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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Have you ever suspected someone messaging you is fake?

What made you think it, and what did you do?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends sometimes I play along then call them out for my own entertainment then repot and block after my fun other times I report and block

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lots of times. Men pretending to be women or couples usually. They have no idea how to talk like women. If there's decent evidence I report.

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By *he Ring WraithMan  over a year ago

Bradford

I rarely get messages from people I do not know so if I get ones especially from 'sexy young ladies' or couples I am instantly suspicious !

sometimes I just block, sometimes I wait for the request for money / gifts, then I report and block.

my theory of fab, like much of life is that if something looks too good to be true, then it probably is !

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I actually saw the daily fail post and it made me question.....

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By *esires of HertsCouple  over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

Had a request to go onto Kik by 2nd message...I said nice try and blocked

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I rarely get messages from people I do not know so if I get ones especially from 'sexy young ladies' or couples I am instantly suspicious !

sometimes I just block, sometimes I wait for the request for money / gifts, then I report and block.

my theory of fab, like much of life is that if something looks too good to be true, then it probably is ! "

You're kidding me? I've never had requests for money - the only one I reported though, I saw the same pics on the inter web! Like from 6 years ago on various porn websites... (reverse image search - thank you google)

Agreed, if it looks to good.....

x N

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When the guy messaging me had a very perfect picture on his profile I did a search and sure enough up came the actual model who happen to have the exact same outfit, same pose and same creases and birthmarks as the profile messaging me.

I played along to see if he would realise I knew by suggesting a game of guess the fake picture challenge.

He swore to me that it was him.

He swore again it was him

When I told him exactly whos picture it was he then fessed up and got himself a block.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When the guy messaging me had a very perfect picture on his profile I did a search and sure enough up came the actual model who happen to have the exact same outfit, same pose and same creases and birthmarks as the profile messaging me.

I played along to see if he would realise I knew by suggesting a game of guess the fake picture challenge.

He swore to me that it was him.

He swore again it was him

When I told him exactly whos picture it was he then fessed up and got himself a block."

A block well deserved.... I don't know where people get off...really. What is the point. It's not as if you are going to arrange a meet, and when he turns up and he looks average (at best) you say no problem...

I'm sure there are easier and less time consuming ways to get a kick.

xN

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I actually saw the daily fail post and it made me question....."

What post?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you ever suspected someone messaging you is fake?

What made you think it, and what did you do? "

Last one. Simply amazing. Too good to be true. Arranged a meet. Shock horror. Never got in touch to confirm on morning. So many to mention

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Just a post about the swing fields being infiltrated by journalists, made me question how you know people are real.

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By *lan157Man  over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I had my suspicions about a single woman on here. However she would not provide a contact phone number. I am ok with that but my caution levels are set higher so was not surprised when she left the site on the morning of the arranged social meet and did not set off just to have my time wasted.

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Have you ever suspected someone messaging you is fake?

What made you think it, and what did you do? "

If a woman messaged me asking if I fancied a fuck I'd assume it was a fake.

Its never happened so I've never been able to test the theory.

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By *utsidenakedMan  over a year ago

Dorchester

Women messaging saying about their fantasies and straight away it's a guy fantasizing what he's like his wife to do. It's just so obvious

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"I had my suspicions about a single woman on here. However she would not provide a contact phone number. I am ok with that but my caution levels are set higher so was not surprised when she left the site on the morning of the arranged social meet and did not set off just to have my time wasted. "

I've been called a fake and a time waster for refusing to give people my phone number.

Seriously you must have lost the plot giving out mobile numbers unless it's a burner / phone just for fab.

I made that mistake once and he called me between 2am and 5am practically every night for months and sending me texts and I have to keep my phone on its not like I can block every number he uses.

Just isn't worth the hassle, also il add how many of you link your phone numbers to other accounts like Facebook?

There's a lot you can do with a person's phone number.

Especially idiots who use it for WhatsApp giving out their contact for it not thinking it's your phone number!?!

Advice for WhatsApp users get a 2nd SIM to register for it, once you've registered and activated via free text you're done. No need to give out your actual phone number.

My alarm bells goes off when men insist on me giving them my phone number. Not a chance in hell they get it.

Having a hissy fit over a woman who won't share a phone number isn't cool either like some men do. Plenty of other platforms you can use for contact.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lost count of how many times someones messaged for a bit, been called out to go further then..

::blocked, account deleted::

...Yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Had a few messages wanting me to fuck their wives ,normally want to go on KIK,exchange a few pics videos but then everything goes quiet ,suspect they just want cock pics unless they find me pig ugly

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By *lan157Man  over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"I had my suspicions about a single woman on here. However she would not provide a contact phone number. I am ok with that but my caution levels are set higher so was not surprised when she left the site on the morning of the arranged social meet and did not set off just to have my time wasted.

I've been called a fake and a time waster for refusing to give people my phone number.

Seriously you must have lost the plot giving out mobile numbers unless it's a burner / phone just for fab.

I made that mistake once and he called me between 2am and 5am practically every night for months and sending me texts and I have to keep my phone on its not like I can block every number he uses.

Just isn't worth the hassle, also il add how many of you link your phone numbers to other accounts like Facebook?

There's a lot you can do with a person's phone number.

Especially idiots who use it for WhatsApp giving out their contact for it not thinking it's your phone number!?!

Advice for WhatsApp users get a 2nd SIM to register for it, once you've registered and activated via free text you're done. No need to give out your actual phone number.

My alarm bells goes off when men insist on me giving them my phone number. Not a chance in hell they get it.

Having a hissy fit over a woman who won't share a phone number isn't cool either like some men do. Plenty of other platforms you can use for contact."

As I said I am ok with not being given a phone number but I always give mine. it's not an issue and totally understand anyone's reticence for the reasons you give.

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By *esires of HertsCouple  over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

but you can block the number very easily these days...not a big issue to give it

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By *am4CamWoman  over a year ago

Fairy Land


"Have you ever suspected someone messaging you is fake?

What made you think it, and what did you do? "

Often on my original profile. General rule of thumb, if it seems too good to be true, it likely isn’t true.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"but you can block the number very easily these days...not a big issue to give it"

Not if they keep using lots of different numbers or post it on a sex site or write it on a toilet wall.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So, the poster I’m talking about, has completely disappeared, the looked at me has gone, the messages have disappeared.

Maybe my instinct was right?

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By *lan157Man  over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"So, the poster I’m talking about, has completely disappeared, the looked at me has gone, the messages have disappeared.

Maybe my instinct was right? "

I would say so.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"When the guy messaging me had a very perfect picture on his profile I did a search and sure enough up came the actual model who happen to have the exact same outfit, same pose and same creases and birthmarks as the profile messaging me.

I played along to see if he would realise I knew by suggesting a game of guess the fake picture challenge.

He swore to me that it was him.

He swore again it was him

When I told him exactly whos picture it was he then fessed up and got himself a block."

Had one like this, I asked him how he had shrunk from 6'3 to 5'10 and had turned into a black guy and why had he left LA to move to the Midlands lol.

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By *ab femWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire

I seen a "woman's" account and the pictures were of a of a sex doll

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had my suspicions about a single woman on here. However she would not provide a contact phone number. I am ok with that but my caution levels are set higher so was not surprised when she left the site on the morning of the arranged social meet and did not set off just to have my time wasted. "

Fair enough she left so probably was fake but not all women like to give a phone number I know I don't and I'm certainly not fake

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By *evaquitCouple  over a year ago

Catthorpe

Had a couple message us, looked at pics and there were what looked like three different women, the leg lengths were laughable. Also two of the images were lifted off the net. Reported.

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By *qua vitaeWoman  over a year ago

Shropshire/South Yorkshire


"Have you ever suspected someone messaging you is fake?

What made you think it, and what did you do? "

When you ask for a picture and they send you a picture of someone from across the room and not looking at the camera. Then they start talking about a wonderful ‘meet’ they had with 2 other guys and tell you their profile name.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, loads of times

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you ever suspected someone messaging you is fake?

What made you think it, and what did you do? "

they sent loads of pics without being asked so sent pics to tineye lol kept talking for a while for fun then they said something about putting credit on phone so they could send more pics I hadn't asked for, so I sent the tineye report lol

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By *orthernDeviantMan  over a year ago

bolton

Unfortunately this site is full of fake profiles. It's a shame really as it kills it for the genuine people on here.

Well fake or rude individuals who cant take rejection kindly. People need to man up (or woman up)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Unfortunately this site is full of fake profiles. It's a shame really as it kills it for the genuine people on here.

Well fake or rude individuals who cant take rejection kindly. People need to man up (or woman up)"

you rejected a woman?

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By *ertsguy2000Man  over a year ago

hertford

Used to make my piss boil tbh, but not as it happens so often it’s just a case block and move on, I’ve never reported because I’m not sure admin can do a lot, if there is nothing concrete to say it’s ‘fella pretending to be a lady’ I’m not sure they will do a lot. Be interested to hear from admin / mods to hear what does happen....

Somethings that get the alarm bells ringing

New unverified accounts

Coming on too strong too early

Too good to be true

As a middle aged man, getting a young lady coming onto you.

Pictures that look like porn site (use tineye to compare, its great)

Not willing to send pics that could prove they are female, ie, them holding up a bit of paper up with the date written on it, in front of their clothed torso.

Pls add your own

It’s all rather sad tbh

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By *orthernDeviantMan  over a year ago

bolton


"Unfortunately this site is full of fake profiles. It's a shame really as it kills it for the genuine people on here.

Well fake or rude individuals who cant take rejection kindly. People need to man up (or woman up)you rejected a woman? "

Yes. If they are not what I am looking for then why wouldn't I? Not everyone is a match for everyone.

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By *entleman JayMan  over a year ago

Wakefield

All the time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had my suspicions about a single woman on here. However she would not provide a contact phone number. I am ok with that but my caution levels are set higher so was not surprised when she left the site on the morning of the arranged social meet and did not set off just to have my time wasted.

I've been called a fake and a time waster for refusing to give people my phone number.

Seriously you must have lost the plot giving out mobile numbers unless it's a burner / phone just for fab.

I made that mistake once and he called me between 2am and 5am practically every night for months and sending me texts and I have to keep my phone on its not like I can block every number he uses.

Just isn't worth the hassle, also il add how many of you link your phone numbers to other accounts like Facebook?

There's a lot you can do with a person's phone number.

Especially idiots who use it for WhatsApp giving out their contact for it not thinking it's your phone number!?!

Advice for WhatsApp users get a 2nd SIM to register for it, once you've registered and activated via free text you're done. No need to give out your actual phone number.

My alarm bells goes off when men insist on me giving them my phone number. Not a chance in hell they get it.

Having a hissy fit over a woman who won't share a phone number isn't cool either like some men do. Plenty of other platforms you can use for contact."

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By *otgirl32Woman  over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"I had my suspicions about a single woman on here. However she would not provide a contact phone number. I am ok with that but my caution levels are set higher so was not surprised when she left the site on the morning of the arranged social meet and did not set off just to have my time wasted. "

Bit silly, I don't give my phone number to ANYONE except those I meet and they get my # the day of the meet. Not a fake, just a careful woman. Many women on Fab are like that, they're not fake

Big fakes are blokes with a brand new account and hot "professionally" done pics. Easy to reverse search and catch them out.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan  over a year ago

Luton

Yep, usually men pretending to be women. They have no clue how women tend to interact so it's easy to spot.

I had one, sent me loads of pics of anal play saying "she" wanted me to do similar things with her... A reverse image search showed the pics were from a porn site. I called "her" out, "she" admitted to being a man and still begged me to meet.

Reported and blocked off course.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hidden verifications

No verifications

New profile

Lack of text on the profile

Crap pictures

Won’t send pic with name/date etc on

Quick to move to kik

Too good to be true

Quickly move to sex talk

Never can talk on the phone

The list is endless, any doubt you have, go with your gut, it’s probably a fake....

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By *orkMan  over a year ago

wakefield

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By *orkMan  over a year ago

wakefield

Fake women...

Can always accommodate

18-39

No veries.

No photos.

Answer messages quick time.

Profile less than 4 months.

Loads of friends.

Ok...some of the above could be me!

But generally the above is an alarm bell

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Fake women...

Can always accommodate

18-39

No veries.

No photos.

Answer messages quick time.

Profile less than 4 months.

Loads of friends.

Ok...some of the above could be me!

But generally the above is an alarm bell

"

yours reads

no photos

wants to meet 18-99 so you not even bothered

alarm bell ringing here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

if I think a guy is fake, I just block.

however, I've been accused of being fake

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By *nsatiablepartnerseekerMan  over a year ago

nottingham

Loads ...

Easy to spot usually though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Reported one today. Why bother, we can tell

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By *irl1234xxxWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

I’m accused of being fake alllll the time and my god is it boring.

I’m not even sure what makes me look fake but I’m also not sure that I care.

It did become less of a problem when I added a link to my Instagram but I still get the whole “you’re really hot, if you’re real” zzzzzzzzzz

I’m not trying to meet people, I don’t even message anyone so I’m not sure what my “fake” profile would be achieving as I only use the forums

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m accused of being fake alllll the time and my god is it boring.

I’m not even sure what makes me look fake but I’m also not sure that I care.

It did become less of a problem when I added a link to my Instagram but I still get the whole “you’re really hot, if you’re real” zzzzzzzzzz

I’m not trying to meet people, I don’t even message anyone so I’m not sure what my “fake” profile would be achieving as I only use the forums "

guys tend to say that so I'm told if you don't or won't meet, think it's born from the frustration of being on a ' sex ' site it's a swingers site lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If it’s too good to be true op

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If it’s too good to be true op "
What if it's true and sooooo good?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I quite often assume so. I’m quite happy for the distraction though.

The majority of fake accounts, use other fabbers pics. This means that they generally won’t be found on an reverse image search. It does make you question just how many of those on here are legit.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I quite often assume so. I’m quite happy for the distraction though.

The majority of fake accounts, use other fabbers pics. This means that they generally won’t be found on an reverse image search. It does make you question just how many of those on here are legit.

"

I don't question it I've not come across a fake account yet

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By *irl1234xxxWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m accused of being fake alllll the time and my god is it boring.

I’m not even sure what makes me look fake but I’m also not sure that I care.

It did become less of a problem when I added a link to my Instagram but I still get the whole “you’re really hot, if you’re real” zzzzzzzzzz

I’m not trying to meet people, I don’t even message anyone so I’m not sure what my “fake” profile would be achieving as I only use the forums guys tend to say that so I'm told if you don't or won't meet, think it's born from the frustration of being on a ' sex ' site it's a swingers site lol "

I have met previously and have a verification to prove it! That doesn’t seem to make a difference. I’m just not meeting anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m accused of being fake alllll the time and my god is it boring.

I’m not even sure what makes me look fake but I’m also not sure that I care.

It did become less of a problem when I added a link to my Instagram but I still get the whole “you’re really hot, if you’re real” zzzzzzzzzz

I’m not trying to meet people, I don’t even message anyone so I’m not sure what my “fake” profile would be achieving as I only use the forums guys tend to say that so I'm told if you don't or won't meet, think it's born from the frustration of being on a ' sex ' site it's a swingers site lol

I have met previously and have a verification to prove it! That doesn’t seem to make a difference. I’m just not meeting anymore."

Hey its fine anyone who comes here can use it as they see fit within the rules, it's a frustrating place for many, men, women and couples

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m accused of being fake alllll the time and my god is it boring.

I’m not even sure what makes me look fake but I’m also not sure that I care.

It did become less of a problem when I added a link to my Instagram but I still get the whole “you’re really hot, if you’re real” zzzzzzzzzz

I’m not trying to meet people, I don’t even message anyone so I’m not sure what my “fake” profile would be achieving as I only use the forums guys tend to say that so I'm told if you don't or won't meet, think it's born from the frustration of being on a ' sex ' site it's a swingers site lol

I have met previously and have a verification to prove it! That doesn’t seem to make a difference. I’m just not meeting anymore."

You are rather pretty

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By *reygorCouple  over a year ago

birmingham

have been contacted by many over the years .but fakes can only message so many times .before a phone call chat .or a meet up .so no bother.coz we have met lots more genuine folks from fab .and are good friends with them .know there is a cost but join a club as what yu see is what you get .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Had a few "couples" message me where "she" doesn't meet or chat anymore. I doubt she ever did, or that she has any idea she is part of this "couple" or even that she exists

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If it’s too good to be true op What if it's true and sooooo good? "

When they send a pic, check it on tin eye. Usually the muppet uses a picture of a porn star

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get he feeling people think we are fake . The profile is run by me (mr) , but mrs d is not interested in the chatting, video chatting or the build up of a meet ..

She hates the thought of organising fun . She likes to just turn up and have fun .

So people that want to video chat I have to say no because mrs d would literally be repulsed by it ... and they dont just want to see a guy

For this reason we seem to be struggling to find meets ...

Mrs d likes the idea of me taking her out for dinner and drinks then just surprising her with a meet I have planned .

Help......struggling with this site for this reason

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By *rivingmanMan  over a year ago

Blackpool

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The only thing fake about me is my tits xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I get he feeling people think we are fake . The profile is run by me (mr) , but mrs d is not interested in the chatting, video chatting or the build up of a meet ..

She hates the thought of organising fun . She likes to just turn up and have fun .

So people that want to video chat I have to say no because mrs d would literally be repulsed by it ... and they dont just want to see a guy

For this reason we seem to be struggling to find meets ...

Mrs d likes the idea of me taking her out for dinner and drinks then just surprising her with a meet I have planned .

Help......struggling with this site for this reason

"

Sounds like a club visit would be more suited to you!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There are so many fake profiles now being verified by people. I don’t know if they are making couple or female accounts as a verified male then verifying themselves or what.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are so many fake profiles now being verified by people. I don’t know if they are making couple or female accounts as a verified male then verifying themselves or what.

"

yeah, I discovered a fake account with lots of veris - mostly in person. Not enough proof to report though...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I get he feeling people think we are fake . The profile is run by me (mr) , but mrs d is not interested in the chatting, video chatting or the build up of a meet ..

She hates the thought of organising fun . She likes to just turn up and have fun .

So people that want to video chat I have to say no because mrs d would literally be repulsed by it ... and they dont just want to see a guy

For this reason we seem to be struggling to find meets ...

Mrs d likes the idea of me taking her out for dinner and drinks then just surprising her with a meet I have planned .

Help......struggling with this site for this reason

Sounds like a club visit would be more suited to you!

"

Yeah we are seriously looking into the club scene ...

It's just a big bullet to bite . . Fingers crossed now we are actively looking we get a bit more of a response ...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I get he feeling people think we are fake . The profile is run by me (mr) , but mrs d is not interested in the chatting, video chatting or the build up of a meet ..

She hates the thought of organising fun . She likes to just turn up and have fun .

So people that want to video chat I have to say no because mrs d would literally be repulsed by it ... and they dont just want to see a guy

For this reason we seem to be struggling to find meets ...

Mrs d likes the idea of me taking her out for dinner and drinks then just surprising her with a meet I have planned .

Help......struggling with this site for this reason

Sounds like a club visit would be more suited to you!

Yeah we are seriously looking into the club scene ...

It's just a big bullet to bite . . Fingers crossed now we are actively looking we get a bit more of a response ..."

Clubs are very chilled out. You’ll have a great time, once you bite the proverbial bullet. If I can be made to feel welcome as a single male then, you as a couple should have an even better time.

Good luck with your endeavours.

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By *ertsguy2000Man  over a year ago

hertford


"Have you ever suspected someone messaging you is fake?

What made you think it, and what did you do? "

I will in a gentle way call them out on it, give them the opportunity to prove otherwise, if they plead offence at the very thought of having to prove, or they refuse to prove otherwise, then I will block them

Any real members would have no good reason not prove they are real.

HG

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By *evaquitCouple  over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I’m accused of being fake alllll the time and my god is it boring.

I’m not even sure what makes me look fake but I’m also not sure that I care.

It did become less of a problem when I added a link to my Instagram but I still get the whole “you’re really hot, if you’re real” zzzzzzzzzz

I’m not trying to meet people, I don’t even message anyone so I’m not sure what my “fake” profile would be achieving as I only use the forums "

I believe you but can also see why others wouldn't. You are 38 but look early twenties in your 'one' pic. Verified but guess what, not showing (we get this also). If you were to create a fake profile from a male perspective, a slim, young blonde with good looks I'm betting would top the list. And if you really wanted to throw em you'd choose a believable name like Katie and not Cum Quick Kelly.

Like we said, you come across genuine but I'm guessing alot of what we've said has been thought regarding your profile by those throwing the fake accusations.

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By *etite HandfulWoman  over a year ago

Chester

Block and report if there is a credible reason to report, (a male claiming to have a 11 inch penis isn't a reason neither is claiming to be athletic but looks like the Michelin man) then let admin deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Always a laugh when people moan about being accused of being fake because they haven’t used the tools of the site to show they are not and are that arrogant to say “if you think I’m fake that’s your problem” blah blah blah, they are either idiots for not using the tools or are indeed fake....

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By *orkMan  over a year ago

wakefield

Now now!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We get men pretending to be couples a lot, easy to spot because as soon as they feel comfy with you, the we turns to I! Plus all pics are of a woman usually, probably pulled out of an old google drive file for their ex lol. Oh well, each to their own.

Stupid thing is, we do meet single bi guys, so why not just be real. Night you filthy animals x

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By *irl1234xxxWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Always a laugh when people moan about being accused of being fake because they haven’t used the tools of the site to show they are not and are that arrogant to say “if you think I’m fake that’s your problem” blah blah blah, they are either idiots for not using the tools or are indeed fake...."

Well I’m neither fake nor an idiot so thanks for that

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By *irl1234xxxWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m accused of being fake alllll the time and my god is it boring.

I’m not even sure what makes me look fake but I’m also not sure that I care.

It did become less of a problem when I added a link to my Instagram but I still get the whole “you’re really hot, if you’re real” zzzzzzzzzz

I’m not trying to meet people, I don’t even message anyone so I’m not sure what my “fake” profile would be achieving as I only use the forums

I believe you but can also see why others wouldn't. You are 38 but look early twenties in your 'one' pic. Verified but guess what, not showing (we get this also). If you were to create a fake profile from a male perspective, a slim, young blonde with good looks I'm betting would top the list. And if you really wanted to throw em you'd choose a believable name like Katie and not Cum Quick Kelly.

Like we said, you come across genuine but I'm guessing alot of what we've said has been thought regarding your profile by those throwing the fake accusations.

"

Firstly, I have one photo but adding tons more proves nothing does it? I could steal them from someone’s Facebook etc?

I’ve linked to my insta if you would like to see more but again, what does that prove.

Yes I’m 38 (thanks Botox and fillers)

I’ll unhide my veri if that helps, not sure how it would but anyway.

I only read the forums so who am I trying to fake? I’m not trying to chat or set up meets so who am I faking? I think it’s really funny when people say I’m fake

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A few guys accused me of being a fake or a lesbian when I declined their offer to meet.. The fact that I'm a verified user by meets obviously didn't matter

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By *irl1234xxxWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"A few guys accused me of being a fake or a lesbian when I declined their offer to meet.. The fact that I'm a verified user by meets obviously didn't matter "

Exactly! I’m not going to jump over barrels to prove I’m real, they believe what they chose.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

But the guys with just cock photos and no veri’s (They could be anyone’s cock!) or the couples with just body shots (again, could be anyone’s) and no veris, they don’t get this I assume? Because I’ve chosen a nice photo (6 months old, put it on when I joined) it must be fake? You can even see my face ffs.

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By *bcums3Couple  over a year ago

lanarkshire


"Depends sometimes I play along then call them out for my own entertainment then repot and block after my fun other times I report and block "

Make them think they have fooled you

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By *OXO2018Couple  over a year ago

Norfolk

If they look to good to be true they probably are.

Aged under 21

Age range 18-99

“Will fill in later”

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By *irky_coupleCouple  over a year ago

kirky

1 public, 1 friends pic, 1 veri by a single guy. No text or very little and 18-99 age range.

Or the one that gets our goat is the single woman but has a "friend" who she only meets with. Make a blooming couple profile then!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Loads of wee triggers that hint at fake.

Brand new accounts displaying clear non sexual attractive face pics - most nicked off some poor random girl on Facebook.

Any female account unverified after 6 months. Let's be honest -guys will meet anything so they're either fake or bullshitter.

New accounts demanding Face or cock pics. There is a regular local update near me from an unverified account looking for cock pics for a size comparison against her hubby. Aye right.

My personal fave is US style plug sockets in background to pics supposidly of a girl in Glasgow. Lol

At end of day. Start suspicious of every new or unverified account. Even if verified, if it doesn't look right then it probably is just a single guy wanking away in his mum and dads house aged 47.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Loads of wee triggers that hint at fake.

Brand new accounts displaying clear non sexual attractive face pics - most nicked off some poor random girl on Facebook.

Any female account unverified after 6 months. Let's be honest -guys will meet anything so they're either fake or bullshitter.

New accounts demanding Face or cock pics. There is a regular local update near me from an unverified account looking for cock pics for a size comparison against her hubby. Aye right.

My personal fave is US style plug sockets in background to pics supposidly of a girl in Glasgow. Lol

At end of day. Start suspicious of every new or unverified account. Even if verified, if it doesn't look right then it probably is just a single guy wanking away in his mum and dads house aged 47. "

A lot of my nicest photos that I have of my insta are of me on holiday in Greece (my favourite place, I go there a lot) so the plug sockets aren’t English on those (although my profile pic on here is in my bathroom in Liverpool). So sorry, plug sockets aren’t a give away.

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By *harliebbwWoman  over a year ago

Birmingham

been told I am fake. most of the time because I won't drop and run

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By *irl1234xxxWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"been told I am fake. most of the time because I won't drop and run "

Yep, gets boring doesn’t it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"been told I am fake. most of the time because I won't drop and run "

Maybe because your profile pic on first impression looks like a cock sticking out of a pair of boxers. I had to look at the gallery pic to make out what it really was.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"been told I am fake. most of the time because I won't drop and run

Maybe because your profile pic on first impression looks like a cock sticking out of a pair of boxers. I had to look at the gallery pic to make out what it really was."

A cock with a nipple on it? I suppose it could be genital warts but it looks like a boob to me

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

I don't waste any more of my time, once I think mine is possibly wasted. I report to admin, with my suspicions and highlight any limitations in the evidence

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By *irl1234xxxWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I don't waste any more of my time, once I think mine is possibly wasted. I report to admin, with my suspicions and highlight any limitations in the evidence "

That’s the right thing to do

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By *evaquitCouple  over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I’m accused of being fake alllll the time and my god is it boring.

I’m not even sure what makes me look fake but I’m also not sure that I care.

It did become less of a problem when I added a link to my Instagram but I still get the whole “you’re really hot, if you’re real” zzzzzzzzzz

I’m not trying to meet people, I don’t even message anyone so I’m not sure what my “fake” profile would be achieving as I only use the forums

I believe you but can also see why others wouldn't. You are 38 but look early twenties in your 'one' pic. Verified but guess what, not showing (we get this also). If you were to create a fake profile from a male perspective, a slim, young blonde with good looks I'm betting would top the list. And if you really wanted to throw em you'd choose a believable name like Katie and not Cum Quick Kelly.

Like we said, you come across genuine but I'm guessing alot of what we've said has been thought regarding your profile by those throwing the fake accusations.

Firstly, I have one photo but adding tons more proves nothing does it? I could steal them from someone’s Facebook etc?

I’ve linked to my insta if you would like to see more but again, what does that prove.

Yes I’m 38 (thanks Botox and fillers)

I’ll unhide my veri if that helps, not sure how it would but anyway.

I only read the forums so who am I trying to fake? I’m not trying to chat or set up meets so who am I faking? I think it’s really funny when people say I’m fake "

Woah! Missed the point a bit. It wasn't an argument, I said I believed you (twice), you're preaching to the converted here. Was simply pointing out the alternative perspective of the doubters as we too have experienced it.

Re-read what I posted. It's from a supporter perspective not a foe.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m accused of being fake alllll the time and my god is it boring.

I’m not even sure what makes me look fake but I’m also not sure that I care.

It did become less of a problem when I added a link to my Instagram but I still get the whole “you’re really hot, if you’re real” zzzzzzzzzz

I’m not trying to meet people, I don’t even message anyone so I’m not sure what my “fake” profile would be achieving as I only use the forums

I believe you but can also see why others wouldn't. You are 38 but look early twenties in your 'one' pic. Verified but guess what, not showing (we get this also). If you were to create a fake profile from a male perspective, a slim, young blonde with good looks I'm betting would top the list. And if you really wanted to throw em you'd choose a believable name like Katie and not Cum Quick Kelly.

Like we said, you come across genuine but I'm guessing alot of what we've said has been thought regarding your profile by those throwing the fake accusations.

Firstly, I have one photo but adding tons more proves nothing does it? I could steal them from someone’s Facebook etc?

I’ve linked to my insta if you would like to see more but again, what does that prove.

Yes I’m 38 (thanks Botox and fillers)

I’ll unhide my veri if that helps, not sure how it would but anyway.

I only read the forums so who am I trying to fake? I’m not trying to chat or set up meets so who am I faking? I think it’s really funny when people say I’m fake

Woah! Missed the point a bit. It wasn't an argument, I said I believed you (twice), you're preaching to the converted here. Was simply pointing out the alternative perspective of the doubters as we too have experienced it.

Re-read what I posted. It's from a supporter perspective not a foe."

Apologies if I came across like a narky bitch (I can be!), it’s just so bloody annoying when I’m very real and that’s me. That’s what I look like and that’s where I live

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I once noticed a profile who's picture was stolen from my own profile. Couldn't believe it. Blocked and reported, right after I messaged the prick to give them a piece of my mind.

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