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Is kissing a big part of your meets
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"No it isn't "
I don't think so either. We have been in the scene for over ten years I never kiss men (though occasionally my husband does, and I kiss women): no one has ever complained or thought it strange, and most have come back for, or wanted more. I have never had anyone turn me down because of it. |
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By *sm265Woman 3 days ago
Perthshire |
Not particularly fussed, generally i associate kissing with more of an emotional/romantic connection.
Have had some great sex with no kissing involved whatsoever. Have also had meets where everything was going great until he kissed me and it was thoroughly unpleasant and totally turned me off. |
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We started off as non kissing and had maybe 3-4 meets like that and then our first solo meet with a female where she laid between us and alternated kissing was so hot we soon threw that rule in the recycling bin.
The only rule now we have is good kissing as some still think good kissing is trying to reach your breakfast 😂😂 |
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I think I have gotten to the point that I wouldn't arrange a meet if they didn't kiss. Such an internal and sexy part of the meet. To be greeted with a kiss and to leave with a kiss is the perfect way to bookend a meet x |
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By *eliWoman 2 days ago
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Yes. I've met people and not had sex with them before. We have spent hours kissing and dryhumping (the awfulness of that term).
I couldn't have sex with someone if the kissing didn't give me that want them inside me feeling. |
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"we are looking for a couple where the guy wants a little man/man action but surprisingly although they are happy to suck and be sucked many wont kiss x"
I have found this surprisingly common in mmf 3somes. The husband is happy to do cock play etc but doesn't want to kiss, which is always a shame but gets off on watching me kiss their wife |
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Love to kiss and cuddle , it's the initial part of a meet and it sets the tone for success, if a person male or female can't be bothered to make the effort to kiss properly, passionately then they're probably not going to bother having good sex |
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"Not particularly fussed, generally i associate kissing with more of an emotional/romantic connection.
Have had some great sex with no kissing involved whatsoever. Have also had meets where everything was going great until he kissed me and it was thoroughly unpleasant and totally turned me off. "
My feelings exactly! |
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By *aandLoCouple 2 days ago
Southampton |
"Not particularly fussed, generally i associate kissing with more of an emotional/romantic connection.
Have had some great sex with no kissing involved whatsoever. Have also had meets where everything was going great until he kissed me and it was thoroughly unpleasant and totally turned me off.
My feelings exactly!"
Oh god, I agree. Bad breath is an instant turn off. Fortunately I've only experienced that once. Not sure how they don't notice it themselves? |
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Absolutely essential for me. I met one man and there was no kissing before or after. It wasn't something I'd thought to discuss beforehand and it felt really odd.
I won't say I need feelings to be involved but I need a little intimacy and build up.
We went straight to the sex and then after he'd finished he jumped up, went to the bathroom, clothes on and left.
He thought it was great and kept asking for another meet but I won't be doing that again. |
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"Kissing is very important to me, sex without it feels very clinical. "
Really? I have never had sex that feels clinical -erotic, sensual yes, but never clinical. Several people here say that kissing is essential for intimacy, but I just want sex with strangers not intimacy. I have all the intimacy I need with my husband. |
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"Kissing is very important to me, sex without it feels very clinical.
Really? I have never had sex that feels clinical -erotic, sensual yes, but never clinical. Several people here say that kissing is essential for intimacy, but I just want sex with strangers not intimacy. I have all the intimacy I need with my husband. "
that's how it felt to me, we are all entitled to our own opinions. |
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By *aandLoCouple 2 days ago
Southampton |
"I respect its a boundary for so many that they cant kiss.
But this is my journey, we want the kissing and the amazing feeling it gives.
Each to their own.
Mr.
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Love that idea. It is each our own journey, and we should respect each others.
On thinking about it there have been men in clubs who've fucked me, or I've given them oral, and there was no kissing. But that has always been in a multiple men and me scenario, following lots of chat and giggles in a jacuzzi. 😁 |
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What I've experienced with interest during the time we've been swinging is that a lot of men say that intimacy and connection often in the form of kissing, is vital for them but after we've had sex they can barely look me in the eye or give me a hug and a kiss on the cheek goodbye.
That feels really off to me, if you want intimacy surely it carries on after sex. |
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"What I've experienced with interest during the time we've been swinging is that a lot of men say that intimacy and connection often in the form of kissing, is vital for them but after we've had sex they can barely look me in the eye or give me a hug and a kiss on the cheek goodbye.
That feels really off to me, if you want intimacy surely it carries on after sex. "
I need the hugs and kisses after sex. The connection should never end |
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