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What happend to girls just want to have fun 50 percent of the female profiles are like looking for a job got there whole cv on there this site gets more serious by the day all these rules on your bio looking for the perfect bwc or bbc hung this hung that why is that and should we ask for more search options to narrow down from 50k members |
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"Oh gosh I’m so sorry, I didn’t realise women weren’t allowed to have preferences! Let me fix that and just open my legs for anyone that asks 🙄"
Fuck is this not what we're meant to be doing? I've been doing fab all wrong |
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By *AYENCouple 5 days ago
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"What happend to girls just want to have fun 50 percent of the female profiles are like looking for a job got there whole cv on there this site gets more serious by the day all these rules on your bio looking for the perfect bwc or bbc hung this hung that why is that and should we ask for more search options to narrow down from 50k members"
If you're never boring you'll do just fine here. |
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"Damn will just delete my bio and put im real and up for fun. Then respond to every Tom, Dick and Harry that messages me.
I dont need a job, my job is just to entertain every man on fab's desire "
Tom and Harry probably wont message.. but dick will 🤣! |
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"Imagine us women having preferences on who gets access to our bodies!
What has the world come to?
I know! How dare we have a say on who has access to our own bodies "
How very dare you!! This behaviour is terrible!! |
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"What's the other 50% like?
Well assuming they are the ones that want fun but ill also assume they are in hiding 🤷♂️ darn thats why know one is meeting!! X"
Or the fun ones don't want him either?😬 |
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"What's the other 50% like?
Well assuming they are the ones that want fun but ill also assume they are in hiding 🤷♂️ darn thats why know one is meeting!! X
Or the fun ones don't want him either?😬 "
Well they must not want to be interviewed for the fun job! X |
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By *iver78Man 5 days ago
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"What happend to girls just want to have fun 50 percent of the female profiles are like looking for a job got there whole cv on there this site gets more serious by the day all these rules on your bio looking for the perfect bwc or bbc hung this hung that why is that and should we ask for more search options to narrow down from 50k members"
I wont pull your post down like the majority do on here
I know exactly what you mean , there seems to be a thing for massive profile list on peoples profiles,and yes they read like there advertising a used Ford Cortina with have to haves ,must not haves , i read one yesterday that basically meant unless you were between 5.9 and 6 foot had short brown hair and clean shaven ,chest hair but not long no shorts must be able to accommodate and also drive and no kids ( as she found they tend to cause issues )and her age range was between 36 and 45 with an antheltic figure but not a vain gym goer within 10 miles lol
And yes these are getting more common , yes we all have preferences and so we should but think the OP is just saying there getting more and more descriptive and common ,
Not sure why people take a forum comment like its a personal attack on them ? Its an observation
As always 🤣 just my opinion on a post lol
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I do agree OP that some of the demands do seem ridiculous (to me) but obvs not to them good luck to them i say. I just personally avoid any profiles that read like their wanting an AI robot or making demands as im not desperate for "the sex" so i would rather wait until i find someone i like.
That would be someone 5ft7 or above, massive schlong, hairy but not too hairy, stubble but no beard, athletic but not too muscly etc etc  |
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Easy fix for that OP. Block all the profiles with pictures and long profiles, and only contact the ones with no pictures and very little text.
The half a million people on here don't have to do things the way you want to, but you get to choose who you interact with 💜 |
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By *avidNPMan 5 days ago
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"Easy fix for that OP. Block all the profiles with pictures and long profiles, and only contact the ones with no pictures and very little text.
The half a million people on here don't have to do things the way you want to, but you get to choose who you interact with 💜"
Very true |
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By *iver78Man 5 days ago
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"I do agree OP that some of the demands do seem ridiculous (to me) but obvs not to them good luck to them i say. I just personally avoid any profiles that read like their wanting an AI robot or making demands as im not desperate for "the sex" so i would rather wait until i find someone i like.
That would be someone 5ft7 or above, massive schlong, hairy but not too hairy, stubble but no beard, athletic but not too muscly etc etc "
Exactly , and no theres nothing wrong with a massive list , but as the OP states it kinda looses the fun aspect out of fab , I know its rare I read a long profile , I only read that one because she had messaged me and its kinda ironic as I don't fit her list lol ,so obviously she was open to bending her own rules or dident read my extremely short one 🤣🤣
And to people who moan these posts are repetitive has it crossed there mind that these forums are open to all , maybe the posters haven't seen them before 😱 and dident realize that the regulars opinions are the opinions that matter 🤣 shocking to think that there may be new contributors |
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"I do agree OP that some of the demands do seem ridiculous (to me) but obvs not to them good luck to them i say. I just personally avoid any profiles that read like their wanting an AI robot or making demands as im not desperate for "the sex" so i would rather wait until i find someone i like.
That would be someone 5ft7 or above, massive schlong, hairy but not too hairy, stubble but no beard, athletic but not too muscly etc etc
Exactly , and no theres nothing wrong with a massive list , but as the OP states it kinda looses the fun aspect out of fab , I know its rare I read a long profile , I only read that one because she had messaged me and its kinda ironic as I don't fit her list lol ,so obviously she was open to bending her own rules or dident read my extremely short one 🤣🤣
And to people who moan these posts are repetitive has it crossed there mind that these forums are open to all , maybe the posters haven't seen them before 😱 and dident realize that the regulars opinions are the opinions that matter 🤣 shocking to think that there may be new contributors "
I love people moaning about people moaning and then deciding who is ok to moan and who isnt. Its great 🤣 |
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When you say fun do you mean one off sex? There are women looking for that but probably not the majority. People come to this site looking for many different things. I for instance want a regular ongoing local fwb. |
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Some (myself included) try and use our bio like a filter, to reduce the number of people messaging who wouldn’t be our type, on the off chance that some guys may actually read it and take note. We want to have fun, we just want it to be with the right people. |
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"I do agree OP that some of the demands do seem ridiculous (to me) but obvs not to them good luck to them i say. I just personally avoid any profiles that read like their wanting an AI robot or making demands as im not desperate for "the sex" so i would rather wait until i find someone i like.
That would be someone 5ft7 or above, massive schlong, hairy but not too hairy, stubble but no beard, athletic but not too muscly etc etc
Exactly , and no theres nothing wrong with a massive list , but as the OP states it kinda looses the fun aspect out of fab , I know its rare I read a long profile , I only read that one because she had messaged me and its kinda ironic as I don't fit her list lol ,so obviously she was open to bending her own rules or dident read my extremely short one 🤣🤣
And to people who moan these posts are repetitive has it crossed there mind that these forums are open to all , maybe the posters haven't seen them before 😱 and dident realize that the regulars opinions are the opinions that matter 🤣 shocking to think that there may be new contributors "
This is why I don't use the forums now. It's horrible to see the pile on some newish members get from "the regulars" who are never called out for it but actively encouraged....it's not the profiles that aren't "fun"...it's the forums.
So much for being inclusive and kind 🙄 |
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My own preference, I prefer women who are looking for specific types as I'm looking for specific women.
I not looking to just stick my dick anywhere, and my profile reflects this as I also make clear to anybody whom I have a clear interest in. I have clear and high standards. If I spend my time connecting with a woman, my focus is clearly on them because I feel a connection.
I'm not desperate, I have standards and demand respect from the woman I want to spend my time with as I show her the respects she deserves and will make her feel that she is the only woman that matters when we are together..
If you are looking just to stick your dick in something, which each to their own, there are plenty of people that arrange gangbangs or start going to clubs.
Personally, as a male, I'm also choosy, so its not just women. |
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By *iver78Man 5 days ago
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"Some (myself included) try and use our bio like a filter, to reduce the number of people messaging who wouldn’t be our type, on the off chance that some guys may actually read it and take note. We want to have fun, we just want it to be with the right people. "
Yours is very short ,and makes sence , I think OP means the looong ones , dont know if men actually do them . Some read like epic movies 🤣 and tbf it would be easy miss some of there wants and needs , for me if its longer than one paragraph I dont read them. |
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"Some (myself included) try and use our bio like a filter, to reduce the number of people messaging who wouldn’t be our type, on the off chance that some guys may actually read it and take note. We want to have fun, we just want it to be with the right people.
Yours is very short ,and makes sence , I think OP means the looong ones , dont know if men actually do them . Some read like epic movies 🤣 and tbf it would be easy miss some of there wants and needs , for me if its longer than one paragraph I dont read them."
Haha I work in a male dominated industry and can definitely say that most men don’t bother to read 🤣 The briefer the information the better, while still trying to get the point across. If it’s a wall of text, they’ll usually skim the the top and bottom couple of lines and scrap the bit in the middle 😂 |
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"Some (myself included) try and use our bio like a filter, to reduce the number of people messaging who wouldn’t be our type, on the off chance that some guys may actually read it and take note. We want to have fun, we just want it to be with the right people.
Yours is very short ,and makes sence , I think OP means the looong ones , dont know if men actually do them . Some read like epic movies 🤣 and tbf it would be easy miss some of there wants and needs , for me if its longer than one paragraph I dont read them."
I'm perfectly happy for people not to read mine as long as that means they don't message me either. I put the not going to fuck you right there in the headline so it shouldn't be that difficult to grasp if it's worth their time to read 💜 |
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We’re new with this profile on here but it’s not our first account, this is what I personally think happens..
First off the profile is simple, like ours at the moment (2 weeks old) as time goes on, you encounter folks you’re not interested in that make you think you should edit the profile to reflect that, as more and more time goes on, more and more rules get added to protect us from weirdos that don’t get the hint.
Sometimes it’s easier to end up just writing “don’t bother messaging if you’re into this, or that,” etc.. It may sound a lot but it saves you time from messaging people that won’t be into you in the long run.
At least you’re reading profiles!
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By *iver78Man 5 days ago
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"Some (myself included) try and use our bio like a filter, to reduce the number of people messaging who wouldn’t be our type, on the off chance that some guys may actually read it and take note. We want to have fun, we just want it to be with the right people.
Yours is very short ,and makes sence , I think OP means the looong ones , dont know if men actually do them . Some read like epic movies 🤣 and tbf it would be easy miss some of there wants and needs , for me if its longer than one paragraph I dont read them.
Haha I work in a male dominated industry and can definitely say that most men don’t bother to read 🤣 The briefer the information the better, while still trying to get the point across. If it’s a wall of text, they’ll usually skim the the top and bottom couple of lines and scrap the bit in the middle 😂"
Yep us men can organise a weekend away with the bare minimum of words 🤣 and 9 time out of 10 things turn out ok lol ,
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By *iver78Man 5 days ago
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"Some (myself included) try and use our bio like a filter, to reduce the number of people messaging who wouldn’t be our type, on the off chance that some guys may actually read it and take note. We want to have fun, we just want it to be with the right people.
Yours is very short ,and makes sence , I think OP means the looong ones , dont know if men actually do them . Some read like epic movies 🤣 and tbf it would be easy miss some of there wants and needs , for me if its longer than one paragraph I dont read them.
I'm perfectly happy for people not to read mine as long as that means they don't message me either. I put the not going to fuck you right there in the headline so it shouldn't be that difficult to grasp if it's worth their time to read 💜"
F@#k me yours is massive lol , ill be honest id of forgot the top bit by the time I got the bottom 🤣 |
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"F@#k me yours is massive lol , ill be honest id of forgot the top bit by the time I got the bottom 🤣 "
Yup.
Like I said. "Not going to fuck you" is right there in the headline, so there's no need for anyone to bother reading past that if that's all they're looking for. And if they're interested in knowing who I am, then they can read the rest. And if not, they're welcome to not message me 💜 |
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"What happend to girls just want to have fun 50 percent of the female profiles are like looking for a job got there whole cv on there this site gets more serious by the day all these rules on your bio looking for the perfect bwc or bbc hung this hung that why is that and should we ask for more search options to narrow down from 50k members"
So are you saying you have no preferences and that any female regardless of looks, physicality or age (your range is 27 to 99?) is fair game for you as long as you get a shag? Or are you just saying women shouldnt have preferences? |
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I can see the POV of both sides. I get why some guys get put off especially by a bio that does read like a CV and has an overly demanding list of do's and don'ts.
However I understand why a lot of women do it. It is to reduce the mass volume of random men messaging by filtering our those who don't fit what they're after. |
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Lool some agree some dont but its like theres alot to read lol each to there own i guess fun can not only mean sex it can be anything aslong as we get along thats the main thing and some of the bios i read its very very specific lol even if i do read ill prob forget lol |
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Yeah ive had to block alot lol so i dont messege the same person twice and to make the search switch up profiles nobody is going to be perfect and the person who matches u might not want you after im not saying try before you buy but not everyone one likes a cheeseburger with hot pepper sauce in there  |
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Lots of ladies still want to have fun, but in the first instance they have to be attracted to that person. So if they don't like the profile, ie no pics, not much info, it's often a delete op.
Report those asking for money or promoting their sites. |
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"Lots of ladies still want to have fun, but in the first instance they have to be attracted to that person. So if they don't like the profile, ie no pics, not much info, it's often a delete op.
Report those asking for money or promoting their sites. "
Yeah true no pics i can understand and a blank profile but i mean ive met people where they have pics just no profile pic a plain profile but there verifed and we connected well but yeah i agree each encounter differen |
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"I think op, you've just ruined any chances of ever meeting anyone on here, you maybe a nice guy but your attitude is all wrong.
Nah he already did that last week"
Ruined my chances lmao maybe with you |
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By *iver78Man 5 days ago
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I dint send wimen messages out the blue but to me its like when you see a lady in real life and before youve even said anything they give you that " in your dreams " looks when all you were going to say was your bags fell on floor 🤣 we all have likes and dislikes but sometimes people can change our opinions , if anyone has a list then maybe hide there profile and look for there dream person lol
To note , a lot people comment on people having no profile per say ? But that doesent create such a fuss ??. 🫣
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If you are looking just to stick your dick in something, which each to their own, there are plenty of people that arrange gangbangs or start going to clubs. "
So going to clubs means you are desperate? |
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Always be grateful when someone makes it really easy for you, saving you time and effort
People are their own best expert and the woman here have too much experience in having the wrong people message them. Your time saved from not messaging them is a godsend. |
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