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By *avidNP OP Man 2 days ago
manchester |
I just got asked how fab is treating me. I have to say it’s been wonderful. I have met loads of awesome people, done things I never thought I would and had my confidence boosted massively. It’s also taught me how to be a better man from my interactions with others on here.
Just would like to hear something positive said about being on fab. I sick off all the negativity.
Let’s spread some love |
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By *ittynzWoman 2 days ago
Richmond |
Meet some wonderful people, feel in love (which wasn’t the plan), got heart broken (also not the plan) , laughed a lot at socials or events, remembered I’m brave and used to do things by self, found other apps which also brought me joy, went to some great gigs with my friend, had some funny discussions here on the forum, mostly enjoyed my time on fan events the ups and downs xx |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 2 days ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
"That’s a great tip; "
That's what I said to my last date...
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I wonder if I rub enough on I might grow two - like a Hydra 👍🏻😜"
Very useful, you can DP someone all on your own! You *will* be popular! 😄 |
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By *avidNP OP Man 2 days ago
manchester |
"Meet some wonderful people, feel in love (which wasn’t the plan), got heart broken (also not the plan) , laughed a lot at socials or events, remembered I’m brave and used to do things by self, found other apps which also brought me joy, went to some great gigs with my friend, had some funny discussions here on the forum, mostly enjoyed my time on fan events the ups and downs xx"
You fell in love like me and hit heart broken like me
I’m
Sorry to hear that |
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"That’s a great tip;
That's what I said to my last date...
I wonder if I rub enough on I might grow two - like a Hydra 👍🏻😜
Very useful, you can DP someone all on your own! You *will* be popular! 😄"
😂😂😂😜 |
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A trillion more reasons to overthink!
Some lovely contacts
The occasional confidence boost
More than a few confidence killers
Some laughs
A whole new outlook on butter
Many new additions to my vocabulary
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By *avidNP OP Man 2 days ago
manchester |
"A trillion more reasons to overthink!
Some lovely contacts
The occasional confidence boost
More than a few confidence killers
Some laughs
A whole new outlook on butter
Many new additions to my vocabulary
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I never knew butter could be used for some of the things on here 🤣 |
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"A trillion more reasons to overthink!
Some lovely contacts
The occasional confidence boost
More than a few confidence killers
Some laughs
A whole new outlook on butter
Many new additions to my vocabulary
I never knew butter could be used for some of the things on here 🤣"
You've obviously never seen Last Tango In Paris.
Mind you neither have I. I fell asleep before the butter bit. |
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By *avidNP OP Man 2 days ago
manchester |
"A trillion more reasons to overthink!
Some lovely contacts
The occasional confidence boost
More than a few confidence killers
Some laughs
A whole new outlook on butter
Many new additions to my vocabulary
I never knew butter could be used for some of the things on here 🤣
You've obviously never seen Last Tango In Paris.
Mind you neither have I. I fell asleep before the butter bit."
No never seen it
What have I missed? |
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By *eliWoman 2 days ago
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I'll be less nauseating now - the confirmation that I'm not a swinger. I don't think I could ever have sex in a club, go to a sex party, orgies, you know all the sexy sex stuff?
Yeah. It looks great and fair play to those who do but I think I'm too... something for any of that. |
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By *avidNP OP Man 2 days ago
manchester |
"I'll be less nauseating now - the confirmation that I'm not a swinger. I don't think I could ever have sex in a club, go to a sex party, orgies, you know all the sexy sex stuff?
Yeah. It looks great and fair play to those who do but I think I'm too... something for any of that."
Be you and love yourself for that |
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By *avidNP OP Man 2 days ago
manchester |
"An absolute hatred for unsolicited dick pics before I even know someone’s name ☠️
🤣🤣🤣 but guys think you like them
I mean, why wouldn’t I immediately drop my pants and send my location 🥴😂"
I know it’s such a turn on seeing a dick pic when you open a message. You couldn’t resist 🤣 |
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Meeting and interacting with individuals I wouldn’t have necessarily come across in my usual day to day life. Friendships and adult activities too.
And of course, the ability to appreciate some gorgeous pictures and videos.
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By *avidNP OP Man 1 day ago
manchester |
Currently I’m making new friends and being invited to go to things. Exactly what I want at this point from fab. Meeting new people. I’m heading to a social in September with a female friend and another female friend has been talking about going g to clubs together. Fab works you just have to put the effort in. |
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By *JUltraCouple 1 day ago
Chelmsford |
L has grown in confidence since she took over most of the fabmin. Answering messages has been a big thing for her as she is so self conscious. Its been a pleasure to see her grow even 1% more confident.
We have also found that dick pics are never sexy, but an odd curiosity. Its like going to a 1870s freak show and seeing the bearded woman. You know its there, you know its coming, its not particularly wowing but you do find yourself looking at its oddness. Shout out Conchita Wurst. |
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"L has grown in confidence since she took over most of the fabmin. Answering messages has been a big thing for her as she is so self conscious. Its been a pleasure to see her grow even 1% more confident.
We have also found that dick pics are never sexy, but an odd curiosity. It’s like going to a 1870s freak show and seeing the bearded woman. You know its there, you know its coming, its not particularly wowing but you do find yourself looking at its oddness. Shout out Conchita Wurst. "
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A realistic view of how much cheating goes on, the stories people tell themselves to justify it, and how willing some people are to misrepresent themselves to get what they want.
It's taught me to be sceptical, trust my instincts, and maintain firm boundaries.
But to be fair, I've also met some genuinely lovely people, so not every experience has been a bad one. |
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By *avidNP OP Man 1 day ago
manchester |
"A realistic view of how much cheating goes on, the stories people tell themselves to justify it, and how willing some people are to misrepresent themselves to get what they want.
It's taught me to be sceptical, trust my instincts, and maintain firm boundaries.
But to be fair, I've also met some genuinely lovely people, so not every experience has been a bad one."
I don’t understand why anyone lies. Just be yourself and people will be drawn to you if you’re a good human. |
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"A realistic view of how much cheating goes on, the stories people tell themselves to justify it, and how willing some people are to misrepresent themselves to get what they want.
It's taught me to be sceptical, trust my instincts, and maintain firm boundaries.
But to be fair, I've also met some genuinely lovely people, so not every experience has been a bad one.
I don’t understand why anyone lies. Just be yourself and people will be drawn to you if you’re a good human. "
Because a surprising number of people see honesty as a hurdle rather than a basic requirement. If someone has to lie to get a yes, they're putting their own desires ahead of another person's right to make an informed decision.
If your profile is a work of fictions don't act suprised when fact checking starts. |
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By *avidNP OP Man 15 hours ago
manchester |
"A realistic view of how much cheating goes on, the stories people tell themselves to justify it, and how willing some people are to misrepresent themselves to get what they want.
It's taught me to be sceptical, trust my instincts, and maintain firm boundaries.
But to be fair, I've also met some genuinely lovely people, so not every experience has been a bad one.
I don’t understand why anyone lies. Just be yourself and people will be drawn to you if you’re a good human.
Because a surprising number of people see honesty as a hurdle rather than a basic requirement. If someone has to lie to get a yes, they're putting their own desires ahead of another person's right to make an informed decision.
If your profile is a work of fictions don't act suprised when fact checking starts."
I think honesty is the o my way to be on here. Of people don’t like you well that’s their loss. |
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By *avidNP OP Man 3 hours ago
manchester |
"Sore eyes
Wait till you've seen my "thread of the day" which I'm revealing later on 
Oh no 🤣
I saw yesterdays wish I hadn’t
Yesterday's is tame compared to what I saw pop up earlier "
Fuck now I’m worried 🤣 |
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Surprisingly, confidence. I used to dress fairly sensibly before but now it's, thigh high boots, cleaveage & skirts for me lol.
When I'm out out not shopping lol. Definitely more confident, I wasn't the sort of person to get many compliments usually so having pics of me liked by other people is a little boost |
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By *avidNP OP Man 2 hours ago
manchester |
"Surprisingly, confidence. I used to dress fairly sensibly before but now it's, thigh high boots, cleaveage & skirts for me lol.
When I'm out out not shopping lol. Definitely more confident, I wasn't the sort of person to get many compliments usually so having pics of me liked by other people is a little boost "
That’s really nice how it’s given you a confidence boost |
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