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How did you feel after your first threesome?
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"As a single female i would only take part in a threesome with 2 other singles. For me to enjoy the experience both during and afterwards i need everyone to be in the same boat (single). My first threesome was with a married couple and it was enjoyable to an extent but i was aware of the dynamic between them and in the days that followed i felt very much like i'd been used as a marital aid" To be fair as the single i enjoyed that dynamic, part of the turn on is being used to enhance things for all. | |||
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"My first was about 13 yrs ago.. my ex husband always said he wanted a mff so I arranged it for his birthday… and admittedly I think I enjoyed it more then him as the woman I asked was openly bi. he then wanted me to try a mmf.. which I really didn’t want… but he asked a friend and after a night out it happened… and I hated every second of it… maybe it was because they were friends and the wrong person… but I called a stop when I realized they were too busy out fucking each other to even think about me. Since then… it’s just put me off the whole mmf scenario" Must admit meeting couples who were not friends worked for me, think with friends could be awkward afterwards | |||
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"You need to differentiate sex from feelings To me sex is a enjoyable pastime my hobby, my first threesome was with two male friends & I felt bl00dy amazing afterwards My first with my husband was right at the start of our swinging journey, & it had taken us around 3 years to take it from fantasy to reality, because like you I was scared of any negative consequences it could have on our relationship that couldnt be erased I was also a little apprehensive as to whether I could fully let go with someone else in front of him & I didn't want to just go through the motions of a threesomw without really being able to enjoy it but that quickly passed as soon as things got started & again afterwards I just felt great, empowered like I'd truly enjoyed sex for the first time - that sounds bad because I'd had lots of great sex before but there's something about having two cocks at once that hits on another level Our only regret is we waited 3 years as it feels like lost time but I think in the long run it was the right thing to do for us as it took that time for us to know we could differentiate sex from emotions and for us to know it couldn't effect our relationship " Absolutely spot on!
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"As a single female i would only take part in a threesome with 2 other singles. For me to enjoy the experience both during and afterwards i need everyone to be in the same boat (single). My first threesome was with a married couple and it was enjoyable to an extent but i was aware of the dynamic between them and in the days that followed i felt very much like i'd been used as a marital aid" Likewise - I felt used. No regrets, but would def think twice next time. | |||
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"Hi all, We've been reading a lot of advice on here for building up to our first threesome, but something we haven't seen much of is how people felt afterwards. We're very aware that once something is done we can't undo it, and while the idea is a big turn on for both of us and we've spoken about it a lot, there's still that little doubt about how we'll feel the following morning when everything has sunk in. It would be great to hear from others who have been through the same experience, and find out how it went - did you have any regrets, would you have done anything different or was it better than you imagined? " My first was with a MMF with bi couple. 5yrs down the road we still meet up and just keeps getting better. | |||
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I think it’s something that you both obviously want to do, maybe think of the reasons why and that it can be an enhancement in the bedroom…
Communication between l three is key. Talk about the things you want to try and the limits you won’t do and make sure those are known…
I wish you the best of luck | |||
"My first was about 13 yrs ago.. my ex husband always said he wanted a mff so I arranged it for his birthday… and admittedly I think I enjoyed it more then him as the woman I asked was openly bi. he then wanted me to try a mmf.. which I really didn’t want… but he asked a friend and after a night out it happened… and I hated every second of it… maybe it was because they were friends and the wrong person… but I called a stop when I realized they were too busy out fucking each other to even think about me. Since then… it’s just put me off the whole mmf scenario" Omg sorry to read this…even worse when I checked out your photos! I mean - wow how could he be more interested in I’m his mate? Ah well, maybe think of a straight MFM, Iv been involved a few times at clubs and the laddies appeared and said they enjoyed it. Gorgeous figure!  x | |||
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"Hi all, We've been reading a lot of advice on here for building up to our first threesome, but something we haven't seen much of is how people felt afterwards. We're very aware that once something is done we can't undo it, and while the idea is a big turn on for both of us and we've spoken about it a lot, there's still that little doubt about how we'll feel the following morning when everything has sunk in. It would be great to hear from others who have been through the same experience, and find out how it went - did you have any regrets, would you have done anything different or was it better than you imagined? " I felt totally exhilarated and exhausted.. it was an amazing experience. Go for it, you will not look back! | |||
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"As a single female i would only take part in a threesome with 2 other singles. For me to enjoy the experience both during and afterwards i need everyone to be in the same boat (single). My first threesome was with a married couple and it was enjoyable to an extent but i was aware of the dynamic between them and in the days that followed i felt very much like i'd been used as a marital aid Likewise - I felt used. No regrets, but would def think twice next time." It took me many years to venture back to threesomes. Infact my next was a foursome. I'd been chatting on a group chat and 4 of us broke off into our own little chat. All from different parts of the UK and unknown to each other but we all gelled really well. Anyway sfter months of chatting we decided to rent an airbnb for a weekend. All of us excited and nervous but crucially all in the same boat, all meeting 3 other strangers. From the first moment we arrived it was electric. We've since met twice more. It has a completely different feel to meeting an established couple and in my humble opinion is so much better x | |||
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We talked it through all the way home, and when we got home we were all over each other with the thoughts of what happened, so turned on.
No regrets on either side, think the lady loved it too, we got a return invite. | |||
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" "you felt sad? or is that in reply to my post? | |||
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"Hi all, We've been reading a lot of advice on here for building up to our first threesome, but something we haven't seen much of is how people felt afterwards. We're very aware that once something is done we can't undo it, and while the idea is a big turn on for both of us and we've spoken about it a lot, there's still that little doubt about how we'll feel the following morning when everything has sunk in. It would be great to hear from others who have been through the same experience, and find out how it went - did you have any regrets, would you have done anything different or was it better than you imagined? " Morning, we went in with the "no regrets" attitude, if we didn't like it we won't do it again. Boundaries before hand between all 3 is a start. We had absolutely no regrets and got off on it for weeks after and is often in our naughty chat during...the enjoyment from it certainly puts a spring in your step, and bulge in ya pants | |||
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"We had no regrets as was well planned MFM but know wife wants a FMF with a dominant female which we finding much harder to organise " Ffm much harder to come across in our experience, but there have been a few gems over the years | |||
"We had no regrets as was well planned MFM but know wife wants a FMF with a dominant female which we finding much harder to organise Ffm much harder to come across in our experience, but there have been a few gems over the years "Any advice ? | |||
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"We had no regrets as was well planned MFM but know wife wants a FMF with a dominant female which we finding much harder to organise Ffm much harder to come across in our experience, but there have been a few gems over the years
Any advice ? "Unfortunately no, but the females we have played with have been bi sexual (not just curious the same as Nilly) so never felt like the extra... usually Nilly that messaged too... | |||
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"Separate swinging from "real" life. We have had orgies, gangbangs, bisex fun and all things in between. And then we go home, wash the pots, do the school run and later, when we go to bed, fuck like bunnies thinking about previous fun. It shouldn't be stressful. X" We both went Yep... ditto...if only you could bottle those delicious moments when it its all a sexual buzz buzz boom zing zing bad a BINGGG... before its back to far too real life...but.. then the planning starts for another hit of that pure sexual power mmm... | |||
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