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By *omsubdevon OP   Couple 2 days ago

Newton Abbot

My wife and I met 10 years ago and it wasn't until nearly two years later that we started exploring the swinging world. So how long was it for you?

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By *WB85Man 2 days ago

Staffordshire

We were married for 10 years before our journey started.

I'm not sure how having sex with other people brings you closer together, but it certainly has.

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By *and12Couple 2 days ago

flint

We didn’t start until we were in our mid forties

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By *ihimbiherCouple 2 days ago

lightwater

10 year after. Was the most erotic thing ever. You never for your first!

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By *ightDesiresCouple 2 days ago

Northampton

Been together 11 years and only just started earlier this year

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By *aughty_guy12Man 2 days ago

Cambridgeshire

We met in the scene.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple 2 days ago

your bed

Hmm got together in 1997, not sure our first attempt counts as it was weird.

So probably 2002/03 before we went to a club.

So 5 or 6 years. Plenty of online and bedroom fantasy play before trying it.

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By *attooedbbwandhubbyCouple 2 days ago

Dorset

4 years roughly

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By *aandLoCouple 2 days ago

Southampton

Nearly 20 years before we ventured into swinging!

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple 2 days ago

Louth

18 & 19yrs old.

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By *alLucyCouple 2 days ago

Dumfries

Been together since turn of the century, did a bit of soft swing after 5 years, and a couple of unsuccessful attempts at hot wifing after 10 years, but nothing since.

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple 2 days ago

Lurgan

Been together 18 years, started on fab 2 and half years ago

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By *ust_us999Couple 2 days ago

The sticks of north Mayo

5 years in I think, randomly started talking about it and jumped in head first 😂

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By *tag - Vixen Cpl xCouple 2 days ago

Glasgow

Been together 18 years and started the hotwife lifestyle 4 years ago

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By *erry2020888Man 2 days ago

stockport

it was after 25 years kids left home

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By *parkly MinxCouple 2 days ago

Hitchin

Been together 7 years now. We started venturing after 4 years when I asked Z about being bi. We've been casually exploring on and off since then.

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By *helamontsCouple 2 days ago

Edinburgh

Was about 5 or 6 years after we married here ...

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By *randmrssbCouple 2 days ago

norwich

After nearly 20 years !

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By *icecouple561Couple 2 days ago
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East Sussex

About 26 years

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By *omsubdevon OP   Couple 2 days ago

Newton Abbot

Thanks for the replies all. Really interesting reading them all. We both came out of sexless unhappy relationships and just enjoyed each other first.

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By *xSirenaxxWoman 2 days ago

Gloucestershire

Really interesting reading all these replies, and they've pretty much reinforced my own thinking.

I've had two relationships where swinging was suggested very early on, and I said no. I also get asked by men I've only just started chatting to if I'd do a couple's profile with them, and that's a no too.

For me, trust comes first. I wouldn't swing with a FWB. For me it would only be within a proper, established relationship that takes time to build first.

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By *uckslut and MCouple 2 days ago

Poole

He was my first swing. Mr had been doing it a while 🤔

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By *hyButSinfulCplCouple 2 days ago

Sheffield

A few years ago I asked the wife for a 3 some before Iam 40 and that we only live once..

Fast forward abit went to a club for our first ever swinging experience and ended up in a room with 3 other couples lots of fun to be had but never did get my 3 some 😂

Mr

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By *unpair79Couple 1 day ago

Near Stockport

Nearly 10 years after getting together. A good job isn't worth rushing

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By *ogerroger69Man 1 day ago

West Yorks

19 years after arranged marriage x

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By *avenvalCouple 24 hours ago

Leicester

We started swinging when we were both 22 after being together for seven years

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By *ie n MashCouple 24 hours ago

Back in Malice

Together 24 years before we started 4 years ago.

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By *uxurycollectionCouple 23 hours ago

Port Talbot

About 15 years.

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By *arriedcoupleXCouple 23 hours ago

north lanarkshire

16 years together, only been 5 years on the swinging scene

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By *weet and SpiceCouple 23 hours ago

Around the Midlands


"Nearly 20 years before we ventured into swinging!"

Same for us

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By *etwife8230Couple 23 hours ago

Newport

Over 20 years before we started

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By *elightful 2Couple 22 hours ago

Not living in the UK

Around 25 years for us.

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By *andcruiser50Man 18 hours ago

Kendal

we were married for 30 years never any need to think of swinging, my wife wanted as much sex as I did, we started swinging when she hit the menopause in The hope that it would reignite her excitement, but it didn't and two years we had Change from a couple to a single profile

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By *egnMaxCouple 18 hours ago

East Midlands

25 years together and 6 years married before we took the glorious plunge.

Max

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By *ore4fundevonCouple 18 hours ago

West Devon

We got together in 2008. Talked about it in 2016 and started a little time after. Still enjoying it so far.

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By *istress B and BrookeCouple 17 hours ago

Newcastle

We met on here so instantly!

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By *ed and WolfieCouple 17 hours ago

Gravesend

we also met on here, and are now living happily ever after 😜

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By *utterypopcornCouple 16 hours ago

oxford

It was about eighteen year we were together before we started and when we did make the plunge Covid lockdown struck. So had a year of fab and fantasies before Mrs M was let loose.

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By *olin and LouiseCouple 16 hours ago

Tamworth

We had been together for 15 years when friends introduced us to swinging... 20 years later we still enjoy naughty fun with others.

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By *unandLaughterCouple 16 hours ago

Bournemouth

met in 96 married in 2000 first time swing 2005

30 years and we still enjoy a bit of fun but it isnt ruling our lives just now and then but it does make us closer.

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By *ee1967Man 15 hours ago

rickmansworth

Me and my ex-wife got into swinging way before we were married. we went to Florida and we had a spontaneous unplanned threesome on the last night with a barman. She was only 19, I was 22. And when we got back, we discussed it and we both really loved it. So that's when we started doing it.

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By *hrillseekers east midsCouple 15 hours ago

Derby

We’ve been together 14 years, started enjoying other people company about 6 years ago, love the thrill.

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple 11 hours ago

London

A couple of years, most of which was spent talking dirty about it

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By *wodoswingCouple 11 hours ago

swindon

6 months after meeting.

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By *JandCMCouple 10 hours ago

cardiff

Married around 25 years before we started

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By *ee1967Man 10 hours ago

rickmansworth

6 months after meeting the future wife. Unplanned 3 some on last night of holiday with the barman. He was mid 40s . Roxy was 19 I was 22

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By *otwifecouple1004Couple 10 hours ago

Cardiff

A year after getting together. Now happily married

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By * MRS ShyButNotShy MRSCouple 8 hours ago

Stoke

About 28 years. Although we did look into it about 22 years in

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By *ldisgold5753Couple 5 hours ago

Motherwell

I met my Partner last year, and in 3 weeks we had started swinging.

it was something she had considered in her past , but didn't quite know how to go about it .

then she met me, and as we were getting to know each other , I told her about my Swinging past, and she was very keen to hear Details , and shared with me her Fantasy about wanting to go Dogging ........

I suggested swinging might be a safer option to start with , and here we are !!!!

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By *ot_spicedCouple 5 hours ago

Queenstown

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By *ot_spicedCouple 5 hours ago

Queenstown

Not sure if it could be called swinging, but boyfriend (hubby) shared me with his very inexperienced friend after about a month

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By *tirlingshire matureMan 3 hours ago

falkirk

Late teens by now wifes aunt who introduced us to the scene

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By *lwaysMuffCouple 3 hours ago

Camberley

We met on here....so straight away 🤣

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