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Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun  |
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I think I have a similar collection of scars to yours - in my experience, people are completely not bothered, or actually are quite positive about them. I used to crop my gallbladder scar out of photos, but I leave it in now, I really couldn’t care less! |
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For me no one is perfect. If ladies have scars that is not a turn off. There is a lot of fun getting naked for the first time and finding out what they really look like. Scars certainly would not be a turn off. |
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
I love seeing the scars  |
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You look beautiful No one would even notice
I had breast cancer 10 years ago so have scars from that and another two surgeries I have stretch marks More curves than i wished i had
But to the best of my knowledge all that and even my age has never bothered anyone
So have faith in yourself And a smile hides a thousand sins
"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
you look amazing
I have scars all over my body from operations and injuries during my army service , I just look at them as map of my life |
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I think most of the time is worse than you think. I personally don’t really mind. We all live a life and sometimes we have scares to show for it. so it’s not a bad thing.
Perfection is a imperfection |
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Be happy in your body. It looks amazing. We all have issues with ourselves, others less so. They see the person that you are, and any decent people will have no issues with the body within which you have lived your life.
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When you give birth inevitably there are stretch marks of course. Some are lucky to get away with little but in the end anyone so shallow to turn up their nose due to this is a TOSSER 😉
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
I'd say its your mind ruining your fun.
I have scars, I've met people with scars.
You could always mention it to potential sexual partners before they see you naked. Gauge their reaction.
If they're negative about you, then ditch them and find more positive people.
Good luck OP x
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What I love to see on a woman is a scar. Weird perhaps but I really find them fascinating, the story behind them, the character it builds. I have a very faint scar on my face from a rapier, a proper real live duelling scar - except I wasn’t actually duelling - tripping is more accurate but at least its a sword so counts. |
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I sympathise with you as I have some stretch marks too after 2 pregnancies but I feel that guys don't pay much attention to them. So, I kind of forget about it sometimes. You look amazing by the way. |
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By *P15Man 6 weeks ago
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Have certainly never been turned off by scars or jiggly bits, and now I’m 40+ I actually find it a turn on.
There’s especially something very sexy about a woman’s body post pregnancy. It’s feminine and hot.
I looked at your profile and you have an absolutely amazing body. |
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"I sympathise with you as I have some stretch marks too after 2 pregnancies but I feel that guys don't pay much attention to them. So, I kind of forget about it sometimes. You look amazing by the way. "
You both look amazing tbh |
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There are very few people in this world with any years and life experience under their belts who haven't got scars, marks or blemishes. It's just being human. And the perverse thing is the only people who care about them is ourselves. Genrally most adults fancy us because they fancy us not because our bodies are perfect. Most grownups recognise no ones body is a brand new box fresh archetype just as their own isnt. And so it's on us to be comfortable in our own skin first so we can be comfortable with other being comfortable with our skin and bodies. Because it doesn't work no matter how much someone accepts and adores our bodies if with we can't accept and adore ourselves.
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
Hi OP. Could you DM me please ? I wish to discuss a scar I have which affects my self confidence. Not looking for a meet, just to discuss this. |
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
I've met women who used to be bigger, women who've had kids, women who have had operation, women who haven't had any of the above.
It doesn't bother me at all, I think sometimes because we live in a very material world, we carry that into our relationships but once the layers come off, none of that shit matter, it's just if you connect.
I think lmfao, like the best sex I've had in my life wasn't with the materialistically defined most attractive. Not sure that proves anything hahaha |
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There's far too much unrealistic expectations in the media world about how people should look, and it can be tough mentally to just block that out and be yourself.
Fat, thin, scars, flab, love handles, dad bods, stretch marks, big boob's, small boob's, massive cocks, small cocks etc etc.
Body positive, be yourself and to hell with anyone who doesn't appreciate you for who you are.
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By *irsSubCouple 6 weeks ago
Darlington |
Own them, they are part of you, your perfect imperfections - to quote Robin Williams. With things you can't change, like scars, the self confidence issues are 100x less sexy than the scars themselves. |
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
Stretch marks and scars make you who u are, embrace them, its a sign of maturity and anyone that says anything negative is not worth ur time. Every imperfection is a sign of life experiences |
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
The scars we carry are just proof we’ve lived.
You have nothing to be self conscious about. You are beautiful. ☺️ |
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We enjoy and adore people just as they are. With the right connection and personality we never see imperfections just the person. None of us are perfect and we all have visible and invisible scars and we are sure that you are a beautiful, sensual and wonderful woman ❤️❤️ |
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
I obviously cannot speak for others, only myself…
But for me, I’m far more worried about if I am attractive enough for the people I’m meeting than the other way around once it comes to the point of actually getting together.
By that point I know that I’m already attracted and a few lumps, bumps and scars aren’t going to distract me from someone I already like. Everyone has something they don’t like about themselves.
And you are beautiful OP |
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Scars and stretch marks are not an issue to us. Hannah had breast reconstruction after cancer and has scars all over the shop. People have scars. It's part of life. You don't have to look like a model in Cosmopolitan to be attractive (in fact it probably helps if you don't). |
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By *eppipWoman 6 weeks ago
Lancs |
Just to reiterate what everyone else has said really, most people are busy concentrating on their own insecurities to acknowledge yours.
Stretch marks, scars, blemishes etc. are all part of life. I personally wouldn't be fussed by them on someone else, however, I'm acutely aware of them on my own body. |
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Is very normal to be self conscious about scars/marks, etc... But believe me, most men don't care at all. Most of us don't have a perfect body and we all have insecurities about ourselves.
By the way you have a great body.
Paulo
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
imho scars and marks on a skin are a sign of a life lived, often they suggest a story behind them, shared or not, doen't matter - to me the show you've lived through, or experenced, something I've not. So to me they show someone to be respected, someone whose come though something I haven't.
Full respect to you - and more for having the balls to ask! |
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
For me absolutely not, if anything they add intrigue and raise the enjoyment of exploring someone's body.
Own them and be proud they show you have lived |
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First I want to say is OP you are fine, no need to worry!!
I’ve got it all, scars, loose skin, stretchmarks.. All has a story. Always have been super insecure about it all and I’m only learning now - as example on here, I present myself the way I am and there’s stil more than enough attention to receive. Other people don’t seem to bother as much as we do for ourselves.. we’re our own worst critic x |
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Is there such a thing as a perfect body , stretch marks on women look sexy from child birth body shape changes I’ve yet to check your profile if your married or single , your husband is obviously happy with you |
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I think we often look at the negative about our own bodies. If people are so shallow as to not want to get intimate because of our scars or flaws then it is their loss. We are all amazing and should be proud of who we are and what we look like. |
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
Hi, female of the couple here, you have an amazing body, and scars, stretch marks are lifelines of your story. Don’t ever be embarrassed or ashamed, if someone doesn’t like them that says more about them than you. Be brave, be bold, you are beautiful 😊 |
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To anyone male, female or whatever lovely shade of the rainbow you choose to identify with.....
Scars, stretch marks and "imperfections" are not a putt off, or something to be ashamed of. They are a physical reminder of the journey your body has been on, after all that is the purpose any of us are knocking around on this lump of rock hurtling through space!
Embrace them, cover them, adorn them with jewellery, whatever. But never ever feel apologetic to someone that they exist! |
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By *ickD80Man 5 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
If someone is shallow enough to be bothered by scars and stretch marks then they’re not worth being with so you really shouldn’t care what they think.
I completely understand how you feel though, as i’m sure the majority of everyone else does, because nearly everyone has some part of their body they don’t like. We are all way more critical of our own bodies than anyone else is of them.
When i worry about it I think about times when other people have told me about what they worry about on their bodies and how it’s always something that they really don’t need to worry about. I always think that if the things other people worry are things they don’t need to worry about then I shouldn’t be worrying about my body either…..that was surprisingly difficult to articulate so it probably doesn’t make much sense haha.
Failing that i’ve found that being open and honest from the start always helps. I always used to be really nervous about being naked with someone for the first time in case they hated my body and that used to really hold me back, so now i tell them all the things I’m worried about, and even show them, before we meet so that i know they aren’t bothering about them if they still want to meet me and then i feel completely relaxed and a lot less worried. |
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I find we are our own biggest critics we get in our own heads about our hang ups i can speak from personal experience i gained alot of weight when i started comfort eating after having a traumatic experience happen to me in 2012 im currently in the process of losing the weight and have a much better relationship with food i know im not going to be everyones cup of tea bodywise but i can go in to a club with my head held high knowing that i will tick someones box like many have said scars are just a mile stone in your life journey people that turn there noses up at them are not your kinda people
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People here will tell you that you are beautiful, that no one bothers... Etc etc.
Truth is that you will be gorgeous for some and not so much for others. That some will be repelled by them and others will not create about it.
So maybe consider if you'd like to go to bed with someone that is bothered about your stretch marks instead of liking you as a person, as an individual. Make sure you don't hide who you are and you will attract the right kind of partners so you can choose among them, and forget about those that are not a good match to you? |
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Speaking openly, no one is 100% confident in the way they look and there are different parts of their bodies that they don’t like as much as others. I’ve found trying to be brave (which isn’t easy at times) and showing them when intimate can be really powerful. Plus, from an outsider looking in, you have a beautiful body. |
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
From looking at your pics you’re gorgeous. Scars don’t matter, they just show that you’ve been through some things. You’re worrying far too much about minor things. |
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"People here will tell you that you are beautiful, that no one bothers... Etc etc.
Truth is that you will be gorgeous for some and not so much for others. That some will be repelled by them and others will not create about it.
So maybe consider if you'd like to go to bed with someone that is bothered about your stretch marks instead of liking you as a person, as an individual. Make sure you don't hide who you are and you will attract the right kind of partners so you can choose among them, and forget about those that are not a good match to you?"
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We all have things we don’t like OP. I could give you a list of things I don’t like but I have learnt people generally don’t even notice them - they are too worried about the things they don’t like about themselves and that you might not like them.
Focus on making them feel comfortable and they will think you are great. |
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
Having looked at your pics, I’d explore them with fascination and lust! They’re part of who you are and where you’ve been in life - and makes you more attractive, not less, as you’ve survived to tell the tales.
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
U are one fine lady!! You shouldn’t worry about anything. |
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You look great.
I have several scars , stretch marks
Have a good scar around the Nipple where it were removed due to having breast cancer behind it , I've had 2 c sections personally I don't care if people like me or not. |
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
Speaking for myself...no it doesn't bother me, it's a part of who you are. ☺️ |
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By *reya73Woman 5 weeks ago
Whitley Bay |
OP we all have bits that were not happy with. I have stretch marks, scars, a wonky finger, mummy tummy, rogue hairs etc etc. Sometimes I'm more conscious than other times but I tend to focus on what my body is capable of instead. Giving and recieving pleasure isn't limited to how we look. Our attraction is multi dimensional.
Maybe there are some for whom a certain body type is important but I think for most, attraction goes way beyond.
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I think you need not to worry.
The majority of us have a part of our bodies were are not fond of, but for others they are barely visible or are insignificant to the rest of your body and personality. |
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So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
Doesn't bother me at all. We all have our bumps and lumps as we progress through life. I hope you are getting lots of pleasure and successfully distracting yourself from those thoughts. |
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By *igad999Man 5 weeks ago
wolverhampton |
Know everyone has different likes but personally I prefer the curvy body on a lady
And natural with all bumps wobbles and bits too. Find it so sexy.
Wife’s had 3 kids and is size 18 and yeah love every little bit of her |
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
Can only answer from my perspective, but can promise you would make zero difference, we've all lived a life until now.
What's important to me is how dirty your mind is.
I've looked at your profile and I don't think you have anything to worry about |
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By *inx_xxWoman 3 weeks ago
Shrewsbury |
I see them as badges of honour /courage and strength.
Breast scars...goodness you survived, that's amazing
Heart bypass....thats cool you had your body cut open
C-section/stretch marks...how womanly you bared life.
All of these scars and more, I've seen on the scene, and am always in awe of the person wearing them
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
With my profile, I'm used to it, plus a couple of decades in martial arts and such.
Honestly, scars are cool and endearing.
Doesn't put me off at all. I love the stories behind them. x |
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Dear lord, beautiful lady... you have nothing to worry about! Scars are what make us individual, we've all lived a life that has left its mark. A career serving my country has left a few  You look magnificent, your partner is a lucky man. Be you, there's only one of those  x |
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By *raigxMan 3 weeks ago
Northampton |
Stretch marks and imperfections - they are what make you YOU, unique, beautiful, sexy. Don’t try being someone you’re not - it never works as you never come across as your natural self (this includes us males). Personally I find stretch marks (or tiger stripes) a massive turn on!!! |
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Throughout life our bodies go through so much and it will leave a scar, some are visible some are not.
Anyone with an ounce of integrity and eyes that can see the real person, will see through the scars and be able to enjoy a persons body for what it is.
Confidence is hard to find, having the right ppl around you helps. |
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
Imperfections don't bother me, as I have imperfections too.
I had surgery last year and have a scar from below my ear to the top of my chest.
It upset me initially, but now that I'm well, I see it as a sign I got through a brutal experience and now I'm fine.
Would certain characteristics stop me from meeting for a sexual encounter, absolutely they would, but not for social meets.
Non of us are perfect, either inside or out and those that believe they are should be given a wide berth as they tend to be nothing but a bundle of grief and drama on two legs.
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I'd agree with the majority on here.
I dislike the word imperfections as it implies less than perfect.
Scars are trophies of you winning in life. Your body has repaired itself and you are still here to tell the tale.
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
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You look absolutely beautiful, and everyone has marks, shapes n size they don’t like, Forget media crap that has false images of the natural female form, good luck and happy fabbing |
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Is there anyone on this site who doesn't carry a scar, a blemish or any other semblance to a 'bodily foible'? I think it's safe to surmise that the vast majority of people wouldn't be affected by such 'imperfections'.
I have my fair share as most others do too.
(As a sidenote - your areolas are unsurpassed) |
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By *ubFTMTV/TS 3 weeks ago
Swindon |
If there are no grill marks that meat ain't done yet.
Once heard a saying that went something like 'bones are for dogs, men like their meat and honey is he don't like them stretchmarks get rid of that boyfriend and find yourself a manfriend' |
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By *tuddy9Man 3 weeks ago
Coventry / Nuneaton |
"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
It doesn't bother me in the slightest, and admiring your photos you are hot, and have absolutely nothing to worry about! |
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"Hello!
I am seriously lacking in self confidence.
I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc
For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.
When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.
So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun "
you look incredible. And very beautiful. X |
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Had to take steroids when I was younger and ballooned and have stretch marks as a result. I hate them. I am self conscious about them, but I’m beginning to be cooler about them.
I know they happen as a result and they don’t bother me at all. It’s life. |
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You have great body! Should not worry about scars at all. We are all different and things can happen to anyone anytime. I think true swingers are the most adequate people in relation to intimate questions and problems. The ones who claim to be the highest moralists most of the time are the biggest pervs with lack of communication skills and diplomacy. |
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Most of us have scars of some sort. It really doesn’t bother me if someone has them, they’re a part of their journey to getting where they are now.
Ask me about my scars, the answer would be the same. Ask me about my body and it would be different.
As women we have pressure from every direction to be perfect, none of us are, but it sticks in your head |
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