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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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The increasingly common ignorance or people and over inflated sense of self importance.
When did this become common place!?
What happened to decency and consideration for others!? |
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"The increasingly common ignorance or people and over inflated sense of self importance.
When did this become common place!?
What happened to decency and consideration for others!?"
Exactly 100% self centered arrogant rude and selfish. |
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So many things! Mostly work related, and mostly the usual things- laziness; fake "I'm not feeling well" (including fake tears) because you got asked to do something you didn't want to do- I got that one from an agency lady yesterday. She travelled for at least an hour to get to us, and as soon as she realised she was going to be doing 1:1 instead of general duties, she decided she wasn't well enough to be here. We keep on and on about if staff are not feeling well enough, they need to stay home rather than spread infection. And I do get it, agency staff are not in a good position there as they don't get paid if they're not working. But that lady wasted money on coming to work when not well enough to be there. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Going into the shop and waiting in line to get served and the cashier is talking to the person for ages that’s just bought a pint of milk and takes eight minutes because they’re talking and there’s a queue 😤 |
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Mainly work, where bad decisions by senior management have ultimately caused the dreaded ‘R’ word, so currently dealing with that for the third time.
On top of that, everyday life has felt like a massive chore with next to zero fun or excitement, so lots of pent-up frustrations. It'd just be nice to have some attention right now. |
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Yes, my back is playing up. One day it is fine, the next I am in agony just walking.
In work that happens everyday, I honestly wonder how people survive as long as they do. Reading reoorts that come in, the utter stupidity of some people make you very concerned for them. |
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After months of not being able to see my GP as there were no appointments, I finally got to see them. Used the step to get on the a bed, got assessed fine but in the mean time they move it mid-exam.
The step that looked fixed was in fact a pokey bit of flimsy kit they kick out of the way. Me being poorly sick and not looking down thinking it was still there meant my heel caught it overbalancing straining my calf.
Nobby Tawts. |
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"Lots, mainly myself, in having one of those self hatred kind of weeks.
Please be kind to yourself
It's unfortunately impossible at the moment x"
Sending virtual hugs lovely ☺️
Self love will shine through soon I’m sure ☺️
Think positive ☺️ |
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"The increasingly common ignorance or people and over inflated sense of self importance.
When did this become common place!?
What happened to decency and consideration for others!?"
Yes, this it seems to be constant these days |
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By *lowupdollTV/TS 10 weeks ago
Herts/Beds/Leeds/London |
I watched a video of a guy who has 30 quid a month for food. A MONTH. Can’t afford to put lights on. Not a sponger, he lost his job due to poor health.
Poverty pisses me off.that people have to exist in this way pisses me off. |
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By *EAT..85Woman 10 weeks ago
Nottingham |
I was going to say nothing this week, nope.
Then one little thing crept into memory... I made a 10ft balloon arch and needed help moving it into position. One of the helpers was insanely frustrating and made it a lot more hard work than it needed to be and ended up twisting the arch out of pattern 🥴 |
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By *EAT..85Woman 10 weeks ago
Nottingham |
"I watched a video of a guy who has 30 quid a month for food. A MONTH. Can’t afford to put lights on. Not a sponger, he lost his job due to poor health.
Poverty pisses me off.that people have to exist in this way pisses me off. "
I work closely with a food bank and it is single people that are the biggest users of food banks as there isn't realistic financial help unless you have children  |
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"I watched a video of a guy who has 30 quid a month for food. A MONTH. Can’t afford to put lights on. Not a sponger, he lost his job due to poor health.
Poverty pisses me off.that people have to exist in this way pisses me off. "
I saw that video.
It's heart breaking. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Negative Nelly's
Life is for living, I don't understand people that have to put a negative spin on every single thing they do or say. No one knows what tomorrow brings, just enjoy today.
Have a good day peeps
Polly  |
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"I watched a video of a guy who has 30 quid a month for food. A MONTH. Can’t afford to put lights on. Not a sponger, he lost his job due to poor health.
Poverty pisses me off.that people have to exist in this way pisses me off. "
Yes it's quite a different picture to the crap certain papers feed us with. And then they get their benefits reduced!! Makes me furious. |
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"Been Ghosted before a meet be a very well known fab lady … I must admit that annoyed me
Ghosting seems to happening a lot more recently
And people think it’s always men .. "
Do they? I think men tend to be so pleased they get a meet that they airways turn up. I have never been stood up. I thought I had been the other day but turns out they were at a different pub with the same name. Got sorted out in the end. |
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The fact that nobody ever shows up for me in a meaningful way, while I routinely bend over backwards to help those who express need. I care so much, but it often feels one-sided. It's been that way most of my life, but it's aggravating me hard lately. |
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"My brother's partner.
We need the details???"
. My lips are sealed, suffice it to say that we have very widely differing views on life. My brother has never been happier so I keep my mouth firmly shut. |
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"I watched a video of a guy who has 30 quid a month for food. A MONTH. Can’t afford to put lights on. Not a sponger, he lost his job due to poor health.
Poverty pisses me off.that people have to exist in this way pisses me off. "
You're right to be pissed off.
I used to work in a position where colleagues could give food bank vouchers to people who needed them. Some of the stories would break your heart. |
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Having back to back viruses.
Just got rid of the one I caught end of March, that went on throughout April. Then, just as I'd stopped coughing up mucus, I catch another one.
So, back to being feverish, full of snot, coughing up stuff I don't want to describe, being exhausted and feeling crap.
Sun's out though
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"The increasingly common ignorance or people and over inflated sense of self importance.
When did this become common place!?
What happened to decency and consideration for others!?"
Someone ignore your message did they? |
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"Being left on read lol
Why don't people have the decency to say they don't want to meet again and just ghost you? "
I got ignored and ghosted after a 2nd meet then 3 weeks later messaged with a total bullshit excuse |
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"Being left on read lol
Why don't people have the decency to say they don't want to meet again and just ghost you?
I got ignored and ghosted after a 2nd meet then 3 weeks later messaged with a total bullshit excuse "
Sounds like met another person, didn't have the guts to tell you and thought you'd stick around as a Plan B. |
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Being courteous and nice to people, checking up on them, asking how they are when they're in a shit place. And then realising they don't do the same with me. Had a lot of shit on my plate and so many so called "friends" haven't checked up to see how I am. So I'm done with them, putting my foot down now, enough is enough. Tired of users. |
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Lots of things this week, but that's because my resilience is pretty much depleted.
Today's annoyance was having to deal with my ex over them seeing our child this weekend. They made the situation far more difficult than necessary. |
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"Has anything this week made you go "for fuck sake" /pissed you off/ made you roll your eyes🙄
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I didn't reply to someone's message so he decided to send another saying I get what I deserve being ghosted after sex.. because apparently that's as bad as not replying to his message. Fragile masculinity |
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Yes, this site:
Most people here don’t meet any man without verification by meet.
Then they say oh you should attend parties and clubs to get verified it’s easier!
Yeah, lies! Applied for a club near me, to go to a party! Application rejected, not enough verifications by meet!
Mind you I have verifications, here and on another swinger site that they check!
So what is it ladies and gentlemen (from couples/clubs)??
It’s not me, definitely. When I go to other country I get meets! From swinger sites and clubs, not paid…
I’m starting to think this site has people/clubs not that inclusive! And I don’t want to generalise, something strange is happening…. |
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"Yes, this site:
Most people here don’t meet any man without verification by meet.
Then they say oh you should attend parties and clubs to get verified it’s easier!
Yeah, lies! Applied for a club near me, to go to a party! Application rejected, not enough verifications by meet!
Mind you I have verifications, here and on another swinger site that they check!
So what is it ladies and gentlemen (from couples/clubs)??
It’s not me, definitely. When I go to other country I get meets! From swinger sites and clubs, not paid…
I’m starting to think this site has people/clubs not that inclusive! And I don’t want to generalise, something strange is happening…."
So it's not the site it is tue users of the site??
As you are so disheartened by it all why not just leave?
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People thinking they can try seduce me to get what they want out of me had this experience a couple times from the same person this week.ngl it made me rather shit about myself. I understand this person is going through a hard time but making advances to get ya self a free drink and a place to stay is kinda disrespectful. |
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"Having to buy a new washing machine, I didn't want one that connected to wifi and sings a tune when it's finished, I just wanted a washing machine to wash my clothes, nothing more!"
Not to sit on  |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Having to buy a new washing machine, I didn't want one that connected to wifi and sings a tune when it's finished, I just wanted a washing machine to wash my clothes, nothing more!"
Oh. I want one that sings when it finishes! |
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By *aizyWoman 10 weeks ago
west midlands |
"Having to buy a new washing machine, I didn't want one that connected to wifi and sings a tune when it's finished, I just wanted a washing machine to wash my clothes, nothing more!
Not to sit on "
The price it cost I'm not sure I'm ever gonna use it in case it breaks never mind sit on it!  |
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By *aizyWoman 10 weeks ago
west midlands |
"Having to buy a new washing machine, I didn't want one that connected to wifi and sings a tune when it's finished, I just wanted a washing machine to wash my clothes, nothing more!
Oh. I want one that sings when it finishes!"
I have to admit I do like the tune! |
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"Having to buy a new washing machine, I didn't want one that connected to wifi and sings a tune when it's finished, I just wanted a washing machine to wash my clothes, nothing more!
Not to sit on
The price it cost I'm not sure I'm ever gonna use it in case it breaks never mind sit on it! "
I know a good engineer  |
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"The fact that nobody ever shows up for me in a meaningful way, while I routinely bend over backwards to help those who express need. I care so much, but it often feels one-sided. It's been that way most of my life, but it's aggravating me hard lately. "
That's really tough. |
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Lots recently
Lost my mum 6 weeks ago , since nothings going right
Latest my new lawnmower I bought to replace the one that has packed up had a broken wheel
Little things add up
Oh and being ignored on here |
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It’s the hypocrisy of the people having contradictory expectations!
After today’s decision I might leave!
No reason to stay somewhere where you are not desired! Need to avoid the negative energies! |
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"The fact that nobody ever shows up for me in a meaningful way, while I routinely bend over backwards to help those who express need. I care so much, but it often feels one-sided. It's been that way most of my life, but it's aggravating me hard lately. "
I've noticed this too with so many so called "friends". I've always been the one to message, check up on them. Is it reciprocated when I'm going through shit? Nope. So they're done with me now. |
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"The fact that nobody ever shows up for me in a meaningful way, while I routinely bend over backwards to help those who express need. I care so much, but it often feels one-sided. It's been that way most of my life, but it's aggravating me hard lately.
I've noticed this too with so many so called "friends". I've always been the one to message, check up on them. Is it reciprocated when I'm going through shit? Nope. So they're done with me now. "
Hugs xx |
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"The fact that nobody ever shows up for me in a meaningful way, while I routinely bend over backwards to help those who express need. I care so much, but it often feels one-sided. It's been that way most of my life, but it's aggravating me hard lately.
I've noticed this too with so many so called "friends". I've always been the one to message, check up on them. Is it reciprocated when I'm going through shit? Nope. So they're done with me now. "
I can relate to this over the past few months.
Fed up of being used |
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Justmylook have pissed me off I payed £5.99 for next day delivery that was Tuesday I’m still waiting for my item what the point in charging people them prices when they don’t deliver I have emailed them but still waiting for a reply 😡 |
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By *tr8MrEMan 10 weeks ago
somewhere near Sheffield |
"Justmylook have pissed me off I payed £5.99 for next day delivery that was Tuesday I’m still waiting for my item what the point in charging people them prices when they don’t deliver I have emailed them but still waiting for a reply 😡"
Evri? Check bush 🤣🤣 |
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"Justmylook have pissed me off I payed £5.99 for next day delivery that was Tuesday I’m still waiting for my item what the point in charging people them prices when they don’t deliver I have emailed them but still waiting for a reply 😡
Evri? Check bush 🤣🤣" no dpd delivery |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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I'm just so tired - I wish people would stop asking me for stuff. No isn't classed as a boundary for people in the "barely friends" category these days.
Fuck off and leave me alone. |
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"People on vinted sending me offers for my items that are literally taking the piss.
Reckon you would have more luck selling on here!
That's against the rules 😉"
Ah I see
That's a good business idea tho for admin - fab marketplace (not to be confused with fb marketplCe(. They take a cut and people can sell their used clothes on here. Bet there would be a market for it |
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Work, late deliveries and no one bothered to tell me when I took the role that 3 of my guys are on anti depressants, and four with mental health, one has anxiety, one with mental health issues and one with ADHD and one with severe learning disabilities. Constantly repeating myself, going to use it as a stepping stone until something else comes up |
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What's pissed me off this week?
Recently elected local official with no experience of public service, on a ticket of....reforming politics and reducing wastage, and some BS about boats in a landlocked county....resigns after 5 days. Triggersing an election which will cost thousands to run, , impacting upon already overstretched school, social care, and highway budgets.
Bunch of reactionary lying opportunist bastards. |
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By *dalisqueWoman 10 weeks ago
land of make believe |
"Having to buy a new washing machine, I didn't want one that connected to wifi and sings a tune when it's finished, I just wanted a washing machine to wash my clothes, nothing more!"
My last 3 have been smart washing machines & i have never had to connect to WiFi, so you can just ignore that feature.
I love the little tunes although you can probably turn them off (by connecting to the WiFi!😅)
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Someone in work.
I’ll be there early he said. I waited 30 mins for him to turn up 5 mins early.
“This is earlier”, he said.
Ffs. I thought we’d get finished and home a lot quicker than we normally do, so yeh, I’m pissed with him. |
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New car was delayed 3 months to be delivered. Finally arrives and first day, coming home from work I take a right at a small, unobscured roundabout. Silly bitch on her phone doesn't see 2 tonnes or metal and clips the front of me, grand total of 15 miles on the clock! |
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Today what's pissed me off is people referring to women by their relationship to men rather than as individuals.
It's taken me right back to 50s American game shows where women were introduced as eg Mrs Fred Bloggs. |
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"New car was delayed 3 months to be delivered. Finally arrives and first day, coming home from work I take a right at a small, unobscured roundabout. Silly bitch on her phone doesn't see 2 tonnes or metal and clips the front of me, grand total of 15 miles on the clock!"
Jesus christ! What a knobhead. Hope the claim process is straightforward and she doesn't start being an even bigger knob |
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By *aizyWoman 10 weeks ago
west midlands |
"Having to buy a new washing machine, I didn't want one that connected to wifi and sings a tune when it's finished, I just wanted a washing machine to wash my clothes, nothing more!
My last 3 have been smart washing machines & i have never had to connect to WiFi, so you can just ignore that feature.
I love the little tunes although you can probably turn them off (by connecting to the WiFi!😅)
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🤣😂 I love the tune now, not going near wifi settings took me long enough to work out the settings on the front of the machine! 😆 |
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"New car was delayed 3 months to be delivered. Finally arrives and first day, coming home from work I take a right at a small, unobscured roundabout. Silly bitch on her phone doesn't see 2 tonnes or metal and clips the front of me, grand total of 15 miles on the clock!"
My husband bought a year old Toyota last year, had it 2 days and someone hit it while parked. Dent on driver's side door |
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"Ladies and couples assuming all single men are cheats and ignoring us on here"
I don't think they are 'ignoring' you mate. No one owes you a reply. If you are not what they are looking for you are not entitled to a message telling you that. If you take it as a no and move on you will get far less annoyed.
I have been here as a single guy before took that approach and did a lot better for it! |
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"Having to buy a new washing machine, I didn't want one that connected to wifi and sings a tune when it's finished, I just wanted a washing machine to wash my clothes, nothing more!"
I recently found myself humming the song mine does while queuing at airport security 😬😳 |
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"Today what's pissed me off is people referring to women by their relationship to men rather than as individuals.
It's taken me right back to 50s American game shows where women were introduced as eg Mrs Fred Bloggs. "
My favourite thing is when people refer to Jay Z as Beyoncé’s husband.
But I am sorry that people still do this to women. |
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"New car was delayed 3 months to be delivered. Finally arrives and first day, coming home from work I take a right at a small, unobscured roundabout. Silly bitch on her phone doesn't see 2 tonnes or metal and clips the front of me, grand total of 15 miles on the clock!"
Oh bloody hell! She's an absolute twat! |
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"Today what's pissed me off is people referring to women by their relationship to men rather than as individuals.
It's taken me right back to 50s American game shows where women were introduced as eg Mrs Fred Bloggs.
My favourite thing is when people refer to Jay Z as Beyoncé’s husband.
But I am sorry that people still do this to women. "
It very rarely happens that men are described in terms of their relationship to women. I've never heard a woman describe a man as 'my female mates brother' then think they need to ask his sister before they date them because it breaks some sort of code. |
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"Today what's pissed me off is people referring to women by their relationship to men rather than as individuals.
It's taken me right back to 50s American game shows where women were introduced as eg Mrs Fred Bloggs.
My favourite thing is when people refer to Jay Z as Beyoncé’s husband.
But I am sorry that people still do this to women.
It very rarely happens that men are described in terms of their relationship to women. I've never heard a woman describe a man as 'my female mates brother' then think they need to ask his sister before they date them because it breaks some sort of code. "
Oh no it rarely if ever happens to men. I know it happens to Jay Z but mostly because people hate him for cheating on her and so don’t say his name, just ‘Beyoncé’s husband.’ |
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