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I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it |
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it "
It's extremely unlikely you could do this without upsetting your ex. And you could try to keep it a secret, but you should assume she will find out.
On the other hand, you seem to have misgivings about it anyway. There isn't anything wrong per se about a 50 year old guy having sex with a 30 year old girl he's not related to but if you have a pre-existing familial relationship some people will still see it as unacceptable.
So really the question is, how hot is she? |
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"What would your ex think. How honest are you both"
that is what bothers me.if I wasn't friends still with her then I'd consider it but I'm still in contact with my ex gf and get in well with her as a friend and we have slept together a few times since we broke up,so yes it feels wrong to do that as shed surely be fuming if I slept with her daughter
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"that is what bothers me.if I wasn't friends still with her then I'd consider it but I'm still in contact with my ex gf and get in well with her as a friend and we have slept together a few times since we broke up,so yes it feels wrong to do that as shed surely be fuming if I slept with her daughter "
Eeeek that's a definite no then !, but only you can make the decision... |
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"Thanks for advice.im going to speak to her and tell her it doesn't feel right as it wouldn't be fair on her mum.im flattered she even fancies me but yes I do think it's best "
I think it's odd that someone's daughter would contemplate sleeping with a guy their mother was still seeing no matter how casually. Don't you find it strange? |
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For me, the word ex makes all the difference. It all depends on your relationship with that ex & how much value you put on it.
Ex mean exactly that. If 2 consenting adults want something, then it's open to options. Encouraging her could be the best or worst thing ever. Weigh it up & make a decision. But don't keep her hanging. That's not fair. |
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"Thanks for advice.im going to speak to her and tell her it doesn't feel right as it wouldn't be fair on her mum.im flattered she even fancies me but yes I do think it's best
I think it's odd that someone's daughter would contemplate sleeping with a guy their mother was still seeing no matter how casually. Don't you find it strange?"
she doesn't know Ive slept with her mum since we broke up.its only been a couple of times anyway. |
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"…I think it's odd that someone's daughter would contemplate sleeping with a guy their mother was still seeing no matter how casually. Don't you find it strange?"
It is almost certainly just a fantasy of his… not exactly unusual on here, sadly |
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it "
Hell no!!!!! |
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"…I think it's odd that someone's daughter would contemplate sleeping with a guy their mother was still seeing no matter how casually. Don't you find it strange?
It is almost certainly just a fantasy of his… not exactly unusual on here, sadly"
I thought exactly that, but I am bored of saying it. Good on you |
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it "
My initial advice would be to say "sorry not going to happen" and leave it there otherwise you are open to a world of drama
How old was she when you got together with her mum? This could stir up more drama and false accusations |
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What would Jesus do!? Lol
But seriously, reverse the roles and think how you would feel if you had a grown up son that started something with your ex!
Don't do it fella, it ain't worth it.
BTW, what's her username? Asking for a friend obviously lol x |
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it "
Give it a, whirl.
Nothing like taking a huge risk and enjoying a complicated life.
What red blooded man wouldn't? Eh! |
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it
Give it a, whirl.
Nothing like taking a huge risk and enjoying a complicated life.
What red blooded man wouldn't? Eh!"
One who values his friendship with his ex? |
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it
Give it a, whirl.
Nothing like taking a huge risk and enjoying a complicated life.
What red blooded man wouldn't? Eh!
One who values his friendship with his ex?"
Don't worry, was speaking for 'all red blooded men', not seiously advising the OP! |
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Its purely a matter of how much that shag is worth to you? Is it worth falling out with the ex you get on OK with with or the potential for drama for all involved? That is purely a calculation for you to make. |
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This is a recipe for disaster !
This may jeopardize a mother daughter relationship ! On the other hand, it may be sent to test your integrity.
Maybe just pop a finger in and have a good look ! Lol only kidding ..
Self respect says no all day long |
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Depends on what you value most.
The friendship you have with the ex or getting your end away with the daughter.
Cause you can only pick one.
Although the big question is, what age was the daughter when you first met her.
Cause in everyone's eyes, no matter what you say, you fancied the daughter on the first day you met her. |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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"Live on the edge, meet her, see how it goes and then update us.
Tick mother and daughter off your bucket list.
Is it wrong to say I have done
that?"
Lucky you |
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it "
Go for it. You are all adults
Smash it. I would |
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By *730tMan 27 weeks ago
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it
Go for it. You are all adults
Smash it. I would"
Sounds good too |
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You know you want to do it, or you would have turned her down straight away, why are you looking for approval, you will regret if you don't and doubt you will get another offer in your life time with a young women. |
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"You know you want to do it, or you would have turned her down straight away, why are you looking for approval, you will regret if you don't and doubt you will get another offer in your life time with a young women."
He's only 50 and she is over 30, hardly a massive or unusual age difference.
I would hope that there is life in the old boy yet! |
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Complete a full Health and Safety Risk assessment to include variables 'threesomes', pregnancy and murder. That should make it clearer in your mind. Alternatively, drop a dm to one of us including her fab profile and we will get back to you, honest  |
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it "
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She and her Mum are having a laugh at your expense! |
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"What would your ex think. How honest are you boththat is what bothers me.if I wasn't friends still with her then I'd consider it but I'm still in contact with my ex gf and get in well with her as a friend and we have slept together a few times since we broke up,so yes it feels wrong to do that as shed surely be fuming if I slept with her daughter "
Chat to the EX mother and daughter dream |
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By *ynecplCouple 26 weeks ago
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If you have misgivings then don't go there.
As she knows it is you then probably pointless in denying and blocking. But if you wish to block her then go ahead.
Turn her down explaining your reasons and leave it at that. |
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Mother and daughter fantasies only exist in the false world of porn films.
I’d not let fantasy cloud your better judgment and steer well clear, the whole thing seems like it will cause far too much trouble. |
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By *recticWoman 26 weeks ago
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"Gotta be a runner up at bare minimum for “didn’t happen of the year” awards
Runner up? I'd say it may take the platinum medal "
If only profiles could link you to the insanity posted on the forums for an extra level of filter. Anyone asking the “ wanking over someone you shouldn’t” question can go on the ignore pile |
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If this is true folk must remember she is an ex not in any relationship with her and must be an ex for a reason.
All those saying block the daughter if in the posters situation how many would actually decline the daughter you are both adults if you like each other then you should both enjoy each other.
The mum could not really say owt as they are not together. |
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"Gotta be a runner up at bare minimum for “didn’t happen of the year” awards
Runner up? I'd say it may take the platinum medal
If only profiles could link you to the insanity posted on the forums for an extra level of filter. Anyone asking the “ wanking over someone you shouldn’t” question can go on the ignore pile "
Literally. Just have a key word blocker |
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By *ezloveCouple 26 weeks ago
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ffs....really. arent there enough people out there to have sex with....but your contemplating this about the child of the mother you had a relationship with, and by your own admission are still close with???. Stop these stupid thoughts and try to grow up. at 50 your body is very mature compared to a 30yo, clearly your head is 13. it is very odd. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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You know the first mother daughter argument between them is gonna end with daughter screaming "well (op's name) said im better in bed than you" and you get an angry ex partner and friend at the door screaming that you fucked her daughter for all your lovely neighbours to think you're a nonce. Mate this sounds like something early 2000's Holyoaks bullshit, walk away. |
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If this is true...
Message her back & say you're flattered at her interest but uncomfortable with taking it any further due to your previous relationship with her mother.
Then make sure you screen shot the conversation in case she takes offence and tries to claim you initiated it. |
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"Is this fantastical thread still going!?!? 🤯🤣"
Everything you can imagine happens somewhere. I once knew a guy who threw his wife out so that he could shack up with her daughter from a previous relationship. (Note: I didn't say he was a friend.) |
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"Is this fantastical thread still going!?!? 🤯🤣
Everything you can imagine happens somewhere. I once knew a guy who threw his wife out so that he could shack up with her daughter from a previous relationship. (Note: I didn't say he was a friend.)"
Same here, guy moved his Mrs into the spare room and moved her daughter in to his, yep, all live in same house |
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