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First time seeing wife with another man
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"Is your relationship still strong ?" Yes but if you have the slightest doubt think twice. | ||||
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"Our first threesome was better than we imagined. Hubbie was so turned on by watching me with the other guy, and it made me hornier for hubbie - it still does! We occasionally go home and have another round but the idea of "reclaim sex" is not something to get hung up on. You need to find the dynamic that works for you, and that won't necessarily be what works for everyone else. Communicate before, during and after. And if your relationship is truly solid and you listen to each other you will be ok. " Agreed on reclaim sex.. I was so turned on I nearly exploded.. didnt have another round in me.. was so exciting and fun. Didnt need reclaim..as she was never not mine.. just sharing her for a minute..or 30 | ||||
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"Did it ever make a difference to your sex life if you share her with a guy who has a bigger cock?" Not so far..honestly..im keen on it. First mfm was with 'bbc'.. but he wasnt actually any bigger than me.. Keen to see her take bigger and thicker.. all part of the fun. Guy could have a bigger dick than me.. but he doesn't hug, love or care like I do.. Its separate for us. | ||||
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If you are doubting yourself then I'd probably think twice about it , it may not be the right time for you. I'm not saying don't revisit it in a few months time but right now just may not be right.
More than happy for you to drop us a message for a chat if you like , don't mind answering any questions you may have  . | ||||
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"Honestly.. i loved it. But.. im very secure in this relationship.. and she makes me feel that way . Some folk like badminton.. some folk like sex.. Thus is just badminton for us.. " Shuttle cock indeed…. | ||||
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"Thanks for all the advice, is there anything definitely worth trying at first ?" Only you as a couple can decide that. What was your motivation in joining the scene? For us Hubbie wanted to see me with another man because the idea of me giving and receiving pleasure with another guy made him horny. I wanted to experience multiple men because I'm greedy.🤣 We started with an MFM, then we enjoyed 2 extra men, and then explored different dynamics from there. But we never did anything without talking about it and both being in agreement. If you are interested in clubs then chatting to, and watching others can be really valuable in our experience. | ||||
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"Thanks for all the advice, is there anything definitely worth trying at first ?" Our advice would be to chat about how far you’ve willing to go and what you’re happy doing sexually and then agree your boundaries within that. And try and find a suitable person that can help you start out on this incredible exciting journey that you’ve on as a couple. | ||||
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"Bollocks to siting there watching. Find a couple where you both get to have some fun. " Maybe he wants to sit back and just watch, everyone’s dynamic is different. My hubby has no interest in joining in or playing with other women but that’s our dynamic and what works for us | ||||
"Thinking about it do women have post orgasm clarity and any women wanted to stop after cumming ?" my wife once she has cum loses interest and just rolls over very dissatisfied | ||||
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"For me its seeing wife and hoping she enjoys more than with me" Happy to oblige pleasuring her. | ||||
"Bollocks to siting there watching. Find a couple where you both get to have some fun. Maybe he wants to sit back and just watch, everyone’s dynamic is different. My hubby has no interest in joining in or playing with other women but that’s our dynamic and what works for us " Absolutely this, when I do get the chance to join my wife and her bf I enjoy sitting back watching her enjoying him and maybe I might join in towards the end. | ||||
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"We've often found that the men saying they wouldn't want to be with another woman, and are just happy to watch have a partner who wouldn't want them to have sex with another lady. " That’s very true, think she would be too jealous to see me with another woman, although I think she might be bi curious so you never know lol | ||||
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"Thanks for all the advice, is there anything definitely worth trying at first ?" In all honesty your questions suggest to me that you have too many doubts and concerns. What I suggest you try at first is simply to go a club, socialise and watch. You both have to be sure that you're on the same wavelength. Don't rush into it. Once it's happened you cannot take it away, and, while it works for many, for some it's a disaster. For us it was the start of a wonderful journey, but then again we had no doubts when we started out. | ||||
"We've often found that the men saying they wouldn't want to be with another woman, and are just happy to watch have a partner who wouldn't want them to have sex with another lady. " Yes that is true in our case I would be incredibly jealous to see hubby with another woman. So I guess it’s fortunate he has no desire to be with anyone other than me and if he did then I suppose that would have to be a conversation between us 😊 | ||||
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