick of the unnecessary bitching "
I get it, I've had my fair share of disagreements (locally) over the years. The break will do you good, just look after yourselves 😁 |
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"🥲. Hope you come back soon. 🫶🏼
Just need a little break. Sick of the unnecessary bitching "
Why do things like that happen to the best people? So unfair. I hope is going to be a short break. A week?  |
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"🥲. Hope you come back soon. 🫶🏼
Just need a little break. Sick of the unnecessary bitching
Why do things like that happen to the best people? So unfair. I hope is going to be a short break. A week? "
Probably two days max😂 Im a stubborn bitch and wont want to give anyone the satisfaction |
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"🥲. Hope you come back soon. 🫶🏼
Just need a little break. Sick of the unnecessary bitching
Why do things like that happen to the best people? So unfair. I hope is going to be a short break. A week?
Probably two days max😂 Im a stubborn bitch and wont want to give anyone the satisfaction "
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"🥲. Hope you come back soon. 🫶🏼
Just need a little break. Sick of the unnecessary bitching
Why do things like that happen to the best people? So unfair. I hope is going to be a short break. A week?
Probably two days max😂 Im a stubborn bitch and wont want to give anyone the satisfaction
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So sad to hear.
Fab should be an enjoyable space - sadly ruined by a few |
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"I don't do stuff like this, but I feel done. Not the first time a break has been needed, but we're taking one now.
I try to be nothing but inclusive, friendly and well, just me. Warts n all.
If anyone has anything to say to me, my inbox is open. Don't do the sketchy shit and inbox people who give us any attention. It makes you really fucking ugly. And quite frankly, I've really had a gut full of it. It's been going on since we started the forums a year ago.
If my name has been dropped into anyone elses inbox, id be happy to hear from you.
For now, a break is needed..catch you on the flip side x
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Hope you find the peace required to feel good again and come back soon! |
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Unfortunately the internet has opened up a vessel for people to be absolute cunts with complete anonymity, I always wonder if these people would act the same if face to face, a break is always best though cause some people just enjoy upsetting others to make themselves feel that little bit better, so best distancing yourselves from people like that. |
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"I don't do stuff like this, but I feel done. Not the first time a break has been needed, but we're taking one now.
I try to be nothing but inclusive, friendly and well, just me. Warts n all.
If anyone has anything to say to me, my inbox is open. Don't do the sketchy shit and inbox people who give us any attention. It makes you really fucking ugly. And quite frankly, I've really had a gut full of it. It's been going on since we started the forums a year ago.
If my name has been dropped into anyone elses inbox, id be happy to hear from you.
For now, a break is needed..catch you on the flip side x
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Sorry to hear this, we haven't chatted but you always seem so nice on the forums!
Hopefully see you back soon and try to ignore those dickheads who have such sad lives that they feel the need to be nasty, mean or sly.
Don't let the bastards grind you down 😘 |
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"Unfortunately the internet has opened up a vessel for people to be absolute cunts with complete anonymity, I always wonder if these people would act the same if face to face, a break is always best though cause some people just enjoy upsetting others to make themselves feel that little bit better, so best distancing yourselves from people like that."
As Mandadbod says, but come back refreshed. Enjoy time with the rest of the pack! |
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Of course do what feels right for you both Wolves, but when good people are taking a step back because of the shitty behaviour of others something on here is going really wrong.
I hope you’re both ok, and won’t be long away from the forums.
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Never ceases to amaze me how childish some people can behave around a site aimed at adults.
And these off site chat groups are a breeding ground for people to spread their crap.
I've had it in the past and there are still people who would for me to go but why should anyone go anywhere. I actually got told to just leave the forums because they didn't like me and it would make them happier.....Of course I didn't go anywhere.
Rise above it and be bigger, bolder and more annoying to them than ever and if their lies and vitriol loses you friends then it says more about them than it ever does about you.
Fuck em |
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"I don't do stuff like this, but I feel done. Not the first time a break has been needed, but we're taking one now.
I try to be nothing but inclusive, friendly and well, just me. Warts n all.
If anyone has anything to say to me, my inbox is open. Don't do the sketchy shit and inbox people who give us any attention. It makes you really fucking ugly. And quite frankly, I've really had a gut full of it. It's been going on since we started the forums a year ago.
If my name has been dropped into anyone elses inbox, id be happy to hear from you.
For now, a break is needed..catch you on the flip side x
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I'm sorry to hear this, we'll miss you but totally understand.Sending hugs x |
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"🥲. Hope you come back soon. 🫶🏼
Just need a little break. Sick of the unnecessary bitching
Why do things like that happen to the best people? So unfair. I hope is going to be a short break. A week?
Probably two days max😂 Im a stubborn bitch and wont want to give anyone the satisfaction "
I'm counting down the seconds 😘 |
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By *aked beachMan 3 days ago
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Some people should be ashamed of themselves, this is supposed to be a fun site, not just bedroom antics, but a place to laugh and let of steam if it’s needed. It shouldn’t be a place you dread to come to.
Looking forward to your delightful company and exchanging bants on the other side Mrs. W.
Miss you already (not so much ‘him’ though 😂)
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I don't post much but I lurk alot and I always like your posts, you're so inclusive and fun, so I'll miss seeing you around. Sorry you've been on the receiving end of some less pleasant interactions  |
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You get this kinda shit when you post on the forums a lot. I’ve had it loads over the years. Don’t let it get to you lovely. Those who know you will know it’s bollocks. Take care ❤️and don’t go or they’ve won! |
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Don’t let others’ negativity spoil your enjoyment of here or your mental health, I had a step away and it was the best thing for me, you do you but someone will always have an opinion and they are entitled to fuck far off,
Enjoy the break and come back refreshed
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Sorry to hear you’re going through it a bit on here.
I had similar on a site (like this one) I was on previously. That, and the fact I’m an antisocial bitch, is why I tend to keep myself to myself.
Don’t give them the satisfaction. Just smile and wave (and block). |
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"Stay and annoy them even more."
This is my attitude.
Negative Gossip is cheap.
No one has EVER messaged me with a negative message ,however I know there has been gossip in the past and generally by the self loathing and weak .
I also DONT value anyone who brings gossip to my inbox either but they are not as slimy as the passive aggressives who feign inner beauty.
I just don't get involved
INNER PEACE BEGINS WITH FOUR WORDS.
Not My Fucking Problem
Be back soon Wolves. I need tea.
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Don't sweat the opinions and machinations of folk you'd not seek advice from or befriend.
The games and playground mentality are where they find their joy but won't serve them well in the long run.
It makes me sad that people take joy from that kind of thing.
Your own happiness in life likely frustrates them because they're not wired the same way.
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By *wcoMan 3 days ago
West Midlands |
"I've found the forums to be rather clique tbh 
I've taken a step back myself 😏"
This comes up a lot but I'm not sure clique is the right word. It's people who don't really know one another but they've got a feel for each other's personalities so they tend to home in when they see them post.
I don't receive replies a lot of the time but to be honest, I'm not on the mooch for anything and I only post for my own self-gratification anyway. |
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I enjoy the OPs threads and contributions, they are light hearted and cheerful. Shame that people feel it necessary to send abuse to someone's inbox.
Take care of yourself OP and i look forward to your return (I tend to read your comments as though Jasper Carrott was speaking them - I know Wolves may be different, but I am a Londoner so don't know any better!) |
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Thank you for all the comments and lovely messages we've had. I don't like spreading negativity, but I had to have my vent because id had enough.
I'm in the process of straightening my crown 👑
Cafe will be open tomorrow 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
GC - I'm gonna live by those words.
Not my fucking problem. |
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"Thank you for all the comments and lovely messages we've had. I don't like spreading negativity, but I had to have my vent because id had enough.
I'm in the process of straightening my crown 👑
Cafe will be open tomorrow 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
GC - I'm gonna live by those words.
Not my fucking problem. "
I'm glad that you are continuing, theres a few posters posts i always peruse who keep things ticking along on the forum and i appreciate them in particular. I always read the topics as you get people talking |
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I'm in the process of straightening my crown 👑
Cafe will be open tomorrow 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
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Yeah x x You are like the fresh morning air after the thunder and rain have cleared.
Think most chaps would like to see you when you are all hot and bothered and the temperature is high though. 😊 😊😊😊
The crown is being polished ready.
Now I'll get my pre order in.
Strong white, with one brown sugar please x , and if you can serve it in the classical French Maid outfit then even better x |
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"Thank you for all the comments and lovely messages we've had. I don't like spreading negativity, but I had to have my vent because id had enough.
I'm in the process of straightening my crown 👑
Cafe will be open tomorrow 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
GC - I'm gonna live by those words.
Not my fucking problem. "
Glad to hear it 😘 |
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By *hilloutMan 3 days ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Fab fatigue is very real and for various reasons.
If it stops being fun, stepping away for a while is the best course of action. I've done on it on s few occasions. Always works. |
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"Thank you for all the comments and lovely messages we've had. I don't like spreading negativity, but I had to have my vent because id had enough.
I'm in the process of straightening my crown 👑
Cafe will be open tomorrow 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
GC - I'm gonna live by those words.
Not my fucking problem. "
Glad you decided to stay... look forward to my strong coffee tomorrow morning |
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By *vaRoseWoman 3 days ago
Ankh-Morpork |
"Thank you for all the comments and lovely messages we've had. I don't like spreading negativity, but I had to have my vent because id had enough.
I'm in the process of straightening my crown 👑
Cafe will be open tomorrow 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
GC - I'm gonna live by those words.
Not my fucking problem. "
Glad to see you’ve decided to say fuck em! |
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"I don't do stuff like this, but I feel done. Not the first time a break has been needed, but we're taking one now.
I try to be nothing but inclusive, friendly and well, just me. Warts n all.
If anyone has anything to say to me, my inbox is open. Don't do the sketchy shit and inbox people who give us any attention. It makes you really fucking ugly. And quite frankly, I've really had a gut full of it. It's been going on since we started the forums a year ago.
If my name has been dropped into anyone elses inbox, id be happy to hear from you.
For now, a break is needed..catch you on the flip side x
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Like id let you go😘😘 |
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By *ino200Man 2 days ago
Bournemouth,london and Sienna |
"I don't do stuff like this, but I feel done. Not the first time a break has been needed, but we're taking one now.
I try to be nothing but inclusive, friendly and well, just me. Warts n all.
If anyone has anything to say to me, my inbox is open. Don't do the sketchy shit and inbox people who give us any attention. It makes you really fucking ugly. And quite frankly, I've really had a gut full of it. It's been going on since we started the forums a year ago.
If my name has been dropped into anyone elses inbox, id be happy to hear from you.
For now, a break is needed..catch you on the flip side x
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you still here ?  |
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"I don't do stuff like this, but I feel done. Not the first time a break has been needed, but we're taking one now.
I try to be nothing but inclusive, friendly and well, just me. Warts n all.
If anyone has anything to say to me, my inbox is open. Don't do the sketchy shit and inbox people who give us any attention. It makes you really fucking ugly. And quite frankly, I've really had a gut full of it. It's been going on since we started the forums a year ago.
If my name has been dropped into anyone elses inbox, id be happy to hear from you.
For now, a break is needed..catch you on the flip side x
Like id let you go😘😘"
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"I don't do stuff like this, but I feel done. Not the first time a break has been needed, but we're taking one now.
I try to be nothing but inclusive, friendly and well, just me. Warts n all.
If anyone has anything to say to me, my inbox is open. Don't do the sketchy shit and inbox people who give us any attention. It makes you really fucking ugly. And quite frankly, I've really had a gut full of it. It's been going on since we started the forums a year ago.
If my name has been dropped into anyone elses inbox, id be happy to hear from you.
For now, a break is needed..catch you on the flip side x
you still here ? "
Who else is gonna make the virtual tea and coffee? |
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"I don't do stuff like this, but I feel done. Not the first time a break has been needed, but we're taking one now.
I try to be nothing but inclusive, friendly and well, just me. Warts n all.
If anyone has anything to say to me, my inbox is open. Don't do the sketchy shit and inbox people who give us any attention. It makes you really fucking ugly. And quite frankly, I've really had a gut full of it. It's been going on since we started the forums a year ago.
If my name has been dropped into anyone elses inbox, id be happy to hear from you.
For now, a break is needed..catch you on the flip side x
you still here ?
Who else is gonna make the virtual tea and coffee? "
I’ve been lurking and waiting for the cafe to open 🌹💋 |
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"I don't do stuff like this, but I feel done. Not the first time a break has been needed, but we're taking one now.
I try to be nothing but inclusive, friendly and well, just me. Warts n all.
If anyone has anything to say to me, my inbox is open. Don't do the sketchy shit and inbox people who give us any attention. It makes you really fucking ugly. And quite frankly, I've really had a gut full of it. It's been going on since we started the forums a year ago.
If my name has been dropped into anyone elses inbox, id be happy to hear from you.
For now, a break is needed..catch you on the flip side x
you still here ?
Who else is gonna make the virtual tea and coffee?
I’ve been lurking and waiting for the cafe to open 🌹💋"
Get back in and make a coffee woman 🤦🤦🤦🤦 |
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"🥲. Hope you come back soon. 🫶🏼
Just need a little break. Sick of the unnecessary bitching "
maybe swinging sites are not for you and I can see why you'll be attracting attention from all kinds on here and dare say any other platforms you may use, maybe a better controlled environment like clubs and house parties would be more to your likings, good luck and God bless. |
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"I don't do stuff like this, but I feel done. Not the first time a break has been needed, but we're taking one now.
I try to be nothing but inclusive, friendly and well, just me. Warts n all.
If anyone has anything to say to me, my inbox is open. Don't do the sketchy shit and inbox people who give us any attention. It makes you really fucking ugly. And quite frankly, I've really had a gut full of it. It's been going on since we started the forums a year ago.
If my name has been dropped into anyone elses inbox, id be happy to hear from you.
For now, a break is needed..catch you on the flip side x
you still here ?
Who else is gonna make the virtual tea and coffee?
I’ve been lurking and waiting for the cafe to open 🌹💋
Get back in and make a coffee woman 🤦🤦🤦🤦"
Yes Sir, sorry Sir, please forgive the oversight. I’m only the waitress this morning though 😉 |
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"I don't do stuff like this, but I feel done. Not the first time a break has been needed, but we're taking one now.
I try to be nothing but inclusive, friendly and well, just me. Warts n all.
If anyone has anything to say to me, my inbox is open. Don't do the sketchy shit and inbox people who give us any attention. It makes you really fucking ugly. And quite frankly, I've really had a gut full of it. It's been going on since we started the forums a year ago.
If my name has been dropped into anyone elses inbox, id be happy to hear from you.
For now, a break is needed..catch you on the flip side x
you still here ?
Who else is gonna make the virtual tea and coffee?
I’ve been lurking and waiting for the cafe to open 🌹💋
Get back in and make a coffee woman 🤦🤦🤦🤦
Yes Sir, sorry Sir, please forgive the oversight. I’m only the waitress this morning though 😉"
Excuses i expect extra service |
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